Parents.. be honest... do you have kids that you just never liked? | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70663772 United States 09/19/2021 08:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am unfathomably and ineffably blessed by the experience of raising my daughters. I call them my trees because I know the love is rooted in something that runs deeper than this fickle momentary physical ride we've taken together. |
popsawheelie
User ID: 42472429 United States 09/19/2021 08:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have 5, love them all. Life is great, we all see each other often. All Major holidays we're together as a family. All of my kids are close to each other same with all 6 grand kids They have all been little shits at times but so was I. I have 2 of my granddaughters at my feet watching cartoons who spent the night. I have not yet begun to defile myself The Fires of time consume all men equally. I Am Legion |
JPOP
User ID: 52407937 United States 09/19/2021 08:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them. Quoting: EllenRipley I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children. No One Believes you People that don't have children will never understand People that don't have children have an area in their hearts and minds that isn't alive, it doesn't exist. So I don't expect people that do not have children to understand that. We are at a different level, different grade. Things that you think matter, really don't I agreed with you until you started pretending to be in on some secret that puts you above others. YOU ARE NOT BETTER THAN A CHILDLESS PERSON. Being a teacher for decades, I see how parents are. Some people should never be parents and have made themselves LESS by having children they refuse to take care of properly. Last Edited by JPOP on 09/19/2021 08:47 AM |
~LSDMTHC~
User ID: 80745252 United States 09/19/2021 08:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Step mothers tend to favor their blood children over the “others”. Broken families are so fun. What a world. My son is my life. The best thing to ever happen to me in my physical body. Floridian. Christian, Father, Hard worker and a millenial. Fuck Big Pharma! Don’t be a pussy, if you leave red at least leave your name. I can’t guarantee I’ll be alive come this time next year… |
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~LSDMTHC~
User ID: 80745252 United States 09/19/2021 08:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my kids. Before covid, we'd get together for family vacations once a year. They would come here for Thanksgiving. We would go for walks, play family games, sit at the table and talk for hours. Typing this is making me cry. I haven't seen my kids in almost 2 years. Quoting: ElleMira oh, baby. That is too much to bear. I know a family where the daughter is very controlling about infection, germs, etc. she would not let her children get fresh air on the balcony of their place in Brooklyn. I bet she stayed away from her parents... now they probably all are vaxxed, they visit. This will pass. I feel really bad for you. Thank you. It's hard but then I remember I have a lot to be grateful for. I'm happy they are happy and healthy, living productive lives. My daughter loves her career and my son found a good woman - I try to focus on the positive through all this. They're both afraid to travel right now, my daughter especially. She recently got over having covid despite being fully 'vaccinated'. She's recovered and doing well. Sending some prayers for your entire family. Floridian. Christian, Father, Hard worker and a millenial. Fuck Big Pharma! Don’t be a pussy, if you leave red at least leave your name. I can’t guarantee I’ll be alive come this time next year… |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 12581161 United States 09/19/2021 08:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them. Quoting: EllenRipley I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children. No One Believes you People that don't have children will never understand People that don't have children have an area in their hearts and minds that isn't alive, it doesn't exist. So I don't expect people that do not have children to understand that. We are at a different level, different grade. Things that you think matter, really don't I agreed with you until you started pretending to be in on some secret that puts you above others. YOU ARE NOT BETTER THAN A CHILDLESS PERSON. Being a teacher for decades, I see how parents are. Some people should never be parents and have made themselves LESS by having children they refuse to take care of properly. That's what you got from my response? Let me guess, you don't have any children. You proved my point. If you believe what I said is that I'm 'better than' childless people, you have issues. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80696596 United States 09/19/2021 09:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Step mothers tend to favor their blood children over the “others”. Broken families are so fun. What a world. Quoting: ~LSDMTHC~ My son is my life. The best thing to ever happen to me in my physical body. I think couples in blended families are so desperate for another relationship that they don't always make plans for how they will deal with the kids. That shows the immaturity level of the parents. Kids living in the house all follow the same rules and get fair treatment by both parents. Otherwise, you will raise messed up kids and the marriage might not work. Some of the issue here is that kids often stay with the mother after a divorce. So those kids live with mother and step-dad. Step-dad's kids only come over every couple of weekends, so they are treated more like intruders into the family unit. |
HolloH
User ID: 46413661 United States 09/19/2021 09:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There's nothing conditional about unconditional love...I share different interests with each of my three boys. One doesn't like to shoot guns, one bowls, we all love roller coasters, but I do different things with each of them individually... Quoting: BRIEF There is something conditional about "unconditional love", the condition is that they have to be your kids. You wouldn't love them like you do otherwise. In reality love with no conditions is the worst Love of All it's the fakest because there's no reason you love them. It's not even love at that point it's just genetic disposition. .•°•.•° My Karma Fans °•.•°•. 1/20/2022 Retard 1/2/2022 Sick piece of shit! 1/2/2022 Defending pedos 1/2/2022 Pedo alert this dude supports maps...baby rapers 12/11/2021 You really are a dumb cunt 12/3/2021 "This is stupid, this has nothing to do wth pedophilia." |
HumminBird
User ID: 80098630 United States 09/19/2021 09:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a feeling a lot of parents actually hate their kids, or at least some of them. Quoting: BFD Unjabbed/CleanBlood This could be due to a few reasons, but often it seems like women with kids from multiple men side with the kids from their current relationship. I have 4 kids , one with my fiancé and she had three with her ex husband which I consider my own. And love them all equally although my 16 year old can be quite rebellious I still love her just the same and to be fare I’m still that way as well. Your kid would have to be rather vile for you to actually hate your child. Cupcake was here beeoutches |
ElleMira
User ID: 76494359 United States 09/19/2021 09:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My mom loved all the same. My dad seemed to favor one brother and sister that towed the line. I think my dad resented the fact that my mom was so over protective and his feelings were evident against me and the older sibling that danced to our own tunes. Quoting: lin318 I don't hold it against my dad since my mom put him in such a difficult situation. I really think she was wrong since dad was usually more right than not. He was a harsh disciplinarian and she wasn't. I never really wanted kids when I was younger but now that I'm too old I wish that I could have children to love and nurture. There is no perfect parent or children. We just try to do the best that we can and learn as we go. Family dynamics are complicated and each parent seems to bring their childhood baggage into the next generation. A lot of mistakes are made and, I think for the most part, each generation tries to fix what they think was broken in their childhood. Yes, agreed - we just try to do the best that we can and learn as we go. My mom favored the oldest and my dad favored the youngest. I come from a huge family so a lot of us in the middle were overlooked - nobody seemed to really mind though. It's actually a joke in our family that the oldest is our mom's "golden child". I have 2 children - a son and daughter - no favorites but a different relationship with both of them. We've had our ups and downs but thankfully have been able to resolve those issues and come back closer. Last Edited by ElleMira on 09/19/2021 09:08 AM |
1r0n4n9el
Better run, better run faster than my spear User ID: 79301216 09/19/2021 09:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a feeling a lot of parents actually hate their kids, or at least some of them. Quoting: BFD Unjabbed/CleanBlood This could be due to a few reasons, but often it seems like women with kids from multiple men side with the kids from their current relationship. My boys are my life. I love babies, babies are my weakness. Children are sacred to me. When I became pregnant with my first son I no longer was a woman but a MOTHER. My children are and will be first priority in my existence cuz I’m their mother. Even though my relationship with my children’s father is not the best, I would never stop caring for him, hating him would be like hating my own children. |
1r0n4n9el
Better run, better run faster than my spear User ID: 79301216 09/19/2021 09:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a feeling a lot of parents actually hate their kids, or at least some of them. Quoting: BFD Unjabbed/CleanBlood This could be due to a few reasons, but often it seems like women with kids from multiple men side with the kids from their current relationship. I have 4 kids , one with my fiancé and she had three with her ex husband which I consider my own. And love them all equally although my 16 year old can be quite rebellious I still love her just the same and to be fare I’m still that way as well. Your kid would have to be rather vile for you to actually hate your child. Love and blessings to you and your beautiful family! |
1r0n4n9el
Better run, better run faster than my spear User ID: 79301216 09/19/2021 09:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my children with all my heart and soul. I would jump in front of a moving train/bullet to save their lives. When they're sick, I wish it was me instead of them. If they are hurting I wish I could take it away from them. Quoting: EllenRipley I don't understand how anyone could hate their child/children. No One Believes you People that don't have children will never understand People that don't have children have an area in their hearts and minds that isn't alive, it doesn't exist. So I don't expect people that do not have children to understand that. We are at a different level, different grade. Things that you think matter, really don't I agreed with you until you started pretending to be in on some secret that puts you above others. YOU ARE NOT BETTER THAN A CHILDLESS PERSON. Being a teacher for decades, I see how parents are. Some people should never be parents and have made themselves LESS by having children they refuse to take care of properly. It’s sad but it’s true. |
A Deplorable Neanderthal
Forum Moderator User ID: 80826259 United Kingdom 09/19/2021 11:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A few facts need to be revealed regarding "parenting". Quoting: Chip Some people can do it and some can't. Of course everybody can "be" a parent. But to "parent" (as a verb) is completely different. When a person desires a child and plans for that child's arrival, then gives birth to that child; More often than not that child means the world to that parent (or those parents). Good parenting is the result. On that note once these types of people become a parent suddenly their own desires and needs become secondary. The wellbeing of their offspring are all that matter thereafter. Parents that become parents by accident have a 50/50 wakeup call. Some flourish as parents and become that same type of Parent I mentioned above. The other 50% behave as the op stated. They end up hating a child or all of their children. But here is the wisdom in my point...if your hate your child in reality you hate yourself and see something in the child that reminds you of yourself. When a parent runs into a person that is childless by choice the conversation can seem pointless and mundane or petty to the parent. It's common. From the point of view of good mother or father people without children serve no purpose. Because according to a real parent people without children will never rise to the next level of humanity. Selflessness. I myself have conversations with childless people often....and all I can say is holy fucking shit are you motherfuckers lost in a daze of self involved idiocy on level 10. You're not a complete person and cannot empathize with parents. However the parent knows full well what it's like to be childless. You sound like the vaccinated arguing that all need to be vaccinated to be morally sound. Holy shit, Chip, the multi-point premise of your worldview that people who don't have children are 'less than', that people without children by choice are selfish and can never be selfless, that these individuals are incomplete people and are lacking in humanity is, well, complete, absurd narcissistic crap. And you are raising children with this mindset? Holy damn. . He may have had a kid....but he never parented. He was a self absorbed cunt with severe myopic idiocy. So self absorbed satan decided to use him as a tool against Godly people. Quoting: Chip Ohhhhhhh, you are religious indoctrinated. That explains it all. . Listen "Soul Traveler" (you stupid little barren cunt). Life has meaning when you care for others more than yourself. I know that would be very difficult for you (you being the only one that really cares for you...lol). Best you grab your 12 inch purple headed dildo and wrap those dry ass crusty meat flaps around it...because that's all you'll ever have in this life. Enjoy!! Really? It’s how you speak to a woman? #DefundTheBBC |
TXP
User ID: 80383054 United States 09/19/2021 12:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A few facts need to be revealed regarding "parenting". Quoting: Chip Some people can do it and some can't. Of course everybody can "be" a parent. But to "parent" (as a verb) is completely different. When a person desires a child and plans for that child's arrival, then gives birth to that child; More often than not that child means the world to that parent (or those parents). Good parenting is the result. On that note once these types of people become a parent suddenly their own desires and needs become secondary. The wellbeing of their offspring are all that matter thereafter. Parents that become parents by accident have a 50/50 wakeup call. Some flourish as parents and become that same type of Parent I mentioned above. The other 50% behave as the op stated. They end up hating a child or all of their children. But here is the wisdom in my point...if your hate your child in reality you hate yourself and see something in the child that reminds you of yourself. When a parent runs into a person that is childless by choice the conversation can seem pointless and mundane or petty to the parent. It's common. From the point of view of good mother or father people without children serve no purpose. Because according to a real parent people without children will never rise to the next level of humanity. Selflessness. I myself have conversations with childless people often....and all I can say is holy fucking shit are you motherfuckers lost in a daze of self involved idiocy on level 10. You're not a complete person and cannot empathize with parents. However the parent knows full well what it's like to be childless. You sound like the vaccinated arguing that all need to be vaccinated to be morally sound. Holy shit, Chip, the multi-point premise of your worldview that people who don't have children are 'less than', that people without children by choice are selfish and can never be selfless, that these individuals are incomplete people and are lacking in humanity is, well, complete, absurd narcissistic crap. And you are raising children with this mindset? Holy damn. . He may have had a kid....but he never parented. He was a self absorbed cunt with severe myopic idiocy. So self absorbed satan decided to use him as a tool against Godly people. Quoting: Chip Ohhhhhhh, you are religious indoctrinated. That explains it all. . Listen "Soul Traveler" (you stupid little barren cunt). Life has meaning when you care for others more than yourself. I know that would be very difficult for you (you being the only one that really cares for you...lol). Best you grab your 12 inch purple headed dildo and wrap those dry ass crusty meat flaps around it...because that's all you'll ever have in this life. Enjoy!! Really? It’s how you speak to a woman? It's how a self-proclaimed "Godly person" passing his genes to and imposing his behavior on children speaks to a woman and people in general. And yet we wonder the reason the world is in the condition it is. . Last Edited by TXP on 09/19/2021 12:11 PM . "Stop the lockdown. Stop the masks. Stick your vaccine up your ass." - Tess....AMEN! "What does CENSORSHIP reveal? It reveals FEAR." - Julian Assange . |
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GetTheShotUncleTom
User ID: 80770558 United States 09/19/2021 12:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A few facts need to be revealed regarding "parenting". Quoting: Chip Some people can do it and some can't. Of course everybody can "be" a parent. But to "parent" (as a verb) is completely different. When a person desires a child and plans for that child's arrival, then gives birth to that child; More often than not that child means the world to that parent (or those parents). Good parenting is the result. On that note once these types of people become a parent suddenly their own desires and needs become secondary. The wellbeing of their offspring are all that matter thereafter. Parents that become parents by accident have a 50/50 wakeup call. Some flourish as parents and become that same type of Parent I mentioned above. The other 50% behave as the op stated. They end up hating a child or all of their children. But here is the wisdom in my point...if your hate your child in reality you hate yourself and see something in the child that reminds you of yourself. When a parent runs into a person that is childless by choice the conversation can seem pointless and mundane or petty to the parent. It's common. From the point of view of good mother or father people without children serve no purpose. Because according to a real parent people without children will never rise to the next level of humanity. Selflessness. I myself have conversations with childless people often....and all I can say is holy fucking shit are you motherfuckers lost in a daze of self involved idiocy on level 10. You're not a complete person and cannot empathize with parents. However the parent knows full well what it's like to be childless. or you hate your wife, and hate half your kid or quite often the wife hates her husband and hates half her kid but all these people who clearly know this vaccine has nothing to do with any real virus, and get their kids vaccinated do not care about their children. at all. their kids are bourne of personal vanity, they are status symbols. they are conversation pieces, play objects Raus AnalSchwab |
GetTheShotUncleTom
User ID: 80770558 United States 09/19/2021 12:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | just look at this COVID hoax NOBODY sane really believes this is a real medical emergency, they ALL know it's something evil and political but they are going along with it because they are evil too. they hate the good people rebelling, because they hate good people. they love the evil people behind it. now ask yourself, how could you ever love ANY of these evil pieces of shit that make up 75% of everyone about you. you can't, you are lying to yourself, you yourself are an evil Piece of dishonest filth, as is your wife/husband they SHOULD all kill themselves but instead they had monster children who have 90% chance of growing up into adult pieces of lying filth Raus AnalSchwab |
3O Godlike
User ID: 20466936 Canada 09/19/2021 12:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My situation is the opposite. I loved my dad with all my heart...then his mom (my grandma) dies, and he reverts back to this child like, meek, boy status (in his 70s)...literally takes orders from my witch of a mother (who is coming with dementia and hates him anyway). It is so sad to see someone you respect reduce himself to this...My mother insulted me in front of him, and his response was more offensive (since my mom's dementia just made her core bitch-self lose any camouflage or sugarcoat)...he just hangs his head and checks out. He is only still a man when it comes to going to work, but idk, maybe at work he is also getting abused. This is no way to live your twilight years. 3O Godlike |
Chip
Forum Administrator 09/19/2021 01:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A few facts need to be revealed regarding "parenting". Quoting: Chip Some people can do it and some can't. Of course everybody can "be" a parent. But to "parent" (as a verb) is completely different. When a person desires a child and plans for that child's arrival, then gives birth to that child; More often than not that child means the world to that parent (or those parents). Good parenting is the result. On that note once these types of people become a parent suddenly their own desires and needs become secondary. The wellbeing of their offspring are all that matter thereafter. Parents that become parents by accident have a 50/50 wakeup call. Some flourish as parents and become that same type of Parent I mentioned above. The other 50% behave as the op stated. They end up hating a child or all of their children. But here is the wisdom in my point...if your hate your child in reality you hate yourself and see something in the child that reminds you of yourself. When a parent runs into a person that is childless by choice the conversation can seem pointless and mundane or petty to the parent. It's common. From the point of view of good mother or father people without children serve no purpose. Because according to a real parent people without children will never rise to the next level of humanity. Selflessness. I myself have conversations with childless people often....and all I can say is holy fucking shit are you motherfuckers lost in a daze of self involved idiocy on level 10. You're not a complete person and cannot empathize with parents. However the parent knows full well what it's like to be childless. You sound like the vaccinated arguing that all need to be vaccinated to be morally sound. Holy shit, Chip, the multi-point premise of your worldview that people who don't have children are 'less than', that people without children by choice are selfish and can never be selfless, that these individuals are incomplete people and are lacking in humanity is, well, complete, absurd narcissistic crap. And you are raising children with this mindset? Holy damn. . He may have had a kid....but he never parented. He was a self absorbed cunt with severe myopic idiocy. So self absorbed satan decided to use him as a tool against Godly people. Quoting: Chip Ohhhhhhh, you are religious indoctrinated. That explains it all. . Listen "Soul Traveler" (you stupid little barren cunt). Life has meaning when you care for others more than yourself. I know that would be very difficult for you (you being the only one that really cares for you...lol). Best you grab your 12 inch purple headed dildo and wrap those dry ass crusty meat flaps around it...because that's all you'll ever have in this life. Enjoy!! Really? It’s how you speak to a woman? Dumb cunts deserve to be spoken to like they're dumb cunts. Are you a dumb cunt? It seems so. Are you bleeding out of your snatch too? When I want to speak to you I'll address you. Otherwise keep your gay ass in check. Last Edited by Chip on 09/19/2021 01:38 PM |
Chip
Forum Administrator 09/19/2021 01:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A few facts need to be revealed regarding "parenting". Quoting: Chip Some people can do it and some can't. Of course everybody can "be" a parent. But to "parent" (as a verb) is completely different. When a person desires a child and plans for that child's arrival, then gives birth to that child; More often than not that child means the world to that parent (or those parents). Good parenting is the result. On that note once these types of people become a parent suddenly their own desires and needs become secondary. The wellbeing of their offspring are all that matter thereafter. Parents that become parents by accident have a 50/50 wakeup call. Some flourish as parents and become that same type of Parent I mentioned above. The other 50% behave as the op stated. They end up hating a child or all of their children. But here is the wisdom in my point...if your hate your child in reality you hate yourself and see something in the child that reminds you of yourself. When a parent runs into a person that is childless by choice the conversation can seem pointless and mundane or petty to the parent. It's common. From the point of view of good mother or father people without children serve no purpose. Because according to a real parent people without children will never rise to the next level of humanity. Selflessness. I myself have conversations with childless people often....and all I can say is holy fucking shit are you motherfuckers lost in a daze of self involved idiocy on level 10. You're not a complete person and cannot empathize with parents. However the parent knows full well what it's like to be childless. or you hate your wife, and hate half your kid or quite often the wife hates her husband and hates half her kid but all these people who clearly know this vaccine has nothing to do with any real virus, and get their kids vaccinated do not care about their children. at all. their kids are bourne of personal vanity, they are status symbols. they are conversation pieces, play objects People are gross. The world is filled with low IQ demons. We have quite a few on GLP as well. |
GetTheShotUncleTom
User ID: 77026695 United States 09/19/2021 01:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A few facts need to be revealed regarding "parenting". Quoting: Chip Some people can do it and some can't. Of course everybody can "be" a parent. But to "parent" (as a verb) is completely different. When a person desires a child and plans for that child's arrival, then gives birth to that child; More often than not that child means the world to that parent (or those parents). Good parenting is the result. On that note once these types of people become a parent suddenly their own desires and needs become secondary. The wellbeing of their offspring are all that matter thereafter. Parents that become parents by accident have a 50/50 wakeup call. Some flourish as parents and become that same type of Parent I mentioned above. The other 50% behave as the op stated. They end up hating a child or all of their children. But here is the wisdom in my point...if your hate your child in reality you hate yourself and see something in the child that reminds you of yourself. When a parent runs into a person that is childless by choice the conversation can seem pointless and mundane or petty to the parent. It's common. From the point of view of good mother or father people without children serve no purpose. Because according to a real parent people without children will never rise to the next level of humanity. Selflessness. I myself have conversations with childless people often....and all I can say is holy fucking shit are you motherfuckers lost in a daze of self involved idiocy on level 10. You're not a complete person and cannot empathize with parents. However the parent knows full well what it's like to be childless. or you hate your wife, and hate half your kid or quite often the wife hates her husband and hates half her kid but all these people who clearly know this vaccine has nothing to do with any real virus, and get their kids vaccinated do not care about their children. at all. their kids are bourne of personal vanity, they are status symbols. they are conversation pieces, play objects People are gross. The world is filled with low IQ demons. We have quite a few on GLP as well. i'll take a low IQ demon over high IQ demon anyday Raus AnalSchwab |
Chip
Forum Administrator 09/19/2021 02:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: TXP You sound like the vaccinated arguing that all need to be vaccinated to be morally sound. Holy shit, Chip, the multi-point premise of your worldview that people who don't have children are 'less than', that people without children by choice are selfish and can never be selfless, that these individuals are incomplete people and are lacking in humanity is, well, complete, absurd narcissistic crap. And you are raising children with this mindset? Holy damn. . Listen "Soul Traveler" (you stupid little barren cunt). Life has meaning when you care for others more than yourself. I know that would be very difficult for you (you being the only one that really cares for you...lol). Best you grab your 12 inch purple headed dildo and wrap those dry ass crusty meat flaps around it...because that's all you'll ever have in this life. Enjoy!! Really? It’s how you speak to a woman? It's how a self-proclaimed "Godly person" passing his genes to and imposing his behavior on children speaks to a woman and people in general. And yet we wonder the reason the world is in the condition it is. . The weak people of the world (you) are highly jealous of the strong. Don't be jealous. Just take your horse dildo and find a satanic forum so you can pretend you win in the end. Last Edited by Chip on 09/19/2021 02:28 PM |
Chip
Forum Administrator 09/19/2021 02:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A few facts need to be revealed regarding "parenting". Quoting: Chip Some people can do it and some can't. Of course everybody can "be" a parent. But to "parent" (as a verb) is completely different. When a person desires a child and plans for that child's arrival, then gives birth to that child; More often than not that child means the world to that parent (or those parents). Good parenting is the result. On that note once these types of people become a parent suddenly their own desires and needs become secondary. The wellbeing of their offspring are all that matter thereafter. Parents that become parents by accident have a 50/50 wakeup call. Some flourish as parents and become that same type of Parent I mentioned above. The other 50% behave as the op stated. They end up hating a child or all of their children. But here is the wisdom in my point...if your hate your child in reality you hate yourself and see something in the child that reminds you of yourself. When a parent runs into a person that is childless by choice the conversation can seem pointless and mundane or petty to the parent. It's common. From the point of view of good mother or father people without children serve no purpose. Because according to a real parent people without children will never rise to the next level of humanity. Selflessness. I myself have conversations with childless people often....and all I can say is holy fucking shit are you motherfuckers lost in a daze of self involved idiocy on level 10. You're not a complete person and cannot empathize with parents. However the parent knows full well what it's like to be childless. or you hate your wife, and hate half your kid or quite often the wife hates her husband and hates half her kid but all these people who clearly know this vaccine has nothing to do with any real virus, and get their kids vaccinated do not care about their children. at all. their kids are bourne of personal vanity, they are status symbols. they are conversation pieces, play objects People are gross. The world is filled with low IQ demons. We have quite a few on GLP as well. i'll take a low IQ demon over high IQ demon anyday |
1r0n4n9el
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Breaker Breaker
User ID: 78839099 Germany 09/19/2021 02:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The lady that said you don't understand until you have kids is correct. I know for myself, I was a really self absorbed moron before I had a son. I have nieces and they are sweet kids, but I never wanted the hassle. Being the cool uncle was fine. When my kid got here it was like finding a room in a house that you never knew was there. Really weird. And the adjustment was overnight. Protective, worried about him, and unconditional love, which I am pretty sure does not exist between males and females. The thing is, being a self absorbed asshole is the norm for humans without kids. Because they can do whatever they want, when they want. It was fun, but empty. Raising a son has been really hard at times, but I can't describe how much more meaning I have in life now. And sometimes I do miss the feeling of no responsibilities, but the boy runs in and tells me about something cool he figured out, or a funny story, we drive around playing silly assed car games getting food. He is the best thing that ever happened to me and it isn't even close. Thank God for him everyday. Breaker Breaker |
GetTheShotUncleTom
User ID: 77026695 United States 09/19/2021 02:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what you must realize the process of giving life does not end after conception the love bond continues to give life after birth when a teenager's parents divorce the teen is nearly always very emotionally distraught. i bet if you did a study, of 1000 successful people you would find NONE of their parents are divorced. all these foreigners, who's kids are becoming doctors, engineers, they come from countries where divorce just isn't realy a thing. i've seen peope in their 40's become depressed and undergo personality changes because their parents divorced, it's quite common. the quality of their character immediately goes downhill. they stop caring Raus AnalSchwab |
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Eilonwy
User ID: 80613434 United States 09/19/2021 08:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Once, when I was on a catholic school bus there was a kid being an asshole. The priest got on board and yelled at him. He said to the priest, something like "Hey you can't yell at me...you are supposed to love us all!" The preist said: "I do have to love you, but I don't have to *like* you". Sometimes parenting can be that way. “A grower of turnips or shaper of clay, a commot Farmer or a king--every man is a hero if he strives more for others than for himself alone.” Lloyd Alexander, The Castle of Llyr |