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Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 12:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is my current status: I've been married for 24 years now to my wife who cheated on me during our first year together with my best friend. We had a child together at a young age but we worked through it. She doesn't work and wants everything her way or the highway. We have 4 kids together and last year she wanted another but I felt too old due to health issues I've been dealing with but I gave in. We did nothing but argue during the pregnancy now Fast forward and we have a little boy who almost died at birth along with my wife. We get home and within 2 weeks she tells me she wants a divorce! Who does this!? I've been told to document everything and she may be bipolar now. So going through a gray divorce with a newborn. I feel like I failed my kids. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77285277 post-pardom depression. it fucks women up. sry bro. political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83960381 United States 08/09/2022 12:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I’ve had kidney stones that required Demerol then Morphine. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83771066 Was cheated on by someone who was making plans for our wedding. I’d choose the kidney stones every time vs. the pain that never quite goes away. Oh, and, I became a gutter slut for a few years after. It seems to be a fairly common reaction. What’s up with that? Only women can become gutter sluts. Men want to, but finding partners is too difficult these days. We just suck it up and keep going. It's even worse since Craigslist shut down their personals. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83964553 United States 08/09/2022 01:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why we need to talk about cheating Quoting: Phennommennonn We might be predisposed to think the best in our partners, but perhaps we shouldn’t be so trusting [link to www.bbc.com (secure)] So many people just say it came out of nowhere, that they didn't expect it. They thought things were okay or even pretty good. I can't speak for the men, but I find the women I've known seem to be cheating for excitement or to....move up, get a better deal. Finance or status seems to be a surprising factor in some of the women I've known cheating. I don't really understand cheating - maybe if it's a one night stand just for sex, but not a real affair. That takes a lot of time, work and LIES. They lie right to your face repeatedly even when you show them the proof, LOL. Is it worth it? It's better to just work on your relationship, make that the affair you want, or get out if it's that bad. Sodom and Gomorrah 2.0. thats the thing. i cant lie for shit . im an Aquarius so im a realist. i say/put it as it is. i own it. lying doesnt compute with me. i couldnt possibly do that n cover ikit up n have to sleep next to my partner knowing.....look them in the face knowing....i just couldnt. That’s because you have integrity and you’re not a game player. You have the same vibe as my wife - tough, straight and to the point, and no prissiness. I met her while she was changing the spark plugs and oil in her small-block Chevy. One of the things that impressed me was that she would hang out almost exclusively with the guys - motor heads, mostly, like me. She knew her shit, and they respected her. She despised most women, as she said they craved drama and played head games, which she hated. We hit it off and I was engaged to her a month later, married a few months after that. That was almost half a century ago, and neither of us have ever cheated on the other during that time. My point is, the self-absorbed and selfish of both sexes (who because of those traits are really incapable of true love) are the ones who cheat, not the forthright and honest. That’s why it’s so important to find someone that you’re not only culturally and sexually compatible with, but with whom you’re also sympathiqué, as the French say, which roughly translates to “on the same wavelength”, in terms of outlook. |
Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 01:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why we need to talk about cheating Quoting: Phennommennonn We might be predisposed to think the best in our partners, but perhaps we shouldn’t be so trusting [link to www.bbc.com (secure)] So many people just say it came out of nowhere, that they didn't expect it. They thought things were okay or even pretty good. I can't speak for the men, but I find the women I've known seem to be cheating for excitement or to....move up, get a better deal. Finance or status seems to be a surprising factor in some of the women I've known cheating. I don't really understand cheating - maybe if it's a one night stand just for sex, but not a real affair. That takes a lot of time, work and LIES. They lie right to your face repeatedly even when you show them the proof, LOL. Is it worth it? It's better to just work on your relationship, make that the affair you want, or get out if it's that bad. Sodom and Gomorrah 2.0. thats the thing. i cant lie for shit . im an Aquarius so im a realist. i say/put it as it is. i own it. lying doesnt compute with me. i couldnt possibly do that n cover ikit up n have to sleep next to my partner knowing.....look them in the face knowing....i just couldnt. That’s because you have integrity and you’re not a game player. You have the same vibe as my wife - tough, straight and to the point, and no prissiness. I met her while she was changing the spark plugs and oil in her small-block Chevy. One of the things that impressed me was that she would hang out almost exclusively with the guys - motor heads, mostly, like me. She knew her shit, and they respected her. She despised most women, as she said they craved drama and played head games, which she hated. We hit it off and I was engaged to her a month later, married a few months after that. That was almost half a century ago, and neither of us have ever cheated on the other during that time. My point is, the self-absorbed and selfish of both sexes (who because of those traits are really incapable of true love) are the ones who cheat, not the forthright and honest. That’s why it’s so important to find someone that you’re not only culturally and sexually compatible with, but with whom you’re also sympathiqué, as the French say, which roughly translates to “on the same wavelength”, in terms of outlook. wow she could be my twin. women i knew were just that fkn drama bitches, cunts, haters and hos. political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83964553 United States 08/09/2022 01:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 82120709 So many people just say it came out of nowhere, that they didn't expect it. They thought things were okay or even pretty good. I can't speak for the men, but I find the women I've known seem to be cheating for excitement or to....move up, get a better deal. Finance or status seems to be a surprising factor in some of the women I've known cheating. I don't really understand cheating - maybe if it's a one night stand just for sex, but not a real affair. That takes a lot of time, work and LIES. They lie right to your face repeatedly even when you show them the proof, LOL. Is it worth it? It's better to just work on your relationship, make that the affair you want, or get out if it's that bad. Sodom and Gomorrah 2.0. thats the thing. i cant lie for shit . im an Aquarius so im a realist. i say/put it as it is. i own it. lying doesnt compute with me. i couldnt possibly do that n cover ikit up n have to sleep next to my partner knowing.....look them in the face knowing....i just couldnt. That’s because you have integrity and you’re not a game player. You have the same vibe as my wife - tough, straight and to the point, and no prissiness. I met her while she was changing the spark plugs and oil in her small-block Chevy. One of the things that impressed me was that she would hang out almost exclusively with the guys - motor heads, mostly, like me. She knew her shit, and they respected her. She despised most women, as she said they craved drama and played head games, which she hated. We hit it off and I was engaged to her a month later, married a few months after that. That was almost half a century ago, and neither of us have ever cheated on the other during that time. My point is, the self-absorbed and selfish of both sexes (who because of those traits are really incapable of true love) are the ones who cheat, not the forthright and honest. That’s why it’s so important to find someone that you’re not only culturally and sexually compatible with, but with whom you’re also sympathiqué, as the French say, which roughly translates to “on the same wavelength”, in terms of outlook. wow she could be my twin. women i knew were just that fkn drama bitches, cunts, haters and hos. Could be. Picture a really tough Susan Anton, all 6’ of her, and that’s my wife. Oh, and those are pretty much the words she used to describe other women, too. |
Peter Quill
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Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 01:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yanno, if ur say out to lunch, breakfast, dinner whatever n u see a bunch of women at a table. listen closely to their convos. the fkn shit they say about their men is gag -- its like why are u in it then??? i recall a few yrs ago in NY this one "sista" was talkn smack on her man. what a pussy he was n she was doing his brother and his buddy too. wowwwww and her GF's we're all cheerleading her - no moral compass. i told my waitress there'd be a 100 in it for her if she'd 'accidentally' trip and dump a tray of water glasses on her. nobody could've yelled racist either. both were the same skin. just my gal shared my head. quite surprised for the area bc brentwood became such a shithole. Last Edited by Phennommennonn on 08/09/2022 01:32 AM political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 01:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Phennommennonn thats the thing. i cant lie for shit . im an Aquarius so im a realist. i say/put it as it is. i own it. lying doesnt compute with me. i couldnt possibly do that n cover ikit up n have to sleep next to my partner knowing.....look them in the face knowing....i just couldnt. That’s because you have integrity and you’re not a game player. You have the same vibe as my wife - tough, straight and to the point, and no prissiness. I met her while she was changing the spark plugs and oil in her small-block Chevy. One of the things that impressed me was that she would hang out almost exclusively with the guys - motor heads, mostly, like me. She knew her shit, and they respected her. She despised most women, as she said they craved drama and played head games, which she hated. We hit it off and I was engaged to her a month later, married a few months after that. That was almost half a century ago, and neither of us have ever cheated on the other during that time. My point is, the self-absorbed and selfish of both sexes (who because of those traits are really incapable of true love) are the ones who cheat, not the forthright and honest. That’s why it’s so important to find someone that you’re not only culturally and sexually compatible with, but with whom you’re also sympathiqué, as the French say, which roughly translates to “on the same wavelength”, in terms of outlook. wow she could be my twin. women i knew were just that fkn drama bitches, cunts, haters and hos. Could be. Picture a really tough Susan Anton, all 6’ of her, and that’s my wife. Oh, and those are pretty much the words she used to describe other women, too. i had the farrah fawcett haircut for 45 yrs. only recently grew it out Last Edited by Phennommennonn on 08/09/2022 01:34 AM political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 01:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | didnt it bother you??? political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Peter Quill
User ID: 83079681 United States 08/09/2022 01:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, she basically abandoned you, emotionally and/or sexually? That’s prima facie grounds for divorce. I know and here was this beautiful Young Women also lonely and we had a lot in common.. So I don't really know if it counts as cheating. I don't feel bad about it. Guardian |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83964553 United States 08/09/2022 01:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yanno, if ur say out to lunch, breakfast, dinner whatever n u see a bunch of women at a table. listen closely to their convos. Quoting: Phennommennonn the fkn shit they say about their men is gag -- its like why are u in it then??? i recall a few yrs ago in NY this one "sista" was talkn smack on her man. what a pussy he was n she was doing his brother and his buddy too. wowwwww and her GF's we're all cheerleading her - no moral compass. i told my waitress there'd be a 100 in it for her if she'd 'accidentally' trip and dump a tray of water glasses on her. nobody could've yelled racist either. both were the same skin. just my gal shared my head. quite surprised for the area bc brentwood became such a shithole. I’ve been within earshot a couple of times and heard the “talk” when a group of women were out together. Heartless, vapid and predatory, with the morals of tomcats, if one is to believe them at their word. Language that would make a sailor’s parrot blush. Even if they were having a bit of one-upwomanship with each other and exaggerating somewhat, it’s still quite a show. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83964553 United States 08/09/2022 01:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83964553 That’s because you have integrity and you’re not a game player. You have the same vibe as my wife - tough, straight and to the point, and no prissiness. I met her while she was changing the spark plugs and oil in her small-block Chevy. One of the things that impressed me was that she would hang out almost exclusively with the guys - motor heads, mostly, like me. She knew her shit, and they respected her. She despised most women, as she said they craved drama and played head games, which she hated. We hit it off and I was engaged to her a month later, married a few months after that. That was almost half a century ago, and neither of us have ever cheated on the other during that time. My point is, the self-absorbed and selfish of both sexes (who because of those traits are really incapable of true love) are the ones who cheat, not the forthright and honest. That’s why it’s so important to find someone that you’re not only culturally and sexually compatible with, but with whom you’re also sympathiqué, as the French say, which roughly translates to “on the same wavelength”, in terms of outlook. wow she could be my twin. women i knew were just that fkn drama bitches, cunts, haters and hos. Could be. Picture a really tough Susan Anton, all 6’ of her, and that’s my wife. Oh, and those are pretty much the words she used to describe other women, too. i had the farrah fawcett haircut for 45 yrs. only recently grew it out She did the same a few years back. Time marches on, styles change. |
Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 01:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | these few episodes i caught of cheaters, they had no remorse. i felt so bad for the victim. this one blk dude was with this white chick who was a trekkie, n she ended up cheatn with another trekkie. he was heartbroken screaming her name from the van. when they stopped at a gas station he got down on one knee n begged her to marry him. they had hidden cameras of her bringing trekkie guy in the dudes house/bed. she stepped out bc he worked/traveled for a living. i felt so friggin bad for this guy. another episode some rich dude senses his wifes cheatn right? kk they find his wife with a dumpster dude. living in a tent connected to a dumpster. and her complaint was that he/husband worked all the time n wasnt home. dumpster dude can spend 24/7 with her. what is it with ppl thats not a reason!! holy shit --- Last Edited by Phennommennonn on 08/09/2022 01:43 AM political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83976102 Philippines 08/09/2022 01:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a reproducing man. i am the average reproducing man. Where we are all decended from a reproductive ratio of 1 man reproducing with 5 females Monogamy does not, never has existed 80% of males do not reproduce Thank us masculine men for your existence. |
CatWhisperer
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 83964553 United States 08/09/2022 01:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, she basically abandoned you, emotionally and/or sexually? That’s prima facie grounds for divorce. I know and here was this beautiful Young Women also lonely and we had a lot in common.. So I don't really know if it counts as cheating. I don't feel bad about it. While it’s best to make a clean break prior to any external romantic dalliances, everyone’s situation is different. Divorce, then an affair is usually a much easier row to hoe. |
Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 01:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | wow a cheater thread from 13 Thread: Just found out my gf is a cheater! Help GLP! political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83964553 United States 08/09/2022 01:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, she basically abandoned you, emotionally and/or sexually? That’s prima facie grounds for divorce. I know and here was this beautiful Young Women also lonely and we had a lot in common.. So I don't really know if it counts as cheating. I don't feel bad about it. While it’s best to make a clean break prior to any external romantic dalliances, everyone’s situation is different. Divorce, then an affair is usually a much easier row to hoe. G’night all, tomorrow’s another day. Great thread, Phenn. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83986063 United States 08/09/2022 01:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yanno the other night when i flipped channels and caught MtvS Catfish, i happened to come across VH1s show called CHEATERS. Quoting: Phennommennonn APPARENTLY THE SHOWS BEEN AROUND SINCE 2000/01 WOW....the fkn ppl who cheat and justify it too astounds me. have the balls to break it off FFS you dont pay attn to me ur never home wahh wahh blahh blahh sorry - i cant do shit like that. if its over its over. IMO breakups are hard but you dont hurt ppl like that communication is key. if the partner dont listen MAKE THEM. If they still dont , its time to go. its that simple. people have become disposable. theres no longevity anymore. my folks been married 67 yrs BUT LISTEN YOU HOS if he travels n hes workn to provide FOR UR FKN ASS you dont go steppn out. buy a fkn dildo bitch. ok GLP - discuss. :GLP-afterdark: The absolute worst kind of scoundrel low life piece of trash is someone that cheats on their partner. I don't care what the scenario is, there is absolutely no excuse for it. Karma will eventually come knocking, with 10 fold ferocity. |
Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 01:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83964553 So, she basically abandoned you, emotionally and/or sexually? That’s prima facie grounds for divorce. I know and here was this beautiful Young Women also lonely and we had a lot in common.. So I don't really know if it counts as cheating. I don't feel bad about it. While it’s best to make a clean break prior to any external romantic dalliances, everyone’s situation is different. Divorce, then an affair is usually a much easier row to hoe. G’night all, tomorrow’s another day. Great thread, Phenn. gnite my fren. cu tomorrow nite political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Women are Liars User ID: 27546556 United States 08/09/2022 01:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It’s a scientific fact that women cheat more often than men do. Yea, men cheat. But no one cheats like a woman can. Her lies are often so convincing that she has one lie after another already thought up while she’s telling the first series of lies. It’s their inherent dishonesty and skilled manipulation that allows them to get away with it. I don’t fault them for it, as Almighty God gave them the free will to either be honest or be liars. Most women today tell more lies than ever before, so it’s best to avoid them altogether if a man is smart. |
Peter Quill
User ID: 83079681 United States 08/09/2022 01:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well, it was kind of "organic" lol. Here I am largely abandoned for years and sitting across the table at the lodge (Yes I'm Frater) and sometimes next too this brilliant and attractive Young psychologist. We have a lot in common, few would understand our chats but we understand each other, peers. I'd even been dancing with Her.. She's been hurt too.. One day I said, You wanna get a drink? She said I thought You'd never ask. It lasted a long time isn't over. This all Happened all over Long Island Phen. Yes I felt bad at first. Last Edited by Peter Quill on 08/09/2022 01:53 AM Guardian |
Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 01:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yanno the other night when i flipped channels and caught MtvS Catfish, i happened to come across VH1s show called CHEATERS. Quoting: Phennommennonn APPARENTLY THE SHOWS BEEN AROUND SINCE 2000/01 WOW....the fkn ppl who cheat and justify it too astounds me. have the balls to break it off FFS you dont pay attn to me ur never home wahh wahh blahh blahh sorry - i cant do shit like that. if its over its over. IMO breakups are hard but you dont hurt ppl like that communication is key. if the partner dont listen MAKE THEM. If they still dont , its time to go. its that simple. people have become disposable. theres no longevity anymore. my folks been married 67 yrs BUT LISTEN YOU HOS if he travels n hes workn to provide FOR UR FKN ASS you dont go steppn out. buy a fkn dildo bitch. ok GLP - discuss. The absolute worst kind of scoundrel low life piece of trash is someone that cheats on their partner. I don't care what the scenario is, there is absolutely no excuse for it. Karma will eventually come knocking, with 10 fold ferocity. i couldnt agree more. my philosophy is if ur gonna do that, u deserve to have lower extremity body parts fall off. political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 01:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well, it was kind of "organic" lol. Here I am largely abandoned for years and sitting across the table at the lodge (Yes I'm Frater) and sometimes next too this brilliant and attractive Young psychologist. We have a lot in common, few would understand our chats but we understand each other, peers. She's been hurt too.. One day I said, You wanna get a drink? She said I thought You'd never ask. It lasted a long time isn't over. This all Happened all over Long Island Phen. Yes I felt bad at first. fuckn LI.....lemme tell you a true story. the employer with the most cheaters is THE UNITED STATES POSTAL SERVICE!! political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Vasily
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Peter Quill
User ID: 83079681 United States 08/09/2022 02:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well, it was kind of "organic" lol. Here I am largely abandoned for years and sitting across the table at the lodge (Yes I'm Frater) and sometimes next too this brilliant and attractive Young psychologist. We have a lot in common, few would understand our chats but we understand each other, peers. She's been hurt too.. One day I said, You wanna get a drink? She said I thought You'd never ask. It lasted a long time isn't over. This all Happened all over Long Island Phen. Yes I felt bad at first. fuckn LI.....lemme tell you a true story. the employer with the most cheaters is THE UNITED STATES POSTAL SERVICE!! It doesn't surprise me! I work for a "colorful" airline out of JFK! People hit on me all the time. But really even after my confession here I've been mostly loyal all my life. Guardian |
Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 02:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I cheated when I was young. Quoting: Vasily Later, I learned how painful it was to be on the other side. I also learned that the pain isn't just felt by being cheated on. It's also felt by friends and family. I was an idiot and truly regret being that guy. yeah and when ur in between 'friends' who cheat ---and u stay out of it n the one finds out u know - theyre pissed at u for not telln them.....then they expect u to choose sides --- ive always been clear - dont tell me bc u aint puttn me in that position. political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |