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SafeandSound
(OP) User ID: 78729715 United States 10/15/2021 03:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | An unfortunate truth that most men don't want to break is that men will say and do just about anything to appease a woman. Especially one they're actually interested in. If you've had those experiences then you've been married for long enough to have many more recent ones. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79316124 Are you sure you're not looking for a reason to bitch because he doesn't give you as much attention as you feel you deserve? I feel like he’s mean to me. I always want date nights with him because I never had a love before him. All he wants is sex on the couch once every 2 months. While his first love got all day phone calls and sex everyday. I want to punish him for making me feel unwanted. Punish him like a child? Maybe there's a little more to what you're saying. Have you spoke with his mom? Mrs. Bates could probably talk to him for you. Fuck You and you know why. I got a leather strap, a functioning pair of scissors and a reason. Come at me, literally anyone. But ya won't, because you have. Jeffrey, God says you owe me. Care to find out why Michigan is inferior? |
Mithradates
User ID: 2701704 United States 10/15/2021 03:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, have you tried shaving down your excessive body hair or dividing your unibrow in half yet? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75459435 It doesn’t matter because your first love you don’t care if she’s a hideous beast. But the rest could be goddesses but they’re not your first love. Not necessarily true, first true love or not you have to keep your life and body in check. That's a sign of love and respect for your spouse. |
SafeandSound
(OP) User ID: 78729715 United States 10/15/2021 03:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Punishment never leads to love. Quoting: Newandimproved You need to leave your husband. He doesn't love you now. Maybe he never did. You can't punitatively force someone to feel something they don't. That's crazy. Focus on what you want to create. I think this is the truth. If I don’t leave then I need to settle that this is what’s the plan for my life. God never wanted me to be happy. |
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SafeandSound
(OP) User ID: 78729715 United States 10/15/2021 03:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, have you tried shaving down your excessive body hair or dividing your unibrow in half yet? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75459435 It doesn’t matter because your first love you don’t care if she’s a hideous beast. But the rest could be goddesses but they’re not your first love. Not necessarily true, first true love or not you have to keep your life and body in check. That's a sign of love and respect for your spouse. We would be an attractive couple if he didn’t have a food addiction. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71383148 United States 10/15/2021 03:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I heard you remember everything about your first love. Quoting: SafeandSound He remembers nothing about us. He doesn’t remember saying he’s too poor for a ring but giving me a piece of jewelry in place of it for someday. He doesn’t remember saying he wants a baby with me. He doesn’t remember us discussing how many kids we want. So should I consider this proof I’m not his first love? No-i dont feel he`s ever been in love-per se-[im a relationship psychic]...these occasions just weren`t important enough to be Memorable to him---& he never gave you the Ring he promised Futurely-now did he???:{:{:{ |
SafeandSound
(OP) User ID: 78729715 United States 10/15/2021 03:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I heard you remember everything about your first love. Quoting: SafeandSound He remembers nothing about us. He doesn’t remember saying he’s too poor for a ring but giving me a piece of jewelry in place of it for someday. He doesn’t remember saying he wants a baby with me. He doesn’t remember us discussing how many kids we want. So should I consider this proof I’m not his first love? No-i dont feel he`s ever been in love-per se-[im a relationship psychic]...these occasions just weren`t important enough to be Memorable to him---& he never gave you the Ring he promised Futurely-now did he???:{:{:{ Oooh that hit home. And no he didn’t. He’s still poor. Our circumstances never improved. |
SafeandSound
(OP) User ID: 78729715 United States 10/15/2021 03:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I heard you remember everything about your first love. Quoting: SafeandSound He remembers nothing about us. He doesn’t remember saying he’s too poor for a ring but giving me a piece of jewelry in place of it for someday. He doesn’t remember saying he wants a baby with me. He doesn’t remember us discussing how many kids we want. So should I consider this proof I’m not his first love? No-i dont feel he`s ever been in love-per se-[im a relationship psychic]...these occasions just weren`t important enough to be Memorable to him---& he never gave you the Ring he promised Futurely-now did he???:{:{:{ He always says “I don’t think I’ve been been in love, you’re all trash.” Relationship psychic, what will make him be in love? Is he broken from childhood and can’t experience it? He’s too insecure? Should I give up? |
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AlphaWolf
User ID: 80247695 Canada 10/15/2021 04:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I heard you remember everything about your first love. Quoting: SafeandSound He remembers nothing about us. He doesn’t remember saying he’s too poor for a ring but giving me a piece of jewelry in place of it for someday. He doesn’t remember saying he wants a baby with me. He doesn’t remember us discussing how many kids we want. So should I consider this proof I’m not his first love? Depends op. His age? Is his memory spotty or failing on other things? My dad is only 69 and is showing serious early onset dementia. My ex, who is only 36, had a terrible memory as well. She couldn't remember movies we watched, places we went, things we did etc.. Yet she held down a 100k/year high level management position and actually excelled at it. Last Edited by AlphaWolf on 10/15/2021 04:10 PM |
SafeandSound
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SafeandSound
(OP) User ID: 78729715 United States 10/15/2021 04:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I heard you remember everything about your first love. Quoting: SafeandSound He remembers nothing about us. He doesn’t remember saying he’s too poor for a ring but giving me a piece of jewelry in place of it for someday. He doesn’t remember saying he wants a baby with me. He doesn’t remember us discussing how many kids we want. So should I consider this proof I’m not his first love? Depends op. His age? Is his memory spotty or failing on other things? My dad is only 69 and is showing serious early onset dementia. My ex, who is only 36, had a terrible memory as well. She couldn't remember movies we watched, places we went, things we did etc.. Yet she held down a 100k/year high level management position and actually excelled at it. So I could be his first love and he doesn’t even remember why he’s with me because of his amnesia/dementia from his drug usage. That’s comforting to me. |
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SafeandSound
(OP) User ID: 78729715 United States 10/15/2021 04:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You can never compete with a fantasy. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80378042 just leave and call from a payphone and say i'm gone to tijuana to do donkey shows. then go to tijuana and look for loco tell him nacho sent you. mail him a picture of you 'being intimate' with donkey a week later. That’s some advice. I don’t know if I can travel without the vaccines I think he wants a fantasy woman. He often talks about his mom being a perfect woman and he imagines her as a virgin who had immaculate conceptions. |
SafeandSound
(OP) User ID: 78729715 United States 10/15/2021 04:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You guys made me feel better once again. I’d rather us all be on the same level, than some girl before me being higher up. I think the relationship psychic is right that he never been in love with anyone, and the others are right that he may have loved me most but can’t remember things. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71383148 United States 10/15/2021 04:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I heard you remember everything about your first love. Quoting: SafeandSound He remembers nothing about us. He doesn’t remember saying he’s too poor for a ring but giving me a piece of jewelry in place of it for someday. He doesn’t remember saying he wants a baby with me. He doesn’t remember us discussing how many kids we want. So should I consider this proof I’m not his first love? No-i dont feel he`s ever been in love-per se-[im a relationship psychic]...these occasions just weren`t important enough to be Memorable to him---& he never gave you the Ring he promised Futurely-now did he???:{:{:{ Oooh that hit home. And no he didn’t. He’s still poor. Our circumstances never improved. Yes,i know! i`ve been a prof relationship psychic for over 30 yrs-----im feeling he only married bc he felt immense pressure to commit from you & twas the `societal norm`for his age at that time-----& to be honest---im not feeling you were`head over heels`for him as you claim-you were merely enamored with his attention toward you...Lying to yourself that he Cared Deeply whilst denying his Obvious Behavior that Indicated Otherwise.... `the Absence of the Promised Ring IS about `being poor`----but not from lack of money--its instead an Impoverished State of Heart--Priorities topsy turvy--Need before Love --the most Beautiful & Expensive Engagement Rings-ive personally ever seen--were given by young men[deeply in love]who were working for min wage--the Nicest one i ever saw was given by a soldier who was only a private in the us army.... ~ ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!!~ |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79429843 United States 10/15/2021 04:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You guys made me feel better once again. I’d rather us all be on the same level, than some girl before me being higher up. I think the relationship psychic is right that he never been in love with anyone, and the others are right that he may have loved me most but can’t remember things. Quoting: SafeandSound stay away from psychics, they work the occult and darkness they will invite the devil into your marriage flee trust in God and love your husband |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71383148 United States 10/15/2021 04:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You guys made me feel better once again. I’d rather us all be on the same level, than some girl before me being higher up. I think the relationship psychic is right that he never been in love with anyone, and the others are right that he may have loved me most but can’t remember things. Quoting: SafeandSound stay away from psychics, they work the occult and darkness they will invite the devil into your marriage flee trust in God and love your husband WRONG!!! I work with ANGELS & the GOD FORCE !!! The word Psychic literally means: `Of the Soul`!!! If a person is Operating at Soul Level--they just Naturally Possess the Ability to tap into Anyone`s Mind & Heart....just as Jesus aptly stated that a person in Unity with God can perform amazing acts..... |
SafeandSound
(OP) User ID: 78729715 United States 10/15/2021 04:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I heard you remember everything about your first love. Quoting: SafeandSound He remembers nothing about us. He doesn’t remember saying he’s too poor for a ring but giving me a piece of jewelry in place of it for someday. He doesn’t remember saying he wants a baby with me. He doesn’t remember us discussing how many kids we want. So should I consider this proof I’m not his first love? No-i dont feel he`s ever been in love-per se-[im a relationship psychic]...these occasions just weren`t important enough to be Memorable to him---& he never gave you the Ring he promised Futurely-now did he???:{:{:{ Oooh that hit home. And no he didn’t. He’s still poor. Our circumstances never improved. Yes,i know! i`ve been a prof relationship psychic for over 30 yrs-----im feeling he only married bc he felt immense pressure to commit from you & twas the `societal norm`for his age at that time-----& to be honest---im not feeling you were`head over heels`for him as you claim-you were merely enamored with his attention toward you...Lying to yourself that he Cared Deeply whilst denying his Obvious Behavior that Indicated Otherwise.... `the Absence of the Promised Ring IS about `being poor`----but not from lack of money--its instead an Impoverished State of Heart--Priorities topsy turvy--Need before Love --the most Beautiful & Expensive Engagement Rings-ive personally ever seen--were given by young men[deeply in love]who were working for min wage--the Nicest one i ever saw was given by a soldier who was only a private in the us army.... ~ ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!!~ Well damn. I’ve considered all these things and told him he just settled with me because all his friends settled at the same age. I should just leave. |
SafeandSound
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SafeandSound
(OP) User ID: 78729715 United States 10/15/2021 04:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You guys made me feel better once again. I’d rather us all be on the same level, than some girl before me being higher up. I think the relationship psychic is right that he never been in love with anyone, and the others are right that he may have loved me most but can’t remember things. Quoting: SafeandSound stay away from psychics, they work the occult and darkness they will invite the devil into your marriage flee trust in God and love your husband WRONG!!! I work with ANGELS & the GOD FORCE !!! The word Psychic literally means: `Of the Soul`!!! If a person is Operating at Soul Level--they just Naturally Possess the Ability to tap into Anyone`s Mind & Heart....just as Jesus aptly stated that a person in Unity with God can perform amazing acts..... What’s your site or name so I can get more info? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 81008397 United States 10/15/2021 04:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I heard you remember everything about your first love. Quoting: SafeandSound He remembers nothing about us. He doesn’t remember saying he’s too poor for a ring but giving me a piece of jewelry in place of it for someday. He doesn’t remember saying he wants a baby with me. He doesn’t remember us discussing how many kids we want. So should I consider this proof I’m not his first love? Did he get the covid vaccine by any chance? The vaccine is really messing people up, so this may be the reason for the issue. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80868443 United States 10/15/2021 06:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I heard you remember everything about your first love. Quoting: SafeandSound He remembers nothing about us. He doesn’t remember saying he’s too poor for a ring but giving me a piece of jewelry in place of it for someday. He doesn’t remember saying he wants a baby with me. He doesn’t remember us discussing how many kids we want. So should I consider this proof I’m not his first love? Who do you think you are, Tina Turner? |
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