Parents.. be honest... do you have kids that you just never liked?

A few facts need to be revealed regarding "parenting".

Some people can do it and some can't. Of course everybody can "be" a parent. But to "parent" (as a verb) is completely different.

When a person desires a child and plans for that child's arrival, then gives birth to that child; More often than not that child means the world to that parent (or those parents). Good parenting is the result. On that note once these types of people become a parent suddenly their own desires and needs become secondary. The wellbeing of their offspring are all that matter thereafter.

Parents that become parents by accident have a 50/50 wakeup call. Some flourish as parents and become that same type of Parent I mentioned above. The other 50% behave as the op stated. They end up hating a child or all of their children.

But here is the wisdom in my point...if your hate your child in reality you hate yourself and see something in the child that reminds you of yourself.

When a parent runs into a person that is childless by choice the conversation can seem pointless and mundane or petty to the parent. It's common. From the point of view of good mother or father people without children serve no purpose. Because according to a real parent people without children will never rise to the next level of humanity. Selflessness.

I myself have conversations with childless people often....and all I can say is holy fucking shit are you motherfuckers lost in a daze of self involved idiocy on level 10. You're not a complete person and cannot empathize with parents. However the parent knows full well what it's like to be childless.

I have 3 adult children, 2 Sons and my youngest is my daughter....I love them all equally, and would give my life for any of them without a moments hesitation!

Remember that movie, "The Good Son"?

If you had to save one of them.. surely you know which one..

In past times, resources were scant, and the children that reflected the desirable traits of their parents were often favored and given more food than their siblings.

Harsh, but true.

Well if I had one that was a psychopathic murderer and one that was a kind hearted soul...lol....that might make a difference, but seeing how my 3 children are all very well adjusted, very kind giving souls I would never even think to pick one for dropping off of a cliff...

That's a situation where either I save them both or we all die as I try!!!!

:mccoy:

That's noble.

Parents do this for their children all of the time. Just because we don't know the details of family's last moments doesn't mean those events don't happen. When you hear about a family that burned in a house fire, these types of (good son) decisions are often being made. Often the parents can't save them all and they all die trying.

Love can be dangerous.

I'll be the first to admit that I'm a retard.... I'm really smart in the least useful ways imaginable

A few facts need to be revealed regarding "parenting".

Some people can do it and some can't. Of course everybody can "be" a parent. But to "parent" (as a verb) is completely different.

When a person desires a child and plans for that child's arrival, then gives birth to that child; More often than not that child means the world to that parent (or those parents). Good parenting is the result. On that note once these types of people become a parent suddenly their own desires and needs become secondary. The wellbeing of their offspring are all that matter thereafter.

Parents that become parents by accident have a 50/50 wakeup call. Some flourish as parents and become that same type of Parent I mentioned above. The other 50% behave as the op stated. They end up hating a child or all of their children.

But here is the wisdom in my point...if your hate your child in reality you hate yourself and see something in the child that reminds you of yourself.

When a parent runs into a person that is childless by choice the conversation can seem pointless and mundane or petty to the parent. It's common. From the point of view of good mother or father people without children serve no purpose. Because according to a real parent people without children will never rise to the next level of humanity. Selflessness.

I myself have conversations with childless people often....and all I can say is holy fucking shit are you motherfuckers lost in a daze of self involved idiocy on level 10. You're not a complete person and cannot empathize with parents. However the parent knows full well what it's like to be childless.

There's nothing conditional about unconditional love...I share different interests with each of my three boys. One doesn't like to shoot guns, one bowls, we all love roller coasters, but I do different things with each of them individually...

i have two daughters, a brainy one and a ditzy one...

i love them absolutely as much as one person can love.


i have to "handle" them differently.. the ditzy one cares about eating taki's and wants to become a witch, and wants to play sports.


the brainy one wants to be on student counsel and experiment with bugs and catch minnows in our creek and release them in the lake down the street..

haha, yeah i love them both :)

He may have had a kid....but he never parented. He was a self absorbed cunt with severe myopic idiocy. So self absorbed satan decided to use him as a tool against Godly people.

Ohhhhhhh, you are religious indoctrinated. That explains it all.
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Eww boys... thank god all i have is girls

I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them.

I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children.

The current world has it's pains and worries. But imagine having a child in medieval times or the 1800's. Life expectancy was 30 and most people that wanted 2 children had to have 6 just so 2 of them could make it to adulthood. The last 100 years has been the best time to have children.

You sound like the vaccinated arguing that all need to be vaccinated to be morally sound.

Holy shit, Chip, the multi-point premise of your worldview that people who don't have children are 'less than', that people without children by choice are selfish and can never be selfless, that these individuals are incomplete people and are lacking in humanity is, well, complete, absurd narcissistic crap.

And you are raising children with this mindset? Holy damn.
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Ohhhhhhh, you are religious indoctrinated. That explains it all.
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i would have agreed up until this accelerated descent into dystopian woke hell and outright war on the white race

not my own but others, yes...

It's easy, kids are tards... It isn't until they're 20 somethings and sometimes not even then that you realize you like your kids.

Having kids is one big waste of time, they cost hundreds of thousands and still turn out to be turds.

I love my kids. Before covid, we'd get together for family vacations once a year. They would come here for Thanksgiving. We would go for walks, play family games, sit at the table and talk for hours. Typing this is making me cry. I haven't seen my kids in almost 2 years.