I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child | |
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User ID: 75990568 United States 04/08/2020 07:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child Read this verse this morning: James 4:7-8 "Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded." Good luck...know you aren't alone with your struggles. Submit yourself to God, and resist the devil. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 75000097 United States 04/08/2020 08:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child Try again. Throughout your day think about staying grounded and absorb the white healing light from the earth. Concentrate on creating a boundary around you made of positive energy and white light. Also if you drink alcohol stop drinking. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73951012 United States 04/08/2020 08:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child OP nobody has this issue down. I notice if I refrain, I get nightmares and weird “visits” at night. If I fap before going to sleep, I am fine. I believe semen is a poison and must be maintained. Notice after orgasm, you don’t care about sex for a while? Self denial is not the answer. You must maintain the body, eat, masturbate, etc., but not to excess. Religion and spirituality have failed to provide answers to this. Maintenance works. The middle road. Good luck! And drop the guilt! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73514734 Way to rationalize doing it. You think because you feel bad that you can justify why you should do it. Think about everything in your life you've used that rational , has it ever benefited you? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73951012 United States 04/08/2020 08:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child OP here's my advice. Try to go as long as you can without doing it. Dont beat yourself up when you slip and notice your triggers. They are subconscious. It's a battle. Everytime you go to watch porn think about all these women that are addicted to meth and only do all those nasty things to get money for the next fix. Some of those women are runaways and human trafficked. Same goes for the prostitutes. Imagine them before they were snatched up. They were young innocent kids that only wanted normal childhood. Imagine your parents and grandparents knowing what you do and seeing it. We all had that guilt in the beginning but slowly it went away as we justified it. Once you quit for long enough you'll have that guilt again if you slip but that means you're back again! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78669752 United States 04/08/2020 09:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child It ends up coming out in your sleep dude. God doesnt care if you spank your monkey, that's between you and your body. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78190645 South Korea 04/08/2020 09:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child Apostle Paul prayed three times, begging for God to remove his thorns. The Big Guy's response? Yeah no, little Pauly...MY GRACE ALONE IS SUFFICIENT. Drink in the ever-over-flowing grace, OP, it's why God Jr. was sent to earth to do his thang. Our puny minds can't wrap around the fact that all the worldly bullshit got nailed to the cross. Our flesh naturally wants to grab ahold of the wheel and drive through the car wash, but in Divine salvation, dirt and grime don't exist. All God sees is a shiny new Benz sittin' on the showroom floor. Our ways are not His, nor are our thoughts. Hard to fathom, but your thorn is actually in your favor: Romans 8:28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. You're doing all you can -- praying, fasting (trying to not fap), confessing, now just BE STILL AND KNOW THAT HE IS GOD... Damn, I should send around a collection plate. For the orphans, of course.... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 59310310 United States 04/08/2020 09:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child You have already done the most important step. Admitting you have a problem You have to keep trying and keep fighting. Have you gotten any help in regards to your molestation as a child? I think you need to start there. Therapists are still working. Phone appointments |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75475892 United States 04/08/2020 09:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child With everything shut down evil is rampant. Read what the excorcists recommend to do to protect oneself. Amorth's latest/last book is excellent. Daily rosary. St. Michael prayer especially at times of attack. Fasting. Daily scripture. Sacraments daily. You recognize what is happening. Imo the reality is that there is no middle ground. A lifetime of that got me nowhere. I got the house blessed by a priest. Then after confession and praying the first 2 things earnestly and daily...I've been free after decades of "this is impossible." The chains are *gone* completely and it feels great. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77181668 United States 04/08/2020 09:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child its basically an opioid type addiction you have to fight it from that perspective the porn adds another layer to the addiction and makes it even stronger casual sex is a different layer to the addiction also divide and conquer |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73514734 United States 04/09/2020 08:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child OP nobody has this issue down. I notice if I refrain, I get nightmares and weird “visits” at night. If I fap before going to sleep, I am fine. I believe semen is a poison and must be maintained. Notice after orgasm, you don’t care about sex for a while? Self denial is not the answer. You must maintain the body, eat, masturbate, etc., but not to excess. Religion and spirituality have failed to provide answers to this. Maintenance works. The middle road. Good luck! And drop the guilt! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73514734 Way to rationalize doing it. You think because you feel bad that you can justify why you should do it. Think about everything in your life you've used that rational , has it ever benefited you? I don’t need to justify anything. It’s nature and those who try to swim too long against a river’s current end up drowning. You look at people pushing the anti-masturbation from Catholic priests to Muslims. What do they do? Molest kids and goats! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78767305 Canada 04/09/2020 08:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child Sorry you were abused as a child. If you're jerking it too much. Try working out until you can't anymore. Buy a heavy bag and hit the crap out of that thing. Boxing wraps are cheap, boxing gloves even better. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78541906 United States 04/09/2020 08:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child It's not sex addiction, please don't feel shame for being projectiled into an activity you were clearly not meant to be engaging in, it was the irresponsible and negligent heinous behaviour of others, not you that did that You sound like you're in real pain The world around you is doing the best they are to help you have a voice To keep victims like you from having them erased This world is horrible, and the world that has been given to many of us has been at minimum totally heinous We work as a group to change it So many, when before there was none I've been helping for years, helped many, won't go into details, the way the moves have moved against it as opposed to what things used to be are astounding Where we are now is monumentally different from where we used to be But here's my man to man true to heart words of advice here Don't help pimps have money by soliciting, they're violent criminals, and they fuel what hurt you, and no man should, and I don't myself so I don't add to that pain |
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User ID: 78778810 China 04/11/2020 06:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child Apostle Paul prayed three times, begging for God to remove his thorns. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78190645 The Big Guy's response? Yeah no, little Pauly...MY GRACE ALONE IS SUFFICIENT. Drink in the ever-over-flowing grace, OP, it's why God Jr. was sent to earth to do his thang. Our puny minds can't wrap around the fact that all the worldly bullshit got nailed to the cross. Our flesh naturally wants to grab ahold of the wheel and drive through the car wash, but in Divine salvation, dirt and grime don't exist. All God sees is a shiny new Benz sittin' on the showroom floor. Our ways are not His, nor are our thoughts. Hard to fathom, but your thorn is actually in your favor: Romans 8:28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. You're doing all you can -- praying, fasting (trying to not fap), confessing, now just BE STILL AND KNOW THAT HE IS GOD... Damn, I should send around a collection plate. For the orphans, of course.... Lord help you , amen go to this thread Thread: intercessors and prayer warrior's eternal thread (Page 13) YAHshua the sound of His Name in English, YAH is short form of YHVH, Bible.PRAYERBOOK.Praisebook DOWNLOADs [link to www.docdroid.net (secure)] [link to pdfhost.io (secure)] [link to www.docdroid.net (secure)] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76837266 Australia 04/11/2020 06:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child I didn't read your post...you are too grotty to listen to....the title was enough... clean up your fucking act. or take yourself away from all that is good. Yuck. I feel like vomiting...….. |
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User ID: 73778874 United States 05/03/2020 08:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child 4 days isn't enough. If you want to beat the addiction it will take many tries and defeats. But it can change. Don't give up. Sex is beautiful done as intended, a physical connection between two compatible souls. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78541906 United States 05/03/2020 08:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I tried no fap for 4 days & couldn't last. Had a nightmare. I think my sex addiction is demonic. I was molested as a child Put all the porn aside and work on doing everything in your power to heal your temporal lobe through meditation, yoga, martial arts, deep breathing, cannabis, and magic mushrooms Trauma can be physically repaired over time if you eat healthy and exercise Also paint your inner canvas over with things that are beautiful, calm, peaceful, and clean your inner forms and repeat those beautiful and calming things over and over again until the black fog is erased You never have to be a slave if you walk to the fire of love Grey matter damages are dangerous to your neurological regions |
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