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Moses Born Again in L.A.
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76657131 United States 11/18/2019 01:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not speaking about all men. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957 Just making that clear. I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me. I didn't realize it at the time but... he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms. As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after. It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma. It's probably something you did. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 74082692 Australia 11/18/2019 01:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not speaking about all men. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957 Just making that clear. I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me. I didn't realize it at the time but... he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms. As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after. It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma. They DO meet karma. You just dont see it after they are gone. And who is to say them coming into your life was not a karma coming back to you for some reason? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77589217 United States 11/18/2019 01:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not speaking about all men. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957 Just making that clear. I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me. I didn't realize it at the time but... he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms. As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after. It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma. They DO meet karma. You just dont see it after they are gone. And who is to say them coming into your life was not a karma coming back to you for some reason? Nothing I've ever done came close to what that person did to me. So if I expect to meet karma, that was serious overkill. The level of depravity and callousness is too great for anything I've done. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 63899530 United States 11/18/2019 01:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In college a group of girls totally messed with my emotions and my mind . Made me think someone was into me but really they were using me. It’s a shitty feeling to be used by another person. Just try to find peace in your life and have happiness within yourself. Be kind to yourself . Treat yourself with respect and love . Hope you heal quickly and don’t dwell on the negative . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77681891 United States 11/18/2019 01:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women can be cruel too. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63899530 In college a group of girls totally messed with my emotions and my mind . Made me think someone was into me but really they were using me. It’s a shitty feeling to be used by another person. Just try to find peace in your life and have happiness within yourself. Be kind to yourself . Treat yourself with respect and love . Hope you heal quickly and don’t dwell on the negative . I don't doubt it Thing is...I don't think women go around intentionally humiliating a man sexually. There's a difference between the mean girl mature (which I agree with you) of some women versus the type of humiliation men pull off. Men will tear you down far worse than women will. |
Mustydog
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Jelly
User ID: 61811677 United Kingdom 11/18/2019 01:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You’re not talking about normal” people, think personality disordered people, read up on how they operate and you’ll be more prepared next time! Cymru Am Byth. ^. ^ * * ¥ ~~~ A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you’re loved by others. The Wizard of Oz |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78176967 Australia 11/18/2019 02:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Frustrates the fuck out of 'players'. There are plenty of cruel women out there, mostly they've sculked back to their caves for now.... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78135120 United States 11/18/2019 02:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not speaking about all men. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957 Just making that clear. I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me. I didn't realize it at the time but... he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms. As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after. It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma. Cry me a river. You haven't MET a cruel human, until you've met a "woman". |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71078123 Australia 11/18/2019 02:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some people have a hardened heart and are lovers of their own selves with no natural affection. They'll get what's coming to them in the end, you reap what you sow. The important thing is to not let these people make you bitter and bring you down to their level. All the best OP. |
Q33
User ID: 78173563 Canada 11/18/2019 12:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not speaking about all men. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957 Just making that clear. I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me. I didn't realize it at the time but... he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms. As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after. It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma. Why not? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76703023 Germany 11/18/2019 01:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not speaking about all men. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957 Just making that clear. I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me. I didn't realize it at the time but... he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms. As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after. It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma. Brush it off, get a cat, and move on. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 64428017 United Kingdom 11/18/2019 01:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dunno? Maybe he is a narcissist OR you were doing things that compelled him to start playing mind games with you. In the past, when women ‘shit tested’ me, I couldn’t understand why they were being mean and bitchy, so I’d dump them. Some guys return fire with mind games. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78176081 11/18/2019 01:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As the besties said "the disrespect of women has got to be do to all the mothers,sisters,wives and friends who want all my love and respect to the end." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77820184 All you Trekkies and TV addicts Don't mean to diss don't mean to bring static All you Klingons in the fucking house Grab your backstreet friend and get loud Blowin' doors off hinges I'll grab you with the pinchers And no, I didn't retire I'll snatch you up with the needle-nose pliers |
Red John
User ID: 35689018 Canada 11/18/2019 01:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not speaking about all men. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957 Just making that clear. I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me. I didn't realize it at the time but... he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms. As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after. It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma. and chicks do the exact same to dudes it's not a specific behavioral pattern limited to dudes only :pixie: General Failure Reading Drive A: Who is General Failure? There can be Only One Team Swirl Swirl Nation instead of red, post in the thread, then I can respond. [link to qz.com (secure)] |
Obscuram
User ID: 78102365 United States 11/18/2019 01:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not speaking about all men. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957 Just making that clear. I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me. I didn't realize it at the time but... he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms. As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after. It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma. There can be a wide variety of answers to this one, first this answers why the attraction manifested "I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me." It was to hold you hostage in that state, or fulfill a progression into a more negative state, OR be a catalyst to get you to reflect heal and change. On to some answers to why some men are so cruel, they have been treated cruelly and think that's how relationships are. They are narcissists or as I describe it in a blog post on Narcissistic Abuse, empaths who have become black holes that feed on others energy to try to fill that void, typically created by trauma. They could just be straight-up inhabited (possessed) by non-human hyper dimensional energy feeders too. Obscuram is a creative experiment of personal insights, stories, observations, and more. [link to www.obscuram.com (secure)] [link to linktr.ee (secure)] |
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Pilgrim001
User ID: 78018011 United States 11/18/2019 01:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not speaking about all men. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957 Just making that clear. I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me. I didn't realize it at the time but... he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms. As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after. It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma. You should have been looking for a nice beta. Communism is for LOSERS Communism is SLAVERY Fuck Joe Biden |
AltSwede
User ID: 30070258 Sweden 11/18/2019 01:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Many reasons. *Evil *Possessed *Atheist *Psychopath *Socialist *Narcissist *Communist *Muslim *Satanist etc. etc. You really need to learn how to read people, I'm sure you could easily have found out he was an asshole without even having to start a relationship with them, some of you women are retarded and end up in shit relationships because you rush into that shit because you can't be alone or you fancy their looks. You're an idiot OP, unidiot yourself. Last Edited by AltSwede on 11/18/2019 01:48 PM AltSwede |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 56847240 United States 11/18/2019 01:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am not speaking about all men. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77589957 Just making that clear. I was living my life all by myself. Not happy, but not bothering anybody. Until a guy came in just to steal my energy and disappoint me. I didn't realize it at the time but... he got off on humiliating me, making me feel bad, while making me feel good (physically) all the while, I was holding the person that was going to betray me in my very arms. As a woman, I could NEVER ever think of doing this to a man. I could never get off on the thought of hurting a man sexually. Or playing pretend and then turn the other cheek right after. It's sick we can't know someone else's intentions beforehand. And it seems there's never any karmic retribution of any kind that happens to these people. They just go off from person to person, causing serious harm and never meet any kind of karma. It's probably something you did. That is so wrong and yet so funny at the same time. |