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Anonymous Coward User ID: 64387891 Portugal 12/22/2014 09:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'll ask the ethereal wind to carry my thoughts so they can try and help ease your pain, may God protect you and family, and give you strenght in this period of anger and sorrow. I'm so sorry :(... |
Eleven-15
(OP) User ID: 66292274 United States 12/22/2014 05:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She had a massive heart attack which was brought on by an asthma attack. She was my one and only. No kids. She had a fiancé who was her high school sweetheart. Two peas in a pod. She was my clone. When I would look at her, it was like looking in a mirror. She had a dry sense of humor. She had a nice friendly dog. She use to say about her dog "if anyone told her that she was a pit bull she would cry" I have parents who are in Idaho and not in a position to travel. Otherwise, I have no family. She was my family. I have very few friends, by choice. I find no comfort in Facebook, I don't liked it. GLP has been my date on many, many Friday and Saturday nights. Weeknight after work entertainment. I don't watch tv. If this is where I choose to grieve, then so be it. Many of you will understand and those that don't, that's ok. Anyone who has read GLP for any period of time has acquired good knowledge mixed in with the 99% noise. The trick is learning to filter out the noise. Quote from Anonymous Coward (AC) |
Tell Me Lies
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 66128275 United States 12/22/2014 06:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She had a massive heart attack which was brought on by an asthma attack. Quoting: Eleven-15 She was my one and only. No kids. She had a fiancé who was her high school sweetheart. Two peas in a pod. She was my clone. When I would look at her, it was like looking in a mirror. She had a dry sense of humor. She had a nice friendly dog. She use to say about her dog "if anyone told her that she was a pit bull she would cry" I have parents who are in Idaho and not in a position to travel. Otherwise, I have no family. She was my family. I have very few friends, by choice. I find no comfort in Facebook, I don't liked it. GLP has been my date on many, many Friday and Saturday nights. Weeknight after work entertainment. I don't watch tv. If this is where I choose to grieve, then so be it. Many of you will understand and those that don't, that's ok. GLP makes you love people you've never met, and Facebook makes you hate people you already know. Stay strong, OP. Can't imagine what you're going through. But you aren't alone. |
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Hollow-Point Brian
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#Geomagnetic_Storm#
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M1.618
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 52028510 Ireland 12/22/2014 07:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She had a massive heart attack which was brought on by an asthma attack. Quoting: Eleven-15 She was my one and only. No kids. She had a fiancé who was her high school sweetheart. Two peas in a pod. She was my clone. When I would look at her, it was like looking in a mirror. She had a dry sense of humor. She had a nice friendly dog. She use to say about her dog "if anyone told her that she was a pit bull she would cry" I have parents who are in Idaho and not in a position to travel. Otherwise, I have no family. She was my family. I have very few friends, by choice. I find no comfort in Facebook, I don't liked it. GLP has been my date on many, many Friday and Saturday nights. Weeknight after work entertainment. I don't watch tv. If this is where I choose to grieve, then so be it. Many of you will understand and those that don't, that's ok. Nothing wrong with grieving on here. We all do things in an individual way. Among friends here I hope ( datamine included ). For some reason I first thought it was a man who posted this. No matter, you be strong in who you are, know you are among peeps who care. Strange world really but no need to apologize. We are who we are and are here for different reasons............ Effit girl, know we love you and you will be okaye in time.. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 52028510 Ireland 12/22/2014 07:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She had a massive heart attack which was brought on by an asthma attack. Quoting: Eleven-15 She was my one and only. No kids. She had a fiancé who was her high school sweetheart. Two peas in a pod. She was my clone. When I would look at her, it was like looking in a mirror. She had a dry sense of humor. She had a nice friendly dog. She use to say about her dog "if anyone told her that she was a pit bull she would cry" I have parents who are in Idaho and not in a position to travel. Otherwise, I have no family. She was my family. I have very few friends, by choice. I find no comfort in Facebook, I don't liked it. GLP has been my date on many, many Friday and Saturday nights. Weeknight after work entertainment. I don't watch tv. If this is where I choose to grieve, then so be it. Many of you will understand and those that don't, that's ok. What you're going through is some overwhelming shit. For reals. No one in the world deserves this type of torture. Take it easy Eleven. Quite the true sentiment overall. Well intentioned but need of thought. My thought on reading this post....Crucible. My regards.....M. |
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~kpm~
User ID: 34763230 United States 12/22/2014 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She had a massive heart attack which was brought on by an asthma attack. Quoting: Eleven-15 She was my one and only. No kids. She had a fiancé who was her high school sweetheart. Two peas in a pod. She was my clone. When I would look at her, it was like looking in a mirror. She had a dry sense of humor. She had a nice friendly dog. She use to say about her dog "if anyone told her that she was a pit bull she would cry" I have parents who are in Idaho and not in a position to travel. Otherwise, I have no family. She was my family. I have very few friends, by choice. I find no comfort in Facebook, I don't liked it. GLP has been my date on many, many Friday and Saturday nights. Weeknight after work entertainment. I don't watch tv. If this is where I choose to grieve, then so be it. Many of you will understand and those that don't, that's ok. My heart breaks for you, my daughter just turned 28 last week, I have no words that can ease your pain......just know that you and your daughter in in my thoughts and prayers...... ~With forethought and malice Whitless enacted an EO giving nursing homes immunity from wrongful death prosecutions, forced them to take in infected patients and is responsible for over 6500+ nursing home deaths~ |
DawaSatso
User ID: 64837930 United States 12/22/2014 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She had a massive heart attack which was brought on by an asthma attack. Quoting: Eleven-15 She was my one and only. No kids. She had a fiancé who was her high school sweetheart. Two peas in a pod. She was my clone. When I would look at her, it was like looking in a mirror. She had a dry sense of humor. She had a nice friendly dog. She use to say about her dog "if anyone told her that she was a pit bull she would cry" I have parents who are in Idaho and not in a position to travel. Otherwise, I have no family. She was my family. I have very few friends, by choice. I find no comfort in Facebook, I don't liked it. GLP has been my date on many, many Friday and Saturday nights. Weeknight after work entertainment. I don't watch tv. If this is where I choose to grieve, then so be it. Many of you will understand and those that don't, that's ok. Eleven this is so wrong all all wrong. Can her fiance come and be together with you since you share intimate love for your daughter in this time? May be worth consideration to have such a person near you now, and of course for his benefit as well. Just a thought. Your daughter sounds like the sun..I would take some of those tears and pain of yours and wear them for you this is just too devastating for one person to bear. My situation mirrors your own almost to the letter being a private person with a son as my only family. I agonize for his longterm well being every day. So yes, I know what it's like to walk the tightrope without a net every day...like you not a jolly-up facebook narcissist either. Let us be here for you Eleven. ((((((more embraces)))))) |
Watching the world
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TrustNoOneKS
User ID: 34054856 United States 12/23/2014 06:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She had a massive heart attack which was brought on by an asthma attack. Quoting: Eleven-15 She was my one and only. No kids. She had a fiancé who was her high school sweetheart. Two peas in a pod. She was my clone. When I would look at her, it was like looking in a mirror. She had a dry sense of humor. She had a nice friendly dog. She use to say about her dog "if anyone told her that she was a pit bull she would cry" I have parents who are in Idaho and not in a position to travel. Otherwise, I have no family. She was my family. I have very few friends, by choice. I find no comfort in Facebook, I don't liked it. GLP has been my date on many, many Friday and Saturday nights. Weeknight after work entertainment. I don't watch tv. If this is where I choose to grieve, then so be it. Many of you will understand and those that don't, that's ok. Just so very sorry to hear this. I really wish I could take some of the pain away from you. I couldn't bear what you are dealing with right now. I too have only one child, a daughter, and feel much as you do about these things. I Want To Believe |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 65171190 United States 12/23/2014 10:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You touch my heart deeply this morning to the point that I am in tears . I wish to God that I could just come and sit with you . I worry about you because no one should walk this road alone . My memories bring back how the devastating, intense, early grief from the sudden death of my child , often became physical . I felt as if my gut was full of broken glass all the time . Grief was exhausting... some days I did not want to get out of bed , forgetfulness kicked in , there are actually a couple of years of big gaps in my memory which I suspect is the brain protecting from the trauma . Concentration was gone . Life seemed surreal . I would weep so profusely to the point it could scare someone . Life lost all meaning . There was very little appetite . Here is another resource of information about parent bereavement . [link to www.bereavedparentsusa.org] I found that it helped tremendously to read as much as I could about what to expect and how my abnormal was " normal . " You sound as if you prefer to be alone but I tell you that if you are ever ready , that getting together with other bereaved parents helps a great deal . Many communities have support groups for childloss . There is something about being with only those who truly know what you are going through . One of my dearest friends today is a one that I regularly met at a monthly meeting . She is a woman who lost her son the same year and that experience forged an unbreakable bond . Every day , I will be praying for you . |
DawaSatso
User ID: 64837930 United States 12/24/2014 08:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You touch my heart deeply this morning to the point that I am in tears . I wish to God that I could just come and sit with you . Quoting: fullfaith I worry about you because no one should walk this road alone . My memories bring back how the devastating, intense, early grief from the sudden death of my child , often became physical . I felt as if my gut was full of broken glass all the time . Grief was exhausting... some days I did not want to get out of bed , forgetfulness kicked in , there are actually a couple of years of big gaps in my memory which I suspect is the brain protecting from the trauma . Concentration was gone . Life seemed surreal . I would weep so profusely to the point it could scare someone . Life lost all meaning . There was very little appetite . Here is another resource of information about parent bereavement . [link to www.bereavedparentsusa.org] I found that it helped tremendously to read as much as I could about what to expect and how my abnormal was " normal . " You sound as if you prefer to be alone but I tell you that if you are ever ready , that getting together with other bereaved parents helps a great deal . Many communities have support groups for childloss . There is something about being with only those who truly know what you are going through . One of my dearest friends today is a one that I regularly met at a monthly meeting . She is a woman who lost her son the same year and that experience forged an unbreakable bond . Every day , I will be praying for you . We knew you would come |
Tell Me Lies
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Eleven-15
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~kpm~
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Bob_Loblaw
User ID: 48420715 United States 12/25/2014 11:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She had a massive heart attack which was brought on by an asthma attack. Quoting: Eleven-15 She was my one and only. No kids. She had a fiancé who was her high school sweetheart. Two peas in a pod. She was my clone. When I would look at her, it was like looking in a mirror. She had a dry sense of humor. She had a nice friendly dog. She use to say about her dog "if anyone told her that she was a pit bull she would cry" I have parents who are in Idaho and not in a position to travel. Otherwise, I have no family. She was my family. I have very few friends, by choice. I find no comfort in Facebook, I don't liked it. GLP has been my date on many, many Friday and Saturday nights. Weeknight after work entertainment. I don't watch tv. If this is where I choose to grieve, then so be it. Many of you will understand and those that don't, that's ok. As the father of a 21 year old daughter of my own, who is also my one and only, I can't even begin to fathom what you are going through. There are simply no words, but my heart goes out to you. |
beeches
User ID: 28167778 United States 12/25/2014 12:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thinking of you today. My mother is pretty much a loner, has been that way for her entire adult life. My dad was very outgoing. After church, she would wait by the door, silent with us kids, for him to finish saying hello to every last person in the congregation. almost 5 years after his death now, she is still pretty much a hermit. By her own choice. She now lives minutes from me so I stop by every day, or very close to it. Have not yet found a social outlet for her besides her meal delivery service for seniors. Do this your own way. Some of us are like daisies, blooming in a clump and glowing together. but you may be, like my mother and probably me too, more like a fine solitary tree in a meadow. Last Edited by beeches on 12/25/2014 12:12 PM Liberalism is totalitarianism with a human face – Thomas Sowell |