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Why are SOME men just so cruel?

 
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Why are SOME men just so cruel?
I am not speaking about all men.
Just making that clear.

I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me.

I didn't realize it at the time but...
he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms.

As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after.

It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma.
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11/18/2019 01:19 AM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
I am not speaking about all men.
Just making that clear.

I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me.

I didn't realize it at the time but...
he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms.

As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after.

It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma.
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It's probably something you did.
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11/18/2019 01:23 AM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
I am not speaking about all men.
Just making that clear.

I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me.

I didn't realize it at the time but...
he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms.

As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after.

It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957


They DO meet karma.

You just dont see it after they are gone.

And who is to say them coming into your life was not a karma coming back to you for some reason?
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11/18/2019 01:37 AM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
I am not speaking about all men.
Just making that clear.

I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me.

I didn't realize it at the time but...
he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms.

As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after.

It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957


They DO meet karma.

You just dont see it after they are gone.

And who is to say them coming into your life was not a karma coming back to you for some reason?
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Nothing I've ever done came close to what that person did to me. So if I expect to meet karma, that was serious overkill.

The level of depravity and callousness is too great for anything I've done.
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11/18/2019 01:43 AM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
Women can be cruel too.

In college a group of girls totally messed with my emotions and my mind . Made me think someone was into me but really they were using me.

It’s a shitty feeling to be used by another person.

Just try to find peace in your life and have happiness within yourself. Be kind to yourself . Treat yourself with respect and love .

Hope you heal quickly and don’t dwell on the negative .
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11/18/2019 01:46 AM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
Women can be cruel too.

In college a group of girls totally messed with my emotions and my mind . Made me think someone was into me but really they were using me.

It’s a shitty feeling to be used by another person.

Just try to find peace in your life and have happiness within yourself. Be kind to yourself . Treat yourself with respect and love .

Hope you heal quickly and don’t dwell on the negative .
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I don't doubt it

Thing is...I don't think women go around intentionally humiliating a man sexually. There's a difference between the mean girl mature (which I agree with you) of some women versus the type of humiliation men pull off. Men will tear you down far worse than women will.
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Narcissists are the scum of the dating pool.

Avoid dating them at all costs.
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You’re not talking about normal” people, think personality disordered people, read up on how they operate and you’ll be more prepared next time! hf
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11/18/2019 01:51 AM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
shutup you damn whiner.

make some food clean your toilet and stfu
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11/18/2019 02:15 AM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
If you switch on that 'intuition', which nothing can actually take from you....then you'll never have another problem like that, again.

Frustrates the fuck out of 'players'.

There are plenty of cruel women out there, mostly they've sculked back to their caves for now....
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11/18/2019 02:20 AM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
Maybe a lack of jerkit???
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11/18/2019 02:22 AM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
I am not speaking about all men.
Just making that clear.

I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me.

I didn't realize it at the time but...
he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms.

As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after.

It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957


Cry me a river.

You haven't MET a cruel human, until you've met a "woman".
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11/18/2019 02:24 AM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
Some people have a hardened heart and are lovers of their own selves with no natural affection.

They'll get what's coming to them in the end, you reap what you sow.

The important thing is to not let these people make you bitter and bring you down to their level. All the best OP.
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
I am not speaking about all men.
Just making that clear.

I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me.

I didn't realize it at the time but...
he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms.

As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after.

It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma.
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Why not?
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11/18/2019 12:49 PM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
Because they've been damaged by other human beings, usually in childhood. Usually by the mother if they get off on hurting women. Cause and effect.
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
Energy vampires and psychopaths/narcissists exist.

Listen to your intuition on the tell-tale signs.
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11/18/2019 01:02 PM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
I am not speaking about all men.
Just making that clear.

I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me.

I didn't realize it at the time but...
he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms.

As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after.

It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957


Brush it off, get a cat, and move on.
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11/18/2019 01:03 PM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
Because of other men's bitches, that's why.

Get them out of my life, or lose them.
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11/18/2019 01:06 PM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
Dunno? Maybe he is a narcissist OR you were doing things that compelled him to start playing mind games with you. In the past, when women ‘shit tested’ me, I couldn’t understand why they were being mean and bitchy, so I’d dump them. Some guys return fire with mind games.
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11/18/2019 01:08 PM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
As the besties said "the disrespect of women has got to be do to all the mothers,sisters,wives and friends who want all my love and respect to the end."
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As the besties said "the disrespect of women has got to be do to all the mothers,sisters,wives and friends who want all my love and respect to the end."

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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
I am not speaking about all men.
Just making that clear.

I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me.

I didn't realize it at the time but...
he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms.

As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after.

It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957


and chicks do the exact same to dudes

it's not a specific behavioral pattern limited to dudes only
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
I am not speaking about all men.
Just making that clear.

I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me.

I didn't realize it at the time but...
he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms.

As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after.

It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957


There can be a wide variety of answers to this one, first this answers why the attraction manifested "I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me."

It was to hold you hostage in that state, or fulfill a progression into a more negative state, OR be a catalyst to get you to reflect heal and change.

On to some answers to why some men are so cruel, they have been treated cruelly and think that's how relationships are.

They are narcissists or as I describe it in a blog post on Narcissistic Abuse, empaths who have become black holes that feed on others energy to try to fill that void, typically created by trauma.

They could just be straight-up inhabited (possessed) by non-human hyper dimensional energy feeders too.
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11/18/2019 01:42 PM
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Just be thankful he is gone.....

Crazy comes in all shapes and sizes....

Remember there are no mistakes, just lessons, once burned twice shy.
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
I am not speaking about all men.
Just making that clear.

I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me.

I didn't realize it at the time but...
he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms.

As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after.

It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma.
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You should have been looking for a nice beta.
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11/18/2019 01:47 PM
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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
Many reasons.

*Evil
*Possessed
*Atheist
*Psychopath
*Socialist
*Narcissist
*Communist
*Muslim
*Satanist

etc. etc.

You really need to learn how to read people, I'm sure you could easily have found out he was an asshole without even having to start a relationship with them, some of you women are retarded and end up in shit relationships because you rush into that shit because you can't be alone or you fancy their looks. You're an idiot OP, unidiot yourself.

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Re: Why are SOME men just so cruel?
I am not speaking about all men.
Just making that clear.

I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me.

I didn't realize it at the time but...
he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms.

As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after.

It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma.
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It's probably something you did.
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That is so wrong and yet so funny at the same time.





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