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Diary Of An Abused Partner | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 71573159  United Kingdom04/16/2021 10:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Happy in Nature
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| tiger1
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| Happy in Nature
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 80252460 04/16/2021 10:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | responding to thread titles from here on out I've been God Whipping Boy since Cain and Abel do you know how long ago that was I'm not expecting anything I'm not sweating it at all I'm not your profit I'm gods The Whipping Boy okay God's the prophet God is the prophet I'm not the prophet I'm his Whipping Boy whatever you want I will f****** do it I'm not to Messiah you will not worship me you will not worship my image you will not even worship my image and Agony do you understand me throw it away look I'm not sweating any of this s*** |
| bigkahuna62
User ID: 79792117 United States04/16/2021 10:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | “My husband won’t let me visit my friends or family. He has made me stop all contact with them unless it’s on the phone… but then the other week, he told me I could go out for a meal with my friends… but when I did, I then got punished for it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71573159 I know he will tell me to do it again though, so I don’t know what action to take. He keeps doing this. He makes me feel like I’m going crazy for thinking he’s controlling, but actually, I’m being ungrateful, it’s because he cares about me. He didn’t want me going to the gym anymore, so I don’t do that. He also doesn’t let me go to work, he told me to only rely on him for income and that he will look after me. I’m not allowed to go out, unless it’s for necessities, but when I do, I need to share my location with him, no matter where I go. It's for my own safety. My best friend kept saying he was just using and controlling me... I think they both conspired against me so I no longer keep in touch with them. I can't trust them. But I missed my family so much last week that I snuck off to see them… my husband caught me and I was punished for it. My grandma is dying in a nursing home but I’ve been forbidden to see her. I’m not allowed to do anything unless my husband says so…. I wanted to book a holiday to go and visit my relatives, but he said no. I wanted to go back to school to learn some new skills, but I wasn’t allowed to do that either. As soon as he says I’m allowed to do these things, I can’t wait, I’m so excited. I know the time will come soon, he will change. I know he’s only doing this because he loves me. He cares about me, he really does. He is doing all this for my own.... Oh sorry, did I say husband? I meant government, my government does these things ..... Scary, isn't it......"  bigkahuna62 |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 80157693 United States04/16/2021 10:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Beaten User ID: 52379797 United States04/16/2021 11:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So I was gonna write something about how really, he fears to lose you, as most of those feelings/triggers are from that place, the fear of losing a love, a comfort, a support for our image of ourselves, which that partner --yes even though abusive, represents. When we feel we might lost them, we feel rising distress, and in narcissist/bpd traited people, this can cause behavior like what you describe. At the end of the day, yes, both men and women see the government as their ultimate spouse, with lawyers and the government ranking higher than their spouse. But, really, until a relationship is tested, you can't know if it is real. So if your partner hits you in the face with a closed fist and you don't leave, you will find no shortage of people advising both staying and going. If you stay, you will at least know you are managing a psychotic person who will need placating. And yes that's what government is also. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 79995328 United States04/16/2021 11:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Controlling a woman is the best way for a man to be, and the only way a real man will deal with women. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79149129 Its also incredibly erotic to women for them to be controlled. But only by a strong man. These thoughts must come from a small little man who get women to have sex with him at all. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 80245500 United States04/16/2021 11:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 79149129 United States04/16/2021 11:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Controlling a woman is the best way for a man to be, and the only way a real man will deal with women. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79149129 Its also incredibly erotic to women for them to be controlled. But only by a strong man. These thoughts must come from a small little man who get women to have sex with him at all. Men and women represent two opposite sides to humanity. Women are naturally controlling and men are naturally easy-going and freewheeling. When people think of a man controlling a woman, they project women's behavior onto men. Men don't enjoy controlling others like women do, so for a man to control a woman just limits the amount of craziness she can bring to his life, which is necessary for a real man to do what needs to be done without distraction. Real, grown men don't care about sex as much as women. Sex is for women, romance is for men. And you can find romance anywhere, not just with women. This is why women are so controlling. So men don't go running off into a life of constant adventure and growth (leaving them behind). |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 64698495 United States04/16/2021 11:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 79149129 United States04/16/2021 12:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Men don't hit women because they want to hit women, they hit women because women enjoy pain (childbirth, emotional drama and yes physical pain too). Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79149129 Women are designed to get off on pain, because their entire lives are about it. So they had better like it. And they do. In certain amounts, and circumstances, it gets them off. Women also are experts at psychological warfare, and thus almost never tell the truth unless it benefits them. And even then, you should assume they're lying. Women are too smart. Well, Negresses anyway. I don't know anything about caucasian women. But Negresses don't ever get into situations they don't want to be in. They live for drama and create it. They control the situations and the outcome. Its crazy when you step back and realize what's really happening. The only redeeming quality about women and their tactics is that, on a fundamental basis, everything they do is for the betterment of humanity. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 80190010 United States04/16/2021 12:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 80040700  Czechia04/16/2021 12:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 79149129 United States04/16/2021 12:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Controlling a woman is the best way for a man to be, and the only way a real man will deal with women. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79149129 Its also incredibly erotic to women for them to be controlled. But only by a strong man. These thoughts must come from a small little man who get women to have sex with him at all. Men and women represent two opposite sides to humanity. Women are naturally controlling and men are naturally easy-going and freewheeling. When people think of a man controlling a woman, Also, I should mention, there is the case of the caucasian male who, resorts to ever more drastic measures to "keep a woman in line". But this is an aberration and not the natural state of things. It is women who seek to constrain men, not the other way around, and again that's only so they don't have to go to far to catch a man. Men love adventure. But caucasian males are genetically damaged from the ice age and interspecies genetic damage, which lower their smv. This causes physical mediocrity and brings about insecurity, which manifests as extreme jealousy and controlling behavior. But this is behavior from an unmasculine and unnatural position. Real men usually develop far beyond this. The "Real Man (TM)" moniker used by sisters on FB years ago was derided, but the fact remains, just being a male doesn't mean you're a man. Like the difference between a silverback and a regular male gorilla. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 79149129 United States04/16/2021 12:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 71573159 United Kingdom04/16/2021 12:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Controlling a woman is the best way for a man to be, and the only way a real man will deal with women. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79149129 Its also incredibly erotic to women for them to be controlled. But only by a strong man. These thoughts must come from a small little man who get women to have sex with him at all. Men and women represent two opposite sides to humanity. Women are naturally controlling and men are naturally easy-going and freewheeling. When people think of a man controlling a woman, Also, I should mention, there is the case of the caucasian male who, resorts to ever more drastic measures to "keep a woman in line". But this is an aberration and not the natural state of things. It is women who seek to constrain men, not the other way around, and again that's only so they don't have to go to far to catch a man. Men love adventure. But caucasian males are genetically damaged from the ice age and interspecies genetic damage, which lower their smv. This causes physical mediocrity and brings about insecurity, which manifests as extreme jealousy and controlling behavior. But this is behavior from an unmasculine and unnatural position. Real men usually develop far beyond this. The "Real Man (TM)" moniker used by sisters on FB years ago was derided, but the fact remains, just being a male doesn't mean you're a man. Like the difference between a silverback and a regular male gorilla. I see schlow-mo has returned [imgur] [link to imgur.com (secure)] |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 64698495 United States04/16/2021 08:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
