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How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?

 
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Like everybody before you and after you.
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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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I have lost 5 people in the past 7 years. I grew up with death as my father died when I was very young.

As a teen, my niece died and it crushed me.

I'm at a point now in life where I know that nobody is exempt, and we all have a "death sentence."

We are all going to die. Be it tomorrow, or in 10 or 20 years.

What shocked me the most is how a person seems to be ripped out of this world, (that's how it feels) yet the world continues to go on.

When you look at the moon at night. Know that they looked at the exact same moon. Everyone who has lived in this world throughout history has seen the same moon that we see. Wars have been fought under that same moon and the clock of time just keeps ticking.

When you and I are gone, life goes on as it always has.

We're just here for a short time.

All of us.
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My advice to everyone is, be the best person that you can be.

Treat others with kindness always.

Stay away from gossip and lies.

Never drag another person into that darkness.

Because life is short, and you never know when you'll lose someone that you care about.

Have good memories rather than saying "I should have said or done this or that."

Just be good to others and live a peaceful and respectful life.
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They are gone forever, nothing you can do will ever change that. You are alive and need to move on with your life.

Nothing can bring them back.
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By mourning..

By prayer…

By time…


By understanding…

Everything which has the breath of life..

Came from God…

And returns to God…

And we also will..

Peace,
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This.
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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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My father died right in front of my eyes, and there's no getting over that. He had been vaccinated and ended up with a racing heart, which they got under control with drugs. Then one day as he was standing up from his easy chair, he fell to the ground and died. His body kept moving for some time, and he looked like he was trying to breath, but the paramedics that arrived told me that was just an automatic body movement, and he was actually dead because his heart was no longer beating.

I felt like I couldn't breath for weeks, cried off and on, and my health went to shit.

My father was like my best friend, and we did all kinds of outdoor activities together.
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I'm really upset that my mom shunned me for not getting jabbed. She's in her 80s. I love my mom - so I'm angry and hurt that she ghosted me. Yet, I pray that she will have a change of heart. It's going to be hard on me when she passes -it won't end on good terms, I'll never have closure.
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I'm in the same boat. Haven't talked to dad in over a year. He's vaxxed...tried talking to him, but he did it anyway. I asked him to research first. So far he's ok. It's truly going to suck when he does go. Plandemic is really doing a number on us!l
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just ignore it
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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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My father died right in front of my eyes, and there's no getting over that. He had been vaccinated and ended up with a racing heart, which they got under control with drugs. Then one day as he was standing up from his easy chair, he fell to the ground and died. His body kept moving for some time, and he looked like he was trying to breath, but the paramedics that arrived told me that was just an automatic body movement, and he was actually dead because his heart was no longer beating.

I felt like I couldn't breath for weeks, cried off and on, and my health went to shit.

My father was like my best friend, and we did all kinds of outdoor activities together.
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I'm so sorry to hear this.

Your father knows how much you loved him.

I fully believe that one day we will be with those who passed away again.

I believe you'll see your dad again.
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The best you can.
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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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Believe that God has a plan in it all. HIS plan is not yours to see, at least not for now.

Remember, Faith in your creator, God decides when it is time.
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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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Cry Alot! Drink water and Cry Again. That's How You Do It.
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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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Numb emotions with booze and cannabis for a few years, then find a good therapist.
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I'm from Puerto Rico!

I Lost My sister in May 2022 by a Feminicide commit by her ex boyfriend!

The police found their bodies in a Town Palmarito, Corozal in a state of decomposing, 1 week in a forest with blanket...state of decay!

He paid the karma and was killed..

Really is very personal.. the mindset and how strong you are will determine the time to heal, but it will last forever.. the difference is the accepting of events and that she is in a good place.

I had a Dream of Her the day she was killed.

She looked like Catherine Zeta Jones..

So the dream was, she had a blue Sky dress, look perfectly healthy and My mother and father we're with me in front of a door and she was going in..

It's a personal experience..
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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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I was subjected to torture and subsequently death at a young age, and then dealt with death quite regularly through most of my young adult life via career paths. It's a learned response as well as a choice on how to see and feel it.

Personally, it doesn't affect me much, just a beautiful transition that comes with a more drastic start. The manner in which the transition happens however, that's what tends to eat at me depending on the circumstances.

Tis too broad of a question, too many different types of suffering and death to help. Maybe be more in depth on a personal level if you so choose?
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I lost my brother a month ago. Heavy feelings of loss and sadness. But my Dad lost his son. profound feelings of heartache and sadness. I can deal with my grief but I can't help my Dad with his and it breaks my heart how incredibly sad he is.
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I lost my Mama recently.



Best friend I ever had.

Unconditional love.



I'm not coping at all.



I'm devastated.


Shattered.

I'm not well at all.
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I’m so sorry.
I understand
When my mom died, I stopped praying didn’t pray for years, I was very messed up, took me many years to start Praying again…

I say this because I wish someone would have been there to tell me to never stop praying and keep the faith

Hugs

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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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I find that killing someone I hate can ease the pain of losing someone I love.
It's sorta karmic.

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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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After the initial shock!!!!!
Live because you can!!! Give them that<3
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Time is the only healer. Some take longer than others. Some cope with it and others do not. Take faith in knowing they no longer suffer the ills of present.
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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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You bury or burn them. Your memories, good or bad, are what you have. Whatever influence they had on you is there. They are gone. Its difficult but no less true. Don't get over emotionally involved. You and everyone and every living thing you know, dies. So accept it as all other reality. That doesn't mean you don't mourn or miss them. No. But you accept their dying as well as yours some day. It helps.
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You don't. You just keep moving forward. If there's any good times, take those memories everywhere you go.

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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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Ask God for help and cry all you want, take it one day at a time, ask friends for support, things slowly get better, it takes time.
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Lost my wife last March.

Apparently no one has any REAL answers.
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I do. I know that the gospel is true. I know that anyone who is a true believer I will see again in 8yrs or less and then we will never be parted again. Its not a belief. I
know it's true. i've seen evidence directly.
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I lost my Mama recently.



Best friend I ever had.

Unconditional love.



I'm not coping at all.



I'm devastated.


Shattered.

I'm not well at all.
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Reach out for help
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I'm really upset that my mom shunned me for not getting jabbed. She's in her 80s. I love my mom - so I'm angry and hurt that she ghosted me. Yet, I pray that she will have a change of heart. It's going to be hard on me when she passes -it won't end on good terms, I'll never have closure.
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fuck her. move on and dont look back
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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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“When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive — to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.” Marcus Aurelius
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Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
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Tell me what you find out. I lost my wife of 47 years a month ago. It's been hard and very difficult some days. Everyone tells me it will get easier, I think they are full of shit.
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Lost my wife last March.

Apparently no one has any REAL answers.
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I do. I know that the gospel is true. I know that anyone who is a true believer I will see again in 8yrs or less and then we will never be parted again. Its not a belief. I
know it's true. i've seen evidence directly.
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I can't say i seen the evidence. but I will say. I've had things happen, that I'm pretty sure, are strong clues.

I do believe we will see the ones, gone before us. That will be a happy day for sure.
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I lost my Dad last Christmas - and I feel like he's still here because via the knowledge that he's a Christian, he is and I know I'll see him again in the future.
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This
Within the surreal depths of "reality" lies the truth.
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I just lost my mom.

I have spells of crying but I am coping better than I thought I would.

But I am having a lot of pain in my body right now.

I think I am holding it in sadly enough.





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