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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25563213 United States03/21/2015 10:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If my current relationship doesn't work (basically we are the same age), if I even have another one, I'll look for a younger man. I'm 40, so I'll look for someone between 25-35. Not to do with looks or sex, they are just so much NICER than guys 40+. More respectful, fun, funny. Guys in their 40s and 50s are entitled, moody, sometimes bitter, DTF, whereas the younger guys, while yes they are DTF, seem genuinely enamored with the older woman who takes care of herself. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 64872189 Since my dreams of everlasting love have pretty much been destroyed, I figure might as well hang out with the vibrant younger man since nothing lasts anyway. And older guys are so down on their aging, they chase youth, look at young women, want to be young again, harder on us aging ladies too. I might not end up with anyone at all, but I'm a free spirit artistic woman and I can see myself giving the younger lads a go, it could be a good pairing I think.  They are more energetic and spontaneous... And don't fall asleep at 9pm on a Saturday night! I have a younger guy friend who is 30, he WANTS to date an older woman! He said the women his age are pathetic. I would totally date this guy if I wasn't already in a committed relationship.... He's hot, fit and has great outlook on life. I think guys get hormonal changes at around age 45-50, just like women do. Younger men are eager to please and easy to please. I wouldn't want to marry a younger guy, but damn, I would have some fun. My younger guy friend is one of the nicest friends I have, its refreshing to be around him... Especially during the summer when he takes his shirt off |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25563213 United States03/21/2015 10:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If my current relationship doesn't work (basically we are the same age), if I even have another one, I'll look for a younger man. I'm 40, so I'll look for someone between 25-35. Not to do with looks or sex, they are just so much NICER than guys 40+. More respectful, fun, funny. Guys in their 40s and 50s are entitled, moody, sometimes bitter, DTF, whereas the younger guys, while yes they are DTF, seem genuinely enamored with the older woman who takes care of herself. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 64872189 Since my dreams of everlasting love have pretty much been destroyed, I figure might as well hang out with the vibrant younger man since nothing lasts anyway. And older guys are so down on their aging, they chase youth, look at young women, want to be young again, harder on us aging ladies too. I might not end up with anyone at all, but I'm a free spirit artistic woman and I can see myself giving the younger lads a go, it could be a good pairing I think. Never get "committed" with a younger guy... Stay good friends, you'll remain friends a longer. |
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 User ID: 65582673 United States03/21/2015 10:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It speaks volumes that women attempt to shirk their nature-given destinies as makers of the household for sex, jet skis, diamonds, and dinner out every night. "Brawndo! It's got electrolytes!" |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25563213 United States03/21/2015 10:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Another victim of media programming who believes that women are supposed to be sexually desirable and allowed to adventure into old age. Quoting: ErinTarn It speaks volumes that women attempt to shirk their nature-given destinies as makers of the household for sex, jet skis, diamonds, and dinner out every night. Lol, wut? She just wants a little fun. You must be a grouchy 50,year old guy. Sounds like you're on your man period... |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 64872189 United States03/21/2015 11:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm out West. And no, I'm not getting enough attention. :( I've given my all to someone who wants me at his convenience only. Yet I have younger guys pining for me who would want to actually spend time with me and laugh with me and all that stuff. And the older guys always go on about my looks, I hate that shallowness. The younger guys are attracted to me yes but also to my maturity, wisdom and experience. The older guys only ever seem to value looks and if you pay them attention at all they think they have a chance whereas the younger guys don't assume that at all. They are very respectful. |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 64872189 United States03/21/2015 11:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If my current relationship doesn't work (basically we are the same age), if I even have another one, I'll look for a younger man. I'm 40, so I'll look for someone between 25-35. Not to do with looks or sex, they are just so much NICER than guys 40+. More respectful, fun, funny. Guys in their 40s and 50s are entitled, moody, sometimes bitter, DTF, whereas the younger guys, while yes they are DTF, seem genuinely enamored with the older woman who takes care of herself. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 64872189 Since my dreams of everlasting love have pretty much been destroyed, I figure might as well hang out with the vibrant younger man since nothing lasts anyway. And older guys are so down on their aging, they chase youth, look at young women, want to be young again, harder on us aging ladies too. I might not end up with anyone at all, but I'm a free spirit artistic woman and I can see myself giving the younger lads a go, it could be a good pairing I think. They are more energetic and spontaneous... And don't fall asleep at 9pm on a Saturday night! I have a younger guy friend who is 30, he WANTS to date an older woman! He said the women his age are pathetic. I would totally date this guy if I wasn't already in a committed relationship.... He's hot, fit and has great outlook on life. I think guys get hormonal changes at around age 45-50, just like women do. Younger men are eager to please and easy to please. I wouldn't want to marry a younger guy, but damn, I would have some fun. My younger guy friend is one of the nicest friends I have, its refreshing to be around him... Especially during the summer when he takes his shirt off I'd say those hormonal changes in men start around 35-37! Especially the porn addicted guys, that's when they start having worrisome erectile issues. Not that I'm judgemental about that. Just sayin, I think it happens sooner than 45-50. The thing is, I'd be understanding and patient with a guy with ED. A 25 yr old wouldn't be. But those same men don't appreciate me until they lose me. So I might as well get with a younger man. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25563213 United States03/21/2015 11:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm out West. And no, I'm not getting enough attention. :( I've given my all to someone who wants me at his convenience only. Yet I have younger guys pining for me who would want to actually spend time with me and laugh with me and all that stuff. And the older guys always go on about my looks, I hate that shallowness. The younger guys are attracted to me yes but also to my maturity, wisdom and experience. The older guys only ever seem to value looks and if you pay them attention at all they think they have a chance whereas the younger guys don't assume that at all. They are very respectful. OP, I had the same problem. I ultimately decided to get serious with a guy my own age. But I'll tell you, getting hit on by a few differsnt younger guys was a trip. I knew what they wanted, but it was fun flirting. I stayed good friends with one...he's an old soul. I liked him too much to vet serious with him...didn't want to have my heart broken when he moved on from his 'older woman' phase. We still talk and he knows we'll be good friends forever, which for me, is far better, because I really care about him. |
| Artemis Browndeer
User ID: 68576735 United States03/21/2015 11:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you find a good younger man, go for it. After a few disastrous long term relationships with men my age or a bit older (I'm 55), I've found a wonderful 47 year old man to share my life with. He's open minded, intelligent, funny, and we get along very well. My brother has been married for many years to a woman 11 years his senior. Crazy cat lady in training... "Society always honors its live conformists and its dead troublemakers" ~Mignon McLaughlin "The lost child, crying, crying, but still catching the fireflies." ~Ryusui "Oh, yeah, life goes on, even after the thrill of livin' is gone..."~John Mellencamp |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 62937177 United States03/21/2015 11:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My bf is ten years younger and a genuine, good person. We're at the same level of wanting something real and have so many things in common. We also look the same age (actually people who don't know us guess he's older than me lol,) so it's not socially awkward. He doesn't have the baggage I've dealt with in the men my age and older, too. I love men, but their hearts just don't bounce back from breakups as well, and it's difficult to find one past a certain age not hardened by life and still able to love anymore. Don't listen to the media brainwashed people telling you how to be and who to love. I hope you find someone great. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 42578064 United States03/21/2015 11:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm out West. And no, I'm not getting enough attention. :( I've given my all to someone who wants me at his convenience only. Yet I have younger guys pining for me who would want to actually spend time with me and laugh with me and all that stuff. And the older guys always go on about my looks, I hate that shallowness. The younger guys are attracted to me yes but also to my maturity, wisdom and experience. The older guys only ever seem to value looks and if you pay them attention at all they think they have a chance whereas the younger guys don't assume that at all. They are very respectful. Seems like you're operating with a lot of generalizations and assumptions... "Older guys are going to be like this" "Younger guys are going to be like this" Individuals are typically far more complex than merely judging them by their age.... You may end up with more unsatisfying relationships if you are pursuing them based on idealistic expectations surrounding someone's age.... You may also end up passing up someone who otherwise would have been a good match for you.... Maybe try to treat every person you meet as a unique individual... Don't expect anything from them until you get to know them better...  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25563213 United States03/21/2015 11:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You are going in the right direction. I feel I wasted a lot of time when I was younger dating older men who were less mature than me. I was young and still learning. I ended up dumping them when I got older, realizing I was just a trophy to them. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 62937177 My bf is ten years younger and a genuine, good person. We're at the same level of wanting something real and have so many things in common. We also look the same age (actually people who don't know us guess he's older than me lol,) so it's not socially awkward. He doesn't have the baggage I've dealt with in the men my age and older, too. I love men, but their hearts just don't bounce back from breakups as well, and it's difficult to find one past a certain age not hardened by life and still able to love anymore. Don't listen to the media brainwashed people telling you how to be and who to love. I hope you find someone great. ^^great post Whenever I'm out with my younger guy friend, people assume we're a couple. We get along so well. We've even been told we make a cute couple. Three different times someone asked if we were husband and wife, or said "your wife...",and we laugh and have tell them we're just friends. We have great chemistry. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25563213 United States03/21/2015 11:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm out West. And no, I'm not getting enough attention. :( I've given my all to someone who wants me at his convenience only. Yet I have younger guys pining for me who would want to actually spend time with me and laugh with me and all that stuff. And the older guys always go on about my looks, I hate that shallowness. The younger guys are attracted to me yes but also to my maturity, wisdom and experience. The older guys only ever seem to value looks and if you pay them attention at all they think they have a chance whereas the younger guys don't assume that at all. They are very respectful. Seems like you're operating with a lot of generalizations and assumptions... "Older guys are going to be like this" "Younger guys are going to be like this" Individuals are typically far more complex than merely judging them by their age.... You may end up with more unsatisfying relationships if you are pursuing them based on idealistic expectations surrounding someone's age.... You may also end up passing up someone who otherwise would have been a good match for you.... Maybe try to treat every person you meet as a unique individual... Don't expect anything from them until you get to know them better... I think she's just avoiding crabby guys her own age. |
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