My Wife Donna passed away on September 1st | |
Fugazi World
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 15968236 United States 09/04/2021 12:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't really know you, but we are all on this forum, and we have all lost loved ones, acquaintances, friends, and heroes over the last year and a half. Regardless, condolences fellow traveler, to you and your family. Quoting: Question EVERYTHING Take care of yourself, and I hope your pain eases as soon as possible. |
SoulWinner
User ID: 66609223 United States 09/04/2021 12:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So we got some of our affairs in order today. Dakota and his aunt did anyway. Family will receive friends from 2-4 and then a short service at 4. This Sunday. Quoting: BBQ BOY™ I'm still self isolating but I will make a brief appearance to say my goodbys. Its a small funeral home we have been there many times over the years. Im already tripping out just thinking about being in a crowd. I am so sorry. This is horrible to read. I hope you are able to comfortably say your goodbyes to your wife. Please don't be rushed. Take care of yourself. I'm not going to stay for the service I've already discussed this with Dakota, he actually didn't think I would go to the viewing, he almost advised against it. Im just not comfortable in a setting with others right now. Also our Pastor is very long winded. Praying you experience the unexpected, peaceful encouragement through the many people who care about you. The Holy Spirit can be powerfully present in this time. ...Loving souls, starving trolls... |
TheEmptyChild
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LittleMe
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Texan Buckeye
User ID: 22937658 United States 09/04/2021 11:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So we got some of our affairs in order today. Dakota and his aunt did anyway. Family will receive friends from 2-4 and then a short service at 4. This Sunday. Quoting: BBQ BOY™ I'm still self isolating but I will make a brief appearance to say my goodbys. Its a small funeral home we have been there many times over the years. Im already tripping out just thinking about being in a crowd. You could arrange a private visit with Donna. Especially since you've had symptoms. Everyone would understand. Nine's is right, especially at the smaller places. They usually have family come an hour earlier anyway for private goodbyes. There isn't anything I can say that the others haven't said, but I'll be with y'all in spirit and prayer tomorrow and through the weekend. To so many of the others that have lost loved ones, I'm so sorry. This time period really stinks. I pray for peace for you too. Last Edited by Texan Buckeye on 09/04/2021 11:25 AM |
South Central
User ID: 78756909 United States 09/04/2021 11:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My deepest condolences, BBQ boy. I pray that you feel her nuturing presence around you... especially in nature. May the sun on your skin remind you of her warmth. Our souls in the living are mostly asleep. She has awoken to the magnificence that is heaven. |
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Butters User ID: 68161422 United States 09/04/2021 12:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So we got some of our affairs in order today. Dakota and his aunt did anyway. Family will receive friends from 2-4 and then a short service at 4. This Sunday. Quoting: BBQ BOY™ I'm still self isolating but I will make a brief appearance to say my goodbys. Its a small funeral home we have been there many times over the years. Im already tripping out just thinking about being in a crowd. I am so sorry. This is horrible to read. I hope you are able to comfortably say your goodbyes to your wife. Please don't be rushed. Take care of yourself. I'm not going to stay for the service I've already discussed this with Dakota, he actually didn't think I would go to the viewing, he almost advised against it. Im just not comfortable in a setting with others right now. Also our Pastor is very long winded. You need to do what you are comfortable with. I've been thinking about y'all. "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you." - Fox Mulder - The X-Files "Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans." - John Lennon |
NKM Dude
User ID: 79040611 United States 09/04/2021 12:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Praying for you and your family! I am so sorry to hear this! May the love of Christ Jesus and his mercy rest upon you and your family. Again, I am so sorry to hear this sad news. My Hope is built on nothing less than Jesus' blood and righteousness... This is how much God loved the world: He gave his Son, his one and only Son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life. John 3:16-18 (The Message) |
BBQ BOY™
(OP) User ID: 72493816 United States 09/04/2021 12:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So we got some of our affairs in order today. Dakota and his aunt did anyway. Family will receive friends from 2-4 and then a short service at 4. This Sunday. Quoting: BBQ BOY™ I'm still self isolating but I will make a brief appearance to say my goodbys. Its a small funeral home we have been there many times over the years. Im already tripping out just thinking about being in a crowd. I am so sorry. This is horrible to read. I hope you are able to comfortably say your goodbyes to your wife. Please don't be rushed. Take care of yourself. I'm not going to stay for the service I've already discussed this with Dakota, he actually didn't think I would go to the viewing, he almost advised against it. Im just not comfortable in a setting with others right now. Also our Pastor is very long winded. You need to do what you are comfortable with. I've been thinking about y'all. "Never underestimate the pain of a person. In all honesty, everyone is struggling. Just some people are better at hiding it than others." Everyone has to work out their own salvation. Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards. |
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Georgia_dawg
User ID: 74138260 United States 09/04/2021 12:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So we got some of our affairs in order today. Dakota and his aunt did anyway. Family will receive friends from 2-4 and then a short service at 4. This Sunday. Quoting: BBQ BOY™ I'm still self isolating but I will make a brief appearance to say my goodbys. Its a small funeral home we have been there many times over the years. Im already tripping out just thinking about being in a crowd. You could arrange a private visit with Donna. Especially since you've had symptoms. Everyone would understand. Very good advice, here. You may still be infectious and I am sure you would not want to pass this virus to anyone showing up to pay respects to Donna. And you should have your own private time to spend with her before anyone else gets there anyway. |
Serenity Now
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Eireann
User ID: 79722836 Ireland 09/04/2021 02:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thanks everyone. Time has just been dragging the last two days. Plus being here alone isn't helping, I think I have heard every tick of the clock today. Quoting: BBQ BOY™ HUGE HUG! You are amazing! I know it hurts like holy Hannah, but Donna would be so proud of you for holding it together. Just remember to grieve. It's ok to cry and miss your wife and the mother of your children. I'm just so sorry for this terrible loss. Everything you've been through and now this? Praying, praying and praying for you! Eireann~ I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me. - Galatians 2:20 |
A Deplorable Neanderthal
Forum Moderator User ID: 80826259 United Kingdom 09/04/2021 03:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So we got some of our affairs in order today. Dakota and his aunt did anyway. Family will receive friends from 2-4 and then a short service at 4. This Sunday. Quoting: BBQ BOY™ I'm still self isolating but I will make a brief appearance to say my goodbys. Its a small funeral home we have been there many times over the years. Im already tripping out just thinking about being in a crowd. I have avoided talking about this. My elderly mother who lives in Zimbabwe has had severe reaction to second vax shot a few weeks ago. She’s now had 3 strokes and is deteriorating rapidly. I’ve made the decision, with my siblings, to not fly to Zimbabwe to say goodbye. Having to quarantine in a disease riddled Zimbabwean government building as I’m unvaxxed is just one of the reasons for not travelling. You have to do what’s right for you Pete, these are extraordinary times. You’ve got this fella! #DefundTheBBC |
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christian
Suited up and Armored in Christ! User ID: 80516884 United States 09/04/2021 06:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Prayers up to you and your family at this difficult time... You are never alone.... Susie For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.....Matthew 6:21 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: Ecclesiastes 3:1 |
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Jembrana
User ID: 13956820 United States 09/04/2021 11:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So we got some of our affairs in order today. Dakota and his aunt did anyway. Family will receive friends from 2-4 and then a short service at 4. This Sunday. Quoting: BBQ BOY™ I'm still self isolating but I will make a brief appearance to say my goodbys. Its a small funeral home we have been there many times over the years. Im already tripping out just thinking about being in a crowd. I can't imagine what you and Dakota are going through right now. You both are still in my thoughts and prayers. She is beside you every time you think of her. She is inches away. You need to try to talk to her. She wants so much for you to know that she’s there and very happy Imagine in your mind what she wants to say. Usually what you imagine they might be saying is what they want you to know. Please try this and GBU!! Suteja Komang |
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MySoul
User ID: 80789094 United Kingdom 09/05/2021 09:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thanks everyone. Time has just been dragging the last two days. Plus being here alone isn't helping, I think I have heard every tick of the clock today. Quoting: BBQ BOY™ I so, SO wish you had someone to be with you in person. So many of us on GLP are with you in the ether, but you need someone to maybe just hold your hand, plus cook you some nourishing things. My deepest prayers for you. Last Edited by MySoul on 09/05/2021 09:27 AM What choice do I have but to be myself? Everyone else was already taken. Develop a nostalgia for the future - Maxwell Maltz MySoul |
Apocalypse Troll
Trollicus Apocalyptus 09/05/2021 09:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Prayers for you. "Honor the Texas flag; I pledge allegiance to thee, Texas, one state under God, one and indivisible." [link to www.statutes.legis.state.tx.us] |