How do I stop comparing myself to other people?

Why would you want to be like other people? it is my observation that people are dumb fucks.

think of the dumbest person you know, and the realize that most people are even dumber than that.

by comparing you to you.. self introspection and forgiving yourself.. is a first step.. This is a school of learning.

start maybe by making a list of what you have done and LIKE about yourself...

Make your own damn money and stop being a victim.

Your the only person thats gknna create the life you want to live.

Now snap the fuck out of it. And go make money.


Enough of this im a victim.shit

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“If you compare yourself to others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.” Max Ehrmann

Last Edited by Tobie on 06/23/2021 05:28 PM

Great question

Yes. And no.

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Who would you want too?

Most people are horrible.

You gotta realize that there will NEVER BE ANOTHER YOU!

EVERYONE was born with gifts and talents they have to discover. FIND THOSE.

Take what you do better than others and be confident in that.

I use to compare myself too.

Until I truly realized the reason they went out of their way to attack me and or bring me down was because I was already above them in ways I didn't realize.

You're the best at being you, what else do you want?

Get off ALL social media ASAP and NEVER go back.

don't ask 'how are you'

Practice gratitude. There's always going to be someone out there who has it better or worse than you. Focus on what you have in your life that is good right now. Roof over your head, food in the fridge, hopefully you have good health. etc

Realize 90% of people are fake. They've erected a façade to make it appear they have it all together. They don't. Just do the best you can do for yourself 24/7. You'll be alright. Be genuine.

haha true

you are so creepy dude

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lol cool.
coming from you...

Thanks for the compliment.

Something I've realized today. You are just the furniture that comes with the house. I'm a guest.

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just be yourself bro

You were meant to be you
But then you learned to read and spell

And then they got you by the balls and punched you in the belly constantly.

So now when you see someone looking like they have some peace you want to be like them.

But they have found out they feel the best when they are them self no matter what words the outside world have thrown at them.

And that's why they a something going
So be your self and don't be ashamed.

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Bob Newhart offered the best advice around 1:15, but the lead into it is well worth watching.


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Too much introspection is not always a good thing. Have a God given purpose and pursue it until it's fulfilled. If you don't know where to start, help the people in your proximity.

Stop Judging them.

Judging does not make one happy I have noticed and many people attempt to Judge things in such a way as they come out on top to counter this. But they are still unhappy with those whom they judged lesser than themselves.

Stop Judging. Understand why people do what they do and instead of Judging you Evaluate. Evaluation brings understanding. You discover why everyone does what they do even if they don't see it themselves.

To learn this by first observing yourself and understanding yourself better.

It isn't about them, it is about you. It is not a race to be who is best, because if it was most people would just fake it to make it.

Understanding yourself opens the door on other people. You see and understand why they do what they do.

The most interesting parts are when people do things which doesn't make sense and understanding how that piece of programming came about.


Then you see everyone in the western world has been subject to Mind Control since Birth. An overarching program which is pervasive which has programmed most of your core beliefs so you are subservient to it with no real need to be.

Because people were raised in this system of Mind Control since Birth they think it is "Normal" rather than a massive system of control.

People have been programmed not to be their true self and not to accpet it if they found it.

Thus everyone is unhappy but can't work out exactly why.

Those who are happy are so because they are aligned with their true self, or they are on very strong drugs.

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