Was this guy trying to hit on me?

I really don't have anything to lose, but I just don't feel like dating or being in a relationship right now.

Last Edited by Santa's Kitty on 12/13/2015 03:57 AM

That would be what I'd say was happening. "The shotgun approach", as it's known.

You said that you don't have and aren't looking for a boyfriend. This guy was plainly hitting on you, but it doesn't sound to me like he was asking you to be his girlfriend. He may have sincerely wanted to find someone who'd salsa dance with him, nothing more than that. There's always the possibility that you might discover that there's a "connection", and who knows where things might lead from there. Then there's the more likely possibility that he wasn't attracted to you in the least, but he's a faithful subscriber to the shotgun approach. One out of 50 isn't a good batting average, but waiting for Shania Twain to come flirt with me has thus far returned 0.000 for me. Sigh.

You said that you weren't all gussied up. You're surely not THAT hideous in a non-gussied state, are you? Some boys find the painted-up look less appealing than the girl-next-door look, you know. And there's nothing at all wrong with yoga pants, if they're worn well. If Brooke Shields approached me in her nicest Calvins, I'd try to be polite in my rejection of her; if Miss Twain happened along wearing a gunny sack, I'd swallow any pride that I pretend to have and I'd make your Mr. I-Don't-Take-No-For-An-Answer look like Sheldon Cooper.

so, you have nothing to lose, and all the world to gain...Seems to me like a relationship would do you some good. Talking to a real person instead of us doorknobs on some website...

I said I don't feel like DATING or having a boyfriend, the post is right above you retard.

Last Edited by Santa's Kitty on 12/13/2015 04:00 AM

I do talk to real people all day long, but they're boring.

I prefer you doorknobs because I can't talk to any real people about my conspiracy theories or that I support Trump.

LOL, "The taming of the Shrew" or how about "10 things I hate about you"!

definitely light makeup, eyeliner or whatever it's called.

if you take care of your skin, you really don't need much.

I think you're right overall about the Shotgun approach.

However, there were two young, pretty woman in their 20s he was helping right before me as I was waiting in line and he didn't ask them to go dancing!

And he was persistent...maybe he thought he could wear me down!

Last Edited by Santa's Kitty on 12/13/2015 04:09 AM

Own up to it lass!

You're 40 years old and don't know when a man is hitting on you. You don't want to date or have a bf, but yet, you make this thread begging to know if anyone here, who wasn't there, can tell you if this man was hitting on you because omg! You went out in public without makeup!...and I'M the nutcase?

Yours was posted at 3:51 AM, mine at 3:58 AM. Since I invested well over seven minutes composing my retarded commentary, I had no way of knowing what you'd written in the interim.

I apologize, and you can rest assured that it won't happen again.

My liberal relatives would all disown me!

Yep that's pretty much the case.

Oops. Did you forget that you told us you two were the only ones in the store, and that's why you had no choice but to talk to him?

Was he a freaking store clerk? Because otherwise, wth wouldn't you think it odd that some guy is randomly going up to women to 'help' them with their shopping?

As I said.

Your entire little thread is

Lol...the response below was meant for you. You wrote so much and I don't want you to feel like it was all in vain.

I think you're right overall about the Shotgun approach.

However, there were two young, pretty woman in their 20s he was helping right before me as I was waiting in line and he didn't ask them to go dancing!

And he was persistent...maybe he thought he could wear me down!

No bitch, when I first walked in there were at least a few people ahead of me...I got in line but by the time it was my turn to be helped everyone else had already left the store and no new people walked in, so it was just me and him.

You're acting psycho!

Last Edited by Santa's Kitty on 12/13/2015 04:18 AM

Say yes! Sometimes you must say yes! Yes to all things good and holy. :)

Nasty....

He wouldn't like you now at all, I'm thinking....

He was kind, you were kind. Unless you feel like going to dance salsa with him what is there to regret?

He wouldn't even look twice at that wet dog anonymous girl.

Everyone with half a brain can see she's been attacking me from the start throughout this thread. She's the one with the nasty attitude! I have a right to defend myself from all these paid bitches here who are jealous or something. They are so sad and pathetic!

Last Edited by Santa's Kitty on 12/13/2015 04:35 AM

You're a hypocrite. You called me the 'biggest attention whore' on GLP so the one who started the 'attack' was you. Just pointing out your hypocrisy without having to stoop to your level. :)

You're a shallow fucking idiot that shouldn't waste a guys time. Just die alone With no kids please thanks I'm drunk bye. I'm honest though. Crack whore.

Fucking makeup? It's called a black eye bitch.

That was AFTER you called me names! I have never started a problem with anyone here who hasn't gone after me FIRST!

Besides, if the shoe fits...

Last Edited by Santa's Kitty on 12/13/2015 04:39 AM

Yeah right. I don't call people names.

Now now ladies chill the fuck out.. being the gentlemen here I will sort this out anon girl apologize for your rude behavior you are being nasty and you have been a nasty bitch from the start and its not nice or called for.. the op is totally in the right and you should appologize to her and explain to her why your so jealous of her for.. if not its gonna be down to a hottub wrestling match.. of course I will be in the tub also as referree.. your choice bitches!!

WUT?

Why do you ask perfect strangers what someone felt, thought????

If you wondered what his motives were you should have asked him...how do we know???? We weren't there.

You have gone on and on about this and it seems strange to me as it did to Anonymous Girl....I agree with her...and I don't think she's mean or being a wet dog...or whatever you called her...It's way past bedtime but if you are for real...you must have wanted to speak to him and you should have and then you would know what his intentions were...right then and right there....next time stay the course...you're single right? Anyway...take care...

And threesome's

You are one of the biggest cunts here, stop lying to try to make yourself look better and just get the fuck off my thread!

Thank you...the truth is all right here in this thread, she can't pretend she's all holier than thou now.