There was a time it was "what a Lucky Lad" mentality.

Pops would give him a slap on the back for busting his first Nut. Mum wouldn't be happy her son was seduced by an older woman her age, but accept it as a coming of age. Pun intended :-)

Times have changed.

To be fair if you reverse the rolls, 45 year old Dude and 14 year old Girl. There would be burning Pitchfork Mob outside the House to Lynch him.

So I do get it from a different perspective.