Does Sex get in the way of Love??? | |
HempWillSaveTheWorld
User ID: 77675749 United States 03/10/2021 11:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fact of life #36289... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80124460 Women in general prefer having sex with themselves. When you get that into your head you'll understand why they have less and less with you as the years go by. Don't let them fool you that their sex drive has diminished;it hasn't. They'd just rather you weren't involved. The second you're out the door, kitty is being stroked to the max and the number of orgasms achieved would make your nuts shrink. For some reason women seem to think they can actually convince us that they don't do this, but if they were honest and upfront about it you'd be pretty shocked. How true is this? Any anon females want tto weigh in? HempWillSaveTheWorld Vi Veri Vniversum Vivus Vici |
Mrs Lady Pants
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Mrs Lady Pants
User ID: 77482370 United States 03/10/2021 11:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fact of life #36289... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80124460 Women in general prefer having sex with themselves. When you get that into your head you'll understand why they have less and less with you as the years go by. Don't let them fool you that their sex drive has diminished;it hasn't. They'd just rather you weren't involved. The second you're out the door, kitty is being stroked to the max and the number of orgasms achieved would make your nuts shrink. For some reason women seem to think they can actually convince us that they don't do this, but if they were honest and upfront about it you'd be pretty shocked. How true is this? Any anon females want tto weigh in? I am a female. Yes really. Biologically. That's nonsense. Not all women are this way at all. If that's his experience with his one woman, how can he speak for all women? He cannot. I've seen some women get more active with their partner as they matured into their relationship . Kids are gone, let's party. |
Mrs Lady Pants
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Mrs Lady Pants
User ID: 77482370 United States 03/11/2021 12:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't think so. I'm married 32yrs, sex is much less frquent now, but our love for each other has only grown. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79044425 Get your wife some good quality romance novels... Stand back and get ready to tumble. If my guy made me read to get hot under the collar, I'd be very put out. |
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Mrs Lady Pants
User ID: 77482370 United States 03/11/2021 12:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | in a legit union neither should be seen as "getting in the way" or inhibiting Quoting: Red John however, it is never ever to be partaken of outside of the marriage covenant, commitment some if not most dudes can poke without love however, the design is - for this cause... - - for what cause? - for this cause a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave (be joined) to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh a> - one flesh in the metaphysical bonds of the intimate union, in the emotions/feelings, in the mind, in the heart/soul/spirit, joined and combined by the natural physical connections b> - one flesh in the combined DNA expressed in the results of procreation I cannot go there without the feelings without a full pure loving union it's just another form of abuse the idea of a meaningless, mindless, emotionless, shallow, hollow, impersonal shag doesn't get me going, poking a stranger is not a happy thought, it's a huge turn off. : ) Mes'Sage Ive never had a one night stand. Just not in me to do it. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76720150 United States 03/11/2021 12:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This was said to me...and it just hit me wrong. I think it's backwards. Quoting: Bodhi Sita Does love get in the way of sex? To me - Sex is an expression of Love. So where's the Love? Sex is boy an expression of love That would be saying that everyone you had sex with you loved or was showing love Trust me I had sex with many women and didn't love any of them nor was I trying to express any love to them lol It was just hormones I wanted to get off No love Now, when I met my wife who I have been with 25 years, I do love, we have made love, buy most of the times we just havr good old fashion sex I love her and always feel love for her but when we are doing the business I ain't thinking of love, I'm thinking dirty thoughts If you start believing sex I expression of love then you will feel that when your partner doesn't want sex that 6hey don't love you You have to separate the 2 Sex is sex, can be done with anyone, rather you live them or not Love is love and usually only for the one person you truly love Sex is better with the one you love, which is a while different story |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80065655 United States 03/11/2021 12:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just don't screw your brother or sister, mom or dad, or really any immediate blood family or people who are supposed to be your friends and you should be ok. Those people usually don't like being fucked with in any manner, and even if they did.....that's just wrong..... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79418843 United States 03/14/2021 09:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some thoughts I wrote down... ~ What is sacred? Is our exchange of energy sacred or something to feed the infinite need for distraction and possibly for control. Sex is an intimate exchange of energy between people if there is love and openness. If there is giving and receiving. It can also be a selfish taking of energy from another or using them for one’s own pleasure. If there is no reciprocity, then one person loses energy while the other gains. When there is love involved and people are sharing an experience generated by the energy of another - there is a flow and both gain energy. Yet if one is just using the other, their heart rips as their energy is stolen. Sex is sacred and must be freely given. Sexual energy that is gathered from others and then brought into a partnership is dually damaging. This entangles all parties. Thinking about others than the one you are with is damaging. This energy is precious. |
Fossy
User ID: 79516540 United States 03/14/2021 09:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't think so. I'm married 32yrs, sex is much less frquent now, but our love for each other has only grown. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79044425 Get your wife some good quality romance novels... Stand back and get ready to tumble. If my guy made me read to get hot under the collar, I'd be very put out. It doesn’t sound like you would need it! Lol because of many different factors however, women can lose interest when they’re older. It is usually hormonal. I had this problem but once I started reading and writing romantic fiction. It freaking cured me. I’m not going to elaborate but it made a HUGE difference. I even had it on my sig line for a while to do this instead of messing with hormone replacement. But!!! It’s not for everyone... but!!!! If there is a problem it never hurts to try something new. Making sammiches great again! |
Fossy
User ID: 79516540 United States 03/14/2021 10:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fact of life #36289... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80124460 Women in general prefer having sex with themselves. When you get that into your head you'll understand why they have less and less with you as the years go by. Don't let them fool you that their sex drive has diminished;it hasn't. They'd just rather you weren't involved. The second you're out the door, kitty is being stroked to the max and the number of orgasms achieved would make your nuts shrink. For some reason women seem to think they can actually convince us that they don't do this, but if they were honest and upfront about it you'd be pretty shocked. How true is this? Any anon females want tto weigh in? Yeah, he’s full of crap! Making sammiches great again! |
rewind
Militant Bitch User ID: 73832649 United States 02/26/2023 07:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For me I have to say yes. Never had anyone love me but for my sex. True |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 85175051 Germany 02/26/2023 07:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | LMAO sex, yeah its all fake. This a woman thing. They are fake. not even kidding. They are the reason for the fall. They gave in to the snake and ruined it for all of us. Whores are what the are. Ive been drinking yeah. But you know I am right. Quoting: Joker Show us on the stuffed animal where the bad lady touched you... |
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Militant Bitch User ID: 73832649 United States 02/26/2023 07:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I did not mean to that extreme. I could have said any of my boyfriend's or husbands which I'm pretty sure most are not quite as twisted as yourself. let us hope, anyhow. Last Edited by rewind on 02/26/2023 07:29 PM |
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Militant Bitch User ID: 73832649 United States 02/26/2023 07:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's supposed to be for making little humans an supposed to be done with love. But that's not how it works. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76626437 United States 02/26/2023 07:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Eff that. If you love someone you'd really want to please and pleasure them and have that emotion returned to you. Most females dont want sex even in a marriage because they either dont actually love the guy they picked or had to settle on to support them or they dont or cant allow themselves to take any pleasure from it for some or many reasons including that their partner isnt interested or doesnt know how to perform in that activity. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76626437 United States 02/26/2023 07:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I did not mean to that extreme. I could have said any of my boyfriend's or husbands which I'm pretty sure most are not quite as twisted as yourself. let us hope, anyhow. And you didnt pay any attention at all to a partners status or financial acquisition potential before settling on your poor choices? |
scimitar
User ID: 75456650 United States 02/26/2023 07:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sex? No Eroticism? Yes, although the more accurate perspective in my opinion, is like a dark cloud over love. Last Edited by scimitar on 02/26/2023 07:57 PM Ominous regressions One Truth... many realities |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 85058231 United States 02/26/2023 07:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Lots of things get in the way of love and all the ways sex does it tend to be related to those other lots of things. It's a material world and a material act with material demands and the truth is cold. It is too cold for comfort and the heater is too expensive. The fire stove is empty. It doesn't feel very sexy. In the spirit, yes, there is abundance, but it so rarely ever translates into material security. Can't spend time without the resources, can't go places, can have experiences, can't make memories, can't set aside the anxiety and the fear of what will happen, and even if you have a nice life for a while, little by little, the uncertainty creeps on things and the relationship becomes more strained and more cold; the truth is cold. It is too cold for sex. It is too cold to stay awake, but only slowly fade in desolation of an infinite abyss and God, there, laughing, because it's a better story that way. Too many happy endings make an audience go bored and that's that. "Once upon a time, a couple people lived without any problems. Our hero faced no challenges and was generally good at everything. His heroine didn't need saving for she was courageous and intelligent as well. They faced no stimulus to go anywhere and had no impetus for action. They simply lived in peace, joy, happiness and tranquility. They loved each other and understood each other well. Through time, they understood each other more and more deeply until words were no longer needed. They lived a full life, with many children, and died quietly, peacefully, leaving behind much wisdom and a powerful lasting legacy that never shook and never wavered for ever, until the end of time." The end. The story is perfect but you wont see a movie about it. Not enough shock and spite and conflict and f r i c t i o n. It's just not sexy enough for love. |