Husband doesn’t remember anything about us

Is that you Dr. Jill?

well done my good Sir well done

Lol!

My husband was on drugs back then. Maybe I should write it off as that and consider myself his first love.

Is there a dr jack?

But he remembers everything bad but nothing good. That means I’m probably far down the list of loves.

An unfortunate truth that most men don't want to break is that men will say and do just about anything to appease a woman. Especially one they're actually interested in. If you've had those experiences then you've been married for long enough to have many more recent ones.

Are you sure you're not looking for a reason to bitch because he doesn't give you as much attention as you feel you deserve?

I want to burn your rolodex.

Personally.

What’s the best way to punish a man for having loves before you, because he didn’t make you feel as special as he made them feel?

Fuck off.

He does remember, he ain't just sayin it.

You are a fool, you still don't know him.

Then leave him

You're a nutjob. You're always whining about your husbands high school girlfriend and his 'first love' but yet he married you, proving to you that he wants to be with you. He wouldn't be there if he didn't want to be. I bet you drive him nuts, not in a good way

wrong question.
what's the best way to love your husband
forgive and be present

I feel like he’s mean to me.
I always want date nights with him because I never had a love before him.

All he wants is sex on the couch once every 2 months. While his first love got all day phone calls and sex everyday. I want to punish him for making me feel unwanted.

Observation =/= Power

Black Holes ain't holes.

You’re wrong though. He’s very abusive from the start, like my dad was. I should leave but I can’t.

That’s it.

I’m declaring official End Of Thread.

Everyone make your way to the exits.

sex on a couch and only every two months....I'm out of that relationship

Punish him like a child? Maybe there's a little more to what you're saying. Have you spoke with his mom? Mrs. Bates could probably talk to him for you.

Thank you. Why should I suffer?

Just Hillary again. Back from the hospital. Husband has sepsis.

Punish him so that he starts to love me more.

Fuck You and you know why.

I got a leather strap, a functioning pair of scissors and a reason.

Come at me, literally anyone.

But ya won't, because you have.

Jeffrey, God says you owe me. Care to find out why Michigan is inferior?

OP, have you tried shaving down your excessive body hair or dividing your unibrow in half yet?

Been married for over 30 years and if we don't play " let hide the sausage" at least 3 times a week we both say WTF?

Lol.

Yeah...create a problem. Great idea.

You need to aim higher, trade up.

Dr. Phil + Dr. Jill.

It doesn’t matter because your first love you don’t care if she’s a hideous beast. But the rest could be goddesses but they’re not your first love.

Punishment never leads to love.
You need to leave your husband.
He doesn't love you now. Maybe he never did.
You can't punitatively force someone to feel something they don't.
That's crazy.
Focus on what you want to create.