Why Do Men Joke About Marriage???

At least back then comedy was funny -- even if it was subversive of traditional marriage and family.


Most "comedy" today sucks.

Last Edited by High Desert Cat on 07/30/2022 12:12 PM

All in the Family was kind of subversive in its day.


Still funny though.

There's a stalker after ye o0...

inn a pure statistic count, american women are unmarriable. they will file for divorce in near 100% of marriages if they attended diseducation camp ( beanie boys call it college)

american women are untouchable. the lowest caste on earth who fuck half monkeys and always behave cruel to men. total destruction of the evil religions and total destruction of the university system is the only hope for women

Learn how to lick pussy and fuck up kid would be my advice...American women wouldn't have went half monkey if the milky bar kid had of been about, ye know?

Your a failure mate... I'll redeem the white race by myself kid, grab a seat and a Pepsi...what's ur sister called anyway???

2022 incels everywhere and pussy begging for it...the year it all makes sense...

What did you say to the dude that was wanting you for your assets? If I was a woman in your shoes, I'd tell him to fuck off and that you ever wanted to see his ass around again. The other guys, just saying they wanted to marry you without making a sincere proposal or asking to be engaged (with ring in his hand) are stringing you along. I know women play many head games (ie carrot/stick) , but guys less so. I've seen it myself in relationships and many to my friends. Anyhow, just get these guys out of your life. They aren't worth your time and have little integrity.

marriage is an outdated institution. You don't need to get married anymore these days. Cohabitation is just fine with zero legal/financial risks

Only men who would consider marriage or are already married joke about it.

I'll stay away from that comedy club thank you.

Sounds more like a mind game than a 'joke'.

In my observation, when women feel like they are in jeopardy or that their life/choices are out of their control, we might cry or need to talk about it with someone else to find direction/resolution.

Men don't have that outlet. They joke. To me it signifies insecurity or a feeling of jeopardy. Some men joke about women constantly. It is my guess they have been hurt or betrayed by a woman.

On rare occasion you meet a man who never jokes about women. He takes them seriously and is respectful of women. This rare fellow is one who had a loving, faithful mother, and was lucky enough to find the same quality of spouse.

Last Edited by ArchimedesGirl on 08/02/2022 11:45 PM

Pool: Here is sort of a dark song that I think you can relate to given your situation. Of course, this was written from a guy's perspective-- Phil Collins. But the tone and timbre, a pissed off one at that, is how you should proceed with any of these so-called "suitors" in your life. Words (can't say the "L" word or get censored) are within video-- "Do You Know, Do You Care?":


Last Edited by Squonk on 07/30/2022 06:57 PM

OP, it appears you tend to like certain type of guys. You need to stop going for those guys.

They ram down that freudian garbage in school nowadays. This is why i say collage makes people dumber.

I've been spending more time meditating on the external perception of my spiritual conscious. Can't say it will work to cleanse their pallets, but it's an honest effort. Even in prayer it takes precision. As of now, I am focusing on clear.

I believe we are physical manifestations of our emotional/spiritual thoughts.

As for Phil Collins, I can't say his attitude has created a harmony in his physical existence.
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"I've been spending more time meditating on the external perception of my spiritual conscious. Can't say it will work to cleanse their pallets, but it's an honest effort. Even in prayer it takes precision. As of now, I am focusing on clear.

I believe we are physical manifestations of our emotional/spiritual thoughts"
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Okay-- getting deep there. I'm not trying to be mean, but I believe you need to work on your own spiritual consciousness and not anyone else's perception of you. Spirituality has to deal with you, yourself. Trying to meditate on "cleansing other's pallets", I believe gets into a different realm, dangerous territory -- say witchcraft, and I think that is not the path an enlightened individual should take. Once you get good and "clear" with yourself, then that aura of confidence should exude from your being, and that is what hopefully will keep this nonsense away. But then again, these guys that talk out of their ass, they can't even read people, even if they supposedly "know" you. As I said before, get them out of your life. Ghost them. I've done it before to a few people who I was close to at one time, and feel damn good about it.

And BTW, I pretty much know Phil's whole life story. I would recombine you read his book, "Not Dead Yet". He lays it all out on his sleeve. But since the book came out, he has really gone even further downhill. Such a shame. Shows you that money can't by love. He went through three divorces even during his heyday.

Last Edited by Squonk on 07/30/2022 07:39 PM

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What is the age range of these men who have been “joking” about marriage, Pool?

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finality. half way thru the cigarette.

Men are dogs and stupid

Ruled by their docks

Your job

Should you wish to take it

Is to put a leash on that dick and ride it till it is broken in

Like any good horse

Do it with love

And you will have a good horse

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You haven’t stated if you’re looking to get married or not.

Did you indicate to them you were looking to move in that direction, or did you say nothing? How long were you in these relationships before the subject arose? Who raised the issue and why?

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Last Edited by Zovalex on 07/30/2022 09:24 PM

Fellow dudes,

Beware beware if you sense the smallest crazy in your woman. I recommend getting away at the FIRST crazy sign in her. Do not be tolerant and say you are a man and can tolerate it and be loving of her faults. For me her behavior was the tip to a gigantic hidden evil iceberg of ugliness. My exwife used me and had no integrity, fidelity, decency etc. Whereas I was honest and working to make a wholesome life which she used of me instead of doing the same. She showed me a hideousness I would expect from a worst enemy. After she had done her deeds I was standing wounded as if 10 swords were thrust in my emotional cortex and there was absolutely no good reason for her to do it. I was like, why did you do this to me, I loved you. In the clarity of years I realize she was of extreme mental disease and had huge manhatingness hidden. Her shadow-self was hideous beyond words.

My friends, family etc cringe when they see me knowing what awefulness was done to me.

Beware beware beware!

Retarded wasp Gump pat toomey.

Thats true for all relatiionships. Generally, one person is dominant and one recessive in terms of needs...or neediness. The courtship period generally establishes BOUNDARIES, OR, PUT ANOTHER WAY, what the dominant can get away with.

I have a lot of relationship experience and may write a book about it.

In the present case, I would need to know at least the decade we are dealing with here. Half a cigarette...40s?

Someone asked earlier and the answer was very vague. Why?

Wired to respond in a general or vague way indicates one who has been hurt deeply by zomeone she trusted.

An introverted intellectual. Logical...

As a result, gives off inconsistant signals. Because hurt before seeks weak, controllable men who need clear signals to proceed.

She likes STRONG MEN like the one who hurt her before and thus toys with the beta personality, and seeks sympathy and emotional balm when beta fails to meet her expectations...ones he is unable to ever meet.

Pool will respond to a strong personality who takes what he wants. He will see her intellect and inner quality and have no choice but to dominate her and overwhelm her with his intellect and charm. She will see him as a desirable mate, a provider and her intellectual equal, or superior.

The question will ultimately be only one...will she have the courage to go all in...to try again and risk exposing herself. Does she have the strength?

Its got nothing to do with the men in question and she knows it. She could never be happy with that type...and living with knowing she settled for less

by the way...you sound like a phag, or drama queen.

No offense intendsx

Fear. Marriage is work. I've been married 31 years and many times I wanted to walk away. Fear of commitment, work, compromise, vulnerability is why.

Hang in there, you'll find someone.

Do you mean you've been asked to marry 3-4 times? If you accepted and became engaged, what happened? It sounds like you want a companion and have love but perhaps you're on different time frames where you are ready NOW & he may be busy with work to complete on the inside, in his job, or both, before walking off hand in hand into the sunset. If he’s talking about it, he’s not joking but maybe just trying to figure it out. There are so many scenarios here… Your ages, responsibilities, etc. Have you both been through this before, with kids to blend in a family, etc.? Or even just furniture! Bottom line, If you honestly trust your love for, and devotion to him and trust his love and devotion to you, you still must be as patient, kind, understanding and forgiving as possible since these attributes are the core definition of love and arguably the most important requirements in a lifelong relationship where we all have our faults. No one is ever perfect. Can you see any of your own shortcomings in the relationship?

As for BUYING your assets, I don't understand why he would want your things unless he just means to contribute. After all if he paid you… It would be your money, but I have no idea what he would do with your things!

Humor is how we deflect terror