Late to the thread but as one mom to another I'm praying for you.

If you have any horse paste I'd give her a good dose asap.

Also get some powder d mannose from the health food store. Powder not capsules.

I haven't had time to read all replies so perhaps it's already been suggested.

We as parents are facing a very hard time and I expect to be dealing with this myself sooner or later.

God bless you and your family