GLP AFTER DARK ~~Discussion ~~ Are You A Cheater? | |
-Dan-
User ID: 83986560 Brazil 08/09/2022 03:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | But nowadays absolutely not, because of intrinsic principles, also because there's no why. F. ex.: Another day a friend of mine called me, I picked up, and he said, hey dude I'm here in front of your house. I thought, well must be an emergency, and it was. He was all nervous, opened his car's door and told me, can you smell the perfume? I answered, yep. Sweet as fk. Ow, I cheat on my wife, can you tell it was you that asked for a ride and was with a chick? I agreed, but I cut relations because I don't want lie to he's evangelical wife, that even don't like me, because the low life I am. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 82120709 United States 08/09/2022 03:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | bottom line - the consensus is theres no justifying cheating. Quoting: Phennommennonn if thats the relationship u want u gotta say so n afford the other involved party to opt out. yanno back in i think it was 83 before i moved to virginia we were on furlough at the irs, so i took a bookkeeping job at this place in hauppauge. this dude bobby asked me out. he was the mgr for the mfr line 2nd shift. everybody KNEW n nobody said a word. went for a drink around the corner where everybody went. 2nd date same. 3rd date went for a drive and parked up at bald hill in farmingville, 6 pack thing. 4th date he took me back to his house. lights were off in the bdroom. i didnt see a thing. went to the bathroom and left light on....right fucking there on his nightstand was a picture of HIS FUCKING WIFE n him! i was mortified. i was ashamed. i was pissed. said i had to leave. the next day i made several xerox copies BOBBY CHEATS ON HIS WIFE , posted them everywhere in the plant fukker comes in 4pm i leave 430pm i also taped one to the passenger side of his car too i quit the job. You are truly a hot shit!!!! I love that you stand up for yourself, so few people do. That's exactly what he deserved. I was also in accounting, I think there's something about the mindset of people who are good at this kind of thing that makes us very straightforward - the shortest distance is behind 2 points - kind of people. We sum things up in black and white and I really think we are not cut out to be cheaters. Now SALESMEN on the other hand....... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 82120709 United States 08/09/2022 03:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I was in my twenties and my brains was still finishing of forming, soaked in drugs and hormones, yes I did it a couple of times. Quoting: -Dan- But nowadays absolutely not, because of intrinsic principles, also because there's no why. F. ex.: Another day a friend of mine called me, I picked up, and he said, hey dude I'm here in front of your house. I thought, well must be an emergency, and it was. He was all nervous, opened his car's door and told me, can you smell the perfume? I answered, yep. Sweet as fk. Ow, I cheat on my wife, can you tell it was you that asked for a ride and was with a chick? I agreed, but I cut relations because I don't want lie to he's evangelical wife, that even don't like me, because the low life I am. Well apparently you grew out of it and she's married to a guy, unfortunately, who's much lower than you ever were! He'll get caught though. They always do, that's the thing. LOLOLOL....all the secrecy and hiding - it's like the political cover-up. It's always the COVER-UP that gets them caught. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83942488 United States 08/09/2022 03:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I was in my twenties and my brains was still finishing of forming, soaked in drugs and hormones, yes I did it a couple of times. Quoting: -Dan- But nowadays absolutely not, because of intrinsic principles, also because there's no why. F. ex.: Another day a friend of mine called me, I picked up, and he said, hey dude I'm here in front of your house. I thought, well must be an emergency, and it was. He was all nervous, opened his car's door and told me, can you smell the perfume? I answered, yep. Sweet as fk. Ow, I cheat on my wife, can you tell it was you that asked for a ride and was with a chick? I agreed, but I cut relations because I don't want lie to he's evangelical wife, that even don't like me, because the low life I am. |
StillAliveAndWell User ID: 72312922 United States 08/09/2022 03:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yep married 34 years and my wife cheated on me with a married guy she met at the gym.I noticed hundreds of texts on our cellphone bill and reverse searched the number to get his name. Then she lied and said "one bj" then it was "we only fucked once in his truck".(once they admit that you can bank they had sex dozens of times in hotels etc...) Everybody has problems and I told her I own my side of the street and lets try to work this out. She then tried to destroy me. Shit talking and blaming me for everything. Hey I'm still good in our house and she filed for divorce and lives in a rental apt with no AC. Prolly still fucking the married loser from the gym too/ |
Pilgrim001
User ID: 82713236 United States 08/09/2022 03:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nope. I’ve always believed in a code you don’t do to someone else what you wouldn’t want done to you. When I’ve been in long-term relationships I generally got what I wanted in terms of sex and I didn’t feel the need to step out. I may have fooled around with some still married women who were split from their spouse and it was just a technicality at that time. But I never had sex with someone who is married or had a boyfriend if I could help it. It really goes back to the golden rule. Worst part is when I was in a LTR, which was often, the women or girls what have you we’re always after me. That and when I was flushed up making good money, go figure… Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75492746 back in the day ik women that delib went after married men. like it was some conquest. what got me is the guys went to the bars w.o their wives so they put themselves in that environment. i dunno. i guess i see things diff. even in LTR if u go out alone w/friends thats a recipe for trouble IMO Absolutely. Do most women and men go out with their co workers to a bar to drink? If you're single, no problem, but I don't think it's a good idea for married women or men to do that. Call me a controlling asshole, but my ex wanted to start going to the bar with her co-workers and I said no. She felt like I kept her from advancing in management by my refusing to let her drink after work. I felt like it would have sooner or later led to our divorce. Of course, she could have done it anyway, but we probably would have divorced at that point. I said that I don't think she cheated, but she did throw up one red flag. Before we got married she brought up having an open relationship. She might have already been having an open relationship, I don't know, but I refused any part of it. I still wonder today if she had a person in mind that she was doing or wanted to do. I hate to say this but I think when someone brings up the open relationship idea....they are already cheating or have someone in mind. At the very least, they are saying YOU are not enough for them. I'd take them at the word and flee. Open relationships never work out, it's just a patchwork on a dead or dying marriage. I don't personally believe that married women should go to bars and hang out with their girlfriends or certainly other men. Or go on girls weekends and stuff like that. Too many of these turn bawdy and become cheating fests. Also so many women have disrespect for their men that I don't think it's too hard for a lot of them to cheat. I was always a conservative person and never sought to run around. Maybe I should have! You have NO idea how much I wish that I'd run at that point. Not that she cheated, but that she made my life miserable. I think she's a sociopath that is incapable of loving anyone other than herself or her kids. I don't have the time or the crayons to explain this to you. Slake Blake |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35525376 United Kingdom 08/09/2022 04:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm a one stop shop for lonely housewives.. I work in the public eye and I can tell you, there are plenty of women out there ready to jump onto a moderately attractive guy with a decent outlook on life. The thing is that they get bored, see someone who lives decently and they crave a slice of the pie. The logic I use is they're going to do it anyway, so why not provide a public service and make then feel desired for a couple of months, until one of us get bored... |
Pilgrim001
User ID: 82713236 United States 08/09/2022 04:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm a one stop shop for lonely housewives.. I work in the public eye and I can tell you, there are plenty of women out there ready to jump onto a moderately attractive guy with a decent outlook on life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35525376 The thing is that they get bored, see someone who lives decently and they crave a slice of the pie. The logic I use is they're going to do it anyway, so why not provide a public service and make then feel desired for a couple of months, until one of us get bored... If you were trained you would be an abortionist because some women are going to kill their baby anyway and it might as well be you that gets the money? Pack a firesuit and some gatorade because you're going to need it where you go. I don't have the time or the crayons to explain this to you. Slake Blake |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35525376 United Kingdom 08/09/2022 04:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm a one stop shop for lonely housewives.. I work in the public eye and I can tell you, there are plenty of women out there ready to jump onto a moderately attractive guy with a decent outlook on life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35525376 The thing is that they get bored, see someone who lives decently and they crave a slice of the pie. The logic I use is they're going to do it anyway, so why not provide a public service and make then feel desired for a couple of months, until one of us get bored... If you were trained you would be an abortionist because some women are going to kill their baby anyway and it might as well be you that gets the money? Pack a firesuit and some gatorade because you're going to need it where you go. No, it isn't like that. Society has screwed the family unit. I chase nobody. People have their own free will. Calling me an abortionist just shows there's some form of insecurities. I'm very well experienced in the way of relationships and I learned from the biggest slut of them all that women will do what they want, when they want. I'd love to see the evidence that I'll need a firesuit and gatorade though, that always amazes me. Pure faith in a religious system that's the polar opposite to the system you was raised in |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35525376 United Kingdom 08/09/2022 04:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm a one stop shop for lonely housewives.. I work in the public eye and I can tell you, there are plenty of women out there ready to jump onto a moderately attractive guy with a decent outlook on life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35525376 The thing is that they get bored, see someone who lives decently and they crave a slice of the pie. The logic I use is they're going to do it anyway, so why not provide a public service and make then feel desired for a couple of months, until one of us get bored... If you were trained you would be an abortionist because some women are going to kill their baby anyway and it might as well be you that gets the money? Pack a firesuit and some gatorade because you're going to need it where you go. And you need to ask yourself who's to blame. The woman for seeking attention or her husband for taking advantage of the fact they're married and don't honour their side of the deal. A woman gets trapped by having kids with someone who turns out to be a useless moron, she either ruins the kids lives, or does her own thing to try and provide stability for her kids... Over generalised statements are of the devil if you have to see things through the eyes of a religious zealot. |
T-Man
Entitled title User ID: 76630935 Netherlands 08/09/2022 04:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | cheaters are lowlifes. Quoting: T-Man just have an open relationship and it wont be cheating and you wont be disrespecting the one person you supposedly care about its pretty simple. it involves self respect too tho. and many seem to not have much of that. And if youre one of those who doesnt like their relationship, just end it. dont be a dick. how hard can it be smdh I think it's easy for a woman who is married to a good provider to use the excuse that's she's not getting enough attention. I've seen a few of those. I think they just wants to hang on to his money and lifestyle and have sex with other men, too. Yea well its disrespectful to their spouse and a lack of self respect to not be open about their 'feelings' which basically seems to be a urge for attention/casual sex. like i said theres a thing called open relationships. and for me the person who cheats is the one who doesnt want to be with her family and therefor shouldnt get the rights to own the kids, so to speak. its sad people dont think about what they want before they do things like getting married and having kids. its not like those things happen over night. and yea people can change. thats why talking exists. and lets be fair, most of us love sex but its not something you have to do. people dont HAVE to smoke crack either. its some urge and you control it or not. or you simply have to accept the fact that your relationship is not what you hoped and move on. i cant get over how retarded many people are. how many people talk smack about their ex? people they chose to be with. its literally mind bending to me. yea maybe they lied to you all along and thats why you left them after you found out how they truly are. its all not actually rocket science in my opinion. its just sad women somehow have the power to cheat/disrespect the family and then take the kids and income as a sort of bonus. wow, sorry for the rant. but people really are their own worst enemy sometimes. like animals |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35525376 United Kingdom 08/09/2022 04:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | cheaters are lowlifes. Quoting: T-Man just have an open relationship and it wont be cheating and you wont be disrespecting the one person you supposedly care about its pretty simple. it involves self respect too tho. and many seem to not have much of that. And if youre one of those who doesnt like their relationship, just end it. dont be a dick. how hard can it be smdh I think it's easy for a woman who is married to a good provider to use the excuse that's she's not getting enough attention. I've seen a few of those. I think they just wants to hang on to his money and lifestyle and have sex with other men, too. Yea well its disrespectful to their spouse and a lack of self respect to not be open about their 'feelings' which basically seems to be a urge for attention/casual sex. like i said theres a thing called open relationships. and for me the person who cheats is the one who doesnt want to be with her family and therefor shouldnt get the rights to own the kids, so to speak. its sad people dont think about what they want before they do things like getting married and having kids. its not like those things happen over night. and yea people can change. thats why talking exists. and lets be fair, most of us love sex but its not something you have to do. people dont HAVE to smoke crack either. its some urge and you control it or not. or you simply have to accept the fact that your relationship is not what you hoped and move on. i cant get over how retarded many people are. how many people talk smack about their ex? people they chose to be with. its literally mind bending to me. yea maybe they lied to you all along and thats why you left them after you found out how they truly are. its all not actually rocket science in my opinion. its just sad women somehow have the power to cheat/disrespect the family and then take the kids and income as a sort of bonus. wow, sorry for the rant. but people really are their own worst enemy sometimes. like animals Things change after 5,10,15 years.. Then you have a choice, ruin the kids life by destroying the family or seeking attention from elsewhere. Husbands can't neglect their wives and expect them to remain subservient to them, cook dinner , care for the kids, clean the house ect.. all whilst hubby is out drinking every night, playing PS5, living the football life etc.. Actions have equal reactions and marriage isn't a 1 way party |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35525376 United Kingdom 08/09/2022 04:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | cheaters are lowlifes. Quoting: T-Man just have an open relationship and it wont be cheating and you wont be disrespecting the one person you supposedly care about its pretty simple. it involves self respect too tho. and many seem to not have much of that. And if youre one of those who doesnt like their relationship, just end it. dont be a dick. how hard can it be smdh I think it's easy for a woman who is married to a good provider to use the excuse that's she's not getting enough attention. I've seen a few of those. I think they just wants to hang on to his money and lifestyle and have sex with other men, too. Yea well its disrespectful to their spouse and a lack of self respect to not be open about their 'feelings' which basically seems to be a urge for attention/casual sex. like i said theres a thing called open relationships. and for me the person who cheats is the one who doesnt want to be with her family and therefor shouldnt get the rights to own the kids, so to speak. its sad people dont think about what they want before they do things like getting married and having kids. its not like those things happen over night. and yea people can change. thats why talking exists. and lets be fair, most of us love sex but its not something you have to do. people dont HAVE to smoke crack either. its some urge and you control it or not. or you simply have to accept the fact that your relationship is not what you hoped and move on. i cant get over how retarded many people are. how many people talk smack about their ex? people they chose to be with. its literally mind bending to me. yea maybe they lied to you all along and thats why you left them after you found out how they truly are. its all not actually rocket science in my opinion. its just sad women somehow have the power to cheat/disrespect the family and then take the kids and income as a sort of bonus. wow, sorry for the rant. but people really are their own worst enemy sometimes. like animals Things change after 5,10,15 years.. Then you have a choice, ruin the kids life by destroying the family or seeking attention from elsewhere. Husbands can't neglect their wives and expect them to remain subservient to them, cook dinner , care for the kids, clean the house ect.. all whilst hubby is out drinking every night, playing PS5, living the football life etc.. Actions have equal reactions and marriage isn't a 1 way party |
Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 04:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | cheaters are lowlifes. Quoting: T-Man just have an open relationship and it wont be cheating and you wont be disrespecting the one person you supposedly care about its pretty simple. it involves self respect too tho. and many seem to not have much of that. And if youre one of those who doesnt like their relationship, just end it. dont be a dick. how hard can it be smdh I think it's easy for a woman who is married to a good provider to use the excuse that's she's not getting enough attention. I've seen a few of those. I think they just wants to hang on to his money and lifestyle and have sex with other men, too. Yea well its disrespectful to their spouse and a lack of self respect to not be open about their 'feelings' which basically seems to be a urge for attention/casual sex. like i said theres a thing called open relationships. and for me the person who cheats is the one who doesnt want to be with her family and therefor shouldnt get the rights to own the kids, so to speak. its sad people dont think about what they want before they do things like getting married and having kids. its not like those things happen over night. and yea people can change. thats why talking exists. and lets be fair, most of us love sex but its not something you have to do. people dont HAVE to smoke crack either. its some urge and you control it or not. or you simply have to accept the fact that your relationship is not what you hoped and move on. i cant get over how retarded many people are. how many people talk smack about their ex? people they chose to be with. its literally mind bending to me. yea maybe they lied to you all along and thats why you left them after you found out how they truly are. its all not actually rocket science in my opinion. its just sad women somehow have the power to cheat/disrespect the family and then take the kids and income as a sort of bonus. wow, sorry for the rant. but people really are their own worst enemy sometimes. like animals Things change after 5,10,15 years.. Then you have a choice, ruin the kids life by destroying the family or seeking attention from elsewhere. Husbands can't neglect their wives and expect them to remain subservient to them, cook dinner , care for the kids, clean the house ect.. all whilst hubby is out drinking every night, playing PS5, living the football life etc.. Actions have equal reactions and marriage isn't a 1 way party thats not a marriage if you need a night out away from ur significant other. ur supposed to forsake all others. the singles days of bars and outings are for singles. time away is what destroys the unit. going out after work is a recipe for trouble. i said it earlier. you have a family. thats your life. you wanna go out? you go out with ur spouse/sig other. kids n all or get a babysitter whatever - but thats ur life. u cant have it both ways political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35525376 United Kingdom 08/09/2022 04:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Paranoiaaaaa I think it's easy for a woman who is married to a good provider to use the excuse that's she's not getting enough attention. I've seen a few of those. I think they just wants to hang on to his money and lifestyle and have sex with other men, too. Yea well its disrespectful to their spouse and a lack of self respect to not be open about their 'feelings' which basically seems to be a urge for attention/casual sex. like i said theres a thing called open relationships. and for me the person who cheats is the one who doesnt want to be with her family and therefor shouldnt get the rights to own the kids, so to speak. its sad people dont think about what they want before they do things like getting married and having kids. its not like those things happen over night. and yea people can change. thats why talking exists. and lets be fair, most of us love sex but its not something you have to do. people dont HAVE to smoke crack either. its some urge and you control it or not. or you simply have to accept the fact that your relationship is not what you hoped and move on. i cant get over how retarded many people are. how many people talk smack about their ex? people they chose to be with. its literally mind bending to me. yea maybe they lied to you all along and thats why you left them after you found out how they truly are. its all not actually rocket science in my opinion. its just sad women somehow have the power to cheat/disrespect the family and then take the kids and income as a sort of bonus. wow, sorry for the rant. but people really are their own worst enemy sometimes. like animals Things change after 5,10,15 years.. Then you have a choice, ruin the kids life by destroying the family or seeking attention from elsewhere. Husbands can't neglect their wives and expect them to remain subservient to them, cook dinner , care for the kids, clean the house ect.. all whilst hubby is out drinking every night, playing PS5, living the football life etc.. Actions have equal reactions and marriage isn't a 1 way party thats not a marriage if you need a night out away from ur significant other. ur supposed to forsake all others. the singles days of bars and outings are for singles. time away is what destroys the unit. going out after work is a recipe for trouble. i said it earlier. you have a family. thats your life. you wanna go out? you go out with ur spouse/sig other. kids n all or get a babysitter whatever - but thats ur life. u cant have it both ways Like I said, it isn't a black and white situation. Men need to stop being useless morons and step up to the game at hand.. Emasculated beta males are going to be ruined, it's always been this way, as have relationships. The problem is you've been conditioned into the religious lie, that builds up an ideology that "I'm married, no matter my behaviour she shouldn't want to do anything other than me"... But the situation becomes complicated when children are involved. A good person wouldn't want to ruin that stability, kids need both parents. But what happens to the unhappy housewife? She either cheats or kills herself. I've seen both situstions too many times and their men are partly to blame. |
T-Man
Entitled title User ID: 76630935 Netherlands 08/09/2022 05:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Things change after 5,10,15 years.. Then you have a choice, ruin the kids life by destroying the family or seeking attention from elsewhere. Husbands can't neglect their wives and expect them to remain subservient to them, cook dinner , care for the kids, clean the house ect.. all whilst hubby is out drinking every night, playing PS5, living the football life etc.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35525376 Actions have equal reactions and marriage isn't a 1 way party i still fail to see the point where the person who isnt happy talked about it with their spouse. all im reading is some bitter logic about a guy gaming/drinking all day and a woman acting like the equal reaction is cheating. a lot of lack of self respect there, or respect for the spouse and kids. imagine thinking your kids grow up better sensing their parents resent each other and just stay together for the kids. And what when a guy like me tells the kids their parents are cheating? truth is important. And yea ive done this before. And why not? Reality is reality. Im not the parent who is lying to themself and their family... theyd probably be better of with 2 separated parents who are both happy. but yea these are pretty major things. which is why its retarded to start a relationship over some drunk night in a bar where you just needed sex like a crackhead needs crack. actions have reactions indeed. and they start at the beginning of the relationship. not after 15 years of bitterness. in your example its still the wife who cheated. not the guy. ive seen that failed logic being used before so its not surprising at all. you blame the husband even tho in your scenario its you cheating. horrible abusive behavior of being the bad person but blaming the other. but hey like slipknot and the bible confirmed, people are trash |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35525376 United Kingdom 08/09/2022 05:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Things change after 5,10,15 years.. Then you have a choice, ruin the kids life by destroying the family or seeking attention from elsewhere. Husbands can't neglect their wives and expect them to remain subservient to them, cook dinner , care for the kids, clean the house ect.. all whilst hubby is out drinking every night, playing PS5, living the football life etc.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35525376 Actions have equal reactions and marriage isn't a 1 way party i still fail to see the point where the person who isnt happy talked about it with their spouse. all im reading is some bitter logic about a guy gaming/drinking all day and a woman acting like the equal reaction is cheating. a lot of lack of self respect there, or respect for the spouse and kids. imagine thinking your kids grow up better sensing their parents resent each other and just stay together for the kids. And what when a guy like me tells the kids their parents are cheating? truth is important. And yea ive done this before. And why not? Reality is reality. Im not the parent who is lying to themself and their family... theyd probably be better of with 2 separated parents who are both happy. but yea these are pretty major things. which is why its retarded to start a relationship over some drunk night in a bar where you just needed sex like a crackhead needs crack. actions have reactions indeed. and they start at the beginning of the relationship. not after 15 years of bitterness. in your example its still the wife who cheated. not the guy. ive seen that failed logic being used before so its not surprising at all. you blame the husband even tho in your scenario its you cheating. horrible abusive behavior of being the bad person but blaming the other. but hey like slipknot and the bible confirmed, people are trash People are trash and most who complain are complaining about their own shortcomings being manifested in their own lives. It's easy to point the finger instead of self reflecting and changing, as we know, most humans are incapable of change. Because the majority are nothing but AI, programmed to repeat the same mistakes over and over again whilst blaming everyone around them for their failings. |
Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 08/09/2022 05:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Like I said, it isn't a black and white situation. Men need to stop being useless morons and step up to the game at hand.. Emasculated beta males are going to be ruined, it's always been this way, as have relationships. The problem is you've been conditioned into the religious lie, that builds up an ideology that "I'm married, no matter my behaviour she shouldn't want to do anything other than me"... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35525376 But the situation becomes complicated when children are involved. A good person wouldn't want to ruin that stability, kids need both parents. But what happens to the unhappy housewife? She either cheats or kills herself. I've seen both situstions too many times and their men are partly to blame. i get the pussification of men thing. but marriage was predicated on religion yes. however even in a civil union the vows are the same. why say the vows if u dont mean them? ur words ur honor. theres no honor anymore. political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
T-Man
Entitled title User ID: 76630935 Netherlands 08/09/2022 05:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Things change after 5,10,15 years.. Then you have a choice, ruin the kids life by destroying the family or seeking attention from elsewhere. Husbands can't neglect their wives and expect them to remain subservient to them, cook dinner , care for the kids, clean the house ect.. all whilst hubby is out drinking every night, playing PS5, living the football life etc.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35525376 Actions have equal reactions and marriage isn't a 1 way party i still fail to see the point where the person who isnt happy talked about it with their spouse. all im reading is some bitter logic about a guy gaming/drinking all day and a woman acting like the equal reaction is cheating. a lot of lack of self respect there, or respect for the spouse and kids. imagine thinking your kids grow up better sensing their parents resent each other and just stay together for the kids. And what when a guy like me tells the kids their parents are cheating? truth is important. And yea ive done this before. And why not? Reality is reality. Im not the parent who is lying to themself and their family... theyd probably be better of with 2 separated parents who are both happy. but yea these are pretty major things. which is why its retarded to start a relationship over some drunk night in a bar where you just needed sex like a crackhead needs crack. actions have reactions indeed. and they start at the beginning of the relationship. not after 15 years of bitterness. in your example its still the wife who cheated. not the guy. ive seen that failed logic being used before so its not surprising at all. you blame the husband even tho in your scenario its you cheating. horrible abusive behavior of being the bad person but blaming the other. but hey like slipknot and the bible confirmed, people are trash People are trash and most who complain are complaining about their own shortcomings being manifested in their own lives. It's easy to point the finger instead of self reflecting and changing, as we know, most humans are incapable of change. Because the majority are nothing but AI, programmed to repeat the same mistakes over and over again whilst blaming everyone around them for their failings. aww we agree people who lie to them self by wanting to have image A while living life as B are to blame. just be true to your self and stand for it. its not that hard and in the end thats the only way to be happy. if youre a hoe, be a hoe. its 2022, nothing wrong with that. and theres loads of men who are hoes too. just have an open relationship and enjoy the fact that you never have to act or lie or do things in secret. ive had woman ask me if i wanted to try and have a child with them too. without a future together as parents. i declined for (to me) obvious reason. But im sure they found someone anyway. i respect that. still sad for the kids, horrible. but still better than a life of bitterness and lies or even worse, having parents who abuse each other. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 35525376 United Kingdom 08/09/2022 05:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Like I said, it isn't a black and white situation. Men need to stop being useless morons and step up to the game at hand.. Emasculated beta males are going to be ruined, it's always been this way, as have relationships. The problem is you've been conditioned into the religious lie, that builds up an ideology that "I'm married, no matter my behaviour she shouldn't want to do anything other than me"... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35525376 But the situation becomes complicated when children are involved. A good person wouldn't want to ruin that stability, kids need both parents. But what happens to the unhappy housewife? She either cheats or kills herself. I've seen both situstions too many times and their men are partly to blame. i get the pussification of men thing. but marriage was predicated on religion yes. however even in a civil union the vows are the same. why say the vows if u dont mean them? ur words ur honor. theres no honor anymore. The vows in many cases are valid at the beginning, then life gets in the way, and after a few years both parties show their own colors. In most cases its a simple case of convenience that leads people into the trap of adultery. You'd be surprised how many guys don't care at all what their wives are doing, as long as she'll slave for him after she's done having her fun. Society has corrupted the family unit, now people are struggling to maintain any form of mental health due to the ongoing assault of Cognitive Abuse being perpetrated by the upper echelons of society. I feel for all parties involved as life is a mess, it can't just be generalised away as "it's her fault, it's his fault". I don't agree that if a man is besotted with a woman and she takes the absolute pi$$ out of him, but the thing is though if the guy accepts that kind of treatment, who is really at fault? People have been brought up to be trashy and life isn't the perfect balance most desire. The psychology of people is as amazing as it is debaucherous |
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T-Man
Entitled title User ID: 76630935 Netherlands 08/09/2022 06:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yea and thats "fine". people cant plan everything. i dont think people really change, but maybe it does take 10 years of marriage and kids for some people to find themself or really get to know each other. in that case its sad for the kids but no reason for everyone to be unhappy. divorced, happy parents might then be the next best option. Its definitely better than a family of liars or bitter people. Overall kids dont like it when their parents recent each other or have lied to them for years. Better to be open and honest in the long run. |
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LittleMe
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80984930 United States 08/09/2022 06:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | open marriage here, going on 30 years. we love and respect each other and understand that sex can be separated from that as a physical enjoyment. does that mean we are out whoring around, no of course not. but with open discussion if one of us wants to enjoy sex with someone else it’s no problem. it works for us, may not for you. we are all different, i just found the right person for me. |
T-Man
Entitled title User ID: 76630935 Netherlands 08/09/2022 06:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | open marriage here, going on 30 years. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80984930 we love and respect each other and understand that sex can be separated from that as a physical enjoyment. does that mean we are out whoring around, no of course not. but with open discussion if one of us wants to enjoy sex with someone else it’s no problem. it works for us, may not for you. we are all different, i just found the right person for me. well yea it does mean youre whoring around. but no one (of the two) is getting hurt. and it works for you. so bravo. still i hope you dont have kids lmao |
T-Man
Entitled title User ID: 76630935 Netherlands 08/09/2022 06:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I disagree. Caring and loving children should be the strength of a family, not the last leg of recovery. my exact sentiment. but we were talking about the 2 options of cheating/being bitter or divorcing to at least be happy in general and more capable of caring for the kids. family should always come first and that includes the partner, not just the kids. imo |
Amenti
User ID: 53729134 United Kingdom 08/09/2022 06:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | . Quoting: Amenti ~~~>> Listen at 19 min... Government and Private Projects (Boulder Lecture Pt. 2) [link to youtu.be (secure)] . Quoting: Dr. Greer goes into detail about human technologies developed since the 1940s and 1950s that look like “magic” and mimic ET technologies. He discusses advanced physics (alien reproduction vehicles) and Trans-dimensional Physics used for intelligence gathering and for disruption. He includes a list of projects and facilities where these human activities are happening. . So, aliens cheat also? They, the Shady Deep State cheats and hackers destroy Targeted Individuals, whilst hypocrite Watchers insinuate that the Target musn't cheat ~~~>> on the Deep State chosen "partner"... THAT is the sad truth... I'm going to spill it out... The Target is micro managed and creepy hacker stalkers destroy all contacts the target has to manipulate who their partner will be... The video presents HOW others are mind hacked and emotions manipulated to destroy Targeted Individuals. In this case the Targeted Individual wont obey any shady Handlers fake moral "hints", as it's NOT cheating when it's free will to leave fake "lovers" that are only illusions in a rigged "game" ~ scripted by satanic Sorcerers programming... Those in the know should back the hell off! The most classified truth here is that They fear the Targets Heart power as it influences this Matrix: [link to youtu.be (secure)] This goes much deeper... It's NOT a story about 3 lower chakras as in a person having sex with another... while Handlers vested interests gets cheated... It's about overriding certain Programmers... . ~~~~>> LOVE <3 [link to youtu.be (secure)] Hang in there, eternally Semper Fi! [link to youtu.be (secure)] ... |