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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80122612 United Kingdom 03/09/2021 06:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This was said to me...and it just hit me wrong. I think it's backwards. Quoting: Bodhi Sita Does love get in the way of sex? To me - Sex is an expression of Love. So where's the Love? SEX,hmm... One huuuge flaw in that ^werd^ Where I come from it's known as Making Love in many ways and Making Love with Your Soul Mate is an unpublished and unpainted Art... The only Two who know That That Art Exists are the Two Artists who are deeply intertwined within each others Being that You cannot determine who is who... I call THIS, Agape Love that has no barriers nor preconceived conditions... Unconditional Love that heals without and within... The Twin Flames that never burn out Mes'Sage Beautifully said. Thank You Bodhi Sita Mes'Sage |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80122612 United Kingdom 03/09/2021 06:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | in a legit union neither should be seen as "getting in the way" or inhibiting Quoting: Red John however, it is never ever to be partaken of outside of the marriage covenant, commitment some if not most dudes can poke without love however, the design is - for this cause... - - for what cause? - for this cause a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave (be joined) to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh a> - one flesh in the metaphysical bonds of the intimate union, in the emotions/feelings, in the mind, in the heart/soul/spirit, joined and combined by the natural physical connections b> - one flesh in the combined DNA expressed in the results of procreation I cannot go there without the feelings without a full pure loving union it's just another form of abuse the idea of a meaningless, mindless, emotionless, shallow, hollow, impersonal shag doesn't get me going, poking a stranger is not a happy thought, it's a huge turn off. : ) Mes'Sage |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80110829 United States 03/09/2021 11:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | sex ain't making love and if you don't know the difference then you've never been in love Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43627772 I've never in my long life had sex that wasn't making love. I never got near enough sex in my life and always aspire to it since it IS the manifestation of love from a man to a woman. Every time, I felt loved and bonded to that woman, even one that I'd just met. I'd be willing to bond with that woman for a lifetime, yet most times the woman didn't want that. |
Naunet
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78343423 United States 03/10/2021 05:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood [link to penelopesoasis.com (secure)] First published in 19889 and can be a bit outdated here and there but worth a read. |
Fossy
User ID: 79516540 United States 03/10/2021 11:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | sex ain't making love and if you don't know the difference then you've never been in love Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43627772 I've never in my long life had sex that wasn't making love. I never got near enough sex in my life and always aspire to it since it IS the manifestation of love from a man to a woman. Every time, I felt loved and bonded to that woman, even one that I'd just met. I'd be willing to bond with that woman for a lifetime, yet most times the woman didn't want that. yeah, it works the other way too unfortunately. As a girl it seems even worse. The afraid of any kind of commitment, even if it's a date next week, guy. But he always wants to drop in late at night cause he missed you all day!!! Use 'em, toss em until they're no longer fun. lol! Not love, it's a sleep aid. hahaha Making sammiches great again! |
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Mrs Lady Pants
User ID: 77482370 United States 03/10/2021 11:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This was said to me...and it just hit me wrong. I think it's backwards. Quoting: Bodhi Sita Does love get in the way of sex? To me - Sex is an expression of Love. So where's the Love? That's truly a loaded question. Either extreme can be true. Sex for the sake of sex can be ruined if one partner falls in love. So example. Sex buddies for ages. Lots of booty calls, then bam, one starts having feelings for the other and it gets too complicated to continue. Or A Love so deep it transcends the physical,so when sex is introduced,and say it's terrible, it makes it confusing and weird. Maybe one of a bad kisser. Total bummer. The love will remain, but it might be hard to hang out now. |
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Mrs Lady Pants
User ID: 77482370 United States 03/10/2021 11:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Soulmates are very complicated stuff. But, that connection is there. It's very deep,so working your issues out might be part of the fun, and end up being cathartic. Or it might be a nightmare. Not all soulmates are love mates. Could be a friend or relative. Those, are more complicated really. |
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Mrs Lady Pants
User ID: 77482370 United States 03/10/2021 11:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This was said to me...and it just hit me wrong. I think it's backwards. Quoting: Bodhi Sita Does love get in the way of sex? To me - Sex is an expression of Love. So where's the Love? No sex gets in the way of love never have sex with someone you love. Sex with someone you love can be otherworldly. Depends. |
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Mrs Lady Pants
User ID: 77482370 United States 03/10/2021 11:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I agree with you OP, sex is just an expression of love. Lust can get in the way of love, though. Jealousy, pride, apathy, all the vices can ruin a good relationship. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79624009 Not all sex love though. The vices.... Well some may be an issue, but if you're really together, they shouldn't be. Mutual respect is key. |
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Mrs Lady Pants
User ID: 77482370 United States 03/10/2021 11:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think when we engage in sex too soon, the sex crowds out the process of truly getting to know each other in a way that can grow into real love. Instead of getting to know the person deeply and having the relationship built on a strong foundation of trust and mutual respect built from long term interaction and experiences as friends and individual people, we warp the relationship by making it mostly about sex too soon. Sex can also get in the way of love, if one of the partners is selfish in bed. *grumbling* I never dumped a guy for that, but maybe I should have. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80124460 South Africa 03/10/2021 11:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fact of life #36289... Women in general prefer having sex with themselves. When you get that into your head you'll understand why they have less and less with you as the years go by. Don't let them fool you that their sex drive has diminished;it hasn't. They'd just rather you weren't involved. The second you're out the door, kitty is being stroked to the max and the number of orgasms achieved would make your nuts shrink. For some reason women seem to think they can actually convince us that they don't do this, but if they were honest and upfront about it you'd be pretty shocked. |
Mrs Lady Pants
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User ID: 77482370 United States 03/10/2021 11:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Stop confusing love with sex. You cannot have sex with everything you love. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75538070 English sucks Love donuts, chocolate, steak, burgers, ... Love your dog, cat, ... Love your car, truck, bike, Love hiking, walking, running, working out, ... Love your parents, aunts, uncles, grandparents, nieces, nephews, etc. Love your job Love your spouse/partner all have different meanings it's not confusion, it is legit and necessary component of a specific type of relationship without it that relationship is doomed You speak of partnership. Yes... Thanks for clarifying Naunet... A real partner is the goal. Then love is easy, sex comes naturally. Again, mutual respect. |
Mrs Lady Pants
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User ID: 77482370 United States 03/10/2021 11:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't think so. I'm married 32yrs, sex is much less frquent now, but our love for each other has only grown. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79044425 Do you fantasize... This thread is for grown ups who are wanting to learn about deep truths in the world to understand their interactions. Thanks. I generally fantasize about the object of my desire. I only do that if I'm..... alone. I'm a one man woman. There's only ever one . |
HempWillSaveTheWorld
User ID: 77675749 United States 03/10/2021 11:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You cannot have love bonding without sex. Certainly males can't. Sex doesn't need to actually mean PIV, but it does mean full access to all parts of each other's naked body and bodily fluids, with acceptance of penetration as desirable. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80110829 Intimacy is next to godliness. With love, sex can become god like. You acheive moments of together and pleasure that can not be recreated and is empowering. Focusing the energy during these occasions can help manifest new things in your life. Sex is the gateway to god HempWillSaveTheWorld Vi Veri Vniversum Vivus Vici |
Mrs Lady Pants
User ID: 77482370 United States 03/10/2021 11:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Female biology gets in the way when they are young because their genetics lusts after strong men and desires domination and yet they do everything they can to hide this part of themselves so all their nice guy friends dont find out so they have their stable man to fall back on when they are done with their "fun." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78069418 Can you say that in English now? |
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