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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78911762  United States08/09/2022 09:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Weisshaupt
 User ID: 73384851 United States08/09/2022 09:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so how did i attract him into my life then? and how did he attract me, because obviously the energy he's putting out is not something that should have attracted my energy. he's dark, i'm light, we're not the same. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 what am i doing wrong, do i just not understand how the law of attraction works?! It is my experience that we attract what we need - not what we want. If you are attracting problems, then there is something you need to learn. If you continue to attract the SAME problem, then you aren't learning the lesson well enough. Have you ever read Illusions by Richard Bach? This might be a good time to do so- very quick read, and I think it may be useful to you in many ways. Last Edited by Weisshaupt on 08/09/2022 09:11 AM |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 2226485 United States08/09/2022 09:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what am i doing wrong, do i just not understand how the law of attraction works?! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 sounds like you have the attraction thing down it's just not up to the standards you set for yourself. fact is most people settle rather than being alone and in the end it cost them. then throw in the fact that we live in a disposable society, everything is disposable including relationships. and you end up with what you see on TV, overplay the sexual aspect without building character in a relationship and you end up with dysfunction and misery. |
| Mdc61170
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| Magici
User ID: 83517702 United States08/09/2022 09:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ok i've been working on myself for the past two years ever since i got out of a bad relationship in summer 2020 (guy was a narcissist). hadn't been dating or even looking to date. had been doing a lot of self-discovery and raising my self-awareness and thought i was making good progress. then this past march i attracted a guy into my life that seemed to have good energy. the timing was weird, and i hadn't even been looking for anyone, so i thought that maybe good things were finally starting to happen. i was even getting signs to confirm that he might be the one. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 lies, all lies. long story short, yes i got involved with him and he turned out to have not so good energy. as in, he was dark--really dark. sex addict, still in love with his ex, completely shallow, full of negative energy (like literally, he was tryna channel it because he's a musician and he likes to use it to help him perform). is he possessed, i don't know honestly but it's possible. i can't believe i was ever attracted to this guy, he's like a dark force and i'm tryna walk in the light. (i'm both religious and spiritual). anyway he's now dating some dark chick, someone who's into weird energy like he is, and they're a good match for each other. meanwhile i'm over here tryna cleanse my energy from his energy. i've been trying to put good energy out there for the past two years, and i've been trying to think good thoughts. i thought it'd been working, especially when i met this guy. but turns out, he's even worse than the last guy i had a relationship with. so how did i attract him into my life then? and how did he attract me, because obviously the energy he's putting out is not something that should have attracted my energy. he's dark, i'm light, we're not the same. what am i doing wrong, do i just not understand how the law of attraction works?! You're just attracting the polar opposite in your case. I had a boss when I did accounting who was the nicest person you could ever meet. She was the definition of a sweetheart. Her coworkers however? Not so much. One guy was just a complete asshole but he ended up being a drug addict who she tolerated for 6 months. The solution to this? You have to understand that your emotions are like an electrical charge. The more you want something the more likely you get the opposite. You can try to ask the creator for what you want but its not here to give you everything you want. It will give you what you actually need to progress on your journey so that you can evolve spiritually and intellectually. Hope this helps. Spread the love but know that its not the easy path to walk. You have to work on yourself. So within so without. People get corrupted for a reason, its the easy way out. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 83986202  Finland08/09/2022 09:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what am i doing wrong, do i just not understand how the law of attraction works?! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 Nothing wrong, you're just like 95% of women in your age. Looking for that good looking guy, a little bit of a badass, no job, no money, lots of problems, but tight belly and presumably good in bed. And then you're "surprised" when this happens. Don't worry, life will teach you. Or not. |
| Nostros
User ID: 78079791 United States08/09/2022 09:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Stop going for the bad boy types. My guess is he's also all tatted up because he's so "cool" don't ya know. You are no different from 90% of other females. You claim to want a nice guy but continue to pursue bad boys over and over because they are edgy and dark. Then you repeatedly get shit on and wonder why you're not happy... Here's a clue for you, good guys aren't edgy or dark. They also have real jobs, ambition, and are likely "boring" in your eyes because you're still pursuing the wrong things. Nostros |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 82087762 United States08/09/2022 09:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 1. my cali friends talk about mates fitting into their life and their value like they were a car lease, something you bolt onto your life to fix and help. When it doesnt work you change it up. little ventured little gained. 2. by your own rules you're attracted to 'dark energy' guys. I bet none of them were truly nice, maybe nice to you. Next guy you meet observe how nice he is to others first. |
| Lazy Monk
User ID: 77743360  Sweden08/09/2022 10:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what am i doing wrong, do i just not understand how the law of attraction works?! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 Nothing wrong, you're just like 95% of women in your age. Looking for that good looking guy, a little bit of a badass, no job, no money, lots of problems, but tight belly and presumably good in bed. And then you're "surprised" when this happens. Don't worry, life will teach you. Or not.  OP wasn't using manifestation and the law of attraction, she was getting in bed with a Bad Boy because that's what stupid women do. Lazy Monk |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 83621010 United States08/09/2022 10:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Read Genome by Matt Ridley. Good girls attract bad boys as an energy balance. Good girls need bad boys to slay the dragons. Just read the book. The problem is the more spiritual you become the worse the dragon slayer. Just. Read. Kinda sucks but it explains your problem very well. |
| Lazy Monk
User ID: 77743360 Sweden08/09/2022 12:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Read Genome by Matt Ridley. Good girls attract bad boys as an energy balance. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83621010 Good girls need bad boys to slay the dragons. Just read the book. The problem is the more spiritual you become the worse the dragon slayer. Just. Read. Kinda sucks but it explains your problem very well. Absolute Bullshit. Women are biologically programmed to go for Bad Boys with dark triad traits (Narcissism + Machiavellianism + Psychopathy) because they will provide offspring that has a better chance of winning in a competitive world. There's nothing spiritual about it whatsoever. Telling women that they do this because they're so "spiritual" is as stupid as telling men they are more spiritual for preferring beautiful young girls over ugly older women. There's nothing spiritual about that either, it's simply a biological programming to prefer more fertile and healthy genes over less fertile and unhealthy genes. Lazy Monk |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 80869309  Canada08/09/2022 02:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ok i've been working on myself for the past two years ever since i got out of a bad relationship in summer 2020 (guy was a narcissist). hadn't been dating or even looking to date. had been doing a lot of self-discovery and raising my self-awareness and thought i was making good progress. then this past march i attracted a guy into my life that seemed to have good energy. the timing was weird, and i hadn't even been looking for anyone, so i thought that maybe good things were finally starting to happen. i was even getting signs to confirm that he might be the one. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 lies, all lies. long story short, yes i got involved with him and he turned out to have not so good energy. as in, he was dark--really dark. sex addict, still in love with his ex, completely shallow, full of negative energy (like literally, he was tryna channel it because he's a musician and he likes to use it to help him perform). is he possessed, i don't know honestly but it's possible. i can't believe i was ever attracted to this guy, he's like a dark force and i'm tryna walk in the light. (i'm both religious and spiritual). anyway he's now dating some dark chick, someone who's into weird energy like he is, and they're a good match for each other. meanwhile i'm over here tryna cleanse my energy from his energy. i've been trying to put good energy out there for the past two years, and i've been trying to think good thoughts. i thought it'd been working, especially when i met this guy. but turns out, he's even worse than the last guy i had a relationship with. so how did i attract him into my life then? and how did he attract me, because obviously the energy he's putting out is not something that should have attracted my energy. he's dark, i'm light, we're not the same. what am i doing wrong, do i just not understand how the law of attraction works?! You're just attracting the polar opposite in your case. I had a boss when I did accounting who was the nicest person you could ever meet. She was the definition of a sweetheart. Her coworkers however? Not so much. One guy was just a complete asshole but he ended up being a drug addict who she tolerated for 6 months. The solution to this? You have to understand that your emotions are like an electrical charge. The more you want something the more likely you get the opposite. You can try to ask the creator for what you want but its not here to give you everything you want. It will give you what you actually need to progress on your journey so that you can evolve spiritually and intellectually. Hope this helps. Spread the love but know that its not the easy path to walk. You have to work on yourself. So within so without. People get corrupted for a reason, its the easy way out. You're totally correct, and there's even more to it. Strong desire is more likely to attract the opposite of that desire. So- to get what you want, you have to not want it. Or - another way to put it: no matter what you do, this world is designed to serve up to you that which you do not want. Let that sink in. I'm completely convinced that this is the truth of this world. No matter what any new age LOA guru spouts about the universe trying to always give you what you want. Bullshit. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 83960381 United States08/09/2022 03:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Read Genome by Matt Ridley. Good girls attract bad boys as an energy balance. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83621010 Good girls need bad boys to slay the dragons. Just read the book. The problem is the more spiritual you become the worse the dragon slayer. Just. Read. Kinda sucks but it explains your problem very well. So I'm a spiritual guy with needs. Why am I not attracting a hot girl that needs my body and will take care of me sexually for life? |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 83960381 United States08/09/2022 07:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so how did i attract him into my life then? and how did he attract me, because obviously the energy he's putting out is not something that should have attracted my energy. he's dark, i'm light, we're not the same. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 what am i doing wrong, do i just not understand how the law of attraction works?! It is my experience that we attract what we need - not what we want. If you are attracting problems, then there is something you need to learn. If you continue to attract the SAME problem, then you aren't learning the lesson well enough. Have you ever read Illusions by Richard Bach? This might be a good time to do so- very quick read, and I think it may be useful to you in many ways. Richard Batch writes good stuff, and Illusions was his best. It's why my cars last as long as they do. There's nothing in that book that will attract or keep a hot babe though. |
| Weisshaupt
User ID: 73384851 United States08/09/2022 07:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so how did i attract him into my life then? and how did he attract me, because obviously the energy he's putting out is not something that should have attracted my energy. he's dark, i'm light, we're not the same. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 what am i doing wrong, do i just not understand how the law of attraction works?! It is my experience that we attract what we need - not what we want. If you are attracting problems, then there is something you need to learn. If you continue to attract the SAME problem, then you aren't learning the lesson well enough. Have you ever read Illusions by Richard Bach? This might be a good time to do so- very quick read, and I think it may be useful to you in many ways. Richard Batch writes good stuff, and Illusions was his best. It's why my cars last as long as they do. There's nothing in that book that will attract or keep a hot babe though. It will attract a hot babe that totally fucks your world because you need it fucked. Ask me how I know. |
| BRIEF
User ID: 79662918 United States08/09/2022 07:51 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The law of attraction always works, just not to your liking...You are attracting the wrong kind of men, apparently...If it's not working, try something different...If it works, don't change... I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked.  |
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User ID: 79662918 United States08/09/2022 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quoting: hot stuff 83153702  I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 83985120 Finland08/09/2022 08:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ok i've been working on myself for the past two years ever since i got out of a bad relationship in summer 2020 (guy was a narcissist). hadn't been dating or even looking to date. had been doing a lot of self-discovery and raising my self-awareness and thought i was making good progress. then this past march i attracted a guy into my life that seemed to have good energy. the timing was weird, and i hadn't even been looking for anyone, so i thought that maybe good things were finally starting to happen. i was even getting signs to confirm that he might be the one. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 lies, all lies. long story short, yes i got involved with him and he turned out to have not so good energy. as in, he was dark--really dark. sex addict, still in love with his ex, completely shallow, full of negative energy (like literally, he was tryna channel it because he's a musician and he likes to use it to help him perform). is he possessed, i don't know honestly but it's possible. i can't believe i was ever attracted to this guy, he's like a dark force and i'm tryna walk in the light. (i'm both religious and spiritual). anyway he's now dating some dark chick, someone who's into weird energy like he is, and they're a good match for each other. meanwhile i'm over here tryna cleanse my energy from his energy. i've been trying to put good energy out there for the past two years, and i've been trying to think good thoughts. i thought it'd been working, especially when i met this guy. but turns out, he's even worse than the last guy i had a relationship with. so how did i attract him into my life then? and how did he attract me, because obviously the energy he's putting out is not something that should have attracted my energy. he's dark, i'm light, we're not the same. what am i doing wrong, do i just not understand how the law of attraction works?! Maybe you´re faking it. And you should dig the stuff you attract. I dunno. Sorry.  |
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| BRIEF
User ID: 79662918 United States08/09/2022 08:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ok i've been working on myself for the past two years ever since i got out of a bad relationship in summer 2020 (guy was a narcissist). hadn't been dating or even looking to date. had been doing a lot of self-discovery and raising my self-awareness and thought i was making good progress. then this past march i attracted a guy into my life that seemed to have good energy. the timing was weird, and i hadn't even been looking for anyone, so i thought that maybe good things were finally starting to happen. i was even getting signs to confirm that he might be the one. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 lies, all lies. long story short, yes i got involved with him and he turned out to have not so good energy. as in, he was dark--really dark. sex addict, still in love with his ex, completely shallow, full of negative energy (like literally, he was tryna channel it because he's a musician and he likes to use it to help him perform). is he possessed, i don't know honestly but it's possible. i can't believe i was ever attracted to this guy, he's like a dark force and i'm tryna walk in the light. (i'm both religious and spiritual). anyway he's now dating some dark chick, someone who's into weird energy like he is, and they're a good match for each other. meanwhile i'm over here tryna cleanse my energy from his energy. i've been trying to put good energy out there for the past two years, and i've been trying to think good thoughts. i thought it'd been working, especially when i met this guy. but turns out, he's even worse than the last guy i had a relationship with. so how did i attract him into my life then? and how did he attract me, because obviously the energy he's putting out is not something that should have attracted my energy. he's dark, i'm light, we're not the same. what am i doing wrong, do i just not understand how the law of attraction works?! Maybe you´re faking it. And you should dig the stuff you attract. I dunno. Sorry. I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
| hot stuff User ID: 83153702 United States08/09/2022 08:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what am i doing wrong, do i just not understand how the law of attraction works?! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 sounds like you have the attraction thing down it's just not up to the standards you set for yourself. If you have low to 0 standards you will attract low vibration people. |
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| BRIEF
User ID: 79662918 United States08/09/2022 08:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what am i doing wrong, do i just not understand how the law of attraction works?! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 sounds like you have the attraction thing down it's just not up to the standards you set for yourself. If you have low to 0 standards you will attract low vibration people. You attract more flies with an open vag, than with your legs closed... I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
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