what to do when your whole life falls apart?

Sucks to be you.

Sometimes, destruction must occur for something even more beautiful and powerful to rise from the ashes.

I feel for you brother, sounds like you just got some devastating blows, I've had several in my life, always came back stronger, wiser, with new perspectives and a new strength and drive.

Have your mourning period, release it, remember all the skills and strength you have had in your life, and move on through the storm till the clouds dissipate and the sun shines through again.

you WILL overcome this!!!!

You vent

Then you keep on trucking

I’m left speechless brother.

I really don’t know what to say, I mean the friggin ‘rona has turned many lifes to shit but I see what you come to tell us and I feel that the betrayal You suffered, right in the middle of the storm, and I Just Can feel that in the same situation, I would be destroyed.

I can only offer a hug from the distance and words that might sound empty, but every destruction is the chance for a new creation after the fire subsided.

You lost your ball & chain, act like it, have some fun

thanks man. much appreciated.

tried to reply to a few of you and it's not working for some reason. or only working intermittently...

thanks to the last two acs

Tell it to the Matterhorn

no problem, happened to me plenty of times and im still here

a few days of day drinking and youll be fine, stronger than ever, ready to make some money and enjoying spending it all on yourself.

I suggest buying a hot tub before winter and having island parties. Thank me later.

Surrender all things to God follow his will and things will turn

thanks mate. at the moment i'll have to settle for farting in the bath tub

thanks you. i think so too. and as soon as i start picking up the pieces, another fucking kick to the balls... but yeah, you're right. much appreciated.

When my husband of 28 years told me he was through; (after 5 years of therapy) it was so hard. I tried talking to my friends and _family! They wondered what I'd done. (Ie, it was _my_fault.

It is so hard. I don't think there is any way out, only trying to get through it. I prayed hard, sometimes I felt so angry at God, but I still prayed when I could. I sure have no good advice. It is so hard.

I will pray for you! I am much happier now, and believe God arranged this, as things were so difficult, but was trying to hold it together. partly because I'd promised to love and obey, and until death would we part.

Consider it an excellent opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth.

Seriously, I abide by what Wintson Churchill said..

"If you find yourself in hell, move faster"

The payment plans are usually pretty fair for a hot tub jus' sayin'

Nobody wants to repo a hot tub

Sorry, here is the correct quote



If You're Going Through Hell, Keep Going - Winston Churchill