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User ID: 79825819 United States 05/14/2021 02:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! And guess who women raised up and took with them? Homosexual males. The USA is the first country ran by women and gays. You now know why it is non-stop drama 24/7. It is working out so well is it not? "If you gotta eat a turd eat it fast." |
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User ID: 73676516 United States 05/14/2021 02:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! Quoting: Very Interesting And now all hell is breaking loose it appears. This isn’t an indictment against women, as I am a woman myself (see avatar) but after contemplating this subject, I think what I’m saying has a lot of validity. You can agree or disagree. These are just my thoughts on the matter. Since the 1970’s, there has been an acceleration towards society’s decline Since the 1970’s: 1) abortion was legalized (1973) 2) the feminist movement :” In 1971, feminist Gloria Steinem joined Betty Friedan and Bella Abzug in founding the National Women’s Political Caucus“ 3) in the 70’s there was a push to get women working outside the home. This was pushed in the media via television shows such as “ The Mary TylerMoore Show” (1970-77) “ one Day At A Time” (1975-1984) “ Alice” (1976-1985”,”Maude” (1972-78) and on and on. 4) Ms. Magazine was founded in 1972. 5) Divorce was made more acceptable in the 1970’s. No fault divorce came into effect in 1970. 6) Daycare for children started to become popular due to more women working outside the home 7) the use of ADHD drugs such as Ritalin became popular in the 1970’s and onward. 8) Explosion iof sexually transmitted diseases ( started in the late 60’s) 9) Pornography....we know how has exploded There is definitely a correlation between the traditional family structure breaking down and society breaking down which has resulted in divorce, ADHD chiidren’s behavior, a growing disrespect between the sexes: women against men, and men against women. While I am not saying that the “ Ozzie And Harriet” lifestyle is the one everyone should be living, as that was a manufactured Hollywood illusion anyway, what I am saying is that all these factors have contributed to a breakdown in society. If you have women working outside the home, who’s watching the children? SOMEBODY ELSE. And our out of control children are a RESULT of the neglect we see in society today. -Women who don’t know how to act like women...ie snowflakes, who DEMAND their rights but get no respect, tattoos, shaving their hair, sexually irresponsible etc. -Men who turn to the homosexual lifestyle because they don’t have good male role models due to divorce -men rejecting their role as providers ...lonely men who only find satisfaction in temporary sexual encounters but only crave more and more All because Mom (and dad) are not there to instill his/his values into their children. If mom is working a full time job too, BOTH parents are exhausted, so it be comes a tug of war between who does the chores, giving children supervision, baths, putting dinner on the table etc.etc. Etc. which leads to fighting, lack of sex, frustration Which’s leads to a disordered home and eventually a broken home, divorce, unhappy children, unhappy parents. Unhappy society. Personally, I know when I gave up a lucrative career in the fashion industry, over time I have seen the positive result of my choosing to become a stay at home mother. And a support to my husband. I enjoy making him tasty meals that he likes and makes me feel appreciated when he likes them, for example. Simple enough right? So simple we tend to dismiss these traditional things. Having a clean well ordered home..who has the energy and time to have this when you are working a full time job outside the home? Well fed disciplined children who understand right from wrong. Yes, initially, we had to downsize. And sacrifice some of the extras we were enjoying. But now my family is ABUNDANTLY blessed with more than we want or need. You make adjustments. And it works. Who needs a McMansion and chasing after all the goodies when you have PEACE and contentment? I am happier than I have ever been. God has blessed my husband career more than ever and I am seeing the fruit of our discipline and sacrifice... Hubby is blessed and feels respected because of his providing for the family. I am not saying I am the poster child for domestic bliss, or that I am “all that”, because my hubby and I have had to work out and thru our differences. This takes time. But in perspective, it has been time well invested and I wouldn’t want it any other way. Basically, what I am saying is it can be done and if enough catch on to “going back to basics” we might see a lot happier, well adjusted people who contribute to society rather than tear it down. And lest anyone thinks I am knocking my own sex, this thread is not addressed towards single women or divorced women, who, due to circumstances, have to work because the ex can’t or won’t pay child support and because they need to put food on the table... No, this is addressed towards those who think chasing the almighty dollar is where it’s at...because it’s not...it only brings heartache when your career is your only friend, and you allow someone else to raise your own flesh and blood. It’s heartache to you, and to your offspring. And to society. Betty friedmiller ... feminism was to break down white society , fucking hate them Unjabbed and Off Grid |
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User ID: 72622319 United States 05/14/2021 02:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! Smartest post I’ve read in all my years. I am 52 years old, and I was blessed to be raised by a mother who stayed at home and my father who worked every day. Unfortunately my wife and I both work, and my daughter has suffered because of it. She’s now a teenager in about to enter high school and doing fantastic, but I know that she would’ve benefited from her mother being at home, and we probably would’ve had at least one or two more children |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71288147 Pakistan 05/14/2021 02:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! Bro. Society is being deliberately destroyed. Maybe women working is part of it maybe not, but it is NOT the cause. Try corruption, demonic influence, adrenochrome addiction, materialism, and idiots like you. I'm not sure if it's even worth telling you because if you believe that you are pretty stupid. |
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User ID: 73676516 United States 05/14/2021 02:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! I saw some good marriages, but they were rare - especially among the poor and working classes where I lived. Quoting: The Albuquerque Statesman Depending on how you define "good", there aren't many among the wealthy, either. The difference is, wealth has a way of "holding things together", even though it's all a farce. I've known many wealthy couples and didn't see much love. I saw men with options that took mistresses, wives that accepted that the men had mistresses and drank all day while trashing their husbands at their "ladies lunch". In a way, it was almost more dysfunctional than the lower classes (and I've been close to both situations in my life). Few would divorce because the money held them together. At the same time, most knew the score and chose to remain, though they weren't fulfilled. Unjabbed and Off Grid |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80273883 United States 05/14/2021 02:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! I saw some good marriages, but they were rare - especially among the poor and working classes where I lived. Quoting: The Albuquerque Statesman Depending on how you define "good", there aren't many among the wealthy, either. The difference is, wealth has a way of "holding things together", even though it's all a farce. I've known many wealthy couples and didn't see much love. I saw men with options that took mistresses, wives that accepted that the men had mistresses and drank all day while trashing their husbands at their "ladies lunch". In a way, it was almost more dysfunctional than the lower classes (and I've been close to both situations in my life). Few would divorce because the money held them together. At the same time, most knew the score and chose to remain, though they weren't fulfilled. Life is not perfect because people are not perfect. We have flaws. We have sin=selfishness. If we want to be better we work to overcome our selfishness. We don’t give up when the going gets tough. If you hang in there through the difficulties, there really are rewards. I have seen it personally. Maybe we don’t get all the goodies we want in this life but if we persevere you really can come to a place of contentment. If we made mistakes due to our selfishness we try and make amends. We forgive. We do what we can do. You can’t unscramble an egg. But if you start with today you can get back on track with God’s help. “Give this day our DAILY BREAD” .....one day at a time. |
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User ID: 52407937 United States 05/14/2021 02:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! Quality of time spent with children is important, but it doesn't replace quantity of time together. Children grow up as day-orphans. At night after their parents have worked 8 to 10 hours, the children get their attention. Very few people can provide daily quality time after working all day. - Now we have the school-raised generations who think socialism is good and a democratic republic is bad. Clearly, they have been indoctrinated. The next generation will be raised by critical race - hate all white people - theory and drag queen story hour for your 5 year old up and never forget the gender training in schools today. In fact, schools won't teach that gravity is real in Physics classes because a white man discovered it. But keep going to work and getting money. We'll all enjoy the inevitable result. |
abrock
User ID: 80154527 United States 05/14/2021 03:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! As a woman, wife, mother, grandmother, I agree, OP. When our eldest child started school(1979), only 1 mother of a student worked. With our next child,(1989), about 1/2 of the mothers worked. And finally, when our last child started school (2000), only 1 or 2 moms didn't work. Throughout all of these years, more problems developed with students. They were less respectful of both their parents and their teachers. A lot of the kids were put on ADD/ADHD meds. Even worse, many were put bipolar meds as adolescents and teens. Instead of allowing teens to learn how to handle their emotions, they were medicated because the parents either did not have the time or the willingness to deal with them. This was all a plan to break down the family. It was also a money maneuver. As more women worked, more income tax was sent to the gov't. Guess which entity got most, if not all, of this money? According to a study Pres. Reagan ordered when he wanted to find out where our taxes went, it's the Federal Reserve. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80273883 United States 05/14/2021 03:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! As a woman, wife, mother, grandmother, I agree, OP. When our eldest child started school(1979), only 1 mother of a student worked. With our next child,(1989), about 1/2 of the mothers worked. And finally, when our last child started school (2000), only 1 or 2 moms didn't work. Quoting: abrock Throughout all of these years, more problems developed with students. They were less respectful of both their parents and their teachers. A lot of the kids were put on ADD/ADHD meds. Even worse, many were put bipolar meds as adolescents and teens. Instead of allowing teens to learn how to handle their emotions, they were medicated because the parents either did not have the time or the willingness to deal with them. This was all a plan to break down the family. It was also a money maneuver. As more women worked, more income tax was sent to the gov't. Guess which entity got most, if not all, of this money? According to a study Pres. Reagan ordered when he wanted to find out where our taxes went, it's the Federal Reserve. I believe it! |
Anonymous Family Coward User ID: 80168626 United States 05/14/2021 03:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! There are third options to women staying home or leaving the home tor work, such as: 1) multigenerational homes where retired grandparents take on part of the child rearing; 2) family businesses where the children grow up learning the trade; and/or 3) part time work for both parents with alternating schedules. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80219136 United States 05/14/2021 03:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! I can’t even imagine growing up in a household, especially as a young kid where no mom is around. That’s pretty sad. No wonder some younger generation kids seem off. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80366490 United States 05/14/2021 03:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! Quoting: Very Interesting And now all hell is breaking loose it appears. This isn’t an indictment against women, as I am a woman myself (see avatar) but after contemplating this subject, I think what I’m saying has a lot of validity. You can agree or disagree. These are just my thoughts on the matter. Since the 1970’s, there has been an acceleration towards society’s decline Since the 1970’s: 1) abortion was legalized (1973) 2) the feminist movement :” In 1971, feminist Gloria Steinem joined Betty Friedan and Bella Abzug in founding the National Women’s Political Caucus“ 3) in the 70’s there was a push to get women working outside the home. This was pushed in the media via television shows such as “ The Mary TylerMoore Show” (1970-77) “ one Day At A Time” (1975-1984) “ Alice” (1976-1985”,”Maude” (1972-78) and on and on. 4) Ms. Magazine was founded in 1972. 5) Divorce was made more acceptable in the 1970’s. No fault divorce came into effect in 1970. 6) Daycare for children started to become popular due to more women working outside the home 7) the use of ADHD drugs such as Ritalin became popular in the 1970’s and onward. 8) Explosion iof sexually transmitted diseases ( started in the late 60’s) 9) Pornography....we know how has exploded There is definitely a correlation between the traditional family structure breaking down and society breaking down which has resulted in divorce, ADHD chiidren’s behavior, a growing disrespect between the sexes: women against men, and men against women. While I am not saying that the “ Ozzie And Harriet” lifestyle is the one everyone should be living, as that was a manufactured Hollywood illusion anyway, what I am saying is that all these factors have contributed to a breakdown in society. If you have women working outside the home, who’s watching the children? SOMEBODY ELSE. And our out of control children are a RESULT of the neglect we see in society today. -Women who don’t know how to act like women...ie snowflakes, who DEMAND their rights but get no respect, tattoos, shaving their hair, sexually irresponsible etc. -Men who turn to the homosexual lifestyle because they don’t have good male role models due to divorce -men rejecting their role as providers ...lonely men who only find satisfaction in temporary sexual encounters but only crave more and more All because Mom (and dad) are not there to instill his/his values into their children. If mom is working a full time job too, BOTH parents are exhausted, so it be comes a tug of war between who does the chores, giving children supervision, baths, putting dinner on the table etc.etc. Etc. which leads to fighting, lack of sex, frustration Which’s leads to a disordered home and eventually a broken home, divorce, unhappy children, unhappy parents. Unhappy society. Personally, I know when I gave up a lucrative career in the fashion industry, over time I have seen the positive result of my choosing to become a stay at home mother. And a support to my husband. I enjoy making him tasty meals that he likes and makes me feel appreciated when he likes them, for example. Simple enough right? So simple we tend to dismiss these traditional things. Having a clean well ordered home..who has the energy and time to have this when you are working a full time job outside the home? Well fed disciplined children who understand right from wrong. Yes, initially, we had to downsize. And sacrifice some of the extras we were enjoying. But now my family is ABUNDANTLY blessed with more than we want or need. You make adjustments. And it works. Who needs a McMansion and chasing after all the goodies when you have PEACE and contentment? I am happier than I have ever been. God has blessed my husband career more than ever and I am seeing the fruit of our discipline and sacrifice... Hubby is blessed and feels respected because of his providing for the family. I am not saying I am the poster child for domestic bliss, or that I am “all that”, because my hubby and I have had to work out and thru our differences. This takes time. But in perspective, it has been time well invested and I wouldn’t want it any other way. Basically, what I am saying is it can be done and if enough catch on to “going back to basics” we might see a lot happier, well adjusted people who contribute to society rather than tear it down. And lest anyone thinks I am knocking my own sex, this thread is not addressed towards single women or divorced women, who, due to circumstances, have to work because the ex can’t or won’t pay child support and because they need to put food on the table... No, this is addressed towards those who think chasing the almighty dollar is where it’s at...because it’s not...it only brings heartache when your career is your only friend, and you allow someone else to raise your own flesh and blood. It’s heartache to you, and to your offspring. And to society. This has all been engineered by a certain school that cannot be named here. |
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User ID: 74715047 United States 05/14/2021 04:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I’ll Probably Get A Lot Of Backlash For Saying This, BUT WHEN WOMEN STARTED WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME, Society Started To FALL APART! From a practical standpoint it’s a bad strategy to have both parents working. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80219136 Who does all the housework? That alone is a career.. lots of work. It’s redundant to have both parents work. OTOH the one working has to earn enough. Running a household is a full time job. Even as a single person with no kids, running a household is a part time job. People don't realize that if you're a lone, single person working a demanding, corporate, almost 24/7 job - then managing your life/household takes all of your very little free time. There is nobody there to clean the house, do the shopping, cook the meals, and manage the myriad of little issues that need to be dealt with on a daily or weekly basis. Financial, car issues, house issues, etc.... My previous lifestyle (which I left about three months ago) was just that - I would have just a sliver of time on the weekends and maybe a half hour at night on the weekdays to take care of home business. And I was single and had no kids or husband! It still took all my "free" time. A home support person is definetly dersirable, and she should be a woman. Let the man go out and do the corporate BS under fluorescent lights for 60 hours a week - I never got any satisfaction out of it. A big paycheck, yes, but I gave up an entire life where I could have been more feminine and done more feminine and enjoyable things at home, with children I never had. Born in 1972, I'm a product of my generation. But looking back as I approach 50, I would not recommend this to my daughter. If I had one, which I don't. Unjabbed and Off Grid |
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