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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80383054 United States 07/02/2022 10:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He didn’t show the part where he pushed her to this point. This is what narcissists do. Hopefully she can leave him. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69658331 Being that he records the interaction and uses it on social media, showing himself to be the calm, cool, collected one and the person he supposedly cared enough about to have a relationship with having a breakdown. I would tend to agree with you. Recording to protect himself is one thing, this is something else. We have no idea about her past, what triggered her or what he may have possibly done. While it doesn’t show his face, it’s a safe bet that all of his friends and a lot of their community have seen this and know who he is. Narcissist’s pick these types of partners as much as dependent women choose them. Hopefully they both stay away from each other and get help. Narcissists and borderlines pick each other because their pathologies serve one another. . Right and it's not pretty. The Bystander Effect happens too. And no one wants to get involved. They would rather call them crazy and walk away instead of helping break the cycle of violence. The Bystander is weak, and sometimes without knowledge of what to do. Brian Landry, seems all calm and was just a regular guy. Gabby Petito was upset but didn't want to get him in trouble. The cops didn't do anything to stop the murder, bystanders. Many men call women hysterical and add criticism. The right thing to do is to point these people to the right resources. AA is a good start. Just mentioning it will allow them to find their way, even if it takes years. United Way is another, free counseling. Oh, FFS. These are not psychological disorders. They are brain disorders. Psychotherapy does NOTHING for a person with NPD or BPD. A person with BPD has a chance at treatment with proper meds to treat the chemical imbalances that cause the cognitive and perceptual disruptions (delusions) and helps keep their emotional dysregulation, and thus their impulse and behaviors, in check. DBT helps rewire the brain and control disrupted thought processes. You cannot talk people out of brain disorders any more than you can punish it out if them. . |
Amenti
User ID: 77720388 Sweden 07/02/2022 10:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You guys all know that I'm one of the first to joke around about women but this clip actually disturbs me. Quoting: The Ghost of Oak Redhammer The guy has obviously been fucking with her. She is obviously emotionally and psychologically helpless against him and throws the fit you see because powerlessness is a horrific feeling. Don't be this asshole. [link to imgur.com (secure)] In situations like this, ask yourself "What would Sean Connery do?" Sean Connery was alleged to have beaten his first wife and frequently defended hitting women. The Guardian [DOT] com/film/2020/nov/03/the-fall-of-johnny-depp-how-the-worlds-most-beautiful-movie-star-turned-very-ugly Sean Connery said hitting women was ok and was known to have beaten his wife for no good reason. [link to www.datalounge.com (secure)] Jealous Connery beat me, says ex-wife The former wife of Sir Sean Connery claims in her new autobiography that the James Bond star beat her up during their marriage. [link to www.scotsman.com (secure)] . Quoting: [link to www.scotsman.com (secure)] Diane Cilento, who was married to Connery from 1962 to 1973, said he physically and mentally abused her in jealous rages. She describes his resentment at her own success ...// "Sean was a bully" - Robert Sessions, Ms Cilento's editor In 1965 he told Playboy: "I don't think there is anything particularly wrong in hitting a woman, though I don't recommend you do it the same way that you hit a man." And in Vanity Fair in 1993 he said: "There are women who take it to the wire. That's what they are looking for, the ultimate confrontation. They want a smack." . I saw the bruises Sean left on his wife's face: Close friend of Connery's first wife Diane Cilento reveals a violent streak that would have made 007 wince [link to www.dailymail.co.uk (secure)] . Last Edited by Amenti on 07/02/2022 10:43 PM ~~~~>> LOVE <3 [link to youtu.be (secure)] Hang in there, eternally Semper Fi! [link to youtu.be (secure)] ... |
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Agent 99
User ID: 77082640 United States 07/02/2022 10:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You guys all know that I'm one of the first to joke around about women but this clip actually disturbs me. Quoting: The Ghost of Oak Redhammer The guy has obviously been fucking with her. She is obviously emotionally and psychologically helpless against him and throws the fit you see because powerlessness is a horrific feeling. Don't be this asshole. [imgur] [link to imgur.com (secure)] This is not an asshole, this is a psychopath. He is breaking her personality and is coldheartedly going on recording her even as he sees what it is doing to her. He is probably also a sadist. Normal people might make mistakes, but would stop as soon as they see what they are doing. Don't tell readers to not "be this asshole" BTW, it's condescending and shows you are not holding them in high view... This. Lots of other men supporting this psychopathy, very disturbing trend. Showing lack of empathy is also a sign of NPD. Last Edited by Agent 99 on 07/02/2022 10:43 PM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83500961 United States 07/02/2022 10:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83500961 She was abused and fucked over by a dude. Of course she's going to .... If women aren't mentally capable of dealing with what life can hand them why are they given the right to make their own decisions? That is the logical deduction to your line of thinking isn't it? If men are responsible for everything, then shouldn't they in fact be responsible and have the legal authority to support that? Legal authority to support what exactly? To support them ordering women around because they aren't fully people in any responsible sense according to many on this thread. They are either adults or they are not. Pick one. There is such a thing as the mentally ill. I support bringing back asylums to protect the general public from the psychotic behaviors of the mentally unwell |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79889820 Canada 07/02/2022 10:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't see anything that supports your thread title at all, just some hysterical chick freaking out like a three year old. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80377126 Yeah, and you are not wondering what caused such a breakdown? An infantile mind that thinks only of what she wants and kicks her feet and screams if she doesn't get it. |
Agent 99
User ID: 77082640 United States 07/02/2022 10:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83056903 Being that he records the interaction and uses it on social media, showing himself to be the calm, cool, collected one and the person he supposedly cared enough about to have a relationship with having a breakdown. I would tend to agree with you. Recording to protect himself is one thing, this is something else. We have no idea about her past, what triggered her or what he may have possibly done. While it doesn’t show his face, it’s a safe bet that all of his friends and a lot of their community have seen this and know who he is. Narcissist’s pick these types of partners as much as dependent women choose them. Hopefully they both stay away from each other and get help. Narcissists and borderlines pick each other because their pathologies serve one another. . Right and it's not pretty. The Bystander Effect happens too. And no one wants to get involved. They would rather call them crazy and walk away instead of helping break the cycle of violence. The Bystander is weak, and sometimes without knowledge of what to do. Brian Landry, seems all calm and was just a regular guy. Gabby Petito was upset but didn't want to get him in trouble. The cops didn't do anything to stop the murder, bystanders. Many men call women hysterical and add criticism. The right thing to do is to point these people to the right resources. AA is a good start. Just mentioning it will allow them to find their way, even if it takes years. United Way is another, free counseling. Oh, FFS. These are not psychological disorders. They are brain disorders. Psychotherapy does NOTHING for a person with NPD or BPD. A person with BPD has a chance at treatment with proper meds to treat the chemical imbalances that cause the cognitive and perceptual disruptions (delusions) and helps keep their emotional dysregulation, and thus their impulse and behaviors, in check. DBT helps rewire the brain and control disrupted thought processes. You cannot talk people out of brain disorders any more than you can punish it out if them. . Good to know. How to get someone to get proper medical treatment? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80630098 Germany 07/02/2022 10:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You guys all know that I'm one of the first to joke around about women but this clip actually disturbs me. Quoting: The Ghost of Oak Redhammer The guy has obviously been fucking with her. She is obviously emotionally and psychologically helpless against him and throws the fit you see because powerlessness is a horrific feeling. Don't be this asshole. [link to imgur.com (secure)] In situations like this, ask yourself "What would Sean Connery do?" Sean Connery was alleged to have beaten his first wife and frequently defended hitting women. The Guardian [DOT] com/film/2020/nov/03/the-fall-of-johnny-depp-how-the-worlds-most-beautiful-movie-star-turned-very-ugly Sean Connery said hitting women was ok and was known to have beaten his wife for no good reason. [link to www.datalounge.com (secure)] Jealous Connery beat me, says ex-wife The former wife of Sir Sean Connery claims in her new autobiography that the James Bond star beat her up during their marriage. [link to www.scotsman.com (secure)] . Quoting: [link to www.scotsman.com (secure)] Diane Cilento, who was married to Connery from 1962 to 1973, said he physically and mentally abused her in jealous rages. She describes his resentment at her own success ...// "Sean was a bully" - Robert Sessions, Ms Cilento's editor In 1965 he told Playboy: "I don't think there is anything particularly wrong in hitting a woman, though I don't recommend you do it the same way that you hit a man." And in Vanity Fair in 1993 he said: "There are women who take it to the wire. That's what they are looking for, the ultimate confrontation. They want a smack." . I saw the bruises Sean left on his wife's face: Close friend of Connery's first wife Diane Cilento reveals a violent streak that would have made 007 wince [link to www.dailymail.co.uk (secure)] . I have been wondering if, for all his virility, Connery wasn't secretly gay. If you saw some of his pictures when young you might wonder too. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83784701 Canada 07/02/2022 10:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't see anything that supports your thread title at all, just some hysterical chick freaking out like a three year old. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80377126 Yeah, and you are not wondering what caused such a breakdown? An infantile mind that thinks only of what she wants and kicks her feet and screams if she doesn't get it. Sounds like a typical libtard |
Skorpio
User ID: 83060431 United States 07/02/2022 10:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's got paw marks all over her arm. I guess that makes her a genuine bitch. Maybe she wasn't walked today and she's throwing a fit. Definitely needs one of those spiked choke collars. FCK the WEF! Keep your hands off my country! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77337151 United States 07/02/2022 10:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think he locked her in the car. Don't know why she couldn't just get out though. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83761608 If that was the case I would be freaking out too, but don't think so because she's not banging on the windows saying let me out. Her behavior is definitely a bit psycho and overly dramatic for a standard breakup situation but it's also not normal to record her and post to social media. Hard to say what's really going on in any relationship. Every one has their opinions and judgments though. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80383054 United States 07/02/2022 10:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No sympathy for any woman who stays with this type behavior. They knew the signs. They likely decided to date shit like this because of money, status, material shit, and this is often times how these men use them. They know they want them for their shit, whatever it may be, and then they dump on their ass constantly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79256446 Date better men. He may not have the status, top job, inherited money/land, or a name. But, he will love you and he will care for you Western culture is sick. A deep sickness. Most women can't leave. The trap is really strong and the torture is intense. Read up on it. Happens all the time. Learn how to help. Criticism does nothing. No, those with BPD won't leave because they have abandonment fears at their core, which is the reason they engage in every manipulation in the book including threat of suicide to keep the partner from leaving no matter what she or he has done. Those with NPD don't leave because the person with BPD is their supply and perceived slave. They live in a shared pathological fantasy world, and it is the true pathological co- dependency. Both are mentally ill with physical/biological brain disruptions. Couples where only one has a mental disorder have different dynamics. . |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80383054 United States 07/02/2022 11:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh, FFS. These are not psychological disorders. They are brain disorders. Psychotherapy does NOTHING for a person with NPD or BPD. Quoting: Agent 99 A person with BPD has a chance at treatment with proper meds to treat the chemical imbalances that cause the cognitive and perceptual disruptions (delusions) and helps keep their emotional dysregulation, and thus their impulse and behaviors, in check. DBT helps rewire the brain and control disrupted thought processes. You cannot talk people out of brain disorders any more than you can punish it out if them. . Good to know. How to get someone to get proper medical treatment? A psychiatrist and clinical DBT psychologist team with qualified experience treating BPD and other "personality" disorders is needed. A clinical therapist qualified treating Cluster B disorders is a good place to start, but they must understand the biological components of the disorders. And for BPD, a therapist who treats with DBT is needed because it's the only treatment so far showing great efficacy because it rewires the brain. Seek a team offering DBT for BPD treatment. Otherwise for what is improperly labeled as "domestic violence", a qualified trauma team that includes a psychiatrist (to properly administer and manage meds, if needed) is a good place to start. . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80383054 United States 07/02/2022 11:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You guys all know that I'm one of the first to joke around about women but this clip actually disturbs me. Quoting: The Ghost of Oak Redhammer The guy has obviously been fucking with her. She is obviously emotionally and psychologically helpless against him and throws the fit you see because powerlessness is a horrific feeling. Don't be this asshole. [imgur] [link to imgur.com (secure)] This is not an asshole, this is a psychopath. He is breaking her personality and is coldheartedly going on recording her even as he sees what it is doing to her. He is probably also a sadist. Normal people might make mistakes, but would stop as soon as they see what they are doing. Don't tell readers to not "be this asshole" BTW, it's condescending and shows you are not holding them in high view... This. Lots of other men supporting this psychopathy, very disturbing trend. Showing lack of empathy is also a sign of NPD. A behavioral lack of, or deficiency in, empathy is traited for all Cluster B disorders including BPD, NPD and ASPD (psychopathy and sociopathy). In fact, fMRIs demonstrate a significantly decreased brain matter with, and wiring to, the structure associated with empathy. . |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80630098 Germany 07/02/2022 11:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think he locked her in the car. Don't know why she couldn't just get out though. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83761608 If that was the case I would be freaking out too, but don't think so because she's not banging on the windows saying let me out. Her behavior is definitely a bit psycho and overly dramatic for a standard breakup situation but it's also not normal to record her and post to social media. Hard to say what's really going on in any relationship. Every one has their opinions and judgments though. The video shows the part where she's already too far to simply ask "let me out". Maybe he cut off the part of the video where she did ask? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79889820 Canada 07/02/2022 11:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if at any point someone is able to get you to lose your composure you are just a weak person. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 81710741 SO WHAT? Does that mean the other person had a right to do that? Do what? It's all a fantasy in your mind that he is some monster based on sweet fuck all. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77337151 United States 07/02/2022 11:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think he locked her in the car. Don't know why she couldn't just get out though. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83761608 If that was the case I would be freaking out too, but don't think so because she's not banging on the windows saying let me out. Her behavior is definitely a bit psycho and overly dramatic for a standard breakup situation but it's also not normal to record her and post to social media. Hard to say what's really going on in any relationship. Every one has their opinions and judgments though. The video shows the part where she's already too far to simply ask "let me out". Maybe he cut off the part of the video where she did ask? That's a scary thought. I see. Maybe she was yelling "don't leave me" like don't leave me here because he locked her in the car. Guy should be arrested if that happened. |
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ShiningLightIntoDarkPlaces
User ID: 76837361 United States 07/03/2022 08:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't see anything that supports your thread title at all, just some hysterical chick freaking out like a three year old. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80377126 She's hyperventillating. Are you enjoyingthat? Here's the bottom line. She needed some relief and rescue from whatever hell he had imposed on her, as he sits and watches. She needs an intervention from HIM. He's a monster. Brian Laundrie would be proud of you. What do you think he did to Gabby aside from killing her? Do you find this entertaining? Do you need a heart transplant, cuz you got a heart of stone? Here's a hint: When anyone is begging with the key word "please" interjected in their begging, she/he is a victim. You just added to her dilemma. Are you proud of yourself? "Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing." -Clive James Miss Trump yet? LET IT RAIN. |
ShiningLightIntoDarkPlaces
User ID: 76837361 United States 07/03/2022 08:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You guys all know that I'm one of the first to joke around about women but this clip actually disturbs me. Quoting: The Ghost of Oak Redhammer The guy has obviously been fucking with her. She is obviously emotionally and psychologically helpless against him and throws the fit you see because powerlessness is a horrific feeling. Don't be this asshole. [imgur] [link to imgur.com (secure)] This is not an asshole, this is a psychopath. He is breaking her personality and is coldheartedly going on recording her even as he sees what it is doing to her. He is probably also a sadist. Normal people might make mistakes, but would stop as soon as they see what they are doing. Don't tell readers to not "be this asshole" BTW, it's condescending and shows you are not holding them in high view... This. Lots of other men supporting this psychopathy, very disturbing trend. Showing lack of empathy is also a sign of NPD. A behavioral lack of, or deficiency in, empathy is traited for all Cluster B disorders including BPD, NPD and ASPD (psychopathy and sociopathy). In fact, fMRIs demonstrate a significantly decreased brain matter with, and wiring to, the structure associated with empathy. . "Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing." -Clive James Miss Trump yet? LET IT RAIN. |
ShiningLightIntoDarkPlaces
User ID: 76837361 United States 07/03/2022 08:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He didn’t show the part where he pushed her to this point. This is what narcissists do. Hopefully she can leave him. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69658331 Narcissists and gaslighters. "Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing." -Clive James Miss Trump yet? LET IT RAIN. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 81061668 United States 07/03/2022 08:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't see anything that supports your thread title at all, just some hysterical chick freaking out like a three year old. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80377126 Yeah, and you are not wondering what caused such a breakdown? The girl in the video having the emotional meltdown tells you what caused it. The guy broke up with her after catching her cheating. Numerous times she asks him to take her back. How are some of you so dense that you can hear what the person is saying and still not understand what's happening? Then you have serial man-haters like Agent 99 pretending this is due to the man hitting her or some other similar nonsense. This is due to the woman cheating and getting dumped...it's that simple, and it's how 90% of the other women on the planet react when they get busted cheating. |