Guys, I'm hurting so very bad right now. Please, I am asking for prayer. | |
Servant-of-the-LORD
User ID: 81009527 United States 10/15/2021 11:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Trust in the Father and the Son fully Thank the Father for sending His Son to us Thank Jesus for doing the Father's Will Repent to God the Father for your sins Give thanks for daily blessings...regardless of how simple / "ordinary" they may seem Love others and forgive them as necessary Pray for others and help them if possible Read the Bible and ask Jesus or the Father for guidance concerning it Pray / ask the Father to show HIS WILL for you to do Share your "testimonies" of what God and Jesus have done for you I am a humble Servant of the one True Living God. |
NKM Dude
User ID: 79040611 United States 10/15/2021 11:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I pray the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit encourage and strengthen you and help you to grow in grace and truth in the Lord Jesus Christ for his glory and your spiritual growth. May Christ’s mercies rest upon you! Amen. My Hope is built on nothing less than Jesus' blood and righteousness... This is how much God loved the world: He gave his Son, his one and only Son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life. John 3:16-18 (The Message) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75147420 United States 10/15/2021 11:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Today I'm really hurting on a level too deep to be comfortable. Quoting: InChristAmen I'm obviously a believer and follower of the Lord Jesus Christ. I'm having dreadful delusions seep into my mind, and hearing voices now due to my beloved girlfriend leaving me. This is just a really difficult day. I feel too hurt and that I'm physically sick and near death. I don't know how to handle loss very well. I'm asking for comfort also because of my Mom who passed away. I did visit her memorial today in the garden and it's very beautiful. I may go there for comfort. I feel scared, that my sins are separating me from God, but I love God with all my heart, soul, strength, and mind. He is my hero. Please my friends, I could really use a prayer. You have no idea how much it means to me that you care for me and my wellbeing, even as I pray and care for yours. Thank you, thank you, very much. With Love, Please keep us updated, I'm very concerned. Prayers sent. Asked for Angels to surround you OP. Keep your eyes and heart open to feel His grace and mercy. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/15/2021 11:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been away from my PC during the day and I am now going through the pages reading all your replies. I feel so grateful to have so much support from GLP. I have always loved the people that visit this site, especially those who are kind, loving, and encouraging. Sometimes you find bitterness here, which has deterred me from visiting at times. All I can say is "WOW" and "THANK YOU", for lifting me up in prayer before God. I am so grateful. I have been so down and out recently, if I could only remind myself of how generous and loving people are here, there, and everywhere (Beatles pun intended), I would have a better outlook. I am obviously seeking support, but I'm also seeking help to better my life, be a better servant, and also a better man (human). Bless you guys, I love you. Please give me a minute to read through. I will say the pain and sorrow I'm feeling hasn't gone away, and I don't know how long it will take to heal from this relationship. I feel it would be best to take a break from trying to be with someone, out of respect for my possible future wife, and myself. I am really craving love from a woman, laughter, holding hands, cooking together, dates, all that. I think it may be too soon, yet I'm really hurting from loneliness. If I can pull it together for a few months, then maybe try entering the scene again. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/15/2021 11:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Today's highlight was definitely visiting my Mother's Memorial at the Butterfly Garden. It is a beautiful spot for her and I know with all my heart she would love it, and if she's in Heaven right now, she's watching over. I find comfort knowing she is with the Lord. She was a faithful servant, selfless, devoted, and very loving. To know she has possibly met Jesus in the flesh gives me encouragment. I want to honor my parents and more importantly, God. This may be a necessary season to ignite a spark of change within me. I don't want to take any day for granted, and I have many times. Praying psalm 51. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/15/2021 11:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Simple Daily Faith & Living Quoting: Servant-of-the-LORD Trust in the Father and the Son fully Thank the Father for sending His Son to us Thank Jesus for doing the Father's Will Repent to God the Father for your sins Give thanks for daily blessings...regardless of how simple / "ordinary" they may seem Love others and forgive them as necessary Pray for others and help them if possible Read the Bible and ask Jesus or the Father for guidance concerning it Pray / ask the Father to show HIS WILL for you to do Share your "testimonies" of what God and Jesus have done for you Saving this on my desktop. Thank you. God has richly blessed me with amazing family, some really good friends that although I don't see in person, they are the most supportive family one could ask for. He has blessed me with some really meaningful relationships too. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/15/2021 11:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We don't know you friend, your pain sounds too deep for the internet. Quoting: Justin II What you need is a Christian brother to speak to you face to face. Someone who has creds to counsel like a pastor or bishop, someone who's read the Bible several times and is walking with God. These people will be glad to speak to you. It's either this or lock yourself in a room and read the Bible and pray. As in, hours of prayer, whatever it takes. Get comfortable and describe everything to God, what you remember, what you think, what you feel, what you need, what you hope. He's listening as long as you're repentant of sins that could have caused you to backslide away from Him. And remember, if you listened to the gospel and was shown the correct understanding of Jesus and his gift for us all, and prayed for it, then you're forever saved and no matter how much suffering you go through on this earth, your home will be in Heaven. Thank you, you're right. I have a therapist, but I need a mentor and possibly a church for support. I've attended a local church here in Fort Lauderdale and have felt very loved, welcomed, and adored the services as well as having respect. It was a tough day. I was in service and my girlfriend texted me goodbye, that she was with someone else now, and he is better than me in every way. The sermon was about justice and possible judgment. I was in tears and having a panic attack losing my girlfriend, and I couldn't absorb the service in any way. I just kept my eyes closed and cried the whole time in the pew. Like I said, it was a tough day. What I need to do is take time to heal, and focus on my Mother's life, reflect on my biggest relationships. I pray my soul is preserved, that I wouldn't lose faith, never again speak an evil word, but always speak life. God is the source of all goodness, I'm going to do my best and trust in Him. Thank you all. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14058719 United States 10/16/2021 05:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Today I'm really hurting on a level too deep to be comfortable. Quoting: InChristAmen I'm obviously a believer and follower of the Lord Jesus Christ. I'm having dreadful delusions seep into my mind, and hearing voices now due to my beloved girlfriend leaving me. This is just a really difficult day. I feel too hurt and that I'm physically sick and near death. I don't know how to handle loss very well. I'm asking for comfort also because of my Mom who passed away. I did visit her memorial today in the garden and it's very beautiful. I may go there for comfort. I feel scared, that my sins are separating me from God, but I love God with all my heart, soul, strength, and mind. He is my hero. Please my friends, I could really use a prayer. You have no idea how much it means to me that you care for me and my wellbeing, even as I pray and care for yours. Thank you, thank you, very much. With Love, I am so sorry about your mom. As far as the girlfriend goes, remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea. I am female btw, and say the same thing for both sexes. Never give up hope finding a true love no matter how many times you get burned. You'll never find anyone if it leaves you too bitter. But I would give time to heal between relationships. And learn lessons from each relationship. Hang out with friends and family now and meet someone later. You're never alone just because you aren't in a romantic relationship because you have friends and family. At least I hope you have good friends and family. And if it becomes overwhelming, talk to a clergy person or therapist. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78167937 Canada 10/16/2021 07:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have to ask yourself if life would have been as good as you thought it would be had your girlfriend stayed with you. She had to leave because, for whatever reason, the relationship wasn't working. Staying in something that's broken is misery. Now you have a chance at a fresh start. It's actually exciting to go out and meet new people who might surprise you. It's a new adventure, enjoy it. When you get older you don't get too many shots at a new adventure like this and, trust me, you'll surely miss the opportunity. |
Starburn
User ID: 81006757 South Africa 10/16/2021 07:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 81010749 Germany 10/16/2021 07:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80400756 10/16/2021 07:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Pray ceaselessly as Jesus instructed. I wake up praising God every day. Satanic attacks have totally subsided. Resist, say no, and act accordingly. Praise-All Day!!! This is straight from the Holy Spirit Who resides in me!!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80400756 10/16/2021 07:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Pray ceaselessly as Jesus instructed. I wake up praising God every day. Satanic attacks have totally subsided. Resist, say no, and act accordingly. Praise-All Day!!! This is straight from the Holy Spirit Who resides in me!!! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80400756 "Do you not know that you are to judge angels"? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80383054 United States 10/16/2021 08:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We don't know you friend, your pain sounds too deep for the internet. Quoting: Justin II What you need is a Christian brother to speak to you face to face. Someone who has creds to counsel like a pastor or bishop, someone who's read the Bible several times and is walking with God. These people will be glad to speak to you. It's either this or lock yourself in a room and read the Bible and pray. As in, hours of prayer, whatever it takes. Get comfortable and describe everything to God, what you remember, what you think, what you feel, what you need, what you hope. He's listening as long as you're repentant of sins that could have caused you to backslide away from Him. And remember, if you listened to the gospel and was shown the correct understanding of Jesus and his gift for us all, and prayed for it, then you're forever saved and no matter how much suffering you go through on this earth, your home will be in Heaven. Thank you, you're right. I have a therapist, but I need a mentor and possibly a church for support. I've attended a local church here in Fort Lauderdale and have felt very loved, welcomed, and adored the services as well as having respect. It was a tough day. I was in service and my girlfriend texted me goodbye, that she was with someone else now, and he is better than me in every way. The sermon was about justice and possible judgment. I was in tears and having a panic attack losing my girlfriend, and I couldn't absorb the service in any way. I just kept my eyes closed and cried the whole time in the pew. Like I said, it was a tough day. What I need to do is take time to heal, and focus on my Mother's life, reflect on my biggest relationships. I pray my soul is preserved, that I wouldn't lose faith, never again speak an evil word, but always speak life. God is the source of all goodness, I'm going to do my best and trust in Him. Thank you all. It sounds like you need a serious relationship with yourself, which, interestingly enough, is where you will find God. That's what God and the Universe are telling you, and you are running away from it attempting to be fulfilled by others, by the external. An honest relationship with self first, then the rest will follow. If you don't do this, God and the Universe will keep knocking you on your arse until you pay attention. Mark my words. You will get the same lessons over and over again each becoming worse than the last until you finally surrender; so, save yourself the immessurable pain and have a relationship with self first. Dig deep and learn and grow from the process. It will spiritually pay off. Cheers! |
beeches
User ID: 78973486 United States 10/16/2021 08:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Today I'm really hurting on a level too deep to be comfortable. Quoting: InChristAmen I'm obviously a believer and follower of the Lord Jesus Christ. I'm having dreadful delusions seep into my mind, and hearing voices now due to my beloved girlfriend leaving me. This is just a really difficult day. I feel too hurt and that I'm physically sick and near death. I don't know how to handle loss very well. I'm asking for comfort also because of my Mom who passed away. I did visit her memorial today in the garden and it's very beautiful. I may go there for comfort. I feel scared, that my sins are separating me from God, but I love God with all my heart, soul, strength, and mind. He is my hero. Please my friends, I could really use a prayer. You have no idea how much it means to me that you care for me and my wellbeing, even as I pray and care for yours. Thank you, thank you, very much. With Love, Please keep us updated, I'm very concerned. Prayers sent. Asked for Angels to surround you OP. Keep your eyes and heart open to feel His grace and mercy. this Amen Liberalism is totalitarianism with a human face – Thomas Sowell |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77836929 United States 10/16/2021 08:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Today I'm really hurting on a level too deep to be comfortable. Quoting: InChristAmen I'm obviously a believer and follower of the Lord Jesus Christ. I'm having dreadful delusions seep into my mind, and hearing voices now due to my beloved girlfriend leaving me. This is just a really difficult day. I feel too hurt and that I'm physically sick and near death. I don't know how to handle loss very well. I'm asking for comfort also because of my Mom who passed away. I did visit her memorial today in the garden and it's very beautiful. I may go there for comfort. I feel scared, that my sins are separating me from God, but I love God with all my heart, soul, strength, and mind. He is my hero. Please my friends, I could really use a prayer. You have no idea how much it means to me that you care for me and my wellbeing, even as I pray and care for yours. Thank you, thank you, very much. With Love, I’ve never found praying as an effective way to change anything. And I’ve never found GLP as a place to get much sympathy for anything either. Man the fuck up! The world is filled with people. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 03:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I pray that God will surround you with the peace that can only come from Him. Hang in there friend. Quoting: Awake 11:11 Here is a poem that has helped me through many a day like you are having... There are two days in every week about which we should not worry. Two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension. One of these days is yesterday, with its mistakes and cares, its faults and blunders, its aches and pains. Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control. All the money in the world cannot bring back yesterday. We cannot undo a single act we performed. We cannot erase a single word we said. Yesterday is gone. The other day we should not worry about is tomorrow. With its possible adversities, its burdens, its large promise and poor performance. Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control. Tomorrow’s sun will rise, either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds, but it will rise. Until it does, we have no stake in tomorrow, for it is as yet unborn. This just leaves only one day . . . Today. Any person can fight the battles of just one day. It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity’s – yesterday and tomorrow – that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse or bitterness for something which happened yesterday, and the dread of what tomorrow may bring. Let us therefore live but one day at a time. ~ Author Unknown ~ Thank you. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 03:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh heavenly Father, The all knowing and wonderful God of all things and Architect of our Salvation. Quoting: DeezMIDrifter We come to the Cross of your Son and plead his blood over our brethren. We demand the feelings of inadequacy and loneliness to flee and to be replaced with breadth of your love and to fill our Brother with the knowledge of who is to you. His value is immeasurable, so valuable is he that you put your Son on the very cross we have come to. We command the voices to stop by the power provided to us by the Cross as your children and the indwelling of you helper the Holy Spirit. Holy Spirit - Fill our Brother with you presence and the understanding that no sin separates him from God because that space was closed forever at the Cross. We Thank You now for the answers to these prayers and may we see your Glory in your movement in our Brothers life. You are the Most High, AMEN Thank you. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 03:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Today I'm really hurting on a level too deep to be comfortable. Quoting: InChristAmen I'm obviously a believer and follower of the Lord Jesus Christ. I'm having dreadful delusions seep into my mind, and hearing voices now due to my beloved girlfriend leaving me. This is just a really difficult day. I feel too hurt and that I'm physically sick and near death. I don't know how to handle loss very well. I'm asking for comfort also because of my Mom who passed away. I did visit her memorial today in the garden and it's very beautiful. I may go there for comfort. I feel scared, that my sins are separating me from God, but I love God with all my heart, soul, strength, and mind. He is my hero. Please my friends, I could really use a prayer. You have no idea how much it means to me that you care for me and my wellbeing, even as I pray and care for yours. Thank you, thank you, very much. With Love, Think: “All things must pass - even THIS.” Ask the Lord to sustain you through your dark hour. Ask and it will be yours. Set your mind to what is to come. You are redeemed. Heaven awaits. Rejoice, friend - the Lord has you set apart and eventually you will have peace that passeth all understanding. Picture yourself in paradise, gazing into that river of life. We are called to struggle and even suffer but for a short season. You’ll be fine. You’ll get through it. And then, once through, your entire being will be filled to overflowing with PEACE and JOY. Rejoice, friend! You are loved! You are redeemed! Thank you. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 03:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 03:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is how codependent relationships end. Like withdrawal symptoms in the soul. Do yourself a favor and go through it sober. That's the only way you're going to see it for what it is. You're going through it for a purpose. And being uncomfortable is part of it. Pain teaches. Growth is painful. You are supposed to feel the pain. Without pain we can know no real love. Humble yourself and embrace the pain because without it you are inhuman or dead. Quoting: zeumeuxt Thank you. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 03:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 04:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fear and sadness is a breeding ground for illness of the soul. Demons feed on fear. Stop feeding them. Quoting: One eyed owl You must reconnect with your faith. You must trust and accept things for what they are. Fear will separate you from God. Please try to find trust...you will then find strength you never knew you had. Trust in God. Trust in your path forward. You got this far. Keep going. One more second. One more minute, one more hour, one more day. Forgive your sins as your father has already done so. Thank you, I believe in the Son of God, that He (perfect love) casts out all fear. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 04:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 04:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Father God, please comfort our brother and cover him with Your peace that passes all understanding. Help him to anchor himself in You and to recognize that he is saved, sealed and sanctified until the day of redemption. It's in the blessed name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, that we ask this. Amen! Quoting: Zeke38 You will keep him in perfect peace, Whose mind is stayed on You, Because he trusts in You. Trust in the LORD forever, For in YAH, the LORD, is everlasting strength. Isaiah 26: 3-4 Amen, and thank you. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 04:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm not sure where to start with your post, so let's begin with the voices; Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80641272 If you have been previously examined and have not been found to have schizophrenia, voices can be the result of really intense anxiety or depressive episodes. This is common, and temporary. Relax and tell yourself that this is just a symptom of intense feeling. It does not mean that you are having a psychotic episode. If you feel that you are beginning to detach from reality, then seek immediate help. Otherwise, allow yourself to feel the loss, rather than fight it. Loss is a natural part of the human experience. Intense grief is the natural reaction to loss. As for your sin, we all sin. If you have stumbled, confess it before Jesus, turn from it, and get up and follow after Jesus again. Either you do have the faith that His sacrifice is enough to cover our sins, or you don't. This isn't about you, but Him. Are you trying to argue that His death and resurrection were and are not adequate? If yes, repent of this. If you are feeling like you are truly, 0hysically ill, seek medical attention. That's a no-brainer. Lastly, I pray that the Holy Spirit strengthens you, body and spirit, so that you can go forth and spread His word, as a fearless disciple. Thank you, and Amen. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 04:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Cry out to Abba, our Father, He says He will never leave us nor forsake us. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80822876 All of us have down times in our lives, everyone. No one gets through this life to the next without some pain and suffering, some much pain some a little. My two cents is that this life is a mere blip compared to eternity and that its a sort of bootcamp to see what we are made of. Learn from your suffering, turn it around for the good. My earthly father killed himself when I was 12 and Abba took over but it was horrific to live through and I always wondered why did I have to endure this? As an adult I literally talked a friend out of suicide, took her for therapy, and stood by her till she was ok, and now she is remarried to a wonderful man and they have two children. I had the skill set to help because of my own pain and finally I knew that pain can be turned into good. I will keep you in my prayers. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and your Dad, that the loss will continue to heal as it always has and that you will be reunited by the power and love of Jesus Christ. What an awesome testimony about your friend with her 2 children. Hallelujah. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 04:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hearing voices is actually a sign your in alot of stress. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80515647 I went through a phase about 15 years ago, I kept hearing a woman's voice say my full name right when I was trying to fall asleep. It's stress. Just keep praying. Things will get better. Sending prayers. I sincerely hope so my friend. Thank you. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 04:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | do not look at the top of the stairs Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80842548 look at the steps one step at a time one step at a time do not stop how much you hurt just keep slowly moving past and present gone just now only this moment exists give good fuel to your body so you can take one step at a time all things will pass nothing is static love Thank you. |
InChristAmen
(OP) User ID: 78281699 United States 10/16/2021 04:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Today I'm really hurting on a level too deep to be comfortable. Quoting: InChristAmen I'm obviously a believer and follower of the Lord Jesus Christ. I'm having dreadful delusions seep into my mind, and hearing voices now due to my beloved girlfriend leaving me. This is just a really difficult day. I feel too hurt and that I'm physically sick and near death. I don't know how to handle loss very well. I'm asking for comfort also because of my Mom who passed away. I did visit her memorial today in the garden and it's very beautiful. I may go there for comfort. I feel scared, that my sins are separating me from God, but I love God with all my heart, soul, strength, and mind. He is my hero. Please my friends, I could really use a prayer. You have no idea how much it means to me that you care for me and my wellbeing, even as I pray and care for yours. Thank you, thank you, very much. With Love, Dont be attached to this world or anyone on it focus on Jesus only and know that this is all temporary anyways. Yes, amen. Grateful for your words. God bless you also. |