They Are No Longer Playing It's Cold Outside As Christmas Music

Here's the sticking point for me with all of this, women never make advances. They literally wait for men to make the approach and use that as the first test.

Look, I'm 27 and in my attempt to simply do what women have telegraphed I must do to impress them, I've been a little bit of a creep in the past, but only because I was awkward and inexperienced.

as if it actually matters?

I don't quite know how to respond to this, but if women (or at least as women used to be) like you, you will know it.

And women (how they used to be) often do make advances.

Whether you recognize them or not is on you, and whether you find them attractive or not, is also on you.

Luckily, I'm old enough that these things are no longer my issues, but I do remember.

I was going to do a blog post about this, but I didn't have the energy, so let me surmise...

Woman came to the man's apartment during a snow storm for some flirting, drinks, or more ...

She likes the man, or else she wouldn't be there ...

She came to his apartment on her own, not like she needed a ride to get home ... ie., she wasn't tied up in the basement.

She wants him, and wants him to want her. She wants him to tell her how much he wants her.

I think this generation doesn't understand how relationships between men and women used to be. Now everything is an assault.

I have been disappointed by some of my friends pointing this song out as abuse, but I remember being young, when you want to be with another, and worry if you'll make it home in time.

I think this songs pisses the new generation off because they are unsure of their sexuality, and if they want a man - it must be abuse.

In the song, the woman, alone, is in a man's apartment, I guess she just wanted to watch football, lol, even though it was recorded in the 40's when no one had TV.

All this is to push forward an agenda that most heterosexuals understand, but is now wrong. How dare he not understand that she wants to leave, but she keeps not leaving? It's cold outside, don't you want to stay - is now abuse.

None of us of my age would have been born if men were not stronger than women, and women finally surrendering into what they want is not rape.

Tired of SJWs, and soy boys and girls.

Hell when I was a kid I liked the song because it spoke of a sexy, romantic evening with the man I loved, nowadays you can't want a man and if you do you are being abused.

Rant off

The answer to your question is an emphatic yes.
Unfortunately, what I see in the main on this thread isn't just plain ignorance; rather, it's willful ignorance, which is far worse because it can't be cured.