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mfgl
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14WORDS
User ID: 708818 United States 06/22/2009 01:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The other person has the same responsability. Its only bad if you choose someone not up to the task. Quoting: mfgl+1 And if you choose badly, you have no one to blame but your own damn self. Last Edited by 14WORDS on 06/22/2009 01:14 PM "There is no firm reason to anticipate that the intellectual capacities of peoples geographically separated in their evolution should prove to have evolved identically. Our wanting to reserve equal powers of reason as some universal heritage of humanity will not be enough to make it so." -- Nobel Prize-winner James Watson "The war is coming to the streets of America and if you are not keeping and bearing and practicing with your arms then you will be helpless and you will be the victim of evil." - Ted Nugent "Political correctness is a doctrine, fostered by a delusional, illogical minority, and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media, which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end." -Unknown |
Sara-Ka-El
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noKnothing~
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 698691 United States 06/22/2009 01:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Love is being selfless. Quoting: noKnothing~Exactly. Evidence of Love is putting someone else's needs above your own. When they do that for you they are loving you. When you do it for them you are loving them. Proof of love. |
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noKnothing~
User ID: 631297 United States 06/22/2009 01:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That's not love, it's solidarity. Solidairty is like racism, it means you love the people that are on your side. But that's selfishness. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 707457No I love bums, I give them plenty of money(s) to eat daily. Are these bums on my side? Or on the side of the road? (.__________________________________.) |
Uriel
User ID: 512435 United States 06/22/2009 01:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Love means having to take care of a second person than yourself, that's bad. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 707457Selfish By fire gold is purified, so is love, by patience. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beggining and the end, says the Lord God, who Is and who Was and who is coming, the Almighty. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 699520 United States 06/22/2009 01:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Love is being selfless. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 698691Exactly. Evidence of Love is putting someone else's needs above your own. When they do that for you they are loving you. When you do it for them you are loving them. Proof of love. yep! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 694814 United States 06/22/2009 01:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Love means having to take care of a second person than yourself, that's bad. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 707457No actually, you just defined co-dependence. There are 12-step groups for that. Love means taking care of yourself and respecting and honoring an individual you feel deeply attached to, regardless of whether that individual returns your affection or not. Of course, it's a whole lot better if they do, but you can't force them to do so. |
mfgl
User ID: 616779 United States 06/22/2009 01:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That's not love, it's solidarity. Solidairty is like racism, it means you love the people that are on your side. But that's selfishness. Quoting: noKnothing~No I love bums, I give them plenty of money(s) to eat daily. Are these bums on my side? Or on the side of the road? How does this happen? a quote is made....but i scroll up and i dont see the quoted lines anywhere in this thread? It happens a lot lately. |
mfgl
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noKnothing~
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