I get that you believe that the rapture is real and important, but remember, for over two thousand years since the inception of Christianity, human beings have been dying without seeing the rapture occur. As a Christian, I find it best to emphasize that Jesus died for the sins of humanity, that He overcame death, that it is appointed unto all men once to die, and that Jesus is the Resurrection and the Life. Even the rapture could be viewed as a rapid aerial death and resurrection.