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My Husband of 30 Years Passed away almost 6 years Ago

 
Angel_Eyes

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My Husband of 30 Years Passed away almost 6 years Ago
Since my husband passed away almost 6 years ago. ..... I’ve dated a few times but my heart wasn’t really in it. Now that a few years have passed I’m wondering if I tried to date again..... how would I go about meeting a nice decent man? The very few times I dated.... it seemed like the men almost felt “entitled” to have sex. Things have definitely changed over the years. I would appreciate any comments from others with some experience.
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I’m sorry for the loss of your husband. I wish I had words to help you but maybe someone who knows can help.
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Re: My Husband of 30 Years Passed away almost 6 years Ago
Since my husband passed away almost 6 years ago. ..... I’ve dated a few times but my heart wasn’t really in it. Now that a few years have passed I’m wondering if I tried to date again..... how would I go about meeting a nice decent man? The very few times I dated.... it seemed like the men almost felt “entitled” to have sex. Things have definitely changed over the years. I would appreciate any comments from others with some experience.
 Quoting: Angel_Eyes


Change your online profile to say "old world principles and decency"

Chat online for a minimum of a week. Watch for chinks in armor of lies.

Last word, if it doesn't feel right then it isn't.

God speed babe of the night.....
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Relay that information, men listen to straight forward messages.

Just be sure to slide it into conversation that is related. Randomly mentioning it may not go over well. We'll feel like you think we are some sort of predator.
Angel_Eyes  (OP)

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04/27/2018 12:15 AM

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Re: My Husband of 30 Years Passed away almost 6 years Ago
Thank you so much for replying to my post.. I really feel like I’ve been married my whole life. When you’ve always have had a husband .... ecspecially a husband who is everything to you all combined into one person.... husband....lover....best friend.... and Father.... it makes you feel like the world is forever changed and you are missing part of your soul. For this wondering about the “father” part.... my husband was 13 years older than me....he was 39 and I was 26 when we met. He was so protective of me and some how I never worried too much because I always knew he would always make things right again... he was really my hero. In turn I always took as good of care of him too. When he became real ill I continued working... tho I missed a lot of days.... and I took care of him until the end. That’s one part of our life I would never change....except of course him never being sick...... it was really a very close and beautiful expirence that left me with so many memories....
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Re: My Husband of 30 Years Passed away almost 6 years Ago
My wife of 31 Years Passed away 8 years Ago. Dated a few women and decided, "time has passed me by" Could not figure out women at all. So I quit dating and just concentrate on my business.

A little lonely at times by stress free, drama free and lots more money in my pocket to spend on pure crap if I want.


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Re: My Husband of 30 Years Passed away almost 6 years Ago
My wife of 31 Years Passed away 8 years Ago. Dated a few women and decided, "time has passed me by" Could not figure out women at all. So I quit dating and just concentrate on my business.

A little lonely at times by stress free, drama free and lots more money in my pocket to spend on pure crap if I want.


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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76514532


I understand completely what you mean. I think you may have summarized my thoughts....Time had passed me by”....
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Re: My Husband of 30 Years Passed away almost 6 years Ago
My wife of 31 Years Passed away 8 years Ago. Dated a few women and decided, "time has passed me by" Could not figure out women at all. So I quit dating and just concentrate on my business.

A little lonely at times by stress free, drama free and lots more money in my pocket to spend on pure crap if I want.


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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76514532


I understand completely what you mean. I think you may have summarized my thoughts....Time had passed me by”....
 Quoting: Angel_Eyes

I have a strange way of thinking. I've always been a realist and not too emotional. I see life like a Poker Game even though I have never gambled in my life.

You have to play the hand you are dealt. No matter where I find myself I have to make the best of it.

I think my biggest mistake was that it never crossed my mind that I would survive my wife. It was like I just assumed I would go first. Not sure why I never considered it.

I also think that when you have been in a long relationship that when you bring in a new person you might compared them to your first marriage. Not a fair thing to do.

Even if you are not thinking that way then your new partner might think you are. I'm sure it would not be good to always be thinking you are being compared to someone else.


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04/27/2018 12:51 AM
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Re: My Husband of 30 Years Passed away almost 6 years Ago
You are blessed to have loving memories of all those years of life spent together.

Some people split for terrible reasons and all those agonizing years can never be replaced by anything but regret. Very much a life wasted.
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Re: My Husband of 30 Years Passed away almost 6 years Ago
My wife of 31 Years Passed away 8 years Ago. Dated a few women and decided, "time has passed me by" Could not figure out women at all. So I quit dating and just concentrate on my business.

A little lonely at times by stress free, drama free and lots more money in my pocket to spend on pure crap if I want.


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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76514532


I understand completely what you mean. I think you may have summarized my thoughts....Time had passed me by”....
 Quoting: Angel_Eyes


You both sound like a match.
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Oh shit this post is depressing. I have been married about 20 years and I can't imagine my wife dying. Crap it would be like something tore out my soul and I had to continue this life as something alive but not living.
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Re: My Husband of 30 Years Passed away almost 6 years Ago
You are blessed to have loving memories of all those years of life spent together.

Some people split for terrible reasons and all those agonizing years can never be replaced by anything but regret. Very much a life wasted.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69951235

There is only one "constant" in life. Only one thing you can count on and that is nothing stays the same. Things are always changing. One day you are on top of the world and the next you are at the bottom.

Life's lessons put you through the ringer more than once...it is constant and always throwing you for loops. Maybe it is the only way we can learn.



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Re: My Husband of 30 Years Passed away almost 6 years Ago
Oh shit this post is depressing. I have been married about 20 years and I can't imagine my wife dying. Crap it would be like something tore out my soul and I had to continue this life as something alive but not living.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76162057

Yep, that is the way you feel for about 4-5 years after. Then you slowly get your head wired back on again and come out of the clouds. Not fun at all but when you get married one of you will die first. I have always thought the survivor has it worse.

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