Dear Old Timer; Your beloved child in not in any grave or ashes from this. Do not call Christ Jesus and many others a liar. GOD is good and provided us all with a Spiritual body also, the Holy Bible said. My Grandfather made me take a Holy Oath before he died, to never take the shot and I am not. He was right! You also can now try to get your beloved grand daughter take a Holy Oath also. This is what you can do right now about this tragedy.