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TrixieMama
(OP) User ID: 80218615 United States 09/18/2021 03:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Shameless bump "I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me" Phillipians 4:13 "I shall call upon the name of the Lord who is worthy to be praised; so shall I be saved from mine enemies" Psalm 18:2-4 "In God is my salvation and my glory; the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God." Psalm 62:6-8 "He must become greater; I must become less.” John 3:30 |
wisconsin
User ID: 80878816 United States 09/18/2021 07:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | :personal green t: . Our family celebrates The Lord's Feasts: [link to www.grafted-promise.net] Fools and the dead don't change their minds. Fools won't and the dead can't. When you tear out a man's tongue, you are not proving him a liar. You are only telling the world that you fear what he might say. Quoting: CountryWise Amos 5:13 - Therefore at such a time the prudent person keeps silent, for it is an evil time. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80873376 Switzerland 09/18/2021 07:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We’ve waited for doom for years. We’ve prepared and ensured we can feed our family. We’ve fortified our homes or gotten a bug out location ready…some of us may have already bugged out. We’ve ensured we have thr means to survive financially whether it’s through crypto, barter or trade. We’ve equipped ourselves with the knowledge to protect our families to the best of our abilities. We’ve prepared ourselves physically and mentally prepared ourselves for the death and destruction we know is looming around the corner but what have we done to prepare our kids? The kids are the ones with the short end of thr stick here and and really get a shitty deal no matter how this plays out. Quoting: TrixieMama As adults and parents we have been spending so much time over the years dreaming and preparing for doom focusing on all of the above…all of the “adult” things that go along with being prepared but have we spent enough time preparing our kids? I thought I had. Being a single mom I know I have always done my best but this week I realized I hadn’t prepared my teens to deal with the loss of their friends due to the vax. This week after picking my son up at HS he got a call from his best friend letting him know he was at the hospital and had just been told at best he has 5 years left to live. My son is a big kid..almost 6’4, 258lbs, all muscle. He’s a Patriot at heart that has known since being a toddler he wants to protect his country and stand up for our freedom. Because my kids were raised solely by me without influence from their father, I never sugar coated the world for them. They were raised awake and know no one will come save us it is us against them, not “they are with us” and have our best interest at heart. My kids can shoot a variety of firearms with precise accuracy and can take a gun apart, clean it and put it back together. They know survival skills and Jesus. They know encampments will be a part of their lives as well as beheadings. I thought as an awake and prepared woman I had given my kids everything they needed to get through what is coming but the harsh reality is that I didn’t. While I prepared my kids to see death from disease, starvation and violence, I never specified children will also die. I never prepared them to lose their friends or equipped them with the knowledge they needed to handle that situation let alone to even be able to appropriately respond to one of their peers telling them they were dying. I thought I had covered all my bases… Thankfully I was with my son when he got the call and because we have such an amazingly open relationship he immediately told me and we were able to engage in deep convo about the heartbreaking fact they will not only experience the loss of adults in their lives but they will also lose friends, even best friends. As a parent it was heartbreaking to see the look on my sons face as he held back his emotions and reality settled in. A couple days ago an AC posted a thread on best advice to give thr unvaxed for what lies ahead and I shared this experience. This morning I woke up and felt the urge to make a thread for parents to come and talk about ways we can ensure our kids are mentally prepared for what is to come. I pray that my experience saves another family from having to go through this. Don’t forget the kids. My kid is big, his voice is deep and he’s built like a linebacker. I forget he’s a kid sometimes and as I’ve hustled around handling adult business and preparing my kids for adult survival, I overlooked the fact he might look like a man but he’s still a kid inside and sometimes I have to be more specific with my words and not assume he understands who is affected by this. Our kids gets shitty deal here and we need to make sure that we age appropriately prepare them for what’s coming. My kids know Jesus and the Bible. They know what’s coming and they know a day may come where they are asked to renounce Jesus or witness the torture a d death of those they love. They know and are prepared to stand steadfast in their faith in Jesus regardless to what they witness because this is just a moment in time…we will be together again and it all will be ok…as if teaching them that wasn’t hard enough we also need to teach them to console friends that may die or be dying, we need to teach them how to grieve the loss of a peer, we need to empower them with strength so they aren’t overcome with fear. We live in an evil world and as parents need to do our best to empower our kids proactively so they don’t lose their shit when this all comes to a boil. Going through this with kids is hard but going through this wiyh kids that are emotionally a d mentally broken because they weren’t prepared for the horrors before them would be pure torture as a parent. Let’s do our best to ensure our kids get through this as well as they can. Let’s use this thread to discuss ways we’ve prepped our kids for what lies ahead and discuss prepping supplies for households with kids. I will be in and out today but will respond as I can, hopefully the thread gains some momentum because I think this is an important topic. Blessings. If he is in High School he isn't a kid. People were fighting wars at a much younger ages just a few decades ago. The best prepping you can do is stop treating him like a baby. |
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TrixieMama
(OP) User ID: 80405986 United States 09/19/2021 12:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You should also be prepared to realize that the Vax isn't going to kill people. It's not about that. It's about controlling them and control it will. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80873376 How can you say the vax doesn’t kill people? Yes a component is to control the mass public however without introduction of the mRNA and spike protein AND graphene there would be no prion disease, no neuromuscular degeneration showing as full Jody shaking and discoordination. There would be no clotting disorders/thrombosis, strokes, or heart attacks. It’s completely incorrect to say the vax doesn’t kill, it causes cytokines storm, the body shuts down, clotting occurs all over in tiny capillaries of the lungs making it impossible for oxygen to be exchanged. "I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me" Phillipians 4:13 "I shall call upon the name of the Lord who is worthy to be praised; so shall I be saved from mine enemies" Psalm 18:2-4 "In God is my salvation and my glory; the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God." Psalm 62:6-8 "He must become greater; I must become less.” John 3:30 |
TrixieMama
(OP) User ID: 80405986 United States 09/19/2021 12:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Easier said than done but. You can’t involve someone that has CHOSEN not to be involved and doesn’t want to be involved. "I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me" Phillipians 4:13 "I shall call upon the name of the Lord who is worthy to be praised; so shall I be saved from mine enemies" Psalm 18:2-4 "In God is my salvation and my glory; the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God." Psalm 62:6-8 "He must become greater; I must become less.” John 3:30 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80371290 Canada 09/19/2021 12:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Easier said than done but. You can’t involve someone that has CHOSEN not to be involved and doesn’t want to be involved. Easier said than done but. You can’t involve someone that has CHOSEN not to be involved and doesn’t want to be involved. Sometimes not wanting something isn't a choice. I speak from experience. Enable it to happen. No strings no conditions. Just act to encourage time for the sake of bonding. Men fall in love with their children through caring for them. It's not automatic like mother. |
TrixieMama
(OP) User ID: 80405986 United States 09/19/2021 01:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Easier said than done but. You can’t involve someone that has CHOSEN not to be involved and doesn’t want to be involved. Easier said than done but. You can’t involve someone that has CHOSEN not to be involved and doesn’t want to be involved. Sometimes not wanting something isn't a choice. I speak from experience. Enable it to happen. No strings no conditions. Just act to encourage time for the sake of bonding. Men fall in love with their children through caring for them. It's not automatic like mother. Sweetheart, I appreciate what you are saying however I have no ability to control the man. He suffers from schizo affective disorder, went awol from the military, abandoned his family when daughter was 7 days old and only is capable of making promises ge can’t keep and won’t keep. He lives in another state. Son is the one carrying the relationship with his father. My dad was a judicial officer in family court and always told me a bad dad is better than no dad so I have always been encouraging and done all I could to foster a relationship between them. The only time the father has anything to do wiyh my son is when my son calls him and then his father only has five minutes of attention for him and ends the call. While I appreciate the fact men don’t instinctively have that mothering or nurturing instinct, and recognize it sometimes must be nurtured by the mom/wife and encouraged, there also comes a time when you have to accept the fact the man just isn’t capable of maintaining relationships. I’ve spent 16 years trying and my family has even gone so far as to allow this man to stay in their homes for weeks on end to visit the kids and he comes for a day then disappears. He isn’t going to change and mentally can’t change. "I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me" Phillipians 4:13 "I shall call upon the name of the Lord who is worthy to be praised; so shall I be saved from mine enemies" Psalm 18:2-4 "In God is my salvation and my glory; the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God." Psalm 62:6-8 "He must become greater; I must become less.” John 3:30 |
TrixieMama
(OP) User ID: 80405986 United States 09/19/2021 01:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Easier said than done but. You can’t involve someone that has CHOSEN not to be involved and doesn’t want to be involved. Easier said than done but. You can’t involve someone that has CHOSEN not to be involved and doesn’t want to be involved. Sometimes not wanting something isn't a choice. I speak from experience. Enable it to happen. No strings no conditions. Just act to encourage time for the sake of bonding. Men fall in love with their children through caring for them. It's not automatic like mother. Sweetheart, I appreciate what you are saying however I have no ability to control the man. He suffers from schizo affective disorder, went awol from the military, abandoned his family when daughter was 7 days old and only is capable of making promises ge can’t keep and won’t keep. He lives in another state. Son is the one carrying the relationship with his father. My dad was a judicial officer in family court and always told me a bad dad is better than no dad so I have always been encouraging and done all I could to foster a relationship between them. The only time the father has anything to do wiyh my son is when my son calls him and then his father only has five minutes of attention for him and ends the call. While I appreciate the fact men don’t instinctively have that mothering or nurturing instinct, and recognize it sometimes must be nurtured by the mom/wife and encouraged, there also comes a time when you have to accept the fact the man just isn’t capable of maintaining relationships. I’ve spent 16 years trying and my family has even gone so far as to allow this man to stay in their homes for weeks on end to visit the kids and he comes for a day then disappears. He isn’t going to change and mentally can’t change. "I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me" Phillipians 4:13 "I shall call upon the name of the Lord who is worthy to be praised; so shall I be saved from mine enemies" Psalm 18:2-4 "In God is my salvation and my glory; the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God." Psalm 62:6-8 "He must become greater; I must become less.” John 3:30 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 66751594 United States 09/21/2021 04:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | May the warm winds of heaven Blow softly upon your house May the Great Spirit Bless all who enter there. May your mocassins Make happy tracks In many snows. And may the Rainbow Always touch your shoulder. May the sun Bring you new energy by day May the moon Softly restore you by night May the rain Wash away your worries May the breeze Blow new strength into your being May you walk gently through the world And know its beauty All the days of your life. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80240366 United States 09/21/2021 01:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You’re wrong about men not being instinctively nurturing. While it may be rare it does exist. I used to wish for a family of my own; but this was pre awakening / doom awareness. Now I’m no longer resentful that I wasn’t afforded the opportunity but grateful. These upcoming times will try all of our souls and the “lukewarm” will likely be boiled alive. |
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TrixieMama
(OP) User ID: 80405986 United States 09/22/2021 06:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | May the warm winds of heaven Quoting: Chief Loud Farts Blow softly upon your house May the Great Spirit Bless all who enter there. May your mocassins Make happy tracks In many snows. And may the Rainbow Always touch your shoulder. May the sun Bring you new energy by day May the moon Softly restore you by night May the rain Wash away your worries May the breeze Blow new strength into your being May you walk gently through the world And know its beauty All the days of your life. Thank you my friend and I pray it in return for you and yours. "I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me" Phillipians 4:13 "I shall call upon the name of the Lord who is worthy to be praised; so shall I be saved from mine enemies" Psalm 18:2-4 "In God is my salvation and my glory; the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God." Psalm 62:6-8 "He must become greater; I must become less.” John 3:30 |
TrixieMama
(OP) User ID: 80405986 United States 09/22/2021 06:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sadly I agree. I thought it would open conversation but was hit with shills and trolls right out the gate which killed it but maybe it will catch some steam now. Thank you for the bump :) "I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me" Phillipians 4:13 "I shall call upon the name of the Lord who is worthy to be praised; so shall I be saved from mine enemies" Psalm 18:2-4 "In God is my salvation and my glory; the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God." Psalm 62:6-8 "He must become greater; I must become less.” John 3:30 |
TrixieMama
(OP) User ID: 80405986 United States 09/22/2021 07:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Very well written and needed Trixie. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80240366 You’re wrong about men not being instinctively nurturing. While it may be rare it does exist. I used to wish for a family of my own; but this was pre awakening / doom awareness. Now I’m no longer resentful that I wasn’t afforded the opportunity but grateful. These upcoming times will try all of our souls and the “lukewarm” will likely be boiled alive. Indeed my friend I apologize if I lumped all men into a statement, that wasn’t my intention. I have known some very naturally nurturing men and had them in my life as a blessing so it was my err in choice of words. My grandfather was a naturally nurturing man and we have some close friends that are as well. I also have known men that never ever wanted a family only to later suffer immense sorrow and regret. As a Christian I am a firm believer that God gives us what we are supposed to have. I conceived 5 babies however was blessed with 2 as I lost the others. While the loss was horrible it remained and remains a blessing in disguise. Looking back God knew what was right and where I was supposed to be and what I needed in my life to grow into the person I am today. For that I am thankful. I am glad that you no longer have remorse and have found gratitude on your journey. I cannot speak for your experience but can share that mine was completely humbling just not in that moment, lol. Now I have gratitude and feel blessed looking back. I am afraid you are right about times to come. This is a painful time for us all yet as a mother I struggle the most because this isn’t the life I envisioned for my children and I struggle with frustration over the raw deal they get in that they most likely won’t experience being a parent and many more of life’s blessings. I hope that I’ve raised them well enough and empowered them with enough confidence, trust and faith to get through the horrors they will witness. My son stands solid my daughter however struggles with her belief right now at 13. It’s a difficult time indeed. Prayers to you my friend. "I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me" Phillipians 4:13 "I shall call upon the name of the Lord who is worthy to be praised; so shall I be saved from mine enemies" Psalm 18:2-4 "In God is my salvation and my glory; the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God." Psalm 62:6-8 "He must become greater; I must become less.” John 3:30 |
TrixieMama
(OP) User ID: 80405986 United States 09/22/2021 07:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I read something about a pandemic awhile back in the notes from Art Bells show. "I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me" Phillipians 4:13 "I shall call upon the name of the Lord who is worthy to be praised; so shall I be saved from mine enemies" Psalm 18:2-4 "In God is my salvation and my glory; the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God." Psalm 62:6-8 "He must become greater; I must become less.” John 3:30 |