So today I was able to sit with her for a few minutes, her covid test came back negative so one person at a time was allowed in.

She was responsive, but not very much. I could tell she could hear me. But she wouldn't open her eyes. I know she did open her eyes with her kids when they asked if she wanted a DNR when her ventilator comes out. She opened them wide and nodded yes.

Today doctors tried to lower the oxygen to see if the ventilator could be turned off and she started to crash. She's just not strong enough. Tomorrow morning, the ventilator is coming out.

Today I got to tell her how much I love her. How much her brother (my Dad who she's lived with for 18 years) loves her. I told her I would take care of him no matter what, and for her not to worry about him. I said he wouldn't be alone, and she nodded her head and squeezed my hand (lightly). I know she could hear me.

The doctors don't have high hopes. I could see it in their faces. Too much damage was done, and it apparently wasn't the first event she had, she had more that went untreated.

I just pray she isn't in pain. I'm glad she and her Son and Daughter have a chance to say goodbye, many people don't get that.