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Outcast in your own family? Your advice/experience is welcome

 
Anonymous Coward
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09/05/2013 02:58 PM
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Re: Outcast in your own family? Your advice/experience is welcome
It's heartbreaking when your own family goes against you. And there's nothing you can do to convince them, either.

At the very least, you have your parents support.

I went through a very rough patch with my brothers following my last breakup. I had to move in with them because I had no place to go. It was one of my parents houses so they were in no place to complain about my infringing on their territory. I was in a dark place and actually needed help and support... but all they would do is bitch about me and basically tell me that I failed at life. They told me my cats couldn't live with us and then turned around and let one of their friends keep her cat there.
They were only living there at the time because one was fresh out of school and looking for work, the other was simply too cheap to pay for his own place, even though he could afford it. I didn't judge either of them. My parents supported me, my mom however was in denial about my brothers treatment of me, "they're just worried about you" she would say, but it went beyond that, they were simply bullying me.
I would cry at night wondering why they hated me so much.

After a while though, I learned that it wasn't me after all My oldest brother was unhappy at not being able to find a job and having no money; he now has one and has since purchased a house, got engaged, got a dog. My second brother, he was unhappy with being alone - he's since found a girlfriend (together a year or two now?) and he's happier than ever. Things eventually went back to normal.

All I can say is don't take it personally and don't interact with them if you can help it. They most likely have their own issues and are envious of you for one reason or another.

Good luck OP

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Why should anyone care what you have to say you stoned man-hating cunt. Get off the drugs, and stop being such an ego maniac, and maybe people will treat you better.
numewenon  (OP)

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09/05/2013 03:26 PM
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Why should anyone care what you have to say you stoned man-hating cunt. Get off the drugs, and stop being such an ego maniac, and maybe people will treat you better.
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Wow wtf pure trolling?





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