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Anonymous Coward User ID: 85478636 France 03/23/2023 04:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Professional victims blaming everyone else for their problems while trying to suck up endless empathy like vampires screaming that everyone who doesn't let them is a "narcissist". Quoting: Anonymous Coward 81863174 Priceless. You are a bully. But your an old ass women who is admitting she plays with dolls Yikes |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84603315 United States 03/23/2023 04:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i can't listen to most "experts' on narcissists as they are their own narcissists, and never mentioned one of the Biggest things in the world today, that has always been happening, with Extreme Malignant Narcissism involved yet nobody cares, not even so called "experts". Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84603315 It's probably even to basically not allow you to ever even be able to talk about the real narcissists, if that's what you can call them. or maybe narcopaths. and "narcissism" is really just like a "personality style" apparently, not the same as the disorder narcissistic personality disorder so , yeah, people are full of shit. first of all you can't call them out. according to the narcissist therapists. But then there is absolutely no way to deal with them. Especially when it's something nobody has been ever been able to call out, because they tell you, you can't call out narcissists. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80635840 United States 03/23/2023 04:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | because with narcissists, its all about them and what they can take, but once you show them the games up they dont like the attention being about them in that way, they become aggressive to mask their insecurities Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45167747 No. They become aggressive to scare you and keep you in their control. Some won’t become aggressive. They will quietly get revenge on you while saying they are your friend. Only takes something small to make them mad. And you ain’t really know it. They are like bad sneaky children. Very vindictive. But they can be very sweet just to keep you close. I treat everyone like they are a malignant narc. Don’t let them too close. I’m careful what I tell them. I just test them out to see if they can be trusted. Takes time but it is worth it. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 85498142 Netherlands 03/23/2023 05:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just play the game and let narcist think they got you and you’re off the chain so they will move on to someone else. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85498142 Just give what they desire. They love the chase and the game with someone. They don’t actually want what you can give them in “supply”. Attention. Reaction. So fake it and overreact and you win. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 62916506 United States 03/23/2023 05:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's like they're all led by the same playbook. You read about it but it's true. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78236848 You catch them cheating? They SWEAR it wasn't them. They punch the wall, they try to strangle you, they were "scammed" etc. Oh you found out your husband is actually a f*got on the low? You're a BITCH a WHORE and always "starting stuff". They come home drunk accusing you of loving black men even though you've never been with one and don't like black men, it's actually THEM that likes black men/women/shemen. It's amazing the way their minds work and how deep in lies they have themselves. They're miserable under it all but it's crazy. I guess you learn not to say anything or to turn your eye cause they'll never change and never admit to anything. The truth hurts them too much anyways. just calm down and stop being so toxic |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 85287551 United States 03/23/2023 05:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When did the term ‘narcissist’ get so trendy, WAY overused, and applied to seemingly everyone these days? Quoting: Larphillips I’m not arguing against your point OP, but the label is seems to be a bit out of hand. A few years back Demons were let loose into this world Into their organic portals From the netherworld where they reside Humans who have little or no light within them Are now carrying the demons inside in this very plane of existence It’s harvest time And the humans get to go to the void with their demon friend(s) It’s almost time for the scythe |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 265658 Canada 03/23/2023 06:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When did the term ‘narcissist’ get so trendy, WAY overused, and applied to seemingly everyone these days? Quoting: Larphillips I’m not arguing against your point OP, but the label is seems to be a bit out of hand. If you aren't one yourself, when you experience a true narcissist, you'll never forget it. It's a very unique and horrible experience. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 45167747 United Kingdom 03/23/2023 06:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | because with narcissists, its all about them and what they can take, but once you show them the games up they dont like the attention being about them in that way, they become aggressive to mask their insecurities Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45167747 No. They become aggressive to scare you and keep you in their control. once you show this kind of pathology your onto it its lost all control. Unless your talking about being specifically in relationship with one who is dominating the other, this is the only time fear works out for them. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 85374598 United States 03/23/2023 06:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After they were caught doing wrong, exposed, incarcerated, etc., by the public, the ones I met while studying and doing field work for my Psych Degree, became all good for awhile, but not for long, as they always did something to f**k it all up again. They cannot do right even, if they tried. Unstable is putting it mildly. |
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truth seeks out the wise & the righteous User ID: 74716169 United States 03/23/2023 06:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so, we can all relate there are some that have the Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and those are the dangerous ones, no matter how hard they may try, they may never change, they think that they are perfect Cayce and Jesus - the Kingdom is within us all 2046 Pole Shift those who know, do not speak, there is more wisdom in the silence heaven won't accept impurity the heartbroken are the most wicked lead me back to heaven |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 84692544 United States 03/23/2023 06:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Professional victims blaming everyone else for their problems while trying to suck up endless empathy like vampires screaming that everyone who doesn't let them is a "narcissist". Quoting: Anonymous Coward 81863174 Priceless. You are a bully. When was the last time you took any responsibility for what happens to you? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78764248 United States 03/23/2023 07:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Professional victims blaming everyone else for their problems while trying to suck up endless empathy like vampires screaming that everyone who doesn't let them is a "narcissist". Quoting: Anonymous Coward 81863174 Priceless. You are a bully. When was the last time you took any responsibility for what happens to you? I'm sure any misfortunes were due to some celestial alignment, or possibly believing that some astrological signs are perfect for each other. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80635840 United States 03/23/2023 07:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Calling out a narc on their bad behavior, is very dangerous. A man may become violent. A woman is more likely to become verbally aggressive, and might attempt to publicly destroy you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 265658 You're... almost exactly right. Test the waters about how a person handles criticism. If they can’t it then walk away. If you can’t walk away then don’t criticize them. Tell them how wonderful they are and let karma do its thing. |
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