12/19/2014

So sorry to hear for your loss :(

Be strong and God Bless you and your family.

Prayers for you!

Really feel for you OP, much love.
Was it sudden or expected?

May love surround you and peace guide you.

hang in there friend, we will walk with you for a little while until you can walk again on your own. we are here in spirit...

Prayers OP! My thoughts are with you. As a mother, I could not imagine the agony you are in.

No matter how tough and strong we may think we are there are certain events that bring the mightiest to their knees and the death of a loved one is one of those times. And you must be very strong just to be able to talk about here.

And isn't it amazing how a dog can be so important in getting you through it all? I know mine did. For a long time I cried myself to sleep and my dog would rest his head on the bed and nudge my arm & lick my cheek until I would finally fall asleep. He stood by me and it seemed like he was trying to remind me that he and the kids needed me.

And to all else who have told their stories of loss - bless you and you're in my prayers. Just be comforted in knowing that you will see them again somewhere in time.

Sorry for your loss OP

I am so sorry Eleven-15. No one is "strong" when something like this happens. You have my complete sympathy. No one should ever have to deal with this situation. Prayers for you and your family.

I am so sorry to hear this. My sincere sympathies.

Your grief is shared by us all. Please find comfort in the memories of the 28 years she was able to share with those in this world.

RIP

I am so sorry Op,sending prayers for you and your family.

How did she die?

May the grieving process be covered by YAHshua, and that you may rest in Him after each outpouring, amen

Sorry

My heart breaks for u. I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain of sadness and sorrow u must feel. Please know there are many here that are praying for u and ur daughter. God bless

I'm so sorry, Opie.

Sending you lots of love right now.

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My heart breaks for u. I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain of sadness and sorrow u must feel. Please know there are many here that are praying for u and ur daughter. God bless

As someone who has lost a child I can tell you all what it feels like. Because people want to know, and people want to understand what its like to be in that situation.

When you lose a child, you lose of piece of yourself. It is the absolute worst feeling in the world. There is absolutely nothing that can be said or done to make it okay. Because in the mind of the parent, it is never okay. Its never acceptable. The brain cannot twist and turn to make it okay, no matter what you try.






Speaking as someone who was in your shoes, I know there is nothing I can say to make it better, and I know thats not what you want either.

I can only provide you with advice I wish someone had given me when I was where you are now.

Dont go down the dark path of severe sorrow. Its okay to be extremely sad. Its okay to cry as hard as you can. Its okay to hate the world. Just dont let her death destroy you. Dont suppress how you feel, if you have to let it out, let it out. Dont bottle it up. Just dont take it out on others. And dont take it out on yourself either. There was nothing you could do, so dont look for clues as to how you could have stopped it or prevented it. That will just drive you mad and it will lead to nowhere. Dont beat yourself up for it.

Dont expect to be over it. People say "it gets better". Well it doesnt. You simply learn how to move forward while having those feelings with you always. Even if its decades from now, it will feel the same.

You dont have to accept her death. It will never be okay for you. And thats okay. No one should ever lose a child. Thats how all of us were meant to feel.

Just make sure you life your life, enjoy your life, do your best, and make sure you are there for your other loved ones. Because thats what your daughter would have wanted whether she is here or not.

This is lovely Chipg.

Yes we will walk with her until she can walk on her own

Bless you OP

And Bless all who have suffered similar loss.

It's a beautiful thing the way strangers can rally around to protect those we don't really know. God given Love ~

Thinking of you, Eleven-15. I am so sorry for your loss.

I've been reading this and feeling the pain and love here.

I just wanted to share this song. I hope it helps.

Heaven

Respectfully I have to say that she will not always feel the same. By this I mean the level of pain that she will find herself in these early stages of child loss because no one could survive that level of pain forever .
You NEVER stop longing for your child , but the jaggedness softens with time .
It is possible to move back into life and actually experience joy again though in the early stages that seems impossible .

Sincere condolences, OP. My heart goes out to you!

I am so sorry.

11-15, I know this will bring tears. Let them out. I hope you get a somewhat decent night's sleep. But please do not hold it in. Let it out.

Your GLP family is here for you whenever you need us.

Trust me, you feel the same. All it takes is any memory trigger or emotional trigger, and you relive those feelings and relive those moments all over again.

I'm not good at this.

Wish I knew what to say to ease your pain.

I wish you strength and peace!

I'm so very sorry for your loss, OP.