BODYCAMVID GABBY PETITO -UPDATE PG28 911 WITNESS BRIAN WAS HITTING | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 9983835 United States 09/16/2021 12:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ok, yesterday i thought for sure he killed her. But he seems very mature in his actions by separating themselves when she has these manic episodes. An abuser might be more inclined to physically shake her or something to get her to stop quickly. Maybe she had a dramatic episode and threatened to end her life somehow. He thought she was bluffing and then realized she went thru with it, got scared that he couldnt find her and left for home |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80383054 United States 09/16/2021 12:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, diagnosed but not prevalence, which has led to a long decades old myth being uncovered by current research. There's been a diagnostic bias toward females, but there's not much of a gender prevalence difference. I've personally had three male BPDs on my life path, who were the most dangerous individuals I've ever met. Give me a sociopath everyday over an untreated BPD who only has one foot in objective reality and who has no control over emotions and behavior...especially if the person is male. As a bit of related data trivia, BPD males and females who have a ASPD comorbidity are 25% more dangerous in behavior than ASPD alone and are a significant percentage in prisons. I'd have to look up the research for that number. . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75708546 United States 09/16/2021 12:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Looks like she assaulted and battered him. Whoa! she's unstable. Quoting: Mangia They actually should have arrested her for this immediately, per their state law. I actually feel sorry for the guy. He should have sent her packing after this altercation, one way bus ticket home to momma and daddy. I've read that it's her van. Not his. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77598481 United States 09/16/2021 12:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, diagnosed but not prevalence, which has led to a long decades old myth being uncovered by current research. There's been a diagnostic bias toward females, but there's not much of a gender prevalence difference. I've personally had three male BPDs on my life path, who were the most dangerous individuals I've ever met. Give me a sociopath everyday over an untreated BPD who only has one foot in objective reality and who has no control over emotions and behavior...especially if the person is male. As a bit of related data trivia, BPD males and females who have a ASPD comorbidity are 25% more dangerous in behavior than ASPD alone and are a significant percentage in prisons. I'd have to look up the research for that number. . Diagnosed vs. Prevalence... :goon: |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80383054 United States 09/16/2021 12:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes it does. Quoting: BFD Unjabbed BPD is fairly exclusive to women. DSM-IV-TR states that borderline personality disorder (BPD) is "diagnosed predominantly (about 75%) in females." A 3:1 female to male gender ratio is quite pronounced for a mental disorder and, consequently, has led to speculation about its cause and to some empirical research. Yes, diagnosed. See my previous post. Research has uncovered there is a diagnostic bias not a prevelence. Current research and better reporting have also uncovered a much larger prevalence rate in the population than what the DSM reports on all PDs. In fact, the APA cannot provide their research or methodology for their cited "rare" and 1-3% figures. Many clinicians and researchers have requested, and the APA refuses or completely ignores. |
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User ID: 80770005 United States 09/16/2021 12:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Police were very professional, shame they are not all like these guys, but what a rigmarole! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80466051 The kids are both decent people, but the girl should know better than striking someone stronger. Surely with cell phone logs it can't be difficult to trace their movements. Parents should have told the girl to come home. Scratches and bruised eye on the right and scratches on the left neck seems like quite an assault. One similar impulsive punch from the guy could be lights out. Women no longer understand Mother Nature and Law of the Jungle. Civilization is a recent and very thin veneer. There is no shortage of violent predators waiting for an opportunity to strike. I wasn't born until the 70's but I kind of like the "old days" where women were feminine but controlled men through sex. Back then, a girl could slap a man across the face and the interaction would end in a passionate kiss. Now, we're all "the same", roommates, interchangeable, all the other Marxist BS. So yeah, you shouldn't slap a man across the face these days in a fit of passion, it doesn't work anymore. Unjabbed and Off Grid |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80383054 United States 09/16/2021 01:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes it does. Quoting: BFD Unjabbed BPD is fairly exclusive to women. DSM-IV-TR states that borderline personality disorder (BPD) is "diagnosed predominantly (about 75%) in females." A 3:1 female to male gender ratio is quite pronounced for a mental disorder and, consequently, has led to speculation about its cause and to some empirical research. Yes, diagnosed. See my previous post. Research has uncovered there is a diagnostic bias not a prevelence. Current research and better reporting have also uncovered a much larger prevalence rate in the population than what the DSM reports on all PDs. In fact, the APA cannot provide their research or methodology for their cited "rare" and 1-3% figures. Many clinicians and researchers have requested, and the APA refuses or completely ignores. Correction: prevalence ^^^ |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77598481 United States 09/16/2021 01:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes it does. Quoting: BFD Unjabbed BPD is fairly exclusive to women. DSM-IV-TR states that borderline personality disorder (BPD) is "diagnosed predominantly (about 75%) in females." A 3:1 female to male gender ratio is quite pronounced for a mental disorder and, consequently, has led to speculation about its cause and to some empirical research. Yes, diagnosed. See my previous post. Research has uncovered there is a diagnostic bias not a prevelence. Current research and better reporting have also uncovered a much larger prevalence rate in the population than what the DSM reports on all PDs. In fact, the APA cannot provide their research or methodology for their cited "rare" and 1-3% figures. Many clinicians and researchers have requested, and the APA refuses or completely ignores. Sounds like some butthurt crazy psychology major objecting to the data to support their man-hating bullshit if you ask me. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80879636 Belgium 09/16/2021 01:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One of the first things that needs to be taught to dating age males is identifying personality disorders in girls. Then you scare the shit out of them by giving them examples of men being completely fucked over by the police and court system when the female eventually goes off the rails and takes out her mental illness on you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77938233 I don't care how pretty her face is or how good her ass looks in a thong. If she has a personality disorder, daddy issues, poor financial responsibility, drinks/does drugs in excess, you FUCKING RUN LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT. This guy obviously has a smart dad and maybe even mom. He did exactly the right thing by shutting the fuck up and getting the hell out of Dodge. It's not just females. Mental illness, including dangerous borderline disorder, does not gender discriminate. . Yes it does. BPD is fairly exclusive to women. DSM-IV-TR states that borderline personality disorder (BPD) is "diagnosed predominantly (about 75%) in females." A 3:1 female to male gender ratio is quite pronounced for a mental disorder and, consequently, has led to speculation about its cause and to some empirical research. A lot of men understand this and play right into it. They know exactly what they're doing. Instead of trying to be compassionate and help the woman they claim to love, they instead gaslight the shit out of her and make it worse. It's as if they get off on it and use it as a form of control and to their advantage. Notice the FIRST thing Brian said when cops questioned him about either of them being on meds, was "No, I'm not on anything- and she's just crazy." Chuckle chuckle, rib rib. You get it Mr. POLICE officer bc you're a man. You know how those crazy bitches are. Wink wink. That is a man's go to defense whenever they are challenged or questioned about relationships and/or their emotions. Every single time. 'She's the crazy one, not me.' This screams that the man probably has sociopathic tendencies, and is sicker than any woman with bpd. In this situation, I guarantee he's way guiltier than he's letting on, and trying to make her look like she was completely unstable. This guy is good at playing the nice, innocent boyfriend who was only trying to help his kooky, overly-emotional girlfriend. Probably grew up getting his way and learned very well how to con people into getting what he wanted. Most men usually do in our society. It's the way our world is set up, unfortunately. That is why we now have so many loud, obnoxious feminazis who are constantly battling this 'patriarchal' society. They're fed up, and in many cases, rightly so. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80383054 United States 09/16/2021 01:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a close friend that was diagnosed with bpd. She does some really weird things. Generally it revolves around made up stories in her head that friends are trying to stab her in the back when in reality they're trying to help. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74028472 Seems like her life revolves around trying to win over people who genuinely don't like her while at the same time pushing away and ignoring those who will do anything for her and want to help. BPD is a cognitive processing and perception disorder not just an "emotional disorder" as is inaccurately characterized. MRIs, fMRIs and imaging research has consistently shown structural abnormalities in those with clinical BPD (NPD and ASPD as well). . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77598481 United States 09/16/2021 01:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One of the first things that needs to be taught to dating age males is identifying personality disorders in girls. Then you scare the shit out of them by giving them examples of men being completely fucked over by the police and court system when the female eventually goes off the rails and takes out her mental illness on you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77938233 I don't care how pretty her face is or how good her ass looks in a thong. If she has a personality disorder, daddy issues, poor financial responsibility, drinks/does drugs in excess, you FUCKING RUN LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT. This guy obviously has a smart dad and maybe even mom. He did exactly the right thing by shutting the fuck up and getting the hell out of Dodge. It's not just females. Mental illness, including dangerous borderline disorder, does not gender discriminate. . Yes it does. BPD is fairly exclusive to women. DSM-IV-TR states that borderline personality disorder (BPD) is "diagnosed predominantly (about 75%) in females." A 3:1 female to male gender ratio is quite pronounced for a mental disorder and, consequently, has led to speculation about its cause and to some empirical research. A lot of men understand this and play right into it. They know exactly what they're doing. Instead of trying to be compassionate and help the woman they claim to love, they instead gaslight the shit out of her and make it worse. It's as if they get off on it and use it as a form of control and to their advantage. Notice the FIRST thing Brian said when cops questioned him about either of them being on meds, was "No, I'm not on anything- and she's just crazy." Chuckle chuckle, rib rib. You get it Mr. POLICE officer bc you're a man. You know how those crazy bitches are. Wink wink. That is a man's go to defense whenever they are challenged or questioned about relationships and/or their emotions. Every single time. 'She's the crazy one, not me.' This screams that the man probably has sociopathic tendencies, and is sicker than any woman with bpd. In this situation, I guarantee he's way guiltier than he's letting on, and trying to make her look like she was completely unstable. This guy is good at playing the nice, innocent boyfriend who was only trying to help his kooky, overly-emotional girlfriend. Probably grew up getting his way and learned very well how to con people into getting what he wanted. Most men usually do in our society. It's the way our world is set up, unfortunately. That is why we now have so many loud, obnoxious feminazis who are constantly battling this 'patriarchal' society. They're fed up, and in many cases, rightly so. Wrong. I RUN the second I see any signs of this shit these days... I'm too old (mid 30's) to play fucking games with women. If a woman gives me ANY irrational behavior... I break it off IMMEDIATELY. I am not going to condone irrational conflict in my life. If you want more of something, turn a blind eye or support/subsidize it. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80880094 Bulgaria 09/16/2021 01:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 1) you can’t condemn him for lawyering up. Glp is so fickle like this. We all know not to say a word under suspicion, which began before they got pulled over. 2) yeah they were fighting, but my first question is always followed up with why. If he got that out of both of them at the start, as a baseline response, he might have dug closer to the real why later on in that stop. 3) this was not just some spat. Those two had something else going on. Taking a road trip with a boyfriend who has enough power to put fear into this girl that he might leave her in the desert, wilderness is 100% abusive. I would have been petrified. Remember people are prisoners of their own minds and she may have given him this power over her. 4) maybe they both decided to rob the gay couple because they were low on funds and it went badly. |
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User ID: 7466641 United States 09/16/2021 01:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Not necessarily him but there could be a cop that's a serial killer in that area. "The truth is incontrovertible. Malice may attack it, ignorance may deride it, but in the end, there it is." Winston Churchill Thread: THE NANO/AI/FREQUENCY/BCI MIND CONTROL SYSTEM Thread: Humans are now "hackable animals"? [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77598481 United States 09/16/2021 01:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Also she said he told her she can't get into her own car until she calms down. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77337151 That's not right. That sounds abusive to me. I'm guessing he did that again and drove up and when he came back to get her she was gone. Which one has the physical marks on their face from an attack? Some of you are fucking nuts. If a someone is attacking you and you run inside their house and lock the door, you are still the one that was attacked. The trespassing charges are null and void in this scenario. Private property rights are second only to bodily autonomy/right to self defense. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80744734 United States 09/16/2021 01:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, diagnosed but not prevalence, which has led to a long decades old myth being uncovered by current research. There's been a diagnostic bias toward females, but there's not much of a gender prevalence difference. I've personally had three male BPDs on my life path, who were the most dangerous individuals I've ever met. Give me a sociopath everyday over an untreated BPD who only has one foot in objective reality and who has no control over emotions and behavior...especially if the person is male. As a bit of related data trivia, BPD males and females who have a ASPD comorbidity are 25% more dangerous in behavior than ASPD alone and are a significant percentage in prisons. I'd have to look up the research for that number. . You and your pseudoscience. Here’s your clue, brainiac: THERE IS NO DEFINITIVE LAB TEST THAT PROVES THE EXISTENCE OF ANY SO CALLED MENTAL DISORDER. Your turn. Yap yap yap yap yap. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 75708546 United States 09/16/2021 01:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 1) you can’t condemn him for lawyering up. Glp is so fickle like this. We all know not to say a word under suspicion, which began before they got pulled over. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80880094 2) yeah they were fighting, but my first question is always followed up with why. If he got that out of both of them at the start, as a baseline response, he might have dug closer to the real why later on in that stop. 3) this was not just some spat. Those two had something else going on. Taking a road trip with a boyfriend who has enough power to put fear into this girl that he might leave her in the desert, wilderness is 100% abusive. I would have been petrified. Remember people are prisoners of their own minds and she may have given him this power over her. 4) maybe they both decided to rob the gay couple because they were low on funds and it went badly. Was the gay couple killed the night he spent in the motel? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80879636 Belgium 09/16/2021 01:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is 100% Borderline Personality Disorder. My partner has this and it is a pain in the ass. They blast out of nowhere and throw tantrums like there's no tomorrow and starts slapping you out-of-nowhere. And if you attempt to leave them, they cry really bad and throw fists like a child. And somehow, people always feel sorry for them because they think you are doing something bad to them when is the opposite because of the victim position they put themselves. And they don't know personal space AT ALL. I have helped mine to overcome it a little bit but it is hard if you don't have patience. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10035168 They are worst than narcissists. It seems to me like he was already off in the relationship and every time he probably tried to leave she threw those tantrums. Restriction orders don't work. His only choice, well, we probably know.... already. But don't put the girl like an angel. Oh stop it. You are not your partners psychiatrist. You are supposed to be their mate, not their shrink. If your bf/gf/husband/wife whatever acts this way, the best thing you could do is get them prof. help and distance yourself until they get help or stand by them without trying to be a martyr. You sound as dependent on them as they are on you (or even worse). You probably get off on all of this mental shit. Feeds your ego. Walk away and find yourself a more stable person to have a relationship with or even better yet, just stay single and be by yourself for a while. Nothing wrong with that. Most importantly, DO NOT procreate. We don't need more screwy ppl in this world. |