Why Do Men Joke About Marriage???

Fellow dudes,

Beware beware if you sense the smallest crazy in your woman. I recommend getting away at the FIRST crazy sign in her. Do not be tolerant and say you are a man and can tolerate it and be loving of her faults. For me her behavior was the tip to a gigantic hidden evil iceberg of ugliness. My exwife used me and had no integrity, fidelity, decency etc. Whereas I was honest and working to make a wholesome life which she used of me instead of doing the same. She showed me a hideousness I would expect from a worst enemy. After she had done her deeds I was standing wounded as if 10 swords were thrust in my emotional cortex and there was absolutely no good reason for her to do it. I was like, why did you do this to me, I loved you. In the clarity of years I realize she was of extreme mental disease and had huge manhatingness hidden. Her shadow-self was hideous beyond words.

My friends, family etc cringe when they see me knowing what awefulness was done to me.

Beware beware beware!

It really gets awkward when the husband starts introducing her as his first wife.

three guys were playing their usual Saturday round of golf,

while they were on the 12th green, a funeral procession went by on the adjoining road.

one of the guys stopped, and respectfully took off his hat until all the cars in the procession rolled past

one of his buddies said, "That was really considerate of you, Jack."

Jack put his hat back on and stepped up to make his putt.

"Well," he said, "we were married for 27 years."

I do...the answers I get after they've asked me 3-4 times as an aside in a convo: they want a companion, they love me, they "eventually" want to marry, etc etc. So, it's like a joke, not serious. One constantly negotiated buying half of my assets, wtf.

That's funny!

It really gets awkward when the husband starts introducing her as his first wife.