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Does Sex get in the way of Love???

 
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This was said to me...and it just hit me wrong. I think it's backwards.

Does love get in the way of sex?

To me - Sex is an expression of Love.

So where's the Love?
 Quoting: Bodhi Sita


SEX,hmm...

One huuuge flaw in that ^werd^

Where I come from it's known as

Making Love in many ways and Making Love with Your Soul Mate is an unpublished and unpainted Art...

The only Two who know That That Art Exists are the Two Artists who are deeply intertwined within each others Being that You cannot determine who is who...

I call THIS, Agape Love that has no barriers nor preconceived conditions...

Unconditional Love that heals without and within...

The Twin Flames that never burn out

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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80122612


Beautifully said.
 Quoting: Bodhi Sita


Thank You Bodhi Sita

hf hf hf

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03/09/2021 06:40 PM
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Re: Does Sex get in the way of Love???
Seriously wtf is love anyways but a bunch of deceiving lies. Sex is addiction disguised as love.
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Re: Does Sex get in the way of Love???
in a legit union neither should be seen as "getting in the way" or inhibiting

however, it is never ever to be partaken of outside of the marriage covenant, commitment

some if not most dudes can poke without love

however, the design is

- for this cause...

- - for what cause?

- for this cause bananasex a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave (be joined) to his wife,
and the two shall become one flesh

a>
- one flesh in the metaphysical bonds of the intimate union,
in the emotions/feelings, in the mind, in the heart/soul/spirit, joined and combined by the natural physical connections

b>
- one flesh in the combined DNA expressed in the results of procreation


I cannot go there without the feelings
without a full pure loving union
it's just another form of abuse

the idea of a meaningless, mindless, emotionless, shallow, hollow, impersonal shag doesn't get me going,
poking a stranger is not a happy thought, it's a huge turn off.
 Quoting: Red John


: )

hf

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03/09/2021 07:25 PM
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Re: Does Sex get in the way of Love???
sex ain't making love and if you don't know the difference then you've never been in love
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03/09/2021 11:27 PM
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sex ain't making love and if you don't know the difference then you've never been in love
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43627772


I've never in my long life had sex that wasn't making love. I never got near enough sex in my life and always aspire to it since it IS the manifestation of love from a man to a woman. Every time, I felt loved and bonded to that woman, even one that I'd just met. I'd be willing to bond with that woman for a lifetime, yet most times the woman didn't want that.
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 Quoting: Bodhi Sita


there are many branches in the love tree

the marriage bond and union requires 100% of those branches to blossom and be healthy

if certain branches are cut off

the whole tree will die a horrible death
(°ö°)
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Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood

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First published in 19889 and can be a bit outdated here and there but worth a read.
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03/10/2021 11:23 PM
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sex ain't making love and if you don't know the difference then you've never been in love
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43627772


I've never in my long life had sex that wasn't making love. I never got near enough sex in my life and always aspire to it since it IS the manifestation of love from a man to a woman. Every time, I felt loved and bonded to that woman, even one that I'd just met. I'd be willing to bond with that woman for a lifetime, yet most times the woman didn't want that.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80110829


yeah, it works the other way too unfortunately. As a girl it seems even worse. The afraid of any kind of commitment, even if it's a date next week, guy. But he always wants to drop in late at night cause he missed you all day!!!
epiclol

Use 'em, toss em until they're no longer fun. lol! Not love, it's a sleep aid. hahaha
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Sex is just sex

Something humans do : /

Sorry if that’s not what you expected
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03/10/2021 11:28 PM
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This was said to me...and it just hit me wrong. I think it's backwards.

Does love get in the way of sex?

To me - Sex is an expression of Love.

So where's the Love?
 Quoting: Bodhi Sita


That's truly a loaded question.
Either extreme can be true.

Sex for the sake of sex can be ruined if one partner falls in love. So example.
Sex buddies for ages. Lots of booty calls, then bam, one starts having feelings for the other and it gets too complicated to continue.

Or

A Love so deep it transcends the physical,so when sex is introduced,and say it's terrible, it makes it confusing and weird.
Maybe one of a bad kisser.
Total bummer.


The love will remain, but it might be hard to hang out now.
I'm going right now....


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03/10/2021 11:29 PM
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03/10/2021 11:31 PM
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 Quoting: Bodhi Sita


Soulmates are very complicated stuff.
But, that connection is there. It's very deep,so working your issues out might be part of the fun, and end up being cathartic.

Or it might be a nightmare. Not all soulmates are love mates.
Could be a friend or relative. Those, are more complicated really.
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03/10/2021 11:32 PM
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I agree with you OP, sex is just an expression of love. Lust can get in the way of love, though. Jealousy, pride, apathy, all the vices can ruin a good relationship.
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This was said to me...and it just hit me wrong. I think it's backwards.

Does love get in the way of sex?

To me - Sex is an expression of Love.

So where's the Love?
 Quoting: Bodhi Sita


No sex gets in the way of love never have sex with someone you love.




Epiclol
 Quoting: Vamps333 72570054


Sex with someone you love can be otherworldly.
Depends.
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that's not what your mom said
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Re: Does Sex get in the way of Love???
I agree with you OP, sex is just an expression of love. Lust can get in the way of love, though. Jealousy, pride, apathy, all the vices can ruin a good relationship.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79624009


Not all sex love though.

The vices.... Well some may be an issue, but if you're really together, they shouldn't be.
Mutual respect is key.
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 Quoting: Bodhi Sita


All the hard work and in the end divorce
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Mrs Lady Pants

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LMAO sex, yeah its all fake. This a woman thing. They are fake. not even kidding. They are the reason for the fall. They gave in to the snake and ruined it for all of us. Whores are what the are. Ive been drinking yeah. But you know I am right.
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Sex is the only way you know you are in love. If you gel together in genital contact, you are good. If you come at the same time, that is your soulmate.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69079230


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that's not what your mom said
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Oh wow

You’re a comic genius
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Does Sex get in the way of Love???
 Quoting: Bodhi Sita


Often it does, I think.
 Quoting: Vasily


Why, in your opinion?
 Quoting: Bodhi Sita


I think when we engage in sex too soon, the sex crowds out the process of truly getting to know each other in a way that can grow into real love.

Instead of getting to know the person deeply and having the relationship built on a strong foundation of trust and mutual respect built from long term interaction and experiences as friends and individual people, we warp the relationship by making it mostly about sex too soon.

Sex can also get in the way of love, if one of the partners is selfish in bed.
 Quoting: Vasily


*grumbling*

I never dumped a guy for that, but maybe I should have.
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03/10/2021 11:39 PM
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Fact of life #36289...
Women in general prefer having sex with themselves.
When you get that into your head you'll understand why they have less and less with you as the years go by.
Don't let them fool you that their sex drive has diminished;it hasn't.
They'd just rather you weren't involved.
The second you're out the door, kitty is being stroked to the max and the number of orgasms achieved would make your nuts shrink.
For some reason women seem to think they can actually convince us that they don't do this, but if they were honest and upfront about it you'd be pretty shocked.
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btw - people thinking about sex with other people than their partners kills love.

On the subject.
 Quoting: Bodhi Sita


This is true.
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Mrs Lady Pants

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03/10/2021 11:41 PM
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Stop confusing love with sex. You cannot have sex with everything you love.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75538070


Tell that to Bill Cosby
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Stop confusing love with sex. You cannot have sex with everything you love.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75538070


English sucks

Love donuts, chocolate, steak, burgers, ...
Love your dog, cat, ...
Love your car, truck, bike,
Love hiking, walking, running, working out, ...
Love your parents, aunts, uncles, grandparents, nieces, nephews, etc.
Love your job

Love your spouse/partner

all have different meanings


it's not confusion, it is legit and necessary component of a specific type of relationship

without it that relationship is doomed
 Quoting: Naunet


You speak of partnership.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75538070


Yes...

Thanks for clarifying Naunet...
 Quoting: Bodhi Sita


A real partner is the goal. Then love is easy, sex comes naturally.
Again, mutual respect.
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This song makes me think of someone I love. Every time I hear it, all I see is him.
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I don't think so. I'm married 32yrs, sex is much less frquent now, but our love for each other has only grown.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79044425


Do you fantasize...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80109952


This thread is for grown ups who are wanting to learn about deep truths in the world to understand their interactions.

Thanks.
 Quoting: Bodhi Sita


I generally fantasize about the object of my desire.
I only do that if I'm..... alone.
I'm a one man woman. There's only ever one .
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You cannot have love bonding without sex. Certainly males can't. Sex doesn't need to actually mean PIV, but it does mean full access to all parts of each other's naked body and bodily fluids, with acceptance of penetration as desirable.

Intimacy is next to godliness.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80110829


With love, sex can become god like. You acheive moments of together and pleasure that can not be recreated and is empowering.

Focusing the energy during these occasions can help manifest new things in your life.

Sex is the gateway to god
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Mrs Lady Pants

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Female biology gets in the way when they are young because their genetics lusts after strong men and desires domination and yet they do everything they can to hide this part of themselves so all their nice guy friends dont find out so they have their stable man to fall back on when they are done with their "fun."
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78069418


Can you say that in English now?
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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80124211


Is godzilla your love, or Eminem?
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