Sounds like my life BEFORE my wife left and took all my money.

She would always cause drama with the kids and acream at me to "solve" things.

After years of this the kids hated me as if I was starting all the problems. I don't see the kids anymore.

My Ex, like many women and men to be fair, has no soul. She thinks only in terms of what she can get, what she can own. With regard to people, they are just a means to an end.

Read up on narcissism. I believe the narcissistic personalities are a result of todays societal trends. Be selfish, consume, use.

Now I am remarried to a real human being and happy. The kids are just like their mom, NPD, BPD selfish and unfeeling.....and me? I AM THE BAD GUY.

I used to dream of peace, of just being happy for more than a few minutes. Now I am happy, despite the constant attacks and lies from my Ex and the lack of my own children, through nonfault of my own...

Be careful. Known your enemy. Don't wait to get blindsided by your wife. Tell her counseling or lawyers. And get a great lawyer.

Dont let your Christian guilt prevent you from protecting yourself.