Compartmentalize your emotions. You bust ass all day to come home to a house in disorder when all you want is peace. You have to find it somewhere. Give each kid 15 minutes and the wife 30 to calm them all down. Be the family whisperer...

If you can't find serenity in your own house that will be the death of you spiritually. You'll dread going home and will try to find solace somewhere else.