Parents.. be honest... do you have kids that you just never liked? | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 12581161 United States 09/18/2021 04:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them. I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78185142 United States 09/18/2021 04:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them. Quoting: EllenRipley I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children. What about across all of them... since you have more than one. Do you have a favorite or a least-liked? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75835756 Australia 09/18/2021 04:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them. Quoting: EllenRipley I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children. It's easy, kids are tards... It isn't until they're 20 somethings and sometimes not even then that you realize you like your kids. Having kids is one big waste of time, they cost hundreds of thousands and still turn out to be turds. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 29608271 United States 09/18/2021 04:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them. Quoting: EllenRipley I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children. No One Believes you |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78185142 United States 09/18/2021 04:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a feeling a lot of parents actually hate their kids, or at least some of them. Quoting: BFD Unjabbed/CleanBlood This could be due to a few reasons, but often it seems like women with kids from multiple men side with the kids from their current relationship. No bro I'm super cereal right now! |
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User ID: 79662918 United States 09/18/2021 04:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 12581161 United States 09/18/2021 04:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them. Quoting: EllenRipley I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children. What about across all of them... since you have more than one. Do you have a favorite or a least-liked? Nope |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78185142 United States 09/18/2021 05:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There's nothing conditional about unconditional love...I share different interests with each of my three boys. One doesn't like to shoot guns, one bowls, we all love roller coasters, but I do different things with each of them individually... Quoting: BRIEF Thanks for checking in... I don't have kids so I'm just curious. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 12581161 United States 09/18/2021 05:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them. Quoting: EllenRipley I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children. No One Believes you People that don't have children will never understand People that don't have children have an area in their hearts and minds that isn't alive, it doesn't exist. So I don't expect people that do not have children to understand that. We are at a different level, different grade. Things that you think matter, really don't |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80237123 Germany 09/18/2021 05:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i love them absolutely as much as one person can love. i have to "handle" them differently.. the ditzy one cares about eating taki's and wants to become a witch, and wants to play sports. the brainy one wants to be on student counsel and experiment with bugs and catch minnows in our creek and release them in the lake down the street.. haha, yeah i love them both :) |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78185142 United States 09/18/2021 05:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them. Quoting: EllenRipley I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children. No One Believes you People that don't have children will never understand People that don't have children have an area in their hearts and minds that isn't alive, it doesn't exist. So I don't expect people that do not have children to understand that. We are at a different level, different grade. Things that you think matter, really don't Don't be so sure about that... I'm not a parent but kids are the best... I wish I had some. |
TXP
User ID: 80383054 United States 09/18/2021 05:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them. Quoting: EllenRipley I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children. No One Believes you People that don't have children will never understand People that don't have children have an area in their hearts and minds that isn't alive, it doesn't exist. So I don't expect people that do not have children to understand that. We are at a different level, different grade. Things that you think matter, really don't Well, that's some of the most blatant narcissistic bullshit I've read in quite awhile. . Last Edited by TXP on 09/18/2021 05:10 PM . "Stop the lockdown. Stop the masks. Stick your vaccine up your ass." - Tess....AMEN! "What does CENSORSHIP reveal? It reveals FEAR." - Julian Assange . |
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User ID: 80748453 United Kingdom 09/18/2021 05:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them. Quoting: EllenRipley I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children. No One Believes you People that don't have children will never understand People that don't have children have an area in their hearts and minds that isn't alive, it doesn't exist. So I don't expect people that do not have children to understand that. We are at a different level, different grade. Things that you think matter, really don't Obviously, your children are still young. Wait until they become adults. Things could change. Anti-Anger Addict |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 74783859 United States 09/18/2021 05:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Three Beautiful stepdaughters. Love them all. Youngest two are my favorites though. The oldest one is a hardheaded, driven, self motivated, high maintenance, asshole. Too much like me except I’m not high maintenance. We butted heads a lot. Thank God she’s now happily married with her own beautiful little girl. Told the poor guy. He’s hanging in there and doing a better job than I could with her. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 74783859 United States 09/18/2021 05:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Three Beautiful stepdaughters. Love them all. Youngest two are my favorites though. The oldest one is a hardheaded, driven, self motivated, high maintenance, asshole. Too much like me except I’m not high maintenance. We butted heads a lot. Thank God she’s now happily married with her own beautiful little girl. Told the poor guy. He’s hanging in there and doing a better job than I could with her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74783859 Oh and I’m not beautiful either, not sure how I snagged their beautiful mom? |
Chip
Forum Administrator 09/18/2021 05:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A few facts need to be revealed regarding "parenting". Some people can do it and some can't. Of course everybody can "be" a parent. But to "parent" (as a verb) is completely different. When a person desires a child and plans for that child's arrival, then gives birth to that child; More often than not that child means the world to that parent (or those parents). Good parenting is the result. On that note once these types of people become a parent suddenly their own desires and needs become secondary. The wellbeing of their offspring are all that matter thereafter. Parents that become parents by accident have a 50/50 wakeup call. Some flourish as parents and become that same type of Parent I mentioned above. The other 50% behave as the op stated. They end up hating a child or all of their children. But here is the wisdom in my point...if your hate your child in reality you hate yourself and see something in the child that reminds you of yourself. When a parent runs into a person that is childless by choice the conversation can seem pointless and mundane or petty to the parent. It's common. From the point of view of good mother or father people without children serve no purpose. Because according to a real parent people without children will never rise to the next level of humanity. Selflessness. I myself have conversations with childless people often....and all I can say is holy fucking shit are you motherfuckers lost in a daze of self involved idiocy on level 10. You're not a complete person and cannot empathize with parents. However the parent knows full well what it's like to be childless. Last Edited by Chip on 09/18/2021 06:06 PM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80104369 United States 09/18/2021 05:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A few facts need to be revealed regarding "parenting". Quoting: Chip Some people can do it and some can't. Of course everybody can "be" a parent. But to "parent" (as a verb) is completely different. When a person desires a child and plans for that child's arrival, then gives birth to that child; More often than not that child means the world to that parent (or those parents). Good parenting is the result. On that note once these types of people become a parent suddenly their own desires and needs become secondary. The wellbeing of their offspring are all that matter thereafter. Parent that becomes parents by accident have a 50/50 wakeup call. Some flourish as parents and become that same type of Parent I mentioned above. the other 50% behave as the op stated. They end up hating a child or all of their children. But here is the wisdom in my point...if your hate your child in reality you hate yourself and see something in the child that reminds you of yourself. When a parent runs into a person that is childless by choice the conversation can seem pointless and mundane or petty to the parent. It's common. From the point of view of good mother or father people without children serve no purpose. Because according to a real parent people without children will never rise to the next level of humanity. Selflessness. I myself have conversations with childless people often....and all I can say is holy fucking shit are you motherfuckers lost in a daze of self involved idiocy on level 10. You're not a complete person and cannot empathize with parent's. However the parent knows full well what it's like to be childless. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80619335 Germany 09/18/2021 06:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my child but its aged me like 20 years I feel. Of course, it got insane worse during pandemic because everything we had them in got closed and shut down. A lot of this is the world too, the worry about what type of world they have and trying to keep the crazy at a distance. |
Chip
Forum Administrator 09/18/2021 06:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my child but its aged me like 20 years I feel. Of course, it got insane worse during pandemic because everything we had them in got closed and shut down. A lot of this is the world too, the worry about what type of world they have and trying to keep the crazy at a distance. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80619335 The current world has it's pains and worries. But imagine having a child in medieval times or the 1800's. Life expectancy was 30 and most people that wanted 2 children had to have 6 just so 2 of them could make it to adulthood. The last 100 years has been the best time to have children. Last Edited by Chip on 09/18/2021 06:12 PM |
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Forum Administrator 09/18/2021 06:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | People that don't have children will never understand People that don't have children have an area in their hearts and minds that isn't alive, it doesn't exist. So I don't expect people that do not have children to understand that. We are at a different level, different grade. Things that you think matter, really don't Well, that's some of the most blatant narcissistic bullshit I've read in quite awhile. . Yup. People selfish enough to bring more poor souls into this soul farm are alive. But people who cant or dont want to bring more poor souls into this hell matrix.....WERE the ones not on the level Eat my ass Lol...don't be mad you worthless pathetic bag of piss. You'll find a purpose. Maybe you'll be the next George Floyd. Your death with serve the NWO's master plan of destruction. Because you're life is pretty much meaningless at this point. Who knows? |
ElleMira
User ID: 76494359 United States 09/18/2021 06:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my kids. Before covid, we'd get together for family vacations once a year. They would come here for Thanksgiving. We would go for walks, play family games, sit at the table and talk for hours. Typing this is making me cry. I haven't seen my kids in almost 2 years. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 68128216 Canada 09/18/2021 06:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: EllenRipley People that don't have children will never understand People that don't have children have an area in their hearts and minds that isn't alive, it doesn't exist. So I don't expect people that do not have children to understand that. We are at a different level, different grade. Things that you think matter, really don't Well, that's some of the most blatant narcissistic bullshit I've read in quite awhile. . Yup. People selfish enough to bring more poor souls into this soul farm are alive. But people who cant or dont want to bring more poor souls into this hell matrix.....WERE the ones not on the level Eat my ass Lol...don't be mad you worthless pathetic bag of piss. You'll find a purpose. Maybe you'll be the next George Floyd. Your death with serve the NWO's master plan of destruction. Because you're life is pretty much meaningless at this point. Who knows? :billlaugh: George Floyd has a kid. |
BRIEF
User ID: 79662918 United States 09/18/2021 06:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: TXP Well, that's some of the most blatant narcissistic bullshit I've read in quite awhile. . Yup. People selfish enough to bring more poor souls into this soul farm are alive. But people who cant or dont want to bring more poor souls into this hell matrix.....WERE the ones not on the level Eat my ass Lol...don't be mad you worthless pathetic bag of piss. You'll find a purpose. Maybe you'll be the next George Floyd. Your death with serve the NWO's master plan of destruction. Because you're life is pretty much meaningless at this point. Who knows? George Floyd has a kid. Really? Find his neck! I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
Chip
Forum Administrator 09/18/2021 06:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: TXP Well, that's some of the most blatant narcissistic bullshit I've read in quite awhile. . Yup. People selfish enough to bring more poor souls into this soul farm are alive. But people who cant or dont want to bring more poor souls into this hell matrix.....WERE the ones not on the level Eat my ass Lol...don't be mad you worthless pathetic bag of piss. You'll find a purpose. Maybe you'll be the next George Floyd. Your death with serve the NWO's master plan of destruction. Because you're life is pretty much meaningless at this point. Who knows? George Floyd has a kid. He may have had a kid....but he never parented. He was a self absorbed cunt with severe myopic idiocy. So self absorbed satan decided to use him as a tool against Godly people. |