My step daughter is being stalked by her soon to be ex-husband, need some info

Don’t know that I’ve overcome anything. I live with it daily. Every time the phone rings. Every time someone knocks on the door(unexpectedly).

A move or book would be great. I could use the funds. Lol

isnt there some yerba mate you have to drink or something>

go away crazy

Was the car checked with it running or off? What frequencies were scanned? Simple radio pet finder tag will get you 5 miles if done right. Does vehicle have onstar?

Life 360 thats the only other way

ur deranged, to be sure! he NEVER stalked me and sure as hell isn't a binge-drinker- YOU, however, engaged complete strangers on Facebook going by just his nickname in an attempt to track both he and i down after you REPEATEDLY emailed and published to various forums that you wanted him dead and wanted to rape and murder my 5 year old child!!!! just LOOK at ur obsessive online activity, FFS, it truly is a vile cyberstalking showcase ur indulging in 24/7!!

OP, i apologise for the derailing and i wish all ur family the very best. if the child has been endangered or exposed to domestic violence, i believe the situation should be moved to a court setting ASAP with sole custody talk pressing. if the man has his child's best interest at heart, he will only press the envelope so far and certainly not compromise his wife's wellbeing doing so.

Wait... so that wasn't his facebook profile?

Or was it :P

I don't know.

I'd feel pretty bad if that wasn't him.

:P

Are you ever going to speak to me again?


I have to ask... <3

Every situation is different but divorce sux for everyone. Some of us "good guys" that have been burned buy a soon to be ex wife and or the ex wife family may wonder if this could be a similar wife is good husband is bad situation.

Unfortunately the kid does becomes a bargaining chip as I think the term all is fair in love in war tends to show it self during a separation.

In some States it can be the guys burden to prove the wife ( or husband) is running around and can be a reason one may have a tracer on a car.
In my State a P.I does this and so do many soon to be ex husbands as if you catch and prove she has a boyfriend the husband is free from alimony.

I know with a soon to be husband or wife the idea a child will be taken away by the other can push people over the edge.

I have no idea the exact situation but all I know divorce it is the hardest time for ALL involved. If she is in danger she needs protection, a good attorney and I believe its a good idea to not push crazy ( soon to be ex) people over the edge.

We all know what should be done.

Send him a big black dildo in the mail. He will get the message and stop stalking.

I'll be taking that as a yes? :P

How about the miniature trackers that have GPS?
Those things are keychain size and can be hidden anywhere. I doubt the police could find one if it's well hidden.
I use one when selling vehicles on Craigslist (in case a buyer steals my car during a test drive).
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Damn, that's tiny. Thanks for sharing that.

You're not only a sad little pest, you're a degenerate pig.

Go wallow somewhere else, swine boy.

Call him and threaten him if he contacts her ever again.

Then find his ass and put post it notes on his car that say "gotcha".

I had an issue with a few "kids" a long time ago.
They were smoking dope in front of my house in several cars.
I had young children.
Went out and told them to leave.
They proceeded to drive by my house waving guns.
Police called but they didn't stop until I followed them to find out where they worked and lived.
Then started leaving notes on their vehicles.
I even stopped one at a stop light by chance and knocked on his window and straight up told him I was planning to fuck with him forever.
They stopped pretty quick.
Fear is what they understood.

You're not derailing at all given what you've had to go through with this goof.

I can tell you pretty reliably that many of us here have great sympathy for your having to try and continually escape this loon's attention.

I'm sorry, speaking for myself, that you've had to endure those kind of threats from this goof, no one should have to go through that.

I hope it works out for you soon and I hope it works out to your satisfaction.

This advise always makes laugh (and want to throw things) A restraining order is shit. I was married for a year, got a divorce and then the stalking started (well actually it started way before then, that's why the divorce), oh a restraining order will help...bullshit (it's a useless piece of paper)...this man would stand the prescribed distance away and fucking laugh...call the police, there's nothing we can do...enough with the threats, in the middle of the night I packed what I could into my car and moved 2000 miles away. I still look over my shoulder if I ever venture back home.

There is no cure for a sicko who enjoys the terror and your daughter will not be safe until someone draws a line or she moves

The only good thing was the move brought about my forever hubs

Don’t call OP a cuck for asking the Internet for help when his daughter being stalked or he will delete and block

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm hopeful he's not that full blown whacko, time will tell.

This is something that a woman never gets over, for me it's been 25 years, that's a long time to look over your shoulder. He has already gone full blown whacko if he is tracking her, she is not safe, do what you have to do to make her safe (legally of course) Hopefully you live in a state where concealed carry is legal, train yourself, train her, because to get to you they will go through any member of the family. I know that was one of his threats even after I left, he told my sister "she'd have to come back for a funeral".....They don't magically get better, crazy is crazy forever

Last Edited by Serepta Ann on 09/29/2019 06:20 AM

This.

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First get an order of protection. Lie if need be. Make police reports and develop a known history.

If she doesn’t know how to handle a fire arm, get her into lessons NOW.

Get her used to handling a weapon so she is comfy with it.

She needs the confidence that she can blow his fucking head off if attacked. He enters her domain uninvited, she shoots.
No fucking talking or threatening.

Just BOOM, BOOM, BOOM, BOOM.

She needs lessons and range time.

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Only 4 choices
1. he kills her
2. he doesn't stop until he kills her
3. he just gives up and goes away (not likely)
4. he is detered by a stronger force.

Go through the steps.
1. find place where she will be safe and anonymous (new house, tell no one where, no one. Preferably in another town)
2. get restraining order (this will not stop him)
3. change lifestyle drastically.
4. no contact. none. zip. zero. let him sue for custody.
5. disappear. (can be temporary).

And document everything. Timeline of events.
You'll need proof down the road.

Don't antagonize. especially when a baby is involved.

7 day battery life?

yes, there is an app on the phone that say's find friends. she can turn it off there if you haven't figured it out already.

he can also find her phone by pinging it. you can't turn that off, all she can do is change her iphone account password so he can't locate her.

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Keep a can of wasp killer or beer spray near the bed and each entry door.

Keep bear spray in car.

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