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oniongrass
User ID: 80835184 United States 11/14/2021 05:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This came up last night in chat, and I've been thinking about it ... Quoting: SugarSand as an older, hitched-up lady, I feel like I've had a ton of experience in this realm and could maybe offer free some advice to men about what women want, and their behavior and attitudes about it. Take it for what it's worth. Women are attracted to your BEST quality, whatever that is. Therefore, you will attract the type of woman who is looking for that quality, even subconsciously. So let's say you were a billionaire and that was your BEST quality. Let's say you have a so-so personality, aer kind of an asshole ... whatever ... you will attract woman who WANT billionaires. Gold diggers. Let's say the money goes away. Typically, the gold digger leaves. Now let's say you are a billionaire, but your BEST quality isn't your money, it's you personality. Your personality is a trillionaire personality. You will attract women who respect and admire you for that REGARDLESS of how much money you have or lose. If you are a billionaire with a trillion dollar personality, she won't leave when you go broke because she was attracted to your personality. The same thing with physicality. If your BEST quality is your height ... you will attract women who are looking for tall men. There are a lot of tall men. If you have a ton of compassion and you are a good listener, no taller man can steal your girl ... because she was attracted to your compassion, so the tall man would have to have a LOT more than you. See how that works? You get what you are asking for. You are attracting women with your best quality, so give that some thought when you are trying to attract women. Not sure who you're talking to in this message. But the student has to come to the teacher. Until then they think nothing is wrong with them. Men think they are perfect and it's women who are fucked up... that will never change unless MEN want to change. Meanwhile, a dog provides better love and intelligence than a man... except for Lady Jane who wrangled a good one! Lady Jane, by her own account, is a 99th percentile woman who attracted a 99th percentile man. And if so, that's appropriate for both of them. But if every woman expects the same, there are going to be a lot of old maids with a lot of cats. A harsh reality for many women is that they will settle for an average guy, or no guy at all. And I wouldn't presume to give advice, but it seems a lot of them much later sort of wonder if it wouldn't have been nice to have a man around. The same is true of guys in reverse of course. But it doesn't seem that guys are so often over-picky in a way they later regret. . DON'T VAX, PROPHYLAX! ____________ There is no anger in Me: If one offers Me thorns and thistles, I will march to battle against him, And set all of them on fire. But if he holds fast to My refuge, He makes Me his friend; He makes Me his friend. (Isaiah 27:4-5) |
Mecca-Wrecka
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Deep State
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nutmeg
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Question EVERYTHING
Traveler In The Matrix User ID: 81099117 United States 11/14/2021 05:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In principle I agree with the OP though - there are women who are attracted to things other than body and money. Just not many, and I suspect our society is making that worse. It is possible to attract them by having the qualities they are looking for - which should be some combination of strength, confidence and competence. A lot of women don't realize that they also have to bring something to the table besides their body (also a combination of strength, confidence and competence) , and that their body needs to be granted exclusively, if they want a long term relationship. This video is perhaps one of the funniest things I've ever seen. First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win. ~ Mahatma Gandhi "Always, at every moment, there will be the thrill of victory, the sensation of trampling on an enemy who is helpless. If you want a picture of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face—forever." ~ George Orwell "The exact level of tyranny that you're going to live under, is the level of tyranny you put up with." ~Thomas Jefferson "All tyranny needs to gain a foothold is for people of good conscience to remain silent. ~ Thomas Jefferson |
Peach Head
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80365281 United States 11/14/2021 06:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Young men aren't concerned with the money a woman has. They are attracted to her looks, her smile, her way of walking, talking, whether she is sweet or smart. Most of all whether she likes him or not. Quoting: Raay These threads are about how to get a woman's approval, how to please her, how to attract her.. but What does she bring to the relationship? What ante does she put on the table? Will she cook good food for you? Will she tend you when you're down sick? Would she support you if you broke your back in a car wreck? What is her true worth? Is she loyal? Can you trust her with your bank cards when you're out of town? Does she have a roving eye? Has she got a long string of ex-boyfriends in the rear view mirror? Does she get a lot of phone calls she leaves the room to take? You have to be careful out there boys. Loyalty is THE MOST IMPORTANT QUALITY of any woman. Pride in herself and a dignified pattern of behavior are important. Not being a drug user or alcoholic is important. There are many pitfalls to choosing a wife. Does she even want to be a real wife? Better find out before you take her on long term. Yes, I know there are good ones out there, a new class graduates from girlhood every year. There are also a lot of piranhas in the river. "Will she cook good food for you?" Sure. Just lie on the couch with your remote, and as soon as she gets home from work, she'll be glad to get your dinner started. lol I have seen women divorce men over this. She works just as many hours as he does, makes as much, if not more. He expects to come home and park his butt. He expects her to get off work, pick up the kids, come home, cook dinner, clean up the dishes, help kids with homework, clean up kids, put them to bed -- all while he is taking it easy, then he gets pissed because she does not want sex. SMH You see, shitty behavior is had by both genders. Oh, you are so right! I advise any young people to live with whomever they intend to marry. Back when I was young, we didn't do that. So I married this "stranger" at the age of 24 because he was educated, funny, and said he adored/loved me. What I didn't realize is that his mom never worked, so she had dinner on the table when her husband came home from work, when the kids came home from school. Married one month, I came home from work...exhausted... as an RN. I took a bus from work (he had a car), and there he was, lying on the couch watching TV. I'll never forget that moment..... He said, "Hey Babe. What's for dinner?" That's when I thought...."Oops! I think I made a mistake." Too late. I already sent the thank you notes for the wedding gifts. I made it through 32 years of marriage....lol. Couldn't do more. Some men want to know what is for second breakfast the night before. :joeytrib: |
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zzcat
User ID: 24891113 United States 11/14/2021 06:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow Looking at the way some people talk about the opposite sex, I can see why they have bad experiences It should be called the compatible or matching sex, calling it the opposite sex almost makes it opposition I personally think Nice guys finish And last Same for women zzcat who says Schrodinger's cat is even in the box |
StayCurious
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zzcat
User ID: 24891113 United States 11/14/2021 06:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women are made up of individuals men are individuals to. Each individual wants something different. Observe, listen, think and use common sense. That’s how you attract someone. Quoting: SeriousTiming ^^^ someone with sense Grouping everyone together as if they are all the same is the first mistake zzcat who says Schrodinger's cat is even in the box |
Naunet
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SugarSand
(OP) User ID: 77504359 United States 11/14/2021 08:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow - I expected like three replies to be here when I left the house. Lots to read. When the shit hits the fan and the end is just nigh, will you cry out to Heaven? Will you lie down and die? Not me, my dear one - THIS IS MY SACRED LIFE - to no one nor no thing I'll surrender. For how does one know where when dead she will go, or if sweet Mother Earth he'll remember? - Sug |
SugarSand
(OP) User ID: 77504359 United States 11/14/2021 08:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This came up last night in chat, and I've been thinking about it ... Quoting: SugarSand as an older, hitched-up lady, I feel like I've had a ton of experience in this realm and could maybe offer free some advice to men about what women want, and their behavior and attitudes about it. Take it for what it's worth. Women are attracted to your BEST quality, whatever that is. Therefore, you will attract the type of woman who is looking for that quality, even subconsciously. So let's say you were a billionaire and that was your BEST quality. Let's say you have a so-so personality, aer kind of an asshole ... whatever ... you will attract woman who WANT billionaires. Gold diggers. Let's say the money goes away. Typically, the gold digger leaves. Now let's say you are a billionaire, but your BEST quality isn't your money, it's you personality. Your personality is a trillionaire personality. You will attract women who respect and admire you for that REGARDLESS of how much money you have or lose. If you are a billionaire with a trillion dollar personality, she won't leave when you go broke because she was attracted to your personality. The same thing with physicality. If your BEST quality is your height ... you will attract women who are looking for tall men. There are a lot of tall men. If you have a ton of compassion and you are a good listener, no taller man can steal your girl ... because she was attracted to your compassion, so the tall man would have to have a LOT more than you. See how that works? You get what you are asking for. You are attracting women with your best quality, so give that some thought when you are trying to attract women. What about the whores with daddy issues that just use a guy for as much as she can get out of him with throwing her pussy in his face, and then leave?? They don't go after Billionaires, they don't feel worthy...They go for the bad boys who only have drugs or a little cash now and then from dealing... We all know you are a great dad, and you are financially secure. Those are both great qualities. I think my theory holds true here. When you stop being Daddy Warbucks to them ... Maybe if women got to see your REALLY BEST Qualities (your intelligence and sense of humor) before you started daddying and impressing them with your financial stability, you'd attract a woman who appreciates your intelligence and sense of humor more than anything you can DO FOR her. So then when you take away the car keys and credit cards because she's been naughty .. she'll thank you for it and you will both have a good laugh. OR by the time you pull out the credit card, you've already attracted a woman who loves your BEST stuff, and she'll say "no honey, it's my treat." Last Edited by SugarSand on 11/14/2021 08:53 PM When the shit hits the fan and the end is just nigh, will you cry out to Heaven? Will you lie down and die? Not me, my dear one - THIS IS MY SACRED LIFE - to no one nor no thing I'll surrender. For how does one know where when dead she will go, or if sweet Mother Earth he'll remember? - Sug |
SugarSand
(OP) User ID: 77504359 United States 11/14/2021 09:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was just trying to put some thoughts down about something I've been thinking about, from the outside, observing, with no skin in the game. Screw your red karma, jerks. No wonder you are angry about the people you attract. Look at your attitudes! When the shit hits the fan and the end is just nigh, will you cry out to Heaven? Will you lie down and die? Not me, my dear one - THIS IS MY SACRED LIFE - to no one nor no thing I'll surrender. For how does one know where when dead she will go, or if sweet Mother Earth he'll remember? - Sug |
JaneWithADoe
User ID: 80740570 United States 11/14/2021 09:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have no clue why I clicked on this link since I couldn't care less...but studying the insanity of humans is useful I suppose. I find that most I'd say about 80-90% of couples look alike in a lot of ways. It's like peoples dogs and my dad used to say their vehicles too. People are attracted to themselves. Last Edited by JaneWithADoe on 11/14/2021 09:19 PM Jane with a doe. |
Sisyphusrock
User ID: 81062353 United States 11/15/2021 10:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women posting on GLP are statistical anomolies that are essentially statistical noise in the system. Quoting: GuitarGuy Are there intelligent women? Sure. 1 in a zillion. I'm tired of people using outliers to define the masses of anything. Billions of narcissistic vacuous THoTS are the norm; not a few Madame Curies, sadly enough. GG ^^ What he said . “I am at the moment writing a lengthy indictment against our century. When my brain begins to reel from my literary labors, I make an occasional cheese dip.” |
Sisyphusrock
User ID: 81062353 United States 11/15/2021 10:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | dont spend my time thinking about what people in general want beyond common curtesy , unless I am trying to do something special for aspecific person . If there was a woman self aware enough to know the difference between want and need , and there was a mutual attraction , subjectively I may become interested in what SHE wants , because I can generally give a woman what she needs... otherwise I have better uses of my time and calories to even waste more thought than it took to compose this Last Edited by Sisyphusrock on 11/15/2021 10:31 AM “I am at the moment writing a lengthy indictment against our century. When my brain begins to reel from my literary labors, I make an occasional cheese dip.” |
Red John
User ID: 40480540 Canada 11/15/2021 10:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | and there it is :pixie: General Failure Reading Drive A: Who is General Failure? There can be Only One Team Swirl Swirl Nation instead of red, post in the thread, then I can respond. [link to qz.com (secure)] |
Raay
User ID: 5461667 United States 11/15/2021 03:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have no idea the origin, credit goes to its creator, whoever that is. There was a "Husband Shopping Center" where a woman could go to choose a husband from among many men. It was laid out in five floors, with the men increasing in positive attributes with each ascending floor. The only rule was, once a woman moved up a floor, she could not go down to the previous floor, except to leave the place. So a couple of girlfriends go to the place to find men. At the first floor door, they see a sign that says, "These men have jobs and love kids." The women read the sign and say, "Well, that's pretty good, but I wonder what's further up?" So up they go... The second floor has a sign that says, "These men have high paying jobs,love kids, and are extremely good looking." "Hmmm... very nice," the women say, but decide to keep going up. The third floor has a sign that says, "These men have high paying jobs,love kids, are extremely good looking, and help with the housework." WOW!" say the women "Very tempting, but there's more further up." And up they go. The fourth floor has a sign that says, "These men have high paying jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak." "Oh mercy me! What must be waiting further up?" So up to the fifth floor they go. The sign at the fifth floor says, "This floor is just to prove that women are impossible to please. Please exit the building." |
XJDUB
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IJustLurk
User ID: 79041514 United States 11/15/2021 06:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's funny to see all the men on here complaining about women when they created this. Women not being seen as equals, women expected to stay home and cook, clean, raise kids, take care of literally everything because men think it's acceptable to just work and play. Let me remind you, men created the whole consumer chain out of greed. Your cries about women being solely driven by money, yeah men created that. Almost all the big companies pushing women to fit a certain bill are run by you guessed it, men. While I agree it's unfortunate that most women can't identify this, many are starting to see. That's why we have the current wave of women not adhering to traditional practices. Not only do most still do all of the above, they also now work just as much as men to pick up the slack. Some women just enjoy work and play like men traditionally did. So maybe don't hate the monster you created. As far as being cheated on, it happens to everyone. There's animosity between both genders by design created to divide. However pointing out the patriarchal mistakes really hurts egos. I have no doubt I'll be labeled a feminist again. I showed my husband the post and he thinks most of the men here are soft and need to find a woman in their price range if you're having problems. Also note some of the advice above, if you flash your wealth to get a woman then that sets the tone for the rest of the relationship. First impressions are a major factor. I can't say what women want definitively because everyone wants something different out of life. There's no one size fits all, but you find one that fits you well. |
Red John
User ID: 40758907 Canada 11/15/2021 06:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's funny to see all the men on here Quoting: IJustLurk complaining about women when they created this. Women not being seen as equals, women expected to stay home and cook, clean, raise kids, take care of literally everything because men think it's acceptable to just work and play. Let me remind you, men created the whole consumer chain out of greed. Your cries about women being solely driven by money, yeah men created that. Almost all the big companies pushing women to fit a certain bill are run by you guessed it, men. While I agree it's unfortunate that most women can't identify this, many are starting to see. That's why we have the current wave of women not adhering to traditional practices. Not only do most still do all of the above, they also now work just as much as men to pick up the slack. Some women just enjoy work and play like men traditionally did. So maybe don't hate the monster you created. As far as being cheated on, it happens to everyone. There's animosity between both genders by design created to divide. However pointing out the patriarchal mistakes really hurts egos. I have no doubt I'll be labeled a feminist again. I showed my husband the post and he thinks most of the men here are soft and need to find a woman in their price range if you're having problems. Also note some of the advice above, if you flash your wealth to get a woman then that sets the tone for the rest of the relationship. First impressions are a major factor. I can't say what women want definitively because everyone wants something different out of life. There's no one size fits all, but you find one that fits you well. useless worthless man hating feminazi rhetoric the feminazis and perverts created this the traditional roles are the way society works best one man with one woman for life not fuck as many different dudes / chicks as possible until it's too late :pixie: General Failure Reading Drive A: Who is General Failure? There can be Only One Team Swirl Swirl Nation instead of red, post in the thread, then I can respond. [link to qz.com (secure)] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14921983 United Kingdom 11/15/2021 10:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This thread reminded me of this doc I saved years ago. Quoting: Raay I have no idea the origin, credit goes to its creator, whoever that is. There was a "Husband Shopping Center" where a woman could go to choose a husband from among many men. It was laid out in five floors, with the men increasing in positive attributes with each ascending floor. The only rule was, once a woman moved up a floor, she could not go down to the previous floor, except to leave the place. So a couple of girlfriends go to the place to find men. At the first floor door, they see a sign that says, "These men have jobs and love kids." The women read the sign and say, "Well, that's pretty good, but I wonder what's further up?" So up they go... The second floor has a sign that says, "These men have high paying jobs,love kids, and are extremely good looking." "Hmmm... very nice," the women say, but decide to keep going up. The third floor has a sign that says, "These men have high paying jobs,love kids, are extremely good looking, and help with the housework." WOW!" say the women "Very tempting, but there's more further up." And up they go. The fourth floor has a sign that says, "These men have high paying jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak." "Oh mercy me! What must be waiting further up?" So up to the fifth floor they go. The sign at the fifth floor says, "This floor is just to prove that women are impossible to please. Please exit the building." Lol |
SharkHorse
User ID: 81107682 United States 11/16/2021 12:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's funny to see all the men on here Quoting: IJustLurk complaining about women when they created this. Women not being seen as equals, women expected to stay home and cook, clean, raise kids, take care of literally everything because men think it's acceptable to just work and play. Let me remind you, men created the whole consumer chain out of greed. Your cries about women being solely driven by money, yeah men created that. Almost all the big companies pushing women to fit a certain bill are run by you guessed it, men. While I agree it's unfortunate that most women can't identify this, many are starting to see. That's why we have the current wave of women not adhering to traditional practices. Not only do most still do all of the above, they also now work just as much as men to pick up the slack. Some women just enjoy work and play like men traditionally did. So maybe don't hate the monster you created. As far as being cheated on, it happens to everyone. There's animosity between both genders by design created to divide. However pointing out the patriarchal mistakes really hurts egos. I have no doubt I'll be labeled a feminist again. I showed my husband the post and he thinks most of the men here are soft and need to find a woman in their price range if you're having problems. Also note some of the advice above, if you flash your wealth to get a woman then that sets the tone for the rest of the relationship. First impressions are a major factor. I can't say what women want definitively because everyone wants something different out of life. There's no one size fits all, but you find one that fits you well. I couldn't read it in that format SharkHorse Unjabbed Do Not Comply, Hold the Line |
Market Street
User ID: 80225138 Netherlands 11/16/2021 01:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A plane is flying over the pacific ocean and the pilot gets on the intercom and says, "ladies and gentlemen, we have a critical issue with the plane and we are about to crash. you have about ten minutes to live. please get right with god." A lady stands up and rips her shirt off. She says, "if we only have ten minutes to live, what man here is going to make me feel like a real woman?" A man stands up and rips his shirt off. He says, "Here. Iron this." Last Edited by Market Street on 11/16/2021 01:29 AM |
LittleMe
I don’t want flowers when I die… User ID: 80521131 United States 11/16/2021 07:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think I’m late … |