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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79650013 United Kingdom 03/04/2021 08:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Bump this post Having never married or had kids for good reason (this one). Modern expectations of older generations imposed onto the younger, to reproduce ever since the industrial revolution population explosion. Many of our (familial) tribal instincts are totally redundant in this modern - overpopulated world. Pretty sound advice otherwise, taking back power over your own situation without resorting to violence or self destruction. |
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Vamps333 User ID: 72723507 United Kingdom 03/04/2021 08:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your wife got fucked by a hotter guy while you were at the gym every day. When he got tired of that snatch and you looked attractive again she started banging you again after the first guy got her juices going. She may fuck you now but she's picturing the other guy who just dumped her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73960537 This one's awake. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79444931 United States 03/04/2021 08:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your wife got fucked by a hotter guy while you were at the gym every day. When he got tired of that snatch and you looked attractive again she started banging you again after the first guy got her juices going. She may fuck you now but she's picturing the other guy who just dumped her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73960537 I see you've had your vaccine Dumbass... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 75697569 United States 03/04/2021 08:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was raised in a religious home, in a religious community. Likewise, because of this, I was married young and had children young. For nearly ten years I thought I did everything right. I worked hard, made good money, often did housework, took care of the kids, and tried constantly to make my wife “happy”. Quoting: SigmaWolf 78576101 At 30 years old I was miserable. I felt like a checkbook, my wife was always a total nag, I got no respect, and even less sex. And whenever we finally did it felt like a chore. That’s when a coworker of mine showed me the way, and I’ll be damned it if didn’t work. Here were the things he told me to do, and he promised me within months my life would be different. Ive never looked back. 1)Shut Up. Your wife, girlfriend, will often get pissed or angry about something. Don’t defend yourself verbally. Don’t try to start explaining. Just go silent. It is counter intuitive but the peace I got from coming home and as soon as my wife started nagging about something just shutting her out... it drove her crazy. In a good way eventually. After about a month she started respecting me more. I wasn’t going to entertain bullshit and she knew it. 2)Gym Gym Gym. Lift big, lift heavy. This was so hard. I had let myself go. I had a total dad bod, a flabby belly, tiny arms. I started going to gym every afternoon after work. I became addicted to it after seeing results. The gym became my refuge. If the wife started in I would grab my gym bag and go hit an hour of reps. Other women really started noticing me after a couple of months. Waitresses, secretaries, clerks. I could see it, my wife could see it. 3)Stop giving in. If I didn’t agree with it anymore I didn’t do it. For so long I would just roll over. It’s Christmas, who’s parents are we going to see? What trip are we taking? Will you buy x instead of y. No. No. No. I started just calmly doing MY way again. 4)More time with the kids. Just me and them. I started taking my daughter fishing. My son shooting. If I was running an errand they were with ME, not the other way around. Things really started changing about 4 months in. My wife really stated to “respect” me again, and had a genuine attraction. Sex is enthusiastic nod she often initiates it, and I get nagged nearly none (because she knows I just wont put up with it). 10 years later still doing all of the above, and counsel young men on these issues in my men’s group. It works. Agreed, and I bet your momma had heavy influence on you growing up which is why you adopted the earlier approach. Women think men should be a certain way so they themselves are happy but the results are neither are happy. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79096761 United States 03/04/2021 08:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your wife got fucked by a hotter guy while you were at the gym every day. When he got tired of that snatch and you looked attractive again she started banging you again after the first guy got her juices going. She may fuck you now but she's picturing the other guy who just dumped her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73960537 The REAL WORLD 90% of the men who think their wife is faithful to them are CLUELESS Women CRAVE having another one on the side at least now and then ... it goes back to the survival instinct that if her children have different genetic backgrounds at least some of them "might" survive to adulthood - ie: pass HER genetic material on to the next generation, which is what sex is all about in the Animal World (and WE are just animals when you strip away all the mumbo jumbo) Get a CLUE |
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User ID: 80107354 United States 03/04/2021 08:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was raised in a religious home, in a religious community. Likewise, because of this, I was married young and had children young. For nearly ten years I thought I did everything right. I worked hard, made good money, often did housework, took care of the kids, and tried constantly to make my wife “happy”. Quoting: SigmaWolf 78576101 At 30 years old I was miserable. I felt like a checkbook, my wife was always a total nag, I got no respect, and even less sex. And whenever we finally did it felt like a chore. That’s when a coworker of mine showed me the way, and I’ll be damned it if didn’t work. Here were the things he told me to do, and he promised me within months my life would be different. Ive never looked back. 1)Shut Up. Your wife, girlfriend, will often get pissed or angry about something. Don’t defend yourself verbally. Don’t try to start explaining. Just go silent. It is counter intuitive but the peace I got from coming home and as soon as my wife started nagging about something just shutting her out... it drove her crazy. In a good way eventually. After about a month she started respecting me more. I wasn’t going to entertain bullshit and she knew it. 2)Gym Gym Gym. Lift big, lift heavy. This was so hard. I had let myself go. I had a total dad bod, a flabby belly, tiny arms. I started going to gym every afternoon after work. I became addicted to it after seeing results. The gym became my refuge. If the wife started in I would grab my gym bag and go hit an hour of reps. Other women really started noticing me after a couple of months. Waitresses, secretaries, clerks. I could see it, my wife could see it. 3)Stop giving in. If I didn’t agree with it anymore I didn’t do it. For so long I would just roll over. It’s Christmas, who’s parents are we going to see? What trip are we taking? Will you buy x instead of y. No. No. No. I started just calmly doing MY way again. 4)More time with the kids. Just me and them. I started taking my daughter fishing. My son shooting. If I was running an errand they were with ME, not the other way around. Things really started changing about 4 months in. My wife really stated to “respect” me again, and had a genuine attraction. Sex is enthusiastic nod she often initiates it, and I get nagged nearly none (because she knows I just wont put up with it). 10 years later still doing all of the above, and counsel young men on these issues in my men’s group. It works. So you’ve been married a total of 10yrs? Duncan the destroyer |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79856915 United States 03/04/2021 08:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your wife got fucked by a hotter guy while you were at the gym every day. When he got tired of that snatch and you looked attractive again she started banging you again after the first guy got her juices going. She may fuck you now but she's picturing the other guy who just dumped her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73960537 I'm a girl and we women don't like men who show off and work in the gym. I prefer a tall guy who is 250 lbs with a belly, preferably Europeans.. they know what they are doing... Sex and attraction is about mind magic |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78698051 Canada 03/04/2021 08:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was raised in a religious home, in a religious community. Likewise, because of this, I was married young and had children young. For nearly ten years I thought I did everything right. I worked hard, made good money, often did housework, took care of the kids, and tried constantly to make my wife “happy”. Quoting: SigmaWolf 78576101 At 30 years old I was miserable. I felt like a checkbook, my wife was always a total nag, I got no respect, and even less sex. And whenever we finally did it felt like a chore. That’s when a coworker of mine showed me the way, and I’ll be damned it if didn’t work. Here were the things he told me to do, and he promised me within months my life would be different. Ive never looked back. 1)Shut Up. Your wife, girlfriend, will often get pissed or angry about something. Don’t defend yourself verbally. Don’t try to start explaining. Just go silent. It is counter intuitive but the peace I got from coming home and as soon as my wife started nagging about something just shutting her out... it drove her crazy. In a good way eventually. After about a month she started respecting me more. I wasn’t going to entertain bullshit and she knew it. 2)Gym Gym Gym. Lift big, lift heavy. This was so hard. I had let myself go. I had a total dad bod, a flabby belly, tiny arms. I started going to gym every afternoon after work. I became addicted to it after seeing results. The gym became my refuge. If the wife started in I would grab my gym bag and go hit an hour of reps. Other women really started noticing me after a couple of months. Waitresses, secretaries, clerks. I could see it, my wife could see it. 3)Stop giving in. If I didn’t agree with it anymore I didn’t do it. For so long I would just roll over. It’s Christmas, who’s parents are we going to see? What trip are we taking? Will you buy x instead of y. No. No. No. I started just calmly doing MY way again. 4)More time with the kids. Just me and them. I started taking my daughter fishing. My son shooting. If I was running an errand they were with ME, not the other way around. Things really started changing about 4 months in. My wife really stated to “respect” me again, and had a genuine attraction. Sex is enthusiastic nod she often initiates it, and I get nagged nearly none (because she knows I just wont put up with it). 10 years later still doing all of the above, and counsel young men on these issues in my men’s group. It works. Take ur fucking cuck taught advice to 4chan bitch boy |
Duncan the destroyer
User ID: 80107354 United States 03/04/2021 08:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your wife got fucked by a hotter guy while you were at the gym every day. When he got tired of that snatch and you looked attractive again she started banging you again after the first guy got her juices going. She may fuck you now but she's picturing the other guy who just dumped her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73960537 The REAL WORLD 90% of the men who think their wife is faithful to them are CLUELESS Women CRAVE having another one on the side at least now and then ... it goes back to the survival instinct that if her children have different genetic backgrounds at least some of them "might" survive to adulthood - ie: pass HER genetic material on to the next generation, which is what sex is all about in the Animal World (and WE are just animals when you strip away all the mumbo jumbo) Get a CLUE I can tell you’ve never been in a relationship longer than a year, maybe ever Duncan the destroyer |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78698051 Canada 03/04/2021 08:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your wife got fucked by a hotter guy while you were at the gym every day. When he got tired of that snatch and you looked attractive again she started banging you again after the first guy got her juices going. She may fuck you now but she's picturing the other guy who just dumped her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73960537 The REAL WORLD 90% of the men who think their wife is faithful to them are CLUELESS Women CRAVE having another one on the side at least now and then ... it goes back to the survival instinct that if her children have different genetic backgrounds at least some of them "might" survive to adulthood - ie: pass HER genetic material on to the next generation, which is what sex is all about in the Animal World (and WE are just animals when you strip away all the mumbo jumbo) Get a CLUE I can tell you’ve never been in a relationship longer than a year, maybe ever I Can tell ur a fucking cuck |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77184924 United States 03/04/2021 09:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As a female I can tell you...YES! You’re finally doing things correctly Men NEED respect. Respect for their intelligence, their decisions, their life choices, their behavior, etc. Notice how most of the social engineering going around right now is centered around flipping male/female roles. Almost all tv/ads/movies show women disrespecting their men...and men rolling over and being submissive. Sorry, that’s just not the natural order of male/female roles. And if our natural roles are not fulfilled, relationships will tank. Women don’t want to be the decision maker or boss. They’ve only been brainwashed into believing they do. Women NEED to be emotionally supported. They need attention...to be seen and heard. So while you are doing most things correctly...don’t forget to give your wife some emotional support along the way. Just giving her attention...such as listening to her, praising her actions, unexpected affections, etc...she will forever be grateful |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 19876247 United States 03/04/2021 09:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your wife got fucked by a hotter guy while you were at the gym every day. When he got tired of that snatch and you looked attractive again she started banging you again after the first guy got her juices going. She may fuck you now but she's picturing the other guy who just dumped her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73960537 I'm a girl and we women don't like men who show off and work in the gym. I prefer a tall guy who is 250 lbs with a belly, preferably Europeans.. they know what they are doing... Sex and attraction is about mind magic I’m not a girl - I’m a woman - and my first husband came back from a year out west looking like the hulk version of his former weakling self and we got married very young He studied too much and let himself go - but we had GOALS and got a kit of education - and his low immunity led to chronic pain and health problems while Intook care of kids and house with some but less and less help. Then some old cougar at work stirred him up and he started working out - and left for her because he couldn’t handle the family life - big house - big dog- kids- homework- teens- and he wanted peace and quiet with her. Left us - regretted it and tried to get kids back on his side by buying them off. Eh My second husband - heavy winter coat- our first hug I could feel ROCK SOLID chest and arm muscles and just couldn’t forget him after that. Been married over ten years with him - we share all the good and bad times and both work out - but take layoffs that make us flabby - and then hit the gym again hard Both look many - 15 years younger - than our peers and both respect each other more for our efforts Old husband deteriorating with his then cougar now OLD wife that was his work-wife fling. Kids call him a jerk. They always loved me and now have my grandkids and great spouses because they listened and learned My boys are the masters of their own homes. When they spoil their wives it’s because they want to ... mot because they have to. Partnerships are good. They respect themselves and each other and exercise regularly- stay in shape. Much harder after babies - but no fatties in the family. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78698051 Canada 03/04/2021 09:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your wife got fucked by a hotter guy while you were at the gym every day. When he got tired of that snatch and you looked attractive again she started banging you again after the first guy got her juices going. She may fuck you now but she's picturing the other guy who just dumped her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73960537 I'm a girl and we women don't like men who show off and work in the gym. I prefer a tall guy who is 250 lbs with a belly, preferably Europeans.. they know what they are doing... Sex and attraction is about mind magic I’m not a girl - I’m a woman - and my first husband came back from a year out west looking like the hulk version of his former weakling self and we got married very young He studied too much and let himself go - but we had GOALS and got a kit of education - and his low immunity led to chronic pain and health problems while Intook care of kids and house with some but less and less help. Then some old cougar at work stirred him up and he started working out - and left for her because he couldn’t handle the family life - big house - big dog- kids- homework- teens- and he wanted peace and quiet with her. Left us - regretted it and tried to get kids back on his side by buying them off. Eh My second husband - heavy winter coat- our first hug I could feel ROCK SOLID chest and arm muscles and just couldn’t forget him after that. Been married over ten years with him - we share all the good and bad times and both work out - but take layoffs that make us flabby - and then hit the gym again hard Both look many - 15 years younger - than our peers and both respect each other more for our efforts Old husband deteriorating with his then cougar now OLD wife that was his work-wife fling. Kids call him a jerk. They always loved me and now have my grandkids and great spouses because they listened and learned My boys are the masters of their own homes. When they spoil their wives it’s because they want to ... mot because they have to. Partnerships are good. They respect themselves and each other and exercise regularly- stay in shape. Much harder after babies - but no fatties in the family. No matter how you lay it out, you still a bitch |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80069453 United States 03/04/2021 09:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Men are "kings" of THEIR "kingdoms". Men MUST dominate in their kingdom dominion. Women are NOT to rule or rule over you. Rule with love, respect, order and common sense and do not allow the opposite in YOUR KINGDOM from any woman, man or child. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80069453 United States 03/04/2021 09:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your wife got fucked by a hotter guy while you were at the gym every day. When he got tired of that snatch and you looked attractive again she started banging you again after the first guy got her juices going. She may fuck you now but she's picturing the other guy who just dumped her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73960537 I'm a girl and we women don't like men who show off and work in the gym. I prefer a tall guy who is 250 lbs with a belly, preferably Europeans.. they know what they are doing... Sex and attraction is about mind magic girl, your opinion is irrelevant. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78698051 Canada 03/04/2021 09:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your wife got fucked by a hotter guy while you were at the gym every day. When he got tired of that snatch and you looked attractive again she started banging you again after the first guy got her juices going. She may fuck you now but she's picturing the other guy who just dumped her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73960537 I'm a girl and we women don't like men who show off and work in the gym. I prefer a tall guy who is 250 lbs with a belly, preferably Europeans.. they know what they are doing... Sex and attraction is about mind magic girl, your opinion is irrelevant. Bitch shut the fuck up |