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Pandas_UNITE
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nutmeg
User ID: 76388104 United States 11/14/2021 02:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This came up last night in chat, and I've been thinking about it ... Quoting: SugarSand as an older, hitched-up lady, I feel like I've had a ton of experience in this realm and could maybe offer free some advice to men about what women want, and their behavior and attitudes about it. Take it for what it's worth. Women are attracted to your BEST quality, whatever that is. Therefore, you will attract the type of woman who is looking for that quality, even subconsciously. So let's say you were a billionaire and that was your BEST quality. Let's say you have a so-so personality, aer kind of an asshole ... whatever ... you will attract woman who WANT billionaires. Gold diggers. Let's say the money goes away. Typically, the gold digger leaves. Now let's say you are a billionaire, but your BEST quality isn't your money, it's you personality. Your personality is a trillionaire personality. You will attract women who respect and admire you for that REGARDLESS of how much money you have or lose. If you are a billionaire with a trillion dollar personality, she won't leave when you go broke because she was attracted to your personality. The same thing with physicality. If your BEST quality is your height ... you will attract women who are looking for tall men. There are a lot of tall men. If you have a ton of compassion and you are a good listener, no taller man can steal your girl ... because she was attracted to your compassion, so the tall man would have to have a LOT more than you. See how that works? You get what you are asking for. You are attracting women with your best quality, so give that some thought when you are trying to attract women. What about the whores with daddy issues that just use a guy for as much as she can get out of him with throwing her pussy in his face, and then leave?? They don't go after Billionaires, they don't feel worthy...They go for the bad boys who only have drugs or a little cash now and then from dealing... I'm a woman with two daughters who have a lot of attractive female friends. They have jobs, are successful, make their own money, and have never depended on a man for money. They date or marry kind men with nice personalities. Some married couples have children, some have chosen not to have children. Not one of the women have the needs/personalities that you describe. Where are you finding these women? I honestly have never known anyone like that. I'm serious. Last Edited by nutmeg on 11/14/2021 02:10 PM |
I Must Break You
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Looney Tunes
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Naunet
User ID: 75919805 Canada 11/14/2021 02:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most of the time women don't know what they want... The BAD boy intrigues them so they go after him - once they have him they try and change his nature into something they think they want. When accomplished they're dissatisfied and move on. Quoting: Beuller When they find something they want and get him... if someone (they think) is better they move on. Women for the most part are insecure. Women for the most part are vain. Vanity + Insecurity = Bat Shit Crazy!!!! nuff said! I saw this on a twit post last week - unless a man is wearing a diaper - you cannot change him so don't even try all that does is create tension and confusion (°ö°) Swirl Life |
Raay
User ID: 5461667 United States 11/14/2021 02:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Young men aren't concerned with the money a woman has. They are attracted to her looks, her smile, her way of walking, talking, whether she is sweet or smart. Most of all whether she likes him or not. These threads are about how to get a woman's approval, how to please her, how to attract her.. but What does she bring to the relationship? What ante does she put on the table? Will she cook good food for you? Will she tend you when you're down sick? Would she support you if you broke your back in a car wreck? What is her true worth? Is she loyal? Can you trust her with your bank cards when you're out of town? Does she have a roving eye? Has she got a long string of ex-boyfriends in the rear view mirror? Does she get a lot of phone calls she leaves the room to take? You have to be careful out there boys. Loyalty is THE MOST IMPORTANT QUALITY of any woman. Pride in herself and a dignified pattern of behavior are important. Not being a drug user or alcoholic is important. There are many pitfalls to choosing a wife. Does she even want to be a real wife? Better find out before you take her on long term. Yes, I know there are good ones out there, a new class graduates from girlhood every year. There are also a lot of piranhas in the river. |
oniongrass
User ID: 80835184 United States 11/14/2021 02:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most of the time women don't know what they want... The BAD boy intrigues them so they go after him - once they have him they try and change his nature into something they think they want. When accomplished they're dissatisfied and move on. Quoting: Beuller When they find something they want and get him... if someone (they think) is better they move on. Women for the most part are insecure. Women for the most part are vain. Vanity + Insecurity = Bat Shit Crazy!!!! nuff said! This is often said. It isn't my experience, maybe because I was never that BAD so those women all went right past me. What I did find is the "seven year itch". Once you've had your children together and they're 2 or 3 years old, the woman wants to toss you out because you've served your purpose. She'll raise the children and you should go win a new woman if you want more kids. But in our society that doesn't work if you don't have a vast amount of money to support multiple families at once, or live in a subculture where guys come and go and the welfare workers can't find them, so the taxpayers pay to raise the kids. It helps a lot to understand what's happening there. Trying to appeal to her to win her back is worse than pointless (just as it was to win her in the first place). We got thru that period, fortunately. . DON'T VAX, PROPHYLAX! ____________ There is no anger in Me: If one offers Me thorns and thistles, I will march to battle against him, And set all of them on fire. But if he holds fast to My refuge, He makes Me his friend; He makes Me his friend. (Isaiah 27:4-5) |
SeriousTiming
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Plant Goddess
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Leonard Blush
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Chinaman
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80710591 United States 11/14/2021 02:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just want a guy who can take care of himself, fix things, is hard-working, and is honest and trustworthy (that is, if I were looking, which I'm not). I was put in the position of being chief caregiver to the kids, chief cleaner, chief cook, chief repair person, chief yard person, chief budgeter. The ex was chief go out and have fun person and chief spender on his garbage person. Granted, he made a decent salary, but he spent much of what he made, too, as well as a bunch of what I made. So basically, he had all the fun and I did all the work. Not going there again. LOL! |
Looney Tunes
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Raay
User ID: 5461667 United States 11/14/2021 02:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most of the time women don't know what they want... The BAD boy intrigues them so they go after him - once they have him they try and change his nature into something they think they want. When accomplished they're dissatisfied and move on. Quoting: Beuller When they find something they want and get him... if someone (they think) is better they move on. Women for the most part are insecure. Women for the most part are vain. Vanity + Insecurity = Bat Shit Crazy!!!! nuff said! This is often said. It isn't my experience, maybe because I was never that BAD so those women all went right past me. What I did find is the "seven year itch". Once you've had your children together and they're 2 or 3 years old, the woman wants to toss you out because you've served your purpose. She'll raise the children and you should go win a new woman if you want more kids. But in our society that doesn't work if you don't have a vast amount of money to support multiple families at once, or live in a subculture where guys come and go and the welfare workers can't find them, so the taxpayers pay to raise the kids. It helps a lot to understand what's happening there. Trying to appeal to her to win her back is worse than pointless (just as it was to win her in the first place). We got thru that period, fortunately. Yes, the old "starter husband" game. She loves you forever and ever, you have 1.8 children with her, buy some real estate, start a small business and when the kids are 5 to 10 years old- BOOM You're in an efficiency apartment and some bum is living in your house with her. That's modern women in this crazy, degraded society. |
ElleMira
User ID: 76494359 United States 11/14/2021 02:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most of the time women don't know what they want... The BAD boy intrigues them so they go after him - once they have him they try and change his nature into something they think they want. When accomplished they're dissatisfied and move on. Quoting: Beuller When they find something they want and get him... if someone (they think) is better they move on. Women for the most part are insecure. Women for the most part are vain. Vanity + Insecurity = Bat Shit Crazy!!!! nuff said! I saw this on a twit post last week - unless a man is wearing a diaper - you cannot change him so don't even try all that does is create tension and confusion https://imgur.com/DYvztMY |
T. Twister
User ID: 76320280 United States 11/14/2021 02:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This came up last night in chat, and I've been thinking about it ... Quoting: SugarSand as an older, hitched-up lady, I feel like I've had a ton of experience in this realm and could maybe offer free some advice to men about what women want, and their behavior and attitudes about it. Take it for what it's worth. Women are attracted to your BEST quality, whatever that is. Therefore, you will attract the type of woman who is looking for that quality, even subconsciously. So let's say you were a billionaire and that was your BEST quality. Let's say you have a so-so personality, aer kind of an asshole ... whatever ... you will attract woman who WANT billionaires. Gold diggers. Let's say the money goes away. Typically, the gold digger leaves. Now let's say you are a billionaire, but your BEST quality isn't your money, it's you personality. Your personality is a trillionaire personality. You will attract women who respect and admire you for that REGARDLESS of how much money you have or lose. If you are a billionaire with a trillion dollar personality, she won't leave when you go broke because she was attracted to your personality. The same thing with physicality. If your BEST quality is your height ... you will attract women who are looking for tall men. There are a lot of tall men. If you have a ton of compassion and you are a good listener, no taller man can steal your girl ... because she was attracted to your compassion, so the tall man would have to have a LOT more than you. See how that works? You get what you are asking for. You are attracting women with your best quality, so give that some thought when you are trying to attract women. Totally retarded. If you're advertising for a man who likes stupid, you're doing great. |
Dr-Know
User ID: 79547547 United States 11/14/2021 02:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women posting on GLP are statistical anomolies that are essentially statistical noise in the system. Quoting: GuitarGuy Are there intelligent women? Sure. 1 in a zillion. I'm tired of people using outliers to define the masses of anything. Billions of narcissistic vacuous THoTS are the norm; not a few Madame Curies, sadly enough. GG You are right about GLP women. Most men here are probably SIGMA males as well ( ex; Keanu Reeves). In the old days, a girl would have a few choices of a suitor to date and marry in her hometown. NOW ON TINDER, she has hundreds of thirsty Simps adoring her and she can have any one at the drop of a hat. She gets HOOKED ON HAVING MANY MEN DESIRE HER and will never be happy with just a Single guy. The thirsty simps tell her that she is beautiful ( even if she is not) and that skews her sense of reality NOW FOR THE FUN PART : CHECK OUT THIS VIDEO !!!!! It shows the lady dumps the CHAD FOR A CONSPIRACY THEORIST MUST WATCH. Dr Know |
oniongrass
User ID: 80835184 United States 11/14/2021 02:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most of the time women don't know what they want... The BAD boy intrigues them so they go after him - once they have him they try and change his nature into something they think they want. When accomplished they're dissatisfied and move on. Quoting: Beuller When they find something they want and get him... if someone (they think) is better they move on. Women for the most part are insecure. Women for the most part are vain. Vanity + Insecurity = Bat Shit Crazy!!!! nuff said! This is often said. It isn't my experience, maybe because I was never that BAD so those women all went right past me. What I did find is the "seven year itch". Once you've had your children together and they're 2 or 3 years old, the woman wants to toss you out because you've served your purpose. She'll raise the children and you should go win a new woman if you want more kids. But in our society that doesn't work if you don't have a vast amount of money to support multiple families at once, or live in a subculture where guys come and go and the welfare workers can't find them, so the taxpayers pay to raise the kids. It helps a lot to understand what's happening there. Trying to appeal to her to win her back is worse than pointless (just as it was to win her in the first place). We got thru that period, fortunately. Yes, the old "starter husband" game. She loves you forever and ever, you have 1.8 children with her, buy some real estate, start a small business and when the kids are 5 to 10 years old- BOOM You're in an efficiency apartment and some bum is living in your house with her. That's modern women in this crazy, degraded society. Not quite the same. The "starter husband" is there to strip assets from, then ditch, for the gold digger. What I am describing is different and the woman won't even be aware of it, because she's never been a mother yet. She won't expect her feelings to change. But they will, for reasons that are wired into her. When a woman becomes a mother, that trumps EVERYTHING. Including you. It doesn't happen because she's attracted to a new guy. Last Edited by oniongrass on 11/14/2021 02:37 PM . DON'T VAX, PROPHYLAX! ____________ There is no anger in Me: If one offers Me thorns and thistles, I will march to battle against him, And set all of them on fire. But if he holds fast to My refuge, He makes Me his friend; He makes Me his friend. (Isaiah 27:4-5) |
SharkHorse
User ID: 81107682 United States 11/14/2021 02:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This came up last night in chat, and I've been thinking about it ... Quoting: SugarSand as an older, hitched-up lady, I feel like I've had a ton of experience in this realm and could maybe offer free some advice to men about what women want, and their behavior and attitudes about it. Take it for what it's worth. Women are attracted to your BEST quality, whatever that is. Therefore, you will attract the type of woman who is looking for that quality, even subconsciously. So let's say you were a billionaire and that was your BEST quality. Let's say you have a so-so personality, aer kind of an asshole ... whatever ... you will attract woman who WANT billionaires. Gold diggers. Let's say the money goes away. Typically, the gold digger leaves. Now let's say you are a billionaire, but your BEST quality isn't your money, it's you personality. Your personality is a trillionaire personality. You will attract women who respect and admire you for that REGARDLESS of how much money you have or lose. If you are a billionaire with a trillion dollar personality, she won't leave when you go broke because she was attracted to your personality. The same thing with physicality. If your BEST quality is your height ... you will attract women who are looking for tall men. There are a lot of tall men. If you have a ton of compassion and you are a good listener, no taller man can steal your girl ... because she was attracted to your compassion, so the tall man would have to have a LOT more than you. See how that works? You get what you are asking for. You are attracting women with your best quality, so give that some thought when you are trying to attract women. Sorry, dont care anymore. Sorry to say i'm done too. Too many women have tried to trick me into babies. Or to guilt me into babies. Or to encourage me into babies. Or whatever they can think of to make babies to happen. I guess a metaphor I can use to describe this is... Imagine I am a butterfly (as lame as this metaphor is already sounding...) ... I will land in your open hands. The moment you try to close your hands I turn into wasp and will do whatever is necessary to get OUT. But i'll stay there as long as your hands don't close. I will remain a butterfly... as long as your hands don't close. You will lose me the moment you try to not lose me. You will have me as long as you don't worry about not having me. LOL, WOW, that was really soy! SharkHorse Unjabbed Do Not Comply, Hold the Line |
Clarence Worley
User ID: 44883436 United States 11/14/2021 02:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | From "The Best of Craigslist": Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive. Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to. They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways. A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself. A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself. As a man, I fall in love with how a woman is physically. I fall in love with simple parts of a woman. Like the way her hair falls around her face, the line of her neck, her shoulders. They way her ears might peek from her hair. Her eyelashes. The size and shape of her hands, her fingernails. The way she walks, the way she looks when she is tired or annoyed, the sound she makes when she sneezes, coughs, or cries. The way she sits in a chair. The way she breathes while experiencing different emotions. The way her lips move. A million little things. Sure, a huge part of my attraction is mental, but the powerful seed of love that builds within me and crystallizes is based greatly on visual things that set off torrents of emotion and need. It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves. Their estimates of worth are based on other peoples' estimates of worth. They don't really find an object beautiful on their own. The object becomes beautiful when other people let her know that it is beautiful. I'm completely unable to reconcile the differences between men and women. It seems like success with women is equal to spending half of your life working to create a giant illusion, something vastly tiring and annoying, while sacrificing your own true self and your own interests. We construct our lives around nest-building. We're like male birds building nests and showing them off to attract mates. It's pathetic. Everything we do is to get women. It is a fucking shit deal. Someone needs to invent a drug which has no hormonal imbalance side-effects but is able to erase a man's sex drive and attraction to women. It would increase productivity rates to incredible heights. I'd be free and happy. I'd feel complete. I'd be able to concentrate on my biochemistry studying. "THE conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country." -Edward Bernays |
nutmeg
User ID: 76388104 United States 11/14/2021 02:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women wants you to open your wallet. Men wants women to open their legs. End of story. Quoting: Chinaman My older daughter was a multi-millionaire when she met her husband. He's a successful businessman, but she had more money than he did when they met. I always told my two daughters to NEVER depend on a man for money and they never did. My younger daughter wasn't a millionaire when she married, but she and he had good jobs. She also had more money saved than he did when they met and married. He now laughs and said he never saved or budgeted money until he met her...that she knows how to do it. Last Edited by nutmeg on 11/14/2021 02:48 PM |
SharkHorse
User ID: 81107682 United States 11/14/2021 02:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband attracted me with his intelligence, skepticism, quick wit, stubbornness and by the amount of respect he gave me. He keeps me still with those same qualities plus he is always kind to me and never even raises his voice toward me. He is my very best friend. We are two peas in a pod. Quoting: Plant Goddess When I got together with my husband he was going through hard times. He became homeless and was living in a tent due to a nasty divorce. Together we have made a home and a life of peace, love and happiness...and are still going strong! Oh and BTW- I met him on a conspiracy forum! Is it Brief? LOL SharkHorse Unjabbed Do Not Comply, Hold the Line |
Doom Monkey
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oniongrass
User ID: 80835184 United States 11/14/2021 03:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quoting: I Must Break You I was talking with an old lady in an old folks home, and out of the blue she said "if I had it to do over again, I'ld be a wild one." Women in old folks homes get very horny. It's like 90% women there, and most of the guys there still have their wives with them guarding them. . DON'T VAX, PROPHYLAX! ____________ There is no anger in Me: If one offers Me thorns and thistles, I will march to battle against him, And set all of them on fire. But if he holds fast to My refuge, He makes Me his friend; He makes Me his friend. (Isaiah 27:4-5) |
Moses Clearwater
User ID: 80104280 Canada 11/14/2021 03:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women now a days are a shadow of what they used to be. The traditional roles of man and women have been so woefully destroyed and are part and parcel with society’s current decay and rot. Yeah that’s the truth whether you like it or not. As it has already been said in this thread, women today only care about themselves, their looks, money, clout, and frivolous shallow things. Especially the ages between 16-25. Loyalty is gone. Social media has made narcissist of females. Yes there is still a few leftovers from the older generations. Yes there is still good women out there. But they are the minority. Whether you like it or not. |
Moses Clearwater
User ID: 80104280 Canada 11/14/2021 03:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | From "The Best of Craigslist": Quoting: Clarence Worley Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive. Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to. They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways. A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself. A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself. As a man, I fall in love with how a woman is physically. I fall in love with simple parts of a woman. Like the way her hair falls around her face, the line of her neck, her shoulders. They way her ears might peek from her hair. Her eyelashes. The size and shape of her hands, her fingernails. The way she walks, the way she looks when she is tired or annoyed, the sound she makes when she sneezes, coughs, or cries. The way she sits in a chair. The way she breathes while experiencing different emotions. The way her lips move. A million little things. Sure, a huge part of my attraction is mental, but the powerful seed of love that builds within me and crystallizes is based greatly on visual things that set off torrents of emotion and need. It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves. Their estimates of worth are based on other peoples' estimates of worth. They don't really find an object beautiful on their own. The object becomes beautiful when other people let her know that it is beautiful. I'm completely unable to reconcile the differences between men and women. It seems like success with women is equal to spending half of your life working to create a giant illusion, something vastly tiring and annoying, while sacrificing your own true self and your own interests. We construct our lives around nest-building. We're like male birds building nests and showing them off to attract mates. It's pathetic. Everything we do is to get women. It is a fucking shit deal. Someone needs to invent a drug which has no hormonal imbalance side-effects but is able to erase a man's sex drive and attraction to women. It would increase productivity rates to incredible heights. I'd be free and happy. I'd feel complete. I'd be able to concentrate on my biochemistry studying. Truer words have never been spoken. Kudos to whoever the hell wrote this. |