Our Daughter who is 38 has moved back into our house and lives in the basement. Here is the problem. | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 83862233 United States 08/13/2022 08:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Our Daughter who is 38 has moved back into our house and lives in the basement. Here is the problem. You’ve probably had an easier life than her, if you’re retired maybe take some extra time to help her find motivation. Or you could take the easy way out and expect her to do it all by herself because you can’t be bothered, for some reason. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 81583673 United States 08/13/2022 08:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Our Daughter who is 38 has moved back into our house and lives in the basement. Here is the problem. Cam soda?.....no sweat mom and pop.... she's working it.....late hour account for her sleeping late.....she'll be fine....what's her gamer name?....just asking for a friend..... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79044425 I don't know what you mean. We got her a pink gaming chair and microphone for Christmas. She was going to do gaming videos on youtube. I'm not giving out her information on here. Sorry. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83832238 United States 08/13/2022 08:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Our Daughter who is 38 has moved back into our house and lives in the basement. Here is the problem. She refuses to work and just wants to play some game online all day long. She recently lost her job because of the Covid mandates and I feel bad for her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 81583673 Her mother and I said she could come home but she really hasn't done anything since she's been back. Hasn't helped with chores or bills and she sleeps till noon most of the time. I think she stays up all night playing something called CamSoda. I don't know what kind of game it is but she sure seems to like it. Her mother and I are both retired and we just wish she would show some initiate and at least look for a job. I don't know how she manages to stay on unemployment. You blew your load in the OP your LARP is flaccid |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79044425 United States 08/13/2022 08:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Our Daughter who is 38 has moved back into our house and lives in the basement. Here is the problem. Cam soda?.....no sweat mom and pop.... she's working it.....late hour account for her sleeping late.....she'll be fine....what's her gamer name?....just asking for a friend..... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79044425 I don't know what you mean. We got her a pink gaming chair and microphone for Christmas. She was going to do gaming videos on youtube. I'm not giving out her information on here. Sorry. That's OK....I was just axing for a friend.....she will be buying a house, new car and moving out soon.....I hear "gaming videos" are quite lucrative nowadaze...... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80040227 United States 08/13/2022 08:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Our Daughter who is 38 has moved back into our house and lives in the basement. Here is the problem. You’ve probably had an easier life than her, if you’re retired maybe take some extra time to help her find motivation. Or you could take the easy way out and expect her to do it all by herself because you can’t be bothered, for some reason. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83862233 This person is an enabler. Do not be an enabler. She is 38, she is an adult. My kids expected to leave or be in college when they graduated. One went on to college, the other got married. Either way, they both left home. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80311370 United States 08/13/2022 09:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Our Daughter who is 38 has moved back into our house and lives in the basement. Here is the problem. How long ago she moved ? Give her a break of a couple months to turn things around. Quoting: Doc McBaffled About two weeks. Two weeks? lol. Give her at least a month or two to adjust to the change in circumstances. Sometimes it takes a bit to get your feet back after having been beaten down. Especially to the point where you had to move back in with your folks. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80412580 United States 08/13/2022 09:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Our Daughter who is 38 has moved back into our house and lives in the basement. Here is the problem. She's traumatized and depressed. Reality turned out to be not what she was told it was. Let her be and just love her. Support her for as long as you financially can. Is she smoking crack? Is she robbing you to support a habit? Is she showering every day and eating? Is she unhealthy? Be thankful for what she is not doing. She will snap out of it eventually. The more you push, the more you push her away. |
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Otter Woodman
User ID: 83825922 United States 08/13/2022 09:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Our Daughter who is 38 has moved back into our house and lives in the basement. Here is the problem. She’s got unemployment and a free roof. Why would she be motivated? Maybe be tougher. Quoting: MrBlonde She starts crying when I get onto her about it. I believe she was traumatized by the past two years dealing with things at work. It's hard. Turn off the WIFI at night and lay down some law. Her crying is OWNING you. Daddy UP. Stop Coddling Otter Woodman |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79447790 Canada 08/13/2022 09:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Our Daughter who is 38 has moved back into our house and lives in the basement. Here is the problem. If you're weak beta folk who never taught your daughter to aim high and bleed along the way, then she's your curse. Love her and get that heart-to-heart done, so you both know the plan, or kick her selfish ass out. |
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