How do you get rid of a man?

Yeah, its a problem.

Maybe he should get some real drug support. 10/12 step drug programs are bullshit that tell people they are powerless and have to rely on a "higher power" to quit drugs.

When in reality addicts need to be taught they hold all the power.

Another option is see if you can find a doctor willing to prescribe him ADHD meds, sounds crazy i know but stimulants like adderall can help people quit harder stims like meth/coke much the same way methadone is used for heroin. Being on adderall is far less destructive and addictive than smoking crack.

ADHD meds helped me kick my meth habit and turn my life around.

Good night Sally.. sleep calls.. wishing you the best as you work thru you situations.

KAN DAEK

Right now, instead of a vector your path is a circle. Work on the bolded. That's what I'd do, but then I'm solution-oriented.

Ignore the rest of what you wrote. It doesn't get you anywhere. It's called baggage for a reason. Drop that shit off at the curb where it belongs.

Plan, detach and set vector.

Then travel that vector to your new situation.

Hopefully it will be better situation, best of luck and we are all rooting for you!

Seriously, how? If he won't leave even though you've made it clear time and time again that you don't want him to stay?

I needed some glp perspective.

Thanks, all you guys, for giving some of your time and sharing your wisdom to help a perfect stranger tryna find some comfort and direction.

I'm so grateful and glad i found you.

He studies the bible a LOT.

He sleeps to the sound of bible scholar podcasts.

It is called a restraining order.

Tried all the above. Nothing works, not even the legal action memtioned.

Been living together 12 years. I've left at least 5 times, maybe more, cuz of his addiction. He cleans up, I come back, he gets dirty again.

I've run out of compassion. And I don't want to leave anymore, i don't even have the means to leave, he should leave but won't.

That does not matter...still thinks he has a chance...or tries to play the I'm depressed or sad card...this week it's I need to see a new head doctor card...I can't with his nonsense! Leave motherfucker...your horrible for my health...leave!...sigh...I'm done ranting sorry OP your thread just struck a nerve with me because I'm going through it myself...I do hope you find peace...I hope all the ladies who are dealing with the same bullshit find peace...in the end that's all we want...

I've had only bad luck with any guys.

Go ahead, glp, hit me with some ugly truth, can't make me feel worse than I already do.

common denominator?

Best of luck, sweetie <3

You've made it clear you want to leave but you come back?

He cleans up, I come back, he gets dirty again.

Hey OP...

Do what you need for your kids.

Don't lie.

Don't manipulate.

Seek solutions to work from home...the world climate is supporting that right now.

Learn a skill...or work on something you already know how to do.

12 years in and I can guess yur MO is enabler and helper.

Help yourself.

Enable yourself.

Turn that inward and towards your kids.

You move out.

Or are you trying to bully him out of his share of property?

Maybe he could happen to an accident?

there's your problem right there, you're an emotional dumb ass.

Are you bitching and nagging enough? Pick on him. Point out is faults all day long til you get in screaming matches.

Thank you.

I know. Ugh.