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Please pray for my wife.

 
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But hey, the bonus is that it is triggering a massive activation of all my suppressed high-functioning autism symptoms. So there's that.

I'm a blubbering mess as I am working through previously misinterpreted and now finally making sense life experiences, while she stares blankly and soulless.

It's unreal. Pouring my heart out straight into a garbage disposal.
 Quoting: The Rickest Rick Sanchez


Not many women really care to see their husbands blubbering. Not at all.
 Quoting: Fossy


:shesright:

Being 100% serious now.
New beginning and new strategy- bottle up those feelings and bury them deep. I will say a prayer for you both. hf
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i am praying for you both!
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i am praying for you both!
 Quoting: bcom


Thanks.

I don't think it's working yet.
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i am praying for you both!
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Thanks.

I don't think it's working yet.
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Have you stopped crying yet? hugs
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Emasculation is a harsh weapon in the arsenal of domestic terrorism perpetuated on the home front.

Think, “I walk softly, but carry a big stick.”

Then remember:

“I think, therefor I am.”

*I think I may have seen you looking frantically for your keys once at the end of a conference. I have a picture of the real dude. I could tell in 2019 that the man was not mastering his potential.

So, chin up and CARRY ON.

; )
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Prayers sent pray
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I pray for your wife op...

In the name of Jesus Christ for healing amen

Please get an KJV bible read acts 2 that is the day the church of Christ started.
Continue reading each day and grow in the grace and knowledge of Christ jesus
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hf
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Is she a narcissist?
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Bingo. We have a winner.

I just figured it out recently.
 Quoting: The Rickest Rick Sanchez


Oh, yea it sounded familiar to what I’ve been through with a narc, he would get these black demon eyes. It was scary as hell. If she’s that far along in her narcissism, unfortunately your only option is to get the hell out of there. She will kill you eventually, after she destroys everything you hold dear.
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You know, I've encountered someone who survived a homicide attempt and another who got away from someone that ended up murdering her family when she was a child.

Both times these people described the eyes of the people(demons?) committing the crimes going completely black and dead. I find this interesting and horrible at the same time.
 Quoting: Just Passing Through.....


It is horrible. Once you see those eyes, you know there is no reasoning with it. You either get away or be scarier because someone with those eyes has zero remorse.
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Are you sure it's just her? You know it takes two to make it work and two to screw it up.

You sure have changed your views of her:

Fantastic story in this for sure.


I am amazed you found a women that would stick with you through it all.
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It is a great story.. I guess that's why I started this thread. ..its a journal of the memories... may grow into a book.. we shall see ...

I didn't find her. .. she helped me find myself. and vice versa I think. it Is amazing. you are right. I had nothing to offer at the time but the Magic we were able to create and receive together.
 Quoting: LogicBomber


Thread: My girlfriend and I left the midwest, got married in Vegas, and started a new life in a tent. Ask me a question.

You don't just become a narcissist overnight and I seriously doubt a narcissist would have lived in a tent for months while you both tried to save up enough money for a studio apartment.

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Are you sure it's just her? You know it takes two to make it work and two to screw it up.

You sure have changed your views of her:

Fantastic story in this for sure.


I am amazed you found a women that would stick with you through it all.
 Quoting: Sivaro


It is a great story.. I guess that's why I started this thread. ..its a journal of the memories... may grow into a book.. we shall see ...

I didn't find her. .. she helped me find myself. and vice versa I think. it Is amazing. you are right. I had nothing to offer at the time but the Magic we were able to create and receive together.
 Quoting: LogicBomber


Thread: My girlfriend and I left the midwest, got married in Vegas, and started a new life in a tent. Ask me a question.

You don't just become a narcissist overnight and I seriously doubt a narcissist would have lived in a tent for months while you both tried to save up enough money for a studio apartment.
 Quoting: TrustNoOneKS


Buddy, let me tell ya. It has been an adventure. I just thought I was the one leading it. In the beginning, I was, but I depended on her for a lot. And that is the part that she fed on. Excitement and emotional worship. Then... the other side showed pretty fast and I never realized what was happening until now. I was such a fool and caught up in the Persona that I had adapted to survive earlier trauma. When that Persona wasn't shiny enough she lost interest and it was all downhill from there. As I look back, it has been going on for a long long time now.
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I will say this in the nicest way possible.
She was not feeding on anything- she was resenting you, and her blank stares were her rethinking her life choices. Men should not have to depend on a woman. She had to live in a tent- you guys can call it an adventure, but she was also felling insecurity, in other words a "Trauma" and perhaps still feels that insecurity today, so her verbalizing to you her needs, you now feel is "narcissistic." I don't know your situation but if she does not feel stable and secure, there is an issue.

Instead to taking stock of your situation, you instead choose to believe she is possibly demonic and incapable of love, with any criticism towards you, labeled as "emotional abuse." Love and respect needs to be earned continuously and emotional connections need to be nourished.

Once a woman begins to question her security, she looses some respect and loss of love is always what follows. You can not expect a woman to follow you off a cliff.

The good news is that we all are damaged goods, or were at some-pint in our lives and all learned we had to fix ourselves first (or as best we can), before we could let someone else into our life. Nobody is perfect, but we have to keep trying to perfect ourselves first, before we can even begin to perfect a relationship.

Sorry, I felt compelled to write this and from one Aspie to another, you need to work twice as hard to show positive emotions and compassion and understanding. Stop worrying about her validating you, begin to be a giver and not a taker.

God Bless.
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Please listen to Magnus.
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I will say this in the nicest way possible.
She was not feeding on anything- she was resenting you, and her blank stares were her rethinking her life choices. Men should not have to depend on a woman. She had to live in a tent- you guys can call it an adventure, but she was also felling insecurity, in other words a "Trauma" and perhaps still feels that insecurity today, so her verbalizing to you her needs, you now feel is "narcissistic." I don't know your situation but if she does not feel stable and secure, there is an issue.

Instead to taking stock of your situation, you instead choose to believe she is possibly demonic and incapable of love, with any criticism towards you, labeled as "emotional abuse." Love and respect needs to be earned continuously and emotional connections need to be nourished.

Once a woman begins to question her security, she looses some respect and loss of love is always what follows. You can not expect a woman to follow you off a cliff.

The good news is that we all are damaged goods, or were at some-pint in our lives and all learned we had to fix ourselves first (or as best we can), before we could let someone else into our life. Nobody is perfect, but we have to keep trying to perfect ourselves first, before we can even begin to perfect a relationship.

Sorry, I felt compelled to write this and from one Aspie to another, you need to work twice as hard to show positive emotions and compassion and understanding. Stop worrying about her validating you, begin to be a giver and not a taker.

God Bless.
 Quoting: MAGNUS 74


No.

You are missing reams of data and projecting.

You aren't completely wrong though and said factual things that are relevant. There is so much more to it and I am so much further down the the thought path than my latest posts could possibly reflect.

I am at peace with any outcome and have said enough for her to begin to deal with what really drove this. I confessed and owned all of my mistakes. I did the work and the talking and opening up already. I'm a new person and conscious of my actions in ways I never knew possible.

I broke through the first layer and now we just wait for her to choose to face her shadow or not

I'm already closer to peace than I ever have been.
It's in God's hands now, and I'm OK with that. There will be joy and sadness either way and that's OK too.
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Please listen to Magnus.
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Absolutely not. That is how we got here. That limited mindset has doomed endless relationships.

If someone's actions rule your emotions, it isn't their fault, it is yours.

That's a hard and painful lesson, but I get it now.

That's how I am able to accept anything now.

I went experienced the majority of the Freudian and Jungian models of transformation in about 2 weeks and didn't know what it was until today. It was like plugging in to the Matrix and learning the exact things I needed at the exact moment to proceed to the next level.

It started by ego suicide and asking Jesus to help. The rest is like nothing you can imagine.
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Please listen to Magnus.
 Quoting: Fossy


Absolutely not. That is how we got here. That limited mindset has doomed endless relationships.

If someone's actions rule your emotions, it isn't their fault, it is yours.

That's a hard and painful lesson, but I get it now.

That's how I am able to accept anything now.

I went experienced the majority of the Freudian and Jungian models of transformation in about 2 weeks and didn't know what it was until today. It was like plugging in to the Matrix and learning the exact things I needed at the exact moment to proceed to the next level.

It started by ego suicide and asking Jesus to help. The rest is like nothing you can imagine.
 Quoting: The Rickest Rick Sanchez


To be clear the part about it being your own fault isn't literal and often not practical, such as in unavoidable abuse. I mean in terms of blame after the fact. Unfortunately most people don't have the tools to grasp the concept of forgiveness.
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The dude needs prayers. Please pray for him and his wife.

hf
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“ If someone's actions rule your emotions, it isn't their fault, it is yours..”

The dude is smart.
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I think a demon has taken a part of her mind and convinced her it is her own thoughts and feelings.

Please ask God, Jesus, Holy Spirit, and Love to fill her heart again, so she can fight.

I'm actually afraid of her and for her.
 Quoting: The Rickest Rick Sanchez


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Well, let's look at this deeply. You are asking God to fill her heart again. If God is omnipresent by definition then He is supposed to be in her heart and everywhere else. So the prayer is as useless as a football bat. And if you have to go to God for everything while He sits on His ass doing nothing about the suffering and pain on the earth and humans He created then He is not worth anything.

I feel for you and for years I was a Christian and those beliefs dropped years ago. Prayer is useless. So you pray and either your God will spare her or not. Without prayer the same scenario. So just do what you have to and man is tormented by His/her thoughts. There are no demons. They are just thoughts in the mind. And why a loving God would allow those to roam around defies logic and common sense. Thre is just life as it is. And the illusion is that there is a God and the devil and demons. The story is just imagination.
 Quoting: mrsnacks


I understand your feelings, as I lost faith for quite a while. Mostly unable to grasp why God allows pain and suffering in the world. I finally have reached a place where I began to understand, and it is all about the concept of free will. There are wonderful and horrible consequences depending on how that great gift is used. Unfortunately the nature of this world is violence and without connection to our true selves, the entropy tears us apart. At some point in the last week I experienced finding my connection again. Some call it surrendering to Christ, others call it Ego Death. Whatever it is, it restores a certainty in ourselves and the rightness of things as they are. Not that things are all perfect, but that they have the potential for transformation and restoration... in other words, the world is not broken and I am not broken... We are just doing it wrong.

I haven't documented everything here, as I was feeling I had already said too much on a personal level in a public forum. I think now that it would be a disservice to not share the whole thing. I will probably start a new thread eventually and share the whole thing, because it has been so amazing. I still don't know how this chapter will end. She has free will and I must respect that. However, I now can see it all through the eyes of my true self and it would be a tragedy to not try to help her achieve this state or at least to understand what happened to both of us.

Last night I had another special insight/connection that has given me a new mission in life. I was shown the collective sufferings and pain of the whole world and how needless it all is. How we are all creating our own pain and transferring it to others in endless cycles. It was horrible and awesome to witness the grief of the world on one side and the eternal love of the creator on the other, waiting to be let in. Words fail and it will take me a while to be able to express these experiences in terms that can even begin to be understood. But I know now that that is what I am supposed to do with my life in some way.
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