My dad's wife died in December and now he has invited me to come visit | |
Larry D. Croc
User ID: 70736097 United States 01/23/2023 11:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm guessing he loves and misses you but is of a generation that was raised not to speak of those sort of things; or any feelings other than being angry. He loves you in his way. And you love him. If you go and it doesn't "work out", eh, it didn't work out. If you go and it does work out look at what you gained. If you don't go there will come a time you regret it and won't be able to address or deal with the regret. Be the bigger person, he needs you and doesn't know how to say it clearly. But you already knew that, didn't you... "Socialism only works in two places: Heaven where they don't need it and hell, where they already have it." Ronald Reagan The trouble with our liberal friends is not that they're ignorant; it's just that they know so much that isn't so." Ronald Reagan |
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(OP) Militant Bitch User ID: 75487131 United States 01/23/2023 11:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I shall. And I will chronicle my journey on glp for all you good people and the ass wipes who are not such good people |
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(OP) Militant Bitch User ID: 75487131 United States 01/23/2023 11:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm guessing he loves and misses you but is of a generation that was raised not to speak of those sort of things; or any feelings other than being angry. He loves you in his way. And you love him. If you go and it doesn't "work out", eh, it didn't work out. If you go and it does work out look at what you gained. If you don't go there will come a time you regret it and won't be able to address or deal with the regret. Be the bigger person, he needs you and doesn't know how to say it clearly. But you already knew that, didn't you... Yeah I'm from a family history that never speaks about the elephant in the room |
Larry D. Croc
User ID: 70736097 United States 01/23/2023 12:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm guessing he loves and misses you but is of a generation that was raised not to speak of those sort of things; or any feelings other than being angry. He loves you in his way. And you love him. If you go and it doesn't "work out", eh, it didn't work out. If you go and it does work out look at what you gained. If you don't go there will come a time you regret it and won't be able to address or deal with the regret. Be the bigger person, he needs you and doesn't know how to say it clearly. But you already knew that, didn't you... Yeah I'm from a family history that never speaks about the elephant in the room I wish you well if you decide to make the trip. "Socialism only works in two places: Heaven where they don't need it and hell, where they already have it." Ronald Reagan The trouble with our liberal friends is not that they're ignorant; it's just that they know so much that isn't so." Ronald Reagan |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 5046121 United States 01/23/2023 12:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | IF YOU HAVE Q'S YOU WANT OR 'HAVE TO BE ANSWERED'... ASK THEM FIRST FROM A DISTANCE..IT MAY BE WHAT IS BEST. BUT, I SENSE HE'S NOT LONG FOR THIS EARTH..SO, DECIDE IF YOU HAVE TO HAVE THOSE ANSWERS. BEST WISHES, CAPMAN. Done and done. Ty cm JUST UH BUMP R-DUB! YEAH, GET A NICE HOTEL THAT YOU CAN ALSO INVITE HIM TO AS WELL. SHELL OUT FOR THE 2ND BED. NO PULLOUT |
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(OP) Militant Bitch User ID: 72713259 United States 01/23/2023 12:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm guessing he loves and misses you but is of a generation that was raised not to speak of those sort of things; or any feelings other than being angry. He loves you in his way. And you love him. If you go and it doesn't "work out", eh, it didn't work out. If you go and it does work out look at what you gained. If you don't go there will come a time you regret it and won't be able to address or deal with the regret. Be the bigger person, he needs you and doesn't know how to say it clearly. But you already knew that, didn't you... Yeah I'm from a family history that never speaks about the elephant in the room I wish you well if you decide to make the trip. Affirmative action. Just have to extract myself from what seemingly appears more and more of an abduction type nature |
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Alpacalips
User ID: 11370809 United States 01/23/2023 12:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm guessing he loves and misses you but is of a generation that was raised not to speak of those sort of things; or any feelings other than being angry. He loves you in his way. And you love him. If you go and it doesn't "work out", eh, it didn't work out. If you go and it does work out look at what you gained. If you don't go there will come a time you regret it and won't be able to address or deal with the regret. Be the bigger person, he needs you and doesn't know how to say it clearly. But you already knew that, didn't you... Lovely post. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 69682243 United States 01/23/2023 03:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ** oracle card reading: There are two verifications that this is to enhance your universal energy and that energy is available to help you with your decisions (think, your higher and whole and inner self) Yes, you have stuck energy about this and want to play it safe. You might be tempted to hide your self for a bit, k but you will take steps forward and it will transform you for the better. Good luck!!! |
sd25802
User ID: 77598093 United States 01/23/2023 03:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think you know what you should do, even what the right thing to do is...it's not advise you need now, but courage, and encouragement to do it...Seems to me that the sign from God you are looking for has already been given...now it's up to you to chose the action to take...I sympathize with your pain and the hesitancy to open such a deep wound and try and deal with it...but it's better to deal with these things in this life than to have to in the next. Peace be with you and your father. And good luck. |
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(OP) Militant Bitch User ID: 74996092 United States 01/23/2023 03:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ** oracle card reading: There are two verifications that this is to enhance your universal energy and that energy is available to help you with your decisions (think, your higher and whole and inner self) Yes, you have stuck energy about this and want to play it safe. You might be tempted to hide your self for a bit, k but you will take steps forward and it will transform you for the better. Good luck!!! . Thank you. |
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(OP) Militant Bitch User ID: 74996092 United States 01/23/2023 03:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think you know what you should do, even what the right thing to do is...it's not advise you need now, but courage, and encouragement to do it...Seems to me that the sign from God you are looking for has already been given...now it's up to you to chose the action to take...I sympathize with your pain and the hesitancy to open such a deep wound and try and deal with it...but it's better to deal with these things in this life than to have to in the next. Peace be with you and your father. And good luck. . Appreciate you. Thank you. |
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(OP) Militant Bitch User ID: 74996092 United States 01/23/2023 03:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | *Note to self,...Frank do not say anything else here, She left herself wide open, take the higher road and be silent. Tic toc said his name was Frank a few times in that thread of his that this quote is copied from. And now you wanna pretend you don’t know who the fuck Frank is. It sounds like you two are running some grift together, but it ain’t gonna work NOW is it SO BUSTED! Hmmmmm… and why do you care so much? |
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(OP) Militant Bitch User ID: 74996092 United States 01/23/2023 03:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There is that. |
Paranoid Chick
User ID: 83945619 United States 01/23/2023 03:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | PASS. You can forgive, but you don't owe him anything like a meet-up or even a phone call. You are doing so in the hopes that he will have taken his final form in your fantasy of the loving father, but he won't and never will. You love a fantasy of him, not him. How could you? You don't even know the guy, nor he you. Prepare to open that wound again if you go. And he sounds like a real piece of shit who deserves to die alone after squandering God's gift to him - his child. Also, you called his dead wife the "love of his life." Nope. The love of his life, the #1 woman in his life, should've been you. It should have always been YOU. |
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(OP) Militant Bitch User ID: 75551479 United States 01/23/2023 03:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Abandoned you at 9 and only calls now that he is alone and old when his succubus got called back to Hell? Quoting: Paranoid Chick PASS. You can forgive, but you don't owe him anything like a meet-up or even a phone call. You are doing so in the hopes that he will have taken his final form in your fantasy of the loving father, but he won't and never will. You love a fantasy of him, not him. How could you? You don't even know the guy, nor he you. Prepare to open that wound again if you go. And he sounds like a real piece of shit who deserves to die alone after squandering God's gift to him - his child. Also, you called his dead wife the "love of his life." Nope. The love of his life, the #1 woman in his life, should've been you. It should have always been YOU. That might be true for some. |
1r0n4n9el
Better run, better run faster than my spear User ID: 75759576 United States 01/23/2023 03:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Tick Tock *Note to self,...Frank do not say anything else here, She left herself wide open, take the higher road and be silent. Tic toc said his name was Frank a few times in that thread of his that this quote is copied from. And now you wanna pretend you don’t know who the fuck Frank is. It sounds like you two are running some grift together, but it ain’t gonna work NOW is it SO BUSTED! Hmmmmm… and why do you care so much? I wonder why they care so much … |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83434143 Canada 01/23/2023 04:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Abandoned you at 9 and only calls now that he is alone and old when his succubus got called back to Hell? Quoting: Paranoid Chick PASS. You can forgive, but you don't owe him anything like a meet-up or even a phone call. You are doing so in the hopes that he will have taken his final form in your fantasy of the loving father, but he won't and never will. You love a fantasy of him, not him. How could you? You don't even know the guy, nor he you. Prepare to open that wound again if you go. And he sounds like a real piece of shit who deserves to die alone after squandering God's gift to him - his child. Also, you called his dead wife the "love of his life." Nope. The love of his life, the #1 woman in his life, should've been you. It should have always been YOU. |
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(OP) Militant Bitch User ID: 75551479 United States 01/23/2023 04:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My dad... Quoting: Goneviral Drank a qt every night for 40 years and beat us and even choked to death my mom Paramedics brought her back. If he asked me to visit...I would. Thats me. I will still try and love somehow someway Sorry. Bad family life but we are not killers or pedos from it. I hate those defenses for evil sociopaths. Last Edited by rewind on 01/23/2023 04:18 PM |
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Better run, better run faster than my spear User ID: 75759576 United States 01/23/2023 04:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow I have to say “not cool you ran to your boyfriends thread to taddle they are picking on you in this thread” Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83434143 Hint don’t date at the job n this is why. Now you both are going to receive flack, if he says anything on his thread to try to protect you. Lol both immature attention seeking high school not very prepper minded for shtf. You both broke many unwritten rules. And any person with a reasonable mind wouldn’t even posted a thread like this except to-vent that their dead beat dad wanted someone cause he is now alone. But no you need attention and can’t take the heat n run to your boyfriend lmao. Your not preppers your idiots oh and there’s more wait until it doesn’t work out the boyfriend thingy lol Gonna be fun to see which blue names take which side. And? Since when you have a say on what other people do… ? Why do you care so much… ? Obsessed much, eh? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 82954507 United States 01/23/2023 04:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 82942180 IF YOU HAVE Q'S YOU WANT OR 'HAVE TO BE ANSWERED'... ASK THEM FIRST FROM A DISTANCE..IT MAY BE WHAT IS BEST. BUT, I SENSE HE'S NOT LONG FOR THIS EARTH..SO, DECIDE IF YOU HAVE TO HAVE THOSE ANSWERS. BEST WISHES, CAPMAN. Done and done. Ty cm JUST UH BUMP R-DUB! YEAH, GET A NICE HOTEL THAT YOU CAN ALSO INVITE HIM TO AS WELL. SHELL OUT FOR THE 2ND BED. NO PULLOUT UH, R-DUB BABE..IM JUST BUMPIN' TO SHOW THE SHIT FUCKS HERE WHAT THIS THREAD IS REALLY ALL ABOUT. PERHAPS YOU MAY WANT TO JUST DETACH AND LET ALL DEZE THROLLZ JUS' BLOW EACH UDDUH ? U THINK THERE IS ANYMOAR GOOD ADVICE COMIN' FER ALL D-UH UH, STRESS...? ANYWHOOTZ, OTHER THAN DATES/APPROX. OF WHEN THIS WHOLE THING GOES DOWN...POIHAPZ ITZ THYME JOEY TO UH..TAKE A TIMEOUT? ..AN HONEST CAPMAN HERE. I UH, REALLY HAVE TAKEN A SHINE TO THIS THREAD/TOPIC BECAUSE YOURZ TRULY MAY INDEED UH HAVE SOMETHING LIKE THIS IN HIZ FUTURE. ITZ COMPLICATED! UH! |
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(OP) Militant Bitch User ID: 75551479 United States 01/23/2023 04:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow I have to say “not cool you ran to your boyfriends thread to taddle they are picking on you in this thread” Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83434143 Hint don’t date at the job n this is why. Now you both are going to receive flack, if he says anything on his thread to try to protect you. Lol both immature attention seeking high school not very prepper minded for shtf. You both broke many unwritten rules. And any person with a reasonable mind wouldn’t even posted a thread like this except to-vent that their dead beat dad wanted someone cause he is now alone. But no you need attention and can’t take the heat n run to your boyfriend lmao. Your not preppers your idiots oh and there’s more wait until it doesn’t work out the boyfriend thingy lol Gonna be fun to see which blue names take which side. Go stick your head in your toilet stacked with shit an urine and no running water you dumb fucker. I actually have a compost toilet so ya with no running water and I believe in urotherapy. Great job now you bumped my comment and will get more attention. I am a survivalist woman by the way not a dumb fucker . Yeah but you somehow think you want a piece of me? Go survive what ever you are. Not sure woman is the correct answer here. |
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(OP) Militant Bitch User ID: 75551479 United States 01/23/2023 04:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | JUST UH BUMP R-DUB! YEAH, GET A NICE HOTEL THAT YOU CAN ALSO INVITE HIM TO AS WELL. SHELL OUT FOR THE 2ND BED. NO PULLOUT UH, R-DUB BABE..IM JUST BUMPIN' TO SHOW THE SHIT FUCKS HERE WHAT THIS THREAD IS REALLY ALL ABOUT. PERHAPS YOU MAY WANT TO JUST DETACH AND LET ALL DEZE THROLLZ JUS' BLOW EACH UDDUH ? U THINK THERE IS ANYMOAR GOOD ADVICE COMIN' FER ALL D-UH UH, STRESS...? ANYWHOOTZ, OTHER THAN DATES/APPROX. OF WHEN THIS WHOLE THING GOES DOWN...POIHAPZ ITZ THYME JOEY TO UH..TAKE A TIMEOUT? ..AN HONEST CAPMAN HERE. I UH, REALLY HAVE TAKEN A SHINE TO THIS THREAD/TOPIC BECAUSE YOURZ TRULY MAY INDEED UH HAVE SOMETHING LIKE THIS IN HIZ FUTURE. ITZ COMPLICATED! UH! |