What women want

This came up last night in chat, and I've been thinking about it ...

as an older, hitched-up lady, I feel like I've had a ton of experience in this realm and could maybe offer free some advice to men about what women want, and their behavior and attitudes about it.

Take it for what it's worth.

Women are attracted to your BEST quality, whatever that is.

Therefore, you will attract the type of woman who is looking for that quality, even subconsciously.

So let's say you were a billionaire and that was your BEST quality. Let's say you have a so-so personality, aer kind of an asshole ... whatever ... you will attract woman who WANT billionaires. Gold diggers.

Let's say the money goes away. Typically, the gold digger leaves.

Now let's say you are a billionaire, but your BEST quality isn't your money, it's you personality. Your personality is a trillionaire personality. You will attract women who respect and admire you for that REGARDLESS of how much money you have or lose. If you are a billionaire with a trillion dollar personality, she won't leave when you go broke because she was attracted to your personality.

The same thing with physicality. If your BEST quality is your height ... you will attract women who are looking for tall men. There are a lot of tall men.

If you have a ton of compassion and you are a good listener, no taller man can steal your girl ... because she was attracted to your compassion, so the tall man would have to have a LOT more than you.

See how that works?

You get what you are asking for. You are attracting women with your best quality, so give that some thought when you are trying to attract women.

This came up last night in chat, and I've been thinking about it ...

as an older, hitched-up lady, I feel like I've had a ton of experience in this realm and could maybe offer free some advice to men about what women want, and their behavior and attitudes about it.

Take it for what it's worth.

Women are attracted to your BEST quality, whatever that is.

Therefore, you will attract the type of woman who is looking for that quality, even subconsciously.

So let's say you were a billionaire and that was your BEST quality. Let's say you have a so-so personality, aer kind of an asshole ... whatever ... you will attract woman who WANT billionaires. Gold diggers.

Let's say the money goes away. Typically, the gold digger leaves.

Now let's say you are a billionaire, but your BEST quality isn't your money, it's you personality. Your personality is a trillionaire personality. You will attract women who respect and admire you for that REGARDLESS of how much money you have or lose. If you are a billionaire with a trillion dollar personality, she won't leave when you go broke because she was attracted to your personality.

The same thing with physicality. If your BEST quality is your height ... you will attract women who are looking for tall men. There are a lot of tall men.

If you have a ton of compassion and you are a good listener, no taller man can steal your girl ... because she was attracted to your compassion, so the tall man would have to have a LOT more than you.

See how that works?

You get what you are asking for. You are attracting women with your best quality, so give that some thought when you are trying to attract women.

Sorry, dont care anymore.

Why are women attracted to 'sinful men' is what I want

to know.

Being nice gets you nothing in this life.

But be a sinful man and female eyes start looking your way.

Seems to me, most women are superficial in nature.

They crave attention and money. They call that 'security'.

But the truth is it's greed plain and simple.

And I'm talking all kinds of women are this way,

young and old.

And I think society solidifies this nature by constantly

showing 'materialism' on cable/TV and social media.

IF, and that's a big IF you find someone that is not

that way, she would be very protective on who she trusted.

Therefore lies the problem. You can't prove your worth

in a 15 minute meeting.

$0.02

Married a long time here too, but will add to that.

I am/was when single, attracted to extremely high intelligence. The most rich, gorgeous man in the world, if not very intelligent, would get nothing but polite conversation from me.

I would prefer to be married to a brilliant nerd, than a Chad with average/above average intelligence - Chad would make my head hurt every time he opens his mundane mouth.

I got lucky. Have a tall husband with a gifted IQ, and is quite easy on the eyes.

I'm of the same mindset. If a man is not able to keep up in an intelligent conversation then he probably doesn't excell in any other ways that I'm attracted to.