If you believe that, then you've already lost because family is the foundation of the beginning of your life. It is the starting point which supports the buildup into what you shall eventually become. That is why single parent homes are so difficult on the children.

If you are for real, then I hope you will reconsider because everyone involved will pay a price for the loss of family unity.

Best of luck to any thinking of making these decisions. Without unity everyone is diminished.